Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngoMeyi 25, 2022 ngu Roger Kaufman
Awukwazi ukuyeka - uvaleleke kweyakho ukwesaba
Abantu abangakwazi ukusidedela banamathele ngokomzwelo esimweni esingagcini nje ngokulimaza ngokomzwelo kodwa esingabagulisa.
Ugqozi luyancipha, ukukhathala kungena futhi kungene ukucindezeleka.
Umhlahlandlela olandelayo uchaza ukuthi kungani kunzima kangaka ukungakwazi ukudedela.
Kungani ngingakwazi ukuyeka - cwaninga ngezimbangela
Izinto ezikukhathaza kakhulu ngokomzwelo ezikuhluphayo futhi ezingasuki engqondweni yakho kungaba yilezi ezilandelayo:
- The ubambiswano
Awujabule ebudlelwaneni bakho ngoba umuntu wakho akakunakile isikhathi ngawe, uba nodlame noma uyisidakwa.
- Indawo yokusebenza
Uyasindwa emsebenzini. Miningi kakhulu imisebenzi ongakwazi ukuyenza futhi nama-oda akhula usuku nosuku.
Noma banenselelo encane futhi benza umsebenzi oyisiphukuphuku lapho unokuningi ongakunikeza.
- Omakhelwane
Ekhaya uhlushwa omakhelwane. Nsuku zonke kukhona inkathazo futhi uzizwa ungakhululekile ezindongeni zakho ezine.
– Icala
Akunjalo yekela kungaba ngemizwa yecala akuyona into eyivelakancane.
banayo eyodwa iphutha yenziwe, kodwa yesaba ukuyivuma ngoba uzwela kakhulu ukusabela kwalabo abaseduze kwakho.
– Usizi
Unayo ebalulekile Menschen ilahlekile. Ukulahlekelwa kwakhe kubuhlungu futhi ucabanga wonke umuntu Maka kulo muntu.
Umbuzo othi "Kungani?" elokhu ezungeza ekhanda lakho.
- Abantu abafuni ukushintsha
Ulindele ukuthi abantu, njengomlingani wakho, bakushintshe.
Ukuziphatha kwakho kuyakukhathaza, kodwa awunawo amandla ngoba yonke into ihlala injengoba injalo.
Lesi simo sikwenza unganeliseki.
– Amathuba aphuthelwe
Babefuna okuningi kakhulu. Bona umhlaba, funda umdlalo omusha, owakho umsebenzi wokuphupha thola noma izingane thola futhi ushade.
Abazange bawasebenzise amathuba. Intukuthelo ngalento ikuqeda ubuthongo.
– Isimo somhlaba
Impi, ukungabi nabulungisa kanye nemali ebusa umhlaba.
Abanye abantu bayacasuka izinto eziyimfihlo, kodwa aweneliseki ngesimo sonke.
Ipolitiki iyakuhlanyisa.
Bangathanda ukuhlanganyela futhi basize abanye abantu, kodwa bangenza okuncane kakhulu.
- The impilo
Uhlushwa ukugula okungamahlalakhona futhi uzizwa ukhathele futhi ungaphansi kwenselele.
Akunjalo yekela ngenxa yempilo yakho, yisimo esivame ukwenzeka ngoba akuvamile ukushintshwa.
- Ukuziphatha okungalungile
Uhlala uzidela, ungena ekwephuleni abanye, uwusizo futhi uthanda ukwenza abanye bajabule.
Wena, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ufika kancane. Uma uphatheke kabi, akuvamile ukuthi kube khona umuntu lapho.
Lokhu kungabi nabulungisa ngeke kukuyeke uhambe.
Kungani ngingakwazi ukuyeka - yingakho kunzima kangaka?
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani kulezi zimo futhi imicabango iphikelela ikugulise kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kuncike esimweni sakho sengqondo nokwesaba.
Umuzwa wokungafaneleki lutho olungcono, isibonelo uma umlingani wakho engalungile, uvame kakhulu.
Uma kuziwa komakhelwane abahlukumezayo, ungase uhlushwe ukwesaba ukuxabana.
Akunjalo ukudedela, ngoba awufuni ukukhohlwa umufi, nakho kuvame kakhulu.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi akakufanelekeli ukungacabangi ngaye nsuku zonke nokuthi lowo muntu uzogcina engasekho, okuyinto ekwethusa kakhulu.
Abantu abaningi nabo bazitshela lokho yekela kusho nokuzidela.
Noma uqiniseka ukuthi unomunye ongcono bekufanele ukuphila futhi bahlale bedelela nentukuthelo Isimo sakho esingalungile.
Izizathu eziningi zokuthi “cha ukwazi ukuyeka” cishe awapheli.
Ukungakwazi ukudedela abantu - imiphumela engaba khona
Uma uhlala esimweni esikukhathaza njalo futhi esibeka wena kanye nenhlalakahle yakho engcupheni amehlo ukulahlekelwa, kuvela izimpawu okufanele zibe yisixwayiso.
Ukuphazamiseka kokulala nokugxilisa ingqondo kukhona imiphumela engenzeka.
Amaphupho amabi nawo kufanele abe wuphawu lokuthi awuphathekile kahle ngokwengqondo. ukwethuka kanye Ukwesaba kungena futhi uzizwe ngizizwe ngingenamandla.
Lesi akusona isimo sengqondo somlingiswa, kodwa kunalokho sisekelwe esimweni abangakwazi ukusisingatha futhi abangakwazi ukusiyeka.
Ukuziphatha umlutha nakho kungenzeka umphumela ongenzeka sokuhlala esimweni esinzima, njengokufinyelela ibhodlela ngemva kokulahlekelwa othandekayo.
Lapho imizwa yenzondo nentukuthelo eqhubekayo iphakama futhi awukwazi ukuphuma esimweni esibi, futhi kuwuphawu oluyisixwayiso lokushintsha okuthile.
Uma usuyazi imbangela yokuhlupheka kwakho, zibuze le mibuzo elandelayo:
- "Ingabe yimina obhekene nalesi simo?"
- "Ngingakwazi ukwenza okuthile ngakho?"
- "Ingabe ngizizwa ngikhululekile kulesi simo?"
- "Ngingathanda?"
Ngokuphendula le mibuzo, ungathola indlela yokuyeka futhi ubuyele enhlalakahleni yakho.
Ubanjwe ukwesaba kwakho, zikhulule!
I-Sadhguru ibheka ukuthi inhloso yokuzindla akukhona nje ukuletha umuntu e-ecstasy, kodwa ukudala "isikhala" phakathi kwakho nokuthi uyini umzimba wakho nengqondo.
Uma lokhu sekwenzekile, kuba ukuphela kokuhlupheka.
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