Kugcine ukubuyekezwa ngoJanuwari 1, 2023 ngu Roger Kaufman
Iseluleko Esingcono Sansuku Zonke Ugogo Wethu Angasinikeza: "Themba Amathumbu Akho"
Ziningi izinto ezisenza sibe bakithi I-Oma ngabe uyaphila namuhla.
Enye yazo kungaba umuzwa wethu wamathumbu vertrauen.
Singase singahlali sithatha izinqumo ezingcono kakhulu, kodwa ezethu futhi kufanele sibe ngabanikazi bazo.
Iseluleko esihle kakhulu engake ngasithola kwakungesami Bauchgefuhl ukwethemba.
Akukaze kungihluleke futhi ngeke kungihluleke manje.
umthombo: Izisho Ezinhle Nezicaphuna
trust ethi
“Impumelelo yakho iqhamuka kuwena Ukuzethemba namandla akho ngokuqinisekile." - UMichelle Obama
Lokho kuthembana ethi uvela kuMichelle Obama.
UMichelle uyisikhulumi esaziwayo kanye nomholi omuhle.
Amazwi akho anencazelo enkulu futhi akhuthaza abantu. Lokhu trust ethi yisibonelo salokhu kugqugquzela.
amazwi trust
“Uma ungazethembi ushaywe kabili emjahweni wokuphila. Ngokuzethemba, empeleni uwinile ngaphambi kokuthi uqale." – Cicero
“Isibindi siyasuka ekuhlulekeni siye ehlulekeni ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umdlandla.” - Winston Churchill
"I ukuphila kungaba uhambo olujabulisayo noma lutho nhlobo.” - UHelen Keller
"Ukuzithemba kuyathelelana." - UStephen Richards
"Okusemuva kwethu nalokho okuzayo yizinto ezincane uma kuqhathaniswa nalokho okungaphakathi kithi." - UHenry Stanley Haskins
"Ukunqoba ukwesaba kuyindlela esheshayo yokuthola isithombe esihle ngawe." - URoy T. Bennett
“Amahlaya ivela ukuzicabangela. " – URita Mae Brown
Amazwi okuzithemba okufanele ucabange ngawo
ithemba kuyisici esibalulekile kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano.
Kungachazwa ngokuthi inkolelo yokuthi okuthile kuhle, kulungile, kuyiqiniso, noma kuqinisekile.
Ukwethembana kuthonya izinqumo zethu ezibalulekile ekuphileni, njengokuthi B. kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyashada, isehlukaniso, izingane ube nosuku noma uhambe.
Kunezinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko zokwethenjwa:
1) Ukwethenjwa Komuntu Siqu - Lolu hlobo lokwethenjwa lusekelwe ku ulwazi lomuntu siqu nomunye umuntu futhi kungabonakala njengendlela yokuzethemba.
2) I-Family Trust - Lolu hlobo lokwethenjwa lusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho okwabiwe phakathi kokubili abantu futhi kungabhekwa njengendlela yokunamathela ngokomzwelo.
3) I-Institutional Trust - Lolu hlobo lokwethenjwa lusekelwe embonweni womuntu ngamunye ngesikhungo futhi lungabukwa njengohlobo lomphakathi.
"Uma usuzethemba, uzokwazi kahle ukuthi kufanele uphile kanjani." - UJohann Wolfgang von Goethe
"Uma ingqondo yami ingakubona ngeso lengqondo, inhliziyo yami ingakukholelwa, ngiyazi ukuthi ngingakufeza!" - Jesse Jackson
“Ungaqhathanisi. Gcina ikhanda phansi wenze izinto zakho." – Torrie Asai
"Yiba nesiphithiphithi futhi ube nzima futhi ukhathazeke futhi usavela." – Glenn Doyle Melton
"Cabanga ungakwenza kanti usuphakathi nendawo." - UTheodore Roosevelt
"Uma usulahlekelwe ukwethenjwa izakhamuzi zakini, awusoze waphinde wahlonishwa nokuhlonishwa." - u-Abraham Lincoln
Amazwi okuthembana aphukile
Amazwi Akho Abuhlungu Kakhulu Kakhulu: Umthelela Wezingcaphuno Zokwethenjwa Eziphukile Ebudlelwaneni
“Ukwethembana yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni. Uma ungenalo ukholo, kusho ukuthi awunalutho.” – Anthony Scaramucci
Ukwethembana kuyingxenye ebalulekile yanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo obunempilo.
Kungaba nzima ukwakha kabusha uma sekonakele, kodwa kunezinyathelo ezingathathwa ukuze kulungiswe ubudlelwano futhi kubuyelwe ukwethembana.
Ziningi izindlela ezinjalo Ukuthembana okuphukile ebudlelwaneni kungaba njalo.
Enye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu ngamazwi alimazayo.
Uma othile esho into elimazayo noma ebeka icala, omunye uyozizwa ekhashelwe futhi ephatheke kabi ngoba umlingani wakhe akamhloniphi.
Lokhu kungakwenza uzizwe sengathi ngeke ukwazi ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano ngoba awusazizwa uphephile noma ukhululekile uma uphakathi komlingani wakho.
du bist kakhulu kunalokho ucabanga - Pablo G. Giraldo Ayala
UPablo G. Giraldo Ayala ungumbhali waseColombia oseneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20 ebhala.
Umsebenzi wakhe ushicilelwe emaphephandabeni ahlukahlukene, komagazini nasezincwadini.
Wayephinde abe nguprofesa eNyuvesi yase-Antioquia, lapho ayefundisa khona ukubhala nokubhala izincwadi.
Kule ncwadi, uPablo Giraldo usitshela ukuthi sinamandla kunalokho esikucabangayo. Singakunqoba ukwesaba nezinsizi zethu uma sifuna ukuphumelela.
Umbhali uthi ukuze uzuze lokho okufunayo empilweni, kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuwe futhi ukholelwe ngamakhono akho.
"Umona uvela ekungazini kwabantu noma ukuntula ukholo eziphiweni zabo." - UJean Vanie
"Yiba nomusa kuwe futhi ugubhe ukunqoba okuncane." - UCharlotte
"Ukunqoba ukwesaba kuyindlela esheshayo yokuthola isithombe esihle ngawe." - URoy T. Bennett
"Asiyinqobi intaba, siyazinqoba." – Edmund Hillary
"Khumula imask, ubuso bakho buhle." - Rumi
“Lapho sizikholelwa, singazifaka engozini yokuba nelukuluku, ukumangala, injabulo ezenzakalelayo, nanoma yiluphi uhlobo Isipiliyoni ngena okwembula umoya womuntu" - Akwaziwa
"Ungalahlekelwa amandla akho uzama ukushintsha imibono... Yenza into yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayathanda." - UTina Fey
“Kungani kufanele ngikhathalele ukuthi abanye abantu bacabangani ngami? Ngiyilokhu engiyikho." - Akwaziwa
"I imfihlo yokuphila ukwamukela ubunzima. Uma nje umuntu eyeka ukwenza lokho, ufile." - Umbhede Davis
ukwethembeka ukwethemba amazwi
Kungani ukwethembana kubaluleke kangaka ebudlelwaneni?
Ukwakha ubuhlobo obunempilo nobuhlala njalo kudinga ukwakha ukwethembana.
Ukwethembana kuyisisekelo sanoma yibuphi ubudlelwano futhi kubalulekile ukuthi omunye umuntu akwethembe ukuze nikwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obuqinile.
Ukwethembana kungase kunqamuke lapho kugcinwa izimfihlo noma lapho omunye engathembekile komunye.
Lokhu kungaholela ekuguquguqukeni kwamandla okungalingani, lapho umuntu oyedwa elawula ngandlela thize mayelana nomunye has, okuholela ebudlelwaneni obungenampilo.
"Ukukhathazeka? Umuntu uhlangana ngani nokwesaba? Amathuba abusa ukuphila kwethu, njengoba nje nekusasa lingaziwa.” – Sophocles
"Wakhumbula ukuthi ungubani futhi umdlalo washintsha." - Lalah Delia
"Into ethusa kakhulu ukuzamukela ngokuphelele." – CG Jung
“Kungani kufanele ngikhathalele ukuthi abanye abantu bacabangani ngami? Ngiyilokhu engiyikho." – Avril Lavigne
"Ungalokothi unciphise ukukhanya kwakho ngomunye umuntu." - iTyra Banks
"Inhloso yami empilweni akukhona nje ukusinda, kodwa ukuchuma futhi ngikwenze ngothando oluthile, ububele, amahlaya kanye nesitayela esithile." - Maya Angelou
“Ukuqonda indlela yokuba wedwa kuyisisekelo sobuciko bokunakekela. Uma singaba sodwa, singaba nabanye ngaphandle kokubasebenzisa njengendlela yokubalekela. " - Akwaziwa
Izinkulumo Zokuzethemba Ukudumala
- Kumele uzimisele ukwehluleka ngaphambi kokuthi uphumelele.
- Angesabi ukwehluleka; Anginayo nje intshisekelo yokuzama izinto ezintsha uma ngicabanga ukuthi zizohluleka.
- Kudinga isibindi ukukhula futhi ube yilokho oyikho ngempela.
- Uma uyeka ukukholelwa kuwena, umhlaba uyayeka ukukholelwa kuwe.
- Umuntu ozethembayo akesabi ukwenza iphutha.
- Kodwa uma uqala ukukholelwa kuwe futhi, umhlaba uqala ukukholelwa nakuwe.
"Into kuphela esiyifunda kokuhlangenwe nakho ukuthi uma singazi ukuthi senzeni, kufanele sibuyele ezimisweni eziyisisekelo." - Albert Einstein
“Umuntu akakwazi ukugwema umthwalo wakusasa ngokuwamukela heute uyabaleka." - UJohn F. Kennedy
"Umuntu ongakwenza uzizwe uphansi nguwe kuphela." - Eleanor Roosevelt
"Uma ungenalo ukholo kuwe, ubani omunye angaba nokholo kuwe?" - Maya Angelou
"Ukuzithemba kuyathelelana." - USteve Maraboli
"Kufanele ukholelwe kuwena ngaphambi kokuthi uzuze noma yini ngempumelelo." - Albert Einstein
"Ukuphela komuntu okuhloswe ukuba ube ngumuntu ozikhethela ukuba nguye." - URalph Waldo Emerson
"Kuzomele uthole ukuthi uyindoda enjani, unesibindi sokuphupha, bese uphuma ufeze amaphupho akho." - UHelen Keller
“Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakwazi, uzokwazi; uma ucabanga ukuthi ngeke, ngeke." - UCharles Darwin
Ukubaluleka kokwethemba isiko nokusebenza kwenkampani
Ukwethemba kuyingxenye ebalulekile yanoma iyiphi inhlangano enempilo.
Kuyisisekelo sabo bonke ubudlelwano, kungaba phakathi kwabantu ababili noma phakathi kwenhlangano nababambe iqhaza.
Uma ukwethembana kukhona, ubudlelwano buqinile, ukukhiqiza kuphezulu, futhi abasebenzi bazizwa bebalulekile futhi baqashelwa.
Ezweni lezinkampani, ukwethembana akubalulekile nje kuphela, kubalulekile empumelelweni.
Inkampani ayikwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwabo.
Eqinisweni, ukuntula ukwethenjwa kungaholela ekuqoqweni kwemali esikhathini esingangeminyaka emihlanu.
- "Into kuphela esilawula phezu kwayo isimo sethu sengqondo."
- "Uma ngihluleka okuthile, ngingahle ngikwenze kuthakazelise."
- "Awukwazi ukushintsha lapho umoya uya ngakhona, ungakwazi ukusetha kabusha oseyili kuphela."
- "Ngifunde ukuthi abantu bayakhohlwa okushoyo, abantu bayakhohlwa okwenzile, kodwa abantu abasoze bakhohlwa ukuthi ubenze bazizwa kanjani."
- "Akukona ukuthi uphelele, ungcono kunayizolo."
"Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngempumelelo ukuthi ungayeki ukufunda." - Steve Jobs
"Angisabi ikusasa ngoba ngenze kangcono kunayizolo." - Albert Einstein
"Uma ungazi ukuthi uyaphi, noma iyiphi indlela izokuyisa lapho." - U-Lewis Carroll
"Kumele ufunde ukwehluleka ukuze uphumelele." - UMark Twain
"Into okumele siyesabe wuvalo uqobo lwalo." - UFranklin D Roosevelt
"Ngihlale ngenza izinto okungafanele ngizenze." - UGeorge Burns
“Kwesinye isikhathi kumele usukume. - UFrank Lloyd Wright
Izinto eziyi-19 okufanele uzazi ngawe futhi ulawule impilo yakho
Abantu abaningi abayazi inkambo yabo impilo ayigculisekile.
Awunakho ukulawula ngawe futhi ube nomuzwaukuthi baphila impilo abayimiselwe ngaphambili.
Kodwa lokho akulona iqiniso. nguwe olawulayo ngempilo yakho, Unamandla okudala ikusasa lakho, futhi ungenza amaphupho akho abe yiqiniso ngokuthatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa ezilula kuleyo ndlela.
Nazi izinto ezingu-19 ozenzayo ngawe futhi ulawule impilo yakho kufanele ithathe izintambo:
- Unamandla okuguqula impilo yakho.
- Ungashintsha noma iyiphi ingxenye yempilo yakho ongayithandi noma oyifunayo.
- Ikusasa lakho lincike ekutheni usebenza kanzima kangakanani namuhla.
- Akufanele neze wesabe ukuzama into entsha.
- Unamandla okushintsha impilo yakho ngokulawula lokho okucabangayo ngawe.
- Lapho uzithola njalo imicabango engemihle Noma nini lapho ucabanga ngawe, udinga ukuqala ukuguqula leyo micabango ibe eyakhayo.
- Kulula ukuba nomkhuba wokuzicabangela kabi, ikakhulukazi lapho udangele noma ucindezelekile.
- Kodwa-ke, uma ufuna ngempela ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho, udinga ukuqala ukucabanga kahle ngawe.
- Cabanga ngezinto ozenza kahle kanye nezindawo obungase usebenzele kuzo ukuze uthuthuke.
- Bese, bhala leyo micabango kujenali noma encwadini yokubhalela.
- Lokhu kuvivinya kuzokusiza ukuthi ubone izimfanelo ezinhle kuwe futhi kukwenze ube nombono oqondile.
- Uma ufuna ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho, qala ngezinguquko ezincane.
- Isibonelo, zama ukuthi “I liebe mina” ukusho.
- Noma yenza uhlu lwezinto ezinhlanu ozijabulelayo ngawe.
- Lezi zinyathelo ezilula zizokusiza ukuthi wakhe ukuzethemba futhi uqinise isithombe sakho siqu.
- Abantu abazizwa bejabule bavame ukwenza kangcono emsebenzini nasesikoleni.
- Futhi banezifo ezimbalwa ezihlobene nokucindezeleka, njengomfutho wegazi ophakeme, izilonda zezilonda kanye nekhanda elibuhlungu.
- Eqinisweni, ukucabanga okuhle kuye kwaboniswa ukunciphisa ingozi yokufa kunoma iyiphi imbangela.
- Uma wena ngcono impilo qala ngendlela ocabanga ngayo ngawe. Cabanga okuhlu!
