Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngo-Agasti 10, 2022 ngu Roger Kaufman
Uma ukuthethelela kungokwaphezulu, ingabe umuntu kufanele abe ngcwele?
"Ukuthethelela kuyisinqumo umuntu asenzayo ukuze abuyisele ukuthula enhliziyweni yakhe."
Sonke siyazi ukuthi ukuthethelela kubalulekile, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuthola amagama alungile.
Uma ufuna indlela yokuthola ukuthula enhliziyweni yakho, la mazwi angaba usizo olukhulu.
intethelelo amazwi yizinto zamaqhawe ansuku zonke, isinyathelo sokugcina sokuthula kwangaphakathi.
Kungaba uhlobo lwemizwa I-Aikido lapho sizokhubaza khona umphikisi wethu ohlonishwayo ngesineke nangokuzola, sifuna uhlobo olukhulu “lwempindiselo” ngokusebenzisa ukuthula chaza, uma kuphela ngaphakathi.
“Ukwenza iphutha kumuntu, kuthethelelwe ngokwaphezulu.” - Alexander Pope
Ukuthethelela kuyisinqumo osenzayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kungaba umbono omusha noma ibanga elinempilo; njengendawo enokuthula ebheke umhlaba oyinkimbinkimbi kanye ukungqubuzana.
Ukuthethelela kungaba isipho sakho noma kwabanye, kungaba yinto oyitholayo, kodwa futhi kungaba yimfanelo umuntu anayo. ubuhlobo ichaza lapho umuntu angazithethelela khona ukuze axolele abanye.
Uma u ithemba Ukukunika amaphiko, ukuxolela ngokuvamile yikho okudingayo ukuze uqhubeke.
Njengengxenye yokuqina kanye nesinyathelo sokuguquguquka kwengqondo, ukuthethelela kutshalwa kangcono njengokuqeqeshwa okuqhubekayo.
Umuntu angaba othethelelayo kakhudlwana, kodwa njengazo zonke izixazululo ezishibhile, ukuqhubekela kwesihlala njalo kudinga umzamo oqhubekayo kanye nokutshalwa kwezimali okukhulu kwamandla. Ama-Wandels ngifuna ukunyakaza.
45 amazwi okuthethelela - Ungathanda ukuthi ekugcineni uzibuke esibukweni futhi?
"Ukuxolela kuwuphawu lokuthi umuntu okuhlukumezile usho okukhulu kakhulu kuwena kunokubi akwenzile." – Ben Greenhalgh
“Ukuxolela akwamukeli okwenzekile. Imayelana nokukhuphuka ngaphezu kwakho. " - URobin Sharma.
"Asixolelane - kuphela lapho sizohlala ngokuthula." - Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
“Sifunda ukuthi kufanele sibaxolele abamelene nathi; nokho, asiqinisekisi ukuthi kufanele sibathethelele abangane bethu.” - UFrancis Bacon
amazwi okuthethelela uthando izindlela ezilula zokukhulisa uthando lwakho
“Lapho inkosikazi isiyithethelele ngempela indoda yayo, akudingekile ukuba ibuyekeze izono zayo ngokudla kwasekuseni.” - Marlene Dietrich
"Ngaphambi kokuthi sixolelane kumele sizwane." – Emma Goldman
“Ukuthethelela kuyindlela ephakeme kakhulu futhi ekhanga kakhulu Liebe. Ngokubuyisela uthola ukuthula okungakucabangeli futhi Injabulo." – URobert Mueller
“Yiba owondlayo nowakhayo. Yiba ngumuntu oqondayo futhi onenhliziyo ethethelelayo ebheka abaphumelela kakhulu kumuntu ngamunye. Shiya abantu bengcono kakhulu kunalokho obatholile." - UMarvin J Ashton
“Uxolo, kuyinto ehlekisayo. Ifudumeza inhliziyo futhi ipholise umunyu.”- UWilliam Arthur Ward
“Intethelelo ingumhlatshelo, okungukuthi, ukwamukela impilo." - UGeorge MacDonald
“Musa ukugcizelela ukuthi konakelephi. Kunalokho, gxila kulokho okudingeka kwenziwe. Chitha amandla akho ukuze uthole isixazululo ndawonye.” - UDenis Waitley
"Labo abangakwazi ukuxolela baphule ibhuloho okumele bawele kulo." - UGeorge Herbert
“Akekho Liebe ngaphandle kokuthethelela, futhi akukho umusa ngaphandle kothando." – UBryant H. McGill
“Ephukile Freundschaft, ezolungiswa ngokuthethelela, ingaba namandla nakakhulu kunalokho okwakuyikho ngaleso sikhathi." - UStephen Richards
“Umshado ojabule ubuhlobo inhlanganisela yabathetheleli ababili abahle kakhulu.” - URobert Quillen
Izinkulumo Zokuxolela Ukudedela - Njengawe ngaleli qhinga elincane kuqinisekisiwe yekela kungaba
“Uma sibuyela emuva bese sithatha zonke izinkinga ebesinazo, sizokuqeda lokhu ukuphila bayadiyazela futhi bamangale. Ukuzinza nokuthula kwengqondo kufika lapho silapha futhi manje Jetzt impilo." - Pam W. Vredevelt
“Kumele siphile impilo esiyihlelile yekela sifuna ukuphila ukuphila okusilindile.” – UJoseph Campbell
“Awudingi ukuqina ukuze wenze noma yini ukudedela. Okudingayo ngempela ukuqonda.” - Umuntu Finley
"Ukuthethelela kuyahlinzeka ngakho-ke ukwamukela impilo." - UGeorge MacDonald
"Baxolele bonke abakonileyo, kungabi ngabo kuphela kodwa nangenxa yakho." - UHarriet Nelson
"Ukuxolela ukudedela isiboshwa ngokuphelele nokudedela ukuthi isiboshwa bekuwena." —ULouis B. Smedes
“Umusa munye ezihlekisayo Okubalulekile. Ifudumeza inhliziyo futhi iphinde ipholise udosi." -
UWilliam Arthur Ward
Intethelelo Izaga Ukuhlakanipha - Funda ngalezinhlakanipho zegolide
“Ngesikhathi ngiphuma ngomnyango ngiya esangweni elalizongilethela inkululeko, ngangazi ukuthi uma ngihlanganyela intukuthelo yami nentukuthelo yami ngizobe ngisejele. inzondo angeke ngempela ngishiye emuva." - Nelson Mandela
“Intethelelo yeqiniso yilapho ungakwazi ukubonga ngalokhu Isipiliyoni. " - -Oprah Winfrey
"Ukuba nephutha akulutho neze ngaphandle kokuthi ulokhu ukukhumbula." - UConfucius
“Obuthaka akasoze axolela. Isihe siyisici sokuqina. " - Mahatma Gandhi
"Ukuxolela kuyisipho ozipha sona." - Tony Robbins
"Ukuthethelela kuwumgogodla womsebenzi nokuguquguquka." - UHannah Arendt
"Impilo iyi-adventure ngesihe." – Norman Cousins
Kufinyezwe kafushane kuvidiyo izingcaphuno ezingama-45 zokuthethelela
"Intukuthelo ikwenza ube mncane, kuyilapho ukuxolela kufaka ingcindezi yokuthi ukhule ngaphezu kwalokho owawuyikho." - UCherie Carter-Scott
“Obuthaka akasoze axolela. Ukuthethelela kuyikhwalithi yakho konke." - Mahatma Gandhi
"Uxolo yiphunga lokuthi i-violet iwela esithendeni esilimele." -
Mark Twain
“Umkhuba wokuxolelana ungowethu okubalulekile Inkokhelo yokubuyisela umhlaba." - UMarianne Williamson
"Ngihlale ngathola ukuthi ukuthethelela kuthela izithelo ezinothile kunobulungiswa obunzima." - U-Abraham Lincoln
"Uzwelo lweqiniso akuwona umsebenzi olandela iqiniso, kodwa umqondo umuntu abhekana nawo ngaso sonke isikhathi." - UDavid Ridge
amazwi axolisayo intukuthelo - “Ungaphinde Ucasuke”
"Ntethelelo ngiyaliyeka ilungelo lami lokukulimaza ngoba ungizwise ubuhlungu." - Akwaziwa
"Ukuthethelela okuyiqiniso akuyiphikisi intukuthelo, kodwa ibhekana nayo ngqo." - Alice Duer Miller
"Ukuxolela kuyimfanelo yesibindi." – Indira Gandhi
"Ukufutheka ikwenza ube mncane kuyilapho umusa ukuphusha ukuthi ukhule ngaphezu kwalokho owawuyikho." - UCherie Carter-Scott
“Iziwula azithetheleli futhi azikhumbuli; abangenalwazi bayathethelela bakhohlwe; abahlakaniphileyo bayathethelela, kepha bangadeli.” - UThomas Szasz
Amazwi Okuthethelela Ukholo - Ukukholwa unyakazisa izintaba
“Ukuthethelela kufana nokukholwa. Kufanele uyivuselele ngokuphindaphindiwe.” -Mason Cooley
amazwi okuthethelela revenge - Susa ukoma kwakho kokuziphindiselela - ngemizuzwana embalwa
“Ngaphandle kokuthethelelwa kuyokwenzeka ukuphila obuswa umjikelezo wokucasuka ongenamkhawulo nokuziphindiselela.” - URoberto Assagioli
“Ukubekezela kuphela okwaziyo ukuxolela. … Igwala alixoleli; ayikho kweyakhe Imvelo." - ULaurence Sterne
"Intethelelo imnandi kakhulu." – Isaac Friedman
Futhi thethelela izinkondlo mayelana nentethelelo
Indlela yokubhala uxolo olumnandi
Ngiyaxolisa ukuthi angikunakanga njalo uma ufinyelela kimi.
Ngiyaxolisa ngokuzihlukanisa nawe.
Ngiyaxolisa ukuthi ngithathe indlela elula kakhulu yokuphuma esikhundleni sokuveza udaba futhi ngixoxe ngalo nawe.
Ngiyalivuma iphutha lami futhi futhi ngiyaxolisa ukuthi kunzima kakhulu kuwe ukulinakekela.
Ngiyavuma ngenza njengegwala, namuhla empeleni ngenze isinqumo sokuthi siqede futhi sixazulule izinkinga zethu.
Uma unqume ukuyeka, khona-ke lesi yisipho esihle kuwe.
Uzenzela wena nokuthula kwakho kwangaphakathi.
Lapho uthola ukuthula ngaphakathi kuwe, uzothola ukuthula emhlabeni.