Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngoMashi 31, 2024 ngu Roger Kaufman
Ukudedela kunzima ngendlela emangalisayo - dedela izisho
Noma ngabe simayelana ne Ngokuzayo ukubambelela ekucindezelekeni noma ngabe siyawenza amaphutha we esidlule ukuyiphindaphinda emiqondweni yethu - kungaba buhlungu kakhulu uma sinenkinga yokuqhubekela phambili.
Umzamo omkhulu wokubambelela ezintweni ezibalulekile ebesizazi unciphisa ikhono lethu lokuzenza umzuzu wamanje injabulo nenjabulo ukuzwa.
Ukwazi ukuyeka | Isihluthulelo sempilo eyanelisayo nevumelanayo
Ezweni lethu elimatasatasa, “ukukwazi ukudedela” ngokuvamile kuyindawo ezolile esiyidingayo ukuze siphinde sibe nokulinganisela kwangaphakathi.
Kuwubuciko bokuyeka ukubambelela kanye nokwamukela ukuphila enkazimulweni yayo egcwele.
Kulezi zingcaphuno namazwi angu-15 akhethwe ngokucophelela uzothola ukuqonda okubalulekile okungakusiza ohambweni lwakho lokuya ekuzoleni okwengeziwe, ukuzithanda wena nokuthula kwangaphakathi.
Khuthazeka futhi uthathe izinyathelo zokuqala endleleni yokudedela.
Bhalisela isiteshi sethu ukuze uthole izeluleko ezibalulekile futhi wabelane Ividiyo nabangani kanye nomndeni nabo abangazuza kubuciko bokudedela.
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Impilo imayelana noshintsho oluqhubekayo
Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sizama kanzima kangakanani ukugcina izinto zinjalo, ekugcineni sizobhekana noshintsho olubudedengu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyathanda noma singathandi.
Kodwa-ke, uma sesiyeke ukuba nobunikazi nokulawula indawo esihlala kuyo, siyavuleka amathuba amasha.
Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sikwazi ukuyeka: ukuqhubeka kuyasisiza injabulo futhi injabulo ukungena.
Abantu bayajwayela ukubamba izinto ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Sibambelela kulokho esidlule kukho, izinkumbulo zethu, imizwa yethu kanye nemikhuba yethu.
Ukubamba kungenziwa ngezindlela ezahlukene kwenzeke. Kwesinye isikhathi sibambelela ezintweni ngoba thina ukwesaba esaba ukulahlekelwa yibo.
Ngezinye izikhathi kungenxa yokuthi sicabanga ukuthi asikwenzi lokho yekela kungaba noma kufanele.
Futhi ngezinye izikhathi yingoba asazi ukuthi kufanele sikudedele kanjani.
Ukudedela kunzima ngendlela emangalisayo, kodwa futhi ibaluleke ngendlela emangalisayo. Uma thina Uma singafundi ukudedela, ngeke siphile ngempela.
Siyohlale sikukhumbula okuthile kusukela emkhosini futhi ngenxa yalokhu siyohlala singajabule.
Okulandelayo ukudedela amazwi mayelana nokudedela nokuqhubekela phambili kuzokuqondisa kulesi sikhathi esiyinselele.
Lezi zizokhanyisa umoya wakho futhi zikusize ithonywe kahle ukuze uthole amathuba amasha ahlobene nezinguquko ezinhle ezintsha.
Izisho nezingcaphuno ezingama-65 ezihamba phambili
"Khohlwa okukuzwisa ubuhlungu, kodwa ungakhohlwa lokho ekufundise khona." - UShannon L. Alder
“Lapho uya ezulwini Fliegen Uma uthanda, kufanele ushiye umhlaba. Uma ufuna ukuqhubeka, kufanele yekela okwedluleukudonsela phansi." – Amit Ray
"Ekuyekeni uzolahlekelwa yizinto eziningi ezedlule, kodwa uzozithola." - Deepak Chopra
Into kuphela a Umuntu engingake ngikwenze ngempela ukuqhubeka ngiqhubekela phambili. Thatha lokho kugxuma okukhulu ngaphandle kokungabaza, ngaphandle kokubheka emuva. Vele ukhohlwe okwedlule uqonde Ikusasa." – Alyson Noel
"Siyaqhubeka nokuya phambili, sivula iminyango emisha futhi senza izinto ezintsha ngoba sifuna ukwazi futhi ilukuluku lilokhu lisiholela ezindleleni ezintsha." - Walt Disney
“Lapho ngiyeka lokho engiyikho, ngiba yilokho engingaba yikho. Uma ngabelana ngalokho enginakho, ngithola engikudingayo." - Lao Tse
“Awudingi njalo isu. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uphefumule vertrauen, ake ngiyobona ukuthi kwenzekani. - Akwaziwa
“Ukunikezela akusho ukuthi ubuthakathaka njalo. Ngokuvamile lokhu kusho ukuthi unamandla futhi uhlakaniphe ngokwanele ukudedela. " - Akwaziwa
"Kusukela namuhla, kufanele ngikhohlwe okuhambile, ngithokozele okusele futhi ngilindele okulandelayo." - Akwaziwa
Awukwazi ukuqala isahluko esilandelayo sempilo yakho uma uphindaphinda isahluko sokugcina.” - UMichael McMillan
“Noma yini ezayo, mayifike. Noma yini ehlalayo, mayihlale. Noma yini eyenzekayo, yiyeke." - Akwaziwa
"Uma ufuna ukuba yilokho okufanele ube yikho, kufanele ushiye lokho oyikho manje." – Master Eckhart
"I ukuphila kuba lula uma ufunda ukwamukela ukuxolisa." - Akwaziwa
“Ungalinge umkhalele umuntu okuhlukumezayo. Vele umoyizele bese uthi, "Ngiyabonga ngokunginika ithuba lokuthola umuntu ongcono kunawe!" - Akwaziwa
"Uma usubona ukuthi kufanele ube ngcono, uzoba Ukudedela isinqumo esihle kunawo wonke kube." - Akwaziwa
Yiba nomuntu oveza okuhle kuwe, hhayi kuye Ukucindezeleka kuwe." - Akwaziwa
“Awukwazi ukwenza lutho qala okushalapho izandla zakho zisagcwele udoti wayizolo." - ULouise Smith
“Kubuhlungu ukuvalelisa kumuntu omthandayo, kodwa kunjalo best ukuze siqhubeke sobabili." - Akwaziwa
Uma ukhulula, unezandla ezimbili ezikhululekile." - Isaga sesiShayina
"Angikaze ngiyeke ukukhathalela, kodwa wena uyenzile, yingakho ngiqhubekele phambili." - Akwaziwa
"Qhubeka, yisahluko sakudala, ungayivali incwadi, vula ikhasi." - Akwaziwa
“Awukwazi ukuqala isahluko esilandelayo uma uqhubeka ufunda isahluko sokugcina qala ukufunda futhi. " - Akwaziwa
“Kwesinye isikhathi ukuqhubekela phambili kungcono kakhulu kunokunamathela kumuntu ongakuqondi. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuntula kwakho kufundisa lokho ubukhona bakho obungeke bukwazi." - Akwaziwa
"Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, uma usumthanda lowo muntu, kufanele ukhohlwe ngaye futhi uqhubeke." - Akwaziwa
isifundo ku Impilo - ukudedela Izisho isiqalo esisha
Indoda ehlakaniphile yahlala ezilalelini futhi yenza ihlaya. Wonke umuntu uyagigitheka okohlanya. Ngemva komzuzu waphinda waphula lona kanye ihlaya. Ukugigitheka kancane kulokhu Menschen. Wayelokhu enza ihlaya elifanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Uma esixukwini cha I-Lachen wamamatheka wathi, "Awukwazi ukuhleka ihlaya elilodwa ngokuphindaphindiwe, kodwa kungani ukhala ngento eyodwa ngokuphindaphindiwe?"
"Into enzima kakhulu ngokuhamba ukudedela ingxenye yokugcina yenhliziyo yakho." - Akwaziwa
Ngiqedile. Sengiqedile ukuthumela umlayezo. Sengiqedile ngethemba ukuthi uzofona ngiqede ngikhale ngize ngilale. Awusakufanelekeli nje.
Awukwazi ukuphatha lutho. Kwezinye izimo kufanele nje uphumule futhi uthembe ukuthi izinto zizosebenza. Ake uhambe kancane futhi nje ukuphila kube.
Impilo ifana nencwadi. Ezinye izahluko ziyadabukisa, ezinye zijabulisa, kanti ezinye ziyamangalisa ngempela. Kodwa uma ungalokothi uvule ikhasi, awusoze waqonda ukuthi isahluko esilandelayo siquketheni.
"Iqiniso liwukuthi, ngaphandle kokuthi ukhulule, ngaphandle kokuthi uzixolele, ngaphandle uma uthethelela isimo, ngaphandle uma uqaphela ukuthi isimo sesiphelile, awukwazi ukuqhubekela phambili." - USteve Maraboli
“Ngelanga engaqonda ngalo konke kwaba wusuku engayeka ngalo ukuzama ukuthola noma yini. Ngosuku I ukuthula ngaqonda ukuthi usuku engadedela ngalo konke." – C. JoyBell C.
"Konke ubuciko bokuphila kuncike ekusebenzelaneni okucashile phakathi kokudedela nokubamba.” UHavelock Ellis
"Ngishisa amabhuloho ami ngemuva kwami... nokho-ke akukho okunye engingakwenza ukuze ngiqhubekele phambili." - Fridtjof Nansen
Okumangalisayo travel Lezi zinsuku ziqala kuphela lapho sifunda ukuyeka ngolunye usuku. ” - USteve Maraboli
“Khulula ezokuphepha. Okuphambene nakho akubikezeleki. Kuwukuvuleleka, ilukuluku kanye nokuzimisela ukwamukela indida esikhundleni sokukhetha izinhlangothi. Isithiyo esikhulu ukuthi sizamukele njengoba sinjalo, kodwa singayeki ukufunda nokukhula.” – Tony Schwartz
"Izinhlungu zizokushiya uma uzidedela." – Jeremy Aldana
“Ukubambelela kuwukukholelwa ukuthi kunesikhathi esisodwa kuphela esidlule; Yekela iwukwazi ukuthi likhona ikusasa." - UDaphne Rose Kingma
""Yekela kusho ukwethula izithombe nemizwelo, ukucasuka nokukhathazeka, ukunamathela nokudumazeka kwesikhathi esidlule okubopha izingqondo zethu.” - UJack Kornfield
“Ungagxili kulokho okungahambanga kahle. Kunalokho, gxila kulokho okudingeka kwenziwe ngokulandelayo. Faka imali yakho amandla ndawonye ukuze sithole impendulo.” - UDenis Waitley
"Noma ungawa ngobuso kodwa usanyakaza." - UVictor Kiam
"Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sonke kuzomele senze okwedlule kube sesidlangalaleni." – UDan Brown
“Uma wonke umuntu eqhubekela phambili ndawonye, uyawunakekela Erfolg ngawe." - uHenry Ford
"Ekuyekeni kulele amaphiko enkululeko." - ukuhlakanipha kwabantu
"I Impilo iyaqhubeka futhi kufanele nayo." – Spencer Johnson
"Ukuguqulwa kufanele kwenzeke ukuze impilo iqhubekele phambili." - UHelen Hollick
"Kuhle ukuphuma ezimeni ezikuqeda umoya." – UPaula Moderson-Becker
"Isiqu kungamandla okudedela abantu abaziyo.” - Raymond Lindquist
"Ungagcwalisa isitsha esingenalutho kuphela." - ukuhlakanipha kwabantu
“Kukhona okubalulekile umehluko phakathi Yekani niyeke." - UJessica Hatchigan
“Ukuthethelela kuwukuyeka okwedlule.” – Gerald Jampolsky
"Liebe akukho lutho oluningi kangangokuthi awukwazi ukukuyeka." - UGinnie Rometty
'Kubalulekile ukuthi sigweme amaphutha uxolo. Kufanele okwethu amaphutha zuza futhi uqhubeke.” - USteve Maraboli
“Shiya izindlela zokuqaphela ukuthi abanye abantu bayingxenye yakho umlando awuyona ingxenye yesiphetho sakho." - USteve Maraboli
"Ngokuvamile kufanele uthathe isinyathelo emuva ukuze uqhubeke." – Erika Taylor
"Vula izingalo zakho ukuze ushintshe, kodwa ungakuyeki ukubaluleka kwakho." - Dalai Lama
“Lapho sikholelwa ngokwedlulele kothile ubuhlungu Sakha izindlela zokuzivikela ukuze sizivikele ekulimaleni kwesikhathi esizayo. Ngakho isikhathi esidlule esikhathazayo sivusa ikusasa elinokukhathazeka. Okwedlule nekusasa kuba yinto eyodwa. Ngeke sikwazi liebenlapho sesaba. Njengoba siqala okwedlule okwesabekayo futhi sithethelela wonke umuntu, siba uthando oluphelele kanye nobunye nawo wonke umuntu isipiliyoni." – Gerald G. Jampolsky
“Impilo iyaqhubeka. Amaqabunga amadala ayabuna, abune, futhi awe, futhi intuthuko entsha iqhubekela phambili Ukukhanya." – UBryant McGill
“Ukuhlupheka akukubambezeli. Uyahlupheka. Uma unekhono lokudedela ukuhlupheka, uzoqonda ukuthi bekungadingekile kangakanani ukuthi uthwale leyo mithwalo nxazonke. Uzobona ukuthi akukho muntu ngaphandle kwakho obenesibopho ngakho. Iqiniso liwukuthi ubukhona bufuna impilo yakho ibe umgubho.” - Osho
“Izinguquko ezimangalisayo zenzeka kuwena ukuphila phezulu lapho ukhetha ukulawula lokho onamandla kukho, kunokuhahela ukulawula lokho ongenakho. - USteve Maraboli
Uzothola ukuthi kubalulekile ukuyeka izinto zihambe; kuphela ngoba zisindwa. Ngakho myeke ahambe Angizibophi izinsimbi emaqakaleni." – C. JoyBell C.
"Kwezinye izimo, kuthatha inhliziyo ebuhlungu ukusinyakazisa futhi usibonise ukuthi sibaluleke kakhulu kunalokho esikufunayo." – Mandy Hale
Isithelo se Ukuyeka ukuzalwa okuthile okusha.” – Master Eckhart
“Kungani ubambelele ezinhlungwini? Ngeke wenze lutho ngokungalungi kwayizolo. Akukuwe hlolisisa. Kungani ubambelele kulokho okukunika ithemba futhi Liebe uyama?" - Leo Buscaglia
Ngisho nangezinsuku zami ezibuthakathaka, ngithola okuncane kakhulu - USarah Evans
"Izinhliziyo eziphukile zibuhlungu, kodwa zizokuqinisa." - Akwaziwa
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Kuyathandeka izingcaphuno zothando | 21 amazwi othando okufanele ucabange ngawo.
Die Liebe cishe umuzwa obaluleke kakhulu ohlale uhamba nathi bantu.
21 Izingcaphuno zothando ongacabanga ngazo nokudedela.
Amazwi othando abonisa indlela esizizwa ngayo.
A enhle Ukuthi uthando kungashiwo komunye ekuqaleni kobudlelwane khombisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngalo muntu futhi uqinise ubuhlobo nenjabulo encane ngendlela ekhetheke kakhulu.
Funda ukuyeka ukwethembana
Ngithemba ukuthi ukujabulele okungenhla 65 izisho nezingcaphuno.
Uyini umnyombo wakho konke lokhu Yeka izisho nezingcaphuno?
Empeleni kunzima konke lokhu okungenhla amazwi nezingcaphuno ukufingqa.
Nokho, ake sizame lokho ukuhlakanipha kokudedela okumangalisayo Condensa izisho nezingcaphuno ezingenhla.
Impilo imayelana shintsha. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi sikwazi ukudedela zonke izikhalo nokukhathazeka esikuthwala emahlombe ethu.
Yekela nokuqhubekela phambili kusisiza ukuthi sithole amathuba amasha. Lokhu futhi kuyazuzisa ekululameni kwethu.
Eqinisweni, awusoze waphulukisa ngokugcwele uma wenza Ungakhululi can.
Amagama angama-65 amahle kakhulu we-WhatsApp ongawabelana ngawo
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Ibhonasi - 18 amazwi ahlekisayo mayelana nokuyeka
Ukudedelwa kuwubuciko obungagcini ngokusikhulula, kodwa futhi budala indawo yezinto ezintsha.
Ngempintshi Humor Le nqubo ingase yenziwe ibe lula kancane.
UHier sind 18 amazwi ahlekisayo esihlokweni sokudedela, ongasisebenzisa kumaphrojekthi akho okubhala noma esiteshini sakho se-YouTube ukubeka ukumamatheka ebusweni babalandeli bakho:
“Ukuyeka akusho ukuyeka, kodwa ukwamukela ukuthi ezinye izinto zifana ne-boomerang. Babuya uma sekungebakho ngempela - noma bahlangane nomunye umuntu endleleni."
“Phatha ukudedela njengokudla komphefumulo. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele udedele umthwalo ongokomzwelo ukuze udanse kalula empilweni.”
"Ukuyeka kufana ne-detox ebonakalayo: kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukuvala izinhlelo zokusebenza zengqondo ezisebenzisa i-RAM eningi kakhulu!"
"Khumbula: Uma uyeka, unezandla ezimbili mahhala ze-pizza noma into engcono."
“Ukudedela kuwubuciko bokuthi 'Hhayi isekisi lami, hhayi izinkawu zami' kuyilapho uzimisele ngokuphelele."
“Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele nje dedela nempilo Makwenzeke - noma ungenza sengathi nguwe olawulayo bese u-oda elinye ikhofi."
“Khumbula ukuthi uma udedela, impilo ayibi nalutho, kodwa ibe yindawo yabasha iphutha kudala. Kuyajabulisa, akunjalo?"
“Ukudedela kusho ukuqaphela ukuthi abanye izindaba ekugcineni - hhayi ngoba incwadi ibiyimbi, kodwa ngoba iklabhu yakho yezincwadi iphuza iwayini eliningi futhi ayilokothi ifunde."
“Imfihlo yokudedela? Qonda ukuthi kulungile, hhayi ngoba konke ukumenywa emcimbini. Kwesinye isikhathi kungcono ukuhlala ekhaya ukhulume nekati lakho.”
“Ukuyeka kumayelana nokwamukela ukuthi ukuphela kwento okufanele ubambelele kuyo ngempela ekuphileni inkomishi yekhofi enhle.”
“Ungakhohlwa: ukudedela akulona uphawu lobuthakathaka. Kusho ukuthi uqine ngokwanele ukuthi udedele umhlengi emotweni futhi uzithathele isondo."
“Kwesinye isikhathi ukudedela kufana nokususa umlando wesiphequluli: kukukhulula ekulandeleni isikhathi esedlule futhi kukunikeza ithuba lokuthi uqale futhi. Futhi, akufikisi amahloni uma othile esebenzisa ikhompuyutha yakho ephathekayo.”
"Cabanga, Ukudedela kufana nekhabethe lemicabango yakho. Sekuyisikhathi sokulahla ukwesaba okudala, okungasafanele isikhala ukwenza izingubo ezintsha.”
"Khumbula: ukuyeka kungasho nokucisha inkinobho yokubhalisa ezinkingeni zempilo yakho."
“Kwesinye isikhathi ukukhulula kulula uma ukubheka njengenkinobho enkulu ebomvu ethi ‘susa’. Yicindezele futhi ubuke izinkathazo zakho zishabalala kudoti.”
“Ukuyekela kumayelana nokuyeka ukuba yisigqila sokulawula nokwamukela ukuthi impilo iwumdanso othuthukisiwe kunomkhuba ohleliwe.”
"Khumbula, ukuyeka kufana nokuhlanza ikhabethe lakho: kuzwakala kungavamile ekuqaleni, kodwa ngokuzumayo uthola zonke izinto ozifuna ngempela. uthando kanye nesidingo.”
“Ekugcineni: ukudedela kushoukuthi usukulungele ukufinyelela izinkanyezi ngezandla zombili. Noma isilawuli kude, noma yikuphi okubaluleke kakhulu kuwena.”
