Kugcine ukubuyekezwa ngoJulayi 2, 2022 ngu Roger Kaufman
Ukuyeka kunzima kakhulu.
"Labo abangakwazi ukudedela ngeke baphinde bakwazi ukuthanda." - Akwaziwa
Lesi sisho akusona nje isisho esidabukisayo, kodwa futhi siyiqiniso elidabukisayo.
Abantu abaningi sebefinyelele ezingeni empilweni yabo lapho bengasakwazi ukuzithanda bona, kungasaphathwa abanye abantu.
Baboshelwe kakhulu esikhathini esidlule kangangokuthi abasakwazi ukujabulela isikhathi samanje noma ukubheka phambili esikhathini esizayo.
Uma uzithola usesimweni esinjalo, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha okuthile. Sekuyisikhathi sokudedela.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucindezelekile ngekusasa noma udlala futhi amaphutha esikhathi esidlule ekhanda lakho, kungase kungakhululeki uma uzabalaza ukuqhubeka.
Umzamo wokuzimisela ezintweni ezibalulekile waqaphela kithi ukubamba, ikhawulela ikhono lethu lokujabulela nokujabulela umzuzu wamanje ukuzwa.
Im ukuphila imayelana nokuzivumelanisa nezimo okuqhubekayo.
Kodwa uma nje simisa imizamo yethu yokuphatha umoya esihlala kuwo, sizivulela amathuba amasha.
Funda Ukuyeka Izinkulumo | 68 izingcaphuno ongacabanga ngazo
"Ungakunaki okukulimazayo, kodwa ungakhohlwa lokho ekufundise khona." – Shannon L. Alder
“Yekelani impi. Phefumula kalula futhi uvumele kube njalo. Vumela umzimba wakho uncike emuva futhi uvumele inhliziyo yakho ithambe. Itholakalela noma yini ohlangabezana nayo ngaphandle kokulwa.” - UJack Kornfield
Ungavumeli imikhuba yabanye ibe ngeyakho ukuthula kwangaphakathi umonakalo. - Dalai Lama
“Abaningi bethu bakholelwa ukuthi ukubamba kusenza siqine, kodwa ngokuvamile kuba njalo Yekela." - UHermann Hesse
"Uma mina yekelaengiyikho, ngiba yilokho engingaba yikho. Uma ngi yekelaenginakho, ngithola engikudingayo.” – Tao Te Ching
“Ekhala. thethelela funda Qhubeka. Ukwehlukana kwenu makuhlwanyele imbewu yenjabulo yenu yesikhathi esizayo." - USteve Maraboli
“Kunezindlela ezimbili zokuba. Omunye ulwa namaqiniso kuyilapho omunye ethola ukuthula.” - Byron Katie
"Yekelani konke, nibone okusalayo." - Osho
Phefumula. Yekela. Futhi, zikhumbuze ukuthi lo mzuzu wamanje yiwo kuphela owaziyo ukuthi unawo. - Oprah Winfrey
""Yekela akusho ukuyeka." – Mingyur Rinpoche
"Vula izingalo zakho ukuze ushintshe, kodwa ungawayeki amanani akho." - Dalai Lama
"Umuntu onengqondo angathola ukuthula ngokuhlakulela ukunganaki izinto ezingaphezu kwamandla akhe." - I-Naval Ravikant
“Amaqiniso mawasho amaqiniso. Shiya izinto phezulu imvelo baqhubekele phambili ngendlela abathanda ngayo.” - Lawotha
“Incazelo ye Liebe kuyindlela yokungalindeli. Liebe kuba khona kuphela lapho kunemvume egcwele futhi kungekho sifiso sokushintsha noma yini.” - Osho
“Uma wonke umuntu eqhubekela phambili ndawonye, i- Erfolg ngemva kwalokho.” - uHenry Ford
"Ukuthula yilokhu ongaba yikho." – Wayne Dyer
"Ngakho-ke impilo ihloselwe ukusizuzisa." – Spencer Johnson
“Abaningi bethu bacabanga ukuthi ukubamba kusenza siqine, nakuba kuvame ukuba njalo Yekela kunjalo." - UHermann Hesse
“Zama dem Yekela ukulalela." – UTom Althaus
"Nakekela ukuthi abanye abantu bacabangani futhi uzohlala uyisiboshwa sabo." - Lao Tse
“Zitholele ku ukudedela, uwukuthola ukuze wamukele.” - UMaxime Lagacé
“Owesilisa akudingi Isiqu, kodwa ukulawula izinzwa, ubuhlakani obusemfashinini. Lokhu angakuzuza kuphela ngokuzijwayeza.” - UTheodore Roosevelt
"Noma ngabe yini, yiyeke." - Akwaziwa
“Ziqinisekise, njengokungathi uwedwa, bese uqhubekela phambili. Uma u Fliegen Uma ufuna, kufanele uyeke okukudonsela phansi." - URoy T. Bennett
"Lapho uzivumela ukuba uhambe, abanye bazokuvumela ukuba uhambe." - Friedrich Nietzsche
Lapho nje ukwazi ukuguquguquka ngendlela emangalisayo futhi uthambile, ungaba lukhuni ngendlela emangalisayo futhi uqine. – Isaga Zen
“Feza ngenhloso. Ungavumeli abantu noma izinto ezikuzungezile zikwehlise." - Albert Einstein
"Ukufunda ukugunyaza ukuthola ukuthi ungathanda kanjani." - UMaxime Lagacé
Kusukela kokuncane kwami Isipiliyoni Ngiye ngathola ukuthi isilinganiso esingcono kakhulu sokuthula kwangaphakathi sitholakala ekukhuliseni uthando kanye nozwela. - Dalai Lama
""Yekela kusho ukuqonda ukuthi abanye abantu bayingxenye yesizinda sakho kodwa abayona ingxenye yesiphetho sakho.” - USteve Maraboli
“Imizwa iyizivakashi nje. Aziphinde." - Mooji
“Kumqoka kakhulu ukuthi sizixolele uma sizixolela iphutha yenza. Kufanele silungise amaphutha ethu futhi siqhubekele phambili.” - USteve Maraboli
"Noma yini efikayo, ungayisusi. Uma ukwazi, ungazisoli." - Mooji
"Yiba nje futhi ujabulele ukuba nawe." - Eckhart Tolle
“Empeleni kufanele nikwenze kokubili yekela kanye nokuthi kwenzeke." - Alan Watts
Uma ufuna ukundizela ezulwini, kufanele uhambe emhlabeni. Uma ufuna ukuya phambili, kumele udedele okwedlule okuhudulela phansi. – Amit Ray
"Ukubambelela kulokho kungaqiniseki, ukuqonda phakathi kwezinxushunxushu, ukuhlala emuva, ucabange ukuthi ungethuki - leyo yindlela yokomoya." – Pema Chodron
"Iqiniso liwukuthi, ngaphandle kokuthi udedele, ngaphandle kokuthi wena thethelela ngokwakho, ngaphandle uma uthethelela leso simo, ngaphandle uma uqonda ukuthi isimo singaphezu kwalokho awukwazi ukuqhubeka." - USteve Maraboli
""Uthando akukho lutho oluningi kangangokuthi awukwazi ukukuyeka." - UGinnie Rometty
"Kujabulele lokho ongakwenza futhi ungakunaki okunye. Ungasivumeli ukuthi simoshe amandla ukulwa nezinto ezingaphezu kwamandla ethu." - Paulo Coelho
“Yeka ukulwela. Khona-ke ngokuqinisekile kuzoba nokushintshwa. ” - Zhuangzi
“Yakho shintsha ukumelana, ukuzama ukuhlala uphila kufana nokubamba umoya." - Alan Watts
"Ukuthola ukuphila kuwukuthola ukuyeka." - I-Sogyal Rinpoche
Ungalokothi wonakalise usuku oluhle ngokucabanga ngolunye olubi. - Akwaziwa
“Uyaphumelela uma lokho Shintsha futhi kuthuthukisa ikhono lomncane lokubambelela kulelo qiniso elibalulekile: "Nalokhu kuzodlula."– Alain de Botton
"Khumbula, lapho sizazisa kakhulu izinto ezingaphandle kwamandla ethu, sinokulawula okuncane." - I-Epictetus
“Ungazami ukuphoqa noma yini. shiya Phila ukudedela okujulile kube." - Osho
“Ukuvumela ukuhamba akusho ukususa. kusho ukudedela akube njalo. Uma sidedela ngozwela, izinto ziyafika zihambe zodwa." - UJack Kornfield
“Uma ungowakho umlando yenza kwaziwe, ungaphila impilo yakho." – Neil Strauss
“Sishintsha njalo. Uma nje uphumule Uma ukwazi, awunankinga." – Chogyam Trungpa
"Ngaphandle I-Wunsch kukhona ukuthula futhi umhlaba uzihlakaza ngokwawo." - Akwaziwa
“Uma ufuna ukunganaki okuthile noma othile, ungalokothi umdelele noma umzonde. Konke kanye nawo wonke umuntu indodalokho ongakuthandi kuqoshwe enhliziyweni yakho; uma ufuna ukumdedela, uma ufuna ukukhohlwa, awukwazi ukumenqaba." – C. JoyBell C.
"Vuma ukuthi yini, yeka obekukhona, yethemba ukuthi kuzoba yini." – Sonja Ricotti
“Bonke ubuciko bokuphila bulele ekusebenzelaneni okuhle kwe Yekela futhi ubambelele futhi.” - UHenry Havelock Ellis
"Buyela emuva ubone ukuthi izinto eziningi ziyiziphazamiso." - UMaxime Lagacé
"Zikhulule ungazi." - Eckhart Tolle
"Bheka amaphuzu njengoba unjalo futhi ungabanaki abanye." – Huang Po
“Ngezinye izikhathi ukungenzi lutho kungenye yezibopho ezinkulu kakhulu zomuntu.” - UGK Chesterton
"Musa ukusesha, ungaphenyi, ungabuzi, ungangqongqozi, ungafuneli - khululeka." - Osho
Izisho dedela uthando
Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukuyeka. Ukubambelela kokuthile ngezinye izikhathi kungase kuzwakale kuwumzila wokuphila.
Sibambelele ethembeni lokuthi izinto zizoshintsha noma kukhona esingakwenza ukuze sithuthukise isimo.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuvele udedele.
Nazi ezinye izisho ezingakugqugquzela ukuthi uyeke:
"Uma ungakwazi ukukuyeka, awusoze wakwazi ukundiza." - Akwaziwa
“Kwesinye isikhathi kumele uyeke into oyithanda kakhulu. Lena ukuphela kwendlela yokudala isikhala sento entsha.” - Akwaziwa
“Uma unamathela kokwakudala, awusoze waba ngomunye ekuphileni chance ngizokumangaza.” - Akwaziwa
“Ukudedela asikhohliwe. Ukuyeka ukugcina izinkumbulo kodwa akusahlupheki." - Akwaziwa
"Kungcono ukuba nezinkumbulo ezinhle kunobudlelwano obuphelele." - Akwaziwa
"Uma umuntu engakujabulisi, myeke ahambe." - Bob Marley
"Kwesinye isikhathi kumele uyekele into oyithanda kakhulu." - Akwaziwa
"Kuyinselele ukudedela othandekayo." - Akwaziwa
"Ungavumeli inhliziyo engakujabuleli ikusindise kuleyo eyifunayo." - Akwaziwa
"Ngezinye izikhathi abantu beza empilweni yakho ukuze bakufundise indlela yokuyeka." - Akwaziwa
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