Ama-Optimists aphila esikhathini samanje

Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngoFebruwari 25, 2024 ngu Roger Kaufman

Abanethemba lokuphila esikhathini samanje - ngani?

Abaphila esikhathini samanje nabo bayakwazi esidlule futhi Ngokuzayo - Indaba Ehlakaniphile Yomthwalo Wemicabango Emibi - Kungani ubhaka wakho unzima kangaka?

Uyake ucabange ukuthi yini engenzeka uma ungena kulesi simo noma kuleso simo?

Ama-Optimists ahlala endaweni IGegenwart.

“Kokubili abanethemba lokuhle nabangenathemba banegalelo elihle emphakathini wethu. Umuntu onethemba lokuhle usungula indiza kanti umuntu ongenathemba usungula ipharashute.” – Gil Stern

Indaba ehlakaniphile - abanethemba lokuphila kahle okwamanje

yilokhu umlando yekhehla nomfanyana owayephila eminyakeni eminingi edlule.

der okudala Igama lale ndoda kwakunguSartebus futhi igama lomfana kwakunguKim.

UKim wayeyintandane futhi ehlala yedwa. Wahamba umuzi ngomuzi efuna Ukudla nophahla phezu ikhanda.

Kodwa kunokunye ayekufuna, okwakubaluleke kakhulu kunokusutha nendawo ethokomele neyomile yokulala.

UKim wafuna ukuqonda.

“Kungani,” ezibuza, “simunye ukuphila kudala sifuna into esingayitholi? Kungani konke kufanele kube nzima kangaka?

Ngabe sikwenza kube nzima kithina, noma kufanele nje ukuthi siyahlupha?"

Babehlakaniphile imicabango ngeminyaka yomfana uKim.

Kodwa ngenxa yokuthi wayecabanga kanjalo, ngolunye usuku esendleleni wahlangana nekhehla elalihamba ngendlela efanayo noKim owayenethemba lokuthi lalingase likwazi ukumnika impendulo.

der Indoda endala emhlane wakhe ubhasikidi owelukiwe omkhulu omboziwe, owawubonakala ungaphatheki kalula, ikakhulukazi endodeni endala nekhathele kangaka.

Ngelinye ilanga bama ngasemfudlaneni owawugudla indlela.

Ikhehla labeka ubhasikidi walo phansi, selikhathele. UKim waba nombono wokuthi ikhehla laligqoke zonke ezasemhlabeni izimpahla kulo bhasikidi owodwa nawe.

Wayebonakala esinda kangangokuthi ngisho a omncane futhi indoda enamandla cishe yayingenakuyithwala isikhathi eside.

“Kungani ubhasikidi wakho usinda kangaka?” kubuza uKim Sartebus.

“Ngingathanda ukukugqokisa yona. Phela, ngimncane futhi nginamandla, futhi wena ukhathele: "

“Cha, awukwazi ukungithwalela yona,” kuphendula ikhehla. "Kuzomele ngizithwalele mina." Wabe esengeza:

"Ngelinye ilanga uzohamba ngendlela yakho uphathe owakho ubhasikidi osinda njengalona."

Izinsuku eziningi nezindlela, uKim nekhehla bahamba amakhilomitha amaningi ndawonye.

Futhi nakuba uKim abuza uSartebus omdala imibuzo eminingi yokuthi kungani Menschen kwadingeka azabalaze kanzima, akazange azithole izimpendulo.

Azame ngayo yonke indlela, akakwazanga ukuthola ukuthi igugu elinzima kangakanani Hewu kubhasikidi ikhehla elaliwuphethe.

Kusebusuku kakhulu, ekupheleni kohambo lwabo losuku olude, ngezinye izikhathi uKim wayelala anganyakazi enze sengathi ulele.

Lilalele ikhehla liphenya ubhasikidi walo elayinini elilokozayo lomlilo omncane, likhulumela phansi lodwa. Kodwa ngakusasa ekuseni, njengenjwayelo, akazange athi vu.

Kwaze kwaba yilapho uSartebus engasakwazi ukuqhubeka futhi eyolala okokugcina lapho etshela uKim osemncane ngempilo yakhe imfihlo.

Emahoreni ambalwa edlule ndawonye, ​​akagcinanga ngokunikeza uKim impendulo yokuthi ubhasikidi wawumayelana nani, kodwa nokuthi kungani abantu bedonsa kanzima kangaka.

"Kulo bhasikidi," kusho uSartebus,

“ingabe zonke izinto engangizikholelwa ngami zazingelona iqiniso. Amatshe angenze uhambo lwami lwaba nzima.

Emhlane wami ngithwele umthwalo wawo wonke amatshana okungabaza, yonke inhlamvu yokungaqiniseki, netshe lokusila lephutha engiye ngahlangana nalo ekuhambeni kwami. AmaLebens sebeqoqile.

Bengingadlulela phambili ngaphandle kwakhe. Bengingawaqaphela amaphupho engiwabone kaningi. Kodwa ngabo sengifike ekugcineni kohambo lwami lapha”.

Ngaphandle kokuqaqa izintambo eziboshwe ubhasikidi kuye, ikhehla lazivala amehlo walala okokugcina.

Ngalobo busuku, ngaphambi kokuba uKim ayolala ngokwakhe, waqaqa intambo ngayinye eyayibophele ubhasikidi ekhehleni wayesebeka ubhasikidi phansi ngokucophelela.

Khona-ke, ngokucophelela, waqaqa izintambo zesikhumba ezazibambe isivalo esilukiwe wavula ubhasikidi.

Mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi wayefuna impendulo yombuzo wakhe, akuzange kummangaze nakancane lokho akuthola kubhasikidi. Ubhasikidi owawugcine i-Sartebus endala phansi isikhathi eside wawungenalutho.

Umthombo: Akwaziwa

Ngiyasithanda futhi ngiyasihlonipha imanje

Izimiso zami eziqondisayo zabanethemba lokuhle ziphila esikhathini samanje

• Ngiyababona isikhathi ukuhweba
• Ngiyababekezelela abanye
• Ngiyalinganisela futhi ngenza izinqumo ezifanele
• Ich liebe ngamunye ubudlelwano bami njengoba ngokujulile njengoba kuhle kimi
• Imicabango yami, imizwa kanye nezenzo zami ziya ngokuya zigxile esikhathini samanje, ngoba ngiyabazi abanethemba lokuhle Leben esikhathini samanje.

Izingcaphuno ezingama-28 ezikhuthazayo zokuthungela umlilo ongaphakathi wethemba (ividiyo)

Umuntu onethemba ubona bonke ubunzima njengethuba, ongenathemba ubona wonke amathuba njengobunzima.” - Winston Churchill

"Ithemba lethemba inkolelo esenza sikwazi ukubona izinto njengoba zinjalo futhi hhayi njengoba kufanele." - UHelen Keller

"Umuntu onethemba alivamile iphutha kunomuntu ongenathemba, kodwa uphila ngokujabula." - UJean Paul

Kukhona okwanele emhlabeni ngezidingo zawo wonke umuntu, kodwa akwanele ukuhaha kwawo wonke umuntu.” - Mahatma Gandhi

"Ithemba yikhono lokubona ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe ngaphambi kokuthi ufinyelele ngisho nasemhubheni." – Aaron Ralston

“Ithemba liyinkolelo yokuthi konke kuzolunga. I-pessimism inkolelo yokuthi konke kuzohamba kabi." - Khalil Gibran

"Ithemba yikhono lokubona isibhakabhaka esiluhlaza ngemuva kwamafu." - akwaziwa

"Ithemba liwukholo olunyakazisa izintaba." - akwaziwa

Ukulindela okuhle ukukholelwa kokuthile okungcono Ikusasa." - akwaziwa

"Sihlala sikhona isizathu sethemba." - akwaziwa

"Ithemba lethemba ukuqiniseka okuholela empumelelweni." - akwaziwa

Ithemba ukuzimisela okusenza sidlule izikhathi ezinzima ehamba phambili." - akwaziwa

"Ithemba yinkolelo esinika amandla okufeza okungenakwenzeka." - akwaziwa

"Ithemba liwukukholelwa esikhathini esizayo futhi ukholelwa ukuthi noma yibuphi ubunzima bunganqotshwa." - akwaziwa

Umuntu onethemba ngumuntu okholelwa kuwo wonke umuntu iphutha kubhekwa njengesifundo.” - akwaziwa

"Ikusasa ngelabo abakholelwa ebuhleni bamaphupho abo." - Eleanor Roosevelt

“Ungalokothi uphele amandla ngoba impilo ifana nentaba okumele uyiqwale. Kodwa uma ufika phezulu, umbono uyamangaza.” - akwaziwa

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakwenza noma ucabanga ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukukwenza, uqinisile kuzo zombili izimo.” - Henry Ford

Zonke izinkinga nazo ziveza ithuba.” - Albert Einstein

“Lapho ubhekene nesikhathi esinzima, khumbula ukuthi okuhle kuseza. Ihlale ithola indlela yokufika kuwe." - akwaziwa

“Yiba nethemba. Kuzwakala kungcono." - Dalai Lama I-XIV.

Kufanele wenze lokhu Yekani ama-negativeukwamukela okuhle." - akwaziwa

"Umzuzu nomzuzu uthukuthele noma ucindezelekile umzuzu olahlekile wenjabulo." - akwaziwa

"Kusesekuseni kakhulu ukuthi ungayeka." – Norman Vincent Peale

Das impilo iwuhambo, futhi uma sibheka imigwaqo emibi kuphela, siphuthelwa imibono emihle.” - akwaziwa

"Ithemba liwuzibuthe odonsa izehlakalo ezinhle empilweni yakho." - akwaziwa

Khumbula njalo ukuthi okuzayo kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho okusemuva." - akwaziwa

Kungcono, emvuleni ukudansa kunokulinda ilanga.” - akwaziwa

Izindaba ezithintayo: Amandla ezingathekiso

1. Ama-Optimists aphila esikhathini samanje:

• Isingathekiso: Ama-optimist afana nobhekilanga. Bahlale bebhekisa ubuso babo elangeni, noma kumnyama.
• Incazelo: Lesi singathekiso sibonisa ukuthi abantu abanethemba lokuhle bagxila ezicini ezinhle zokuphila, ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima.

2. Yekela:

• Isingathekiso: Ukudedela kufana nokuvula isihlabathi esigcwele isandla. Lapho ukhama kakhulu, yilapho ulahlekelwa khona isihlabathi.
• Incazelo: Lesi singathekiso sikhombisa ukuthi kubalulekile ukudedela, ukuyeka ukulawula futhi uzinikele ekugelezeni kokuphila.

3. Injabulo yempilo:

• Isingathekiso: Injabulo empilweni ifana nomdanso. Kunezinyathelo ezahlukene nezigqi, kodwa kuhlale kumayelana nokuzijabulisa nokunyakaza.
• Incazelo: Lesi singathekiso sikwenza kucace ukuthi injabulo empilweni ivela ekuhambeni nasekusebenzeni, nokuthi kubalulekile ukujabulela izikhathi ezinhle empilweni.

4. Izingcaphuno:

• Isingathekiso: Izingcaphuno zifana namaparele. Zincane futhi azibonakali, kodwa zingaba nenani elikhulu.
• Incazelo: Lesi singathekiso sibonisa ukuthi izingcaphuno zingaqukatha amazwi okuhlakanipha angasikhuthaza futhi asikhuthaze.

5. Indaba:

• Isingathekiso: Indaba ifana nohambo. Kusiyisa ezindaweni ezintsha futhi kusivumela ukuthi sibe nolwazi olusha.
• Incazelo: Lesi singathekiso sibonisa ukuthi izindaba zingasisiza siqonde kangcono umhlaba osizungezile futhi sithole imibono emisha.

Amazwi okucabanga aqondile:

“Impilo ifana nendida. Zihlale zikhona izingcezu ezifanele, kufanele nje uzithole.”

"Ilanga lihlala likhanya, ngisho nalapho singakwazi ukulibona."

"Kuhlale kukhona okuthile ongamamatheka ngakho, kufanele ukuthole."

“Ithemba lifana nomsipha. Lapho umqeqesha kakhulu, uqina nakakhulu.”

"Ikusasa ngelabo abakholelwa ebuhleni bamaphupho abo."

“Iziphepho zenza izihlahla zibe namandla.”

“Injabulo akuyona indawo oya kuyo, kodwa uhambo.”

“Zonke izinsuku ziyisipho esisha.”

“Azikho izinkinga, izinselelo kuphela.”

"Umhlaba ubukeka umuhle kakhulu ngokumamatheka ebusweni bakho."

Ibhonasi:

"Akukephuzi kakhulu ukuqala futhi."

Amazwi ahlekisayo mayelana nethemba:

Ama-Optimists afana namakhukhi enhlanhla: Ngeke wazi ukuthi uzotholani, kodwa kuhlale kumnandi.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi uma evuka ekuseni acabange: "namuhla kungase kube usuku engigcina ngithole ngalo idayinaso!

Umuntu ophelelwa ithemba ubona ingilazi ingenalutho, umuntu onethemba ubona ingilazi igcwele ingxenye, bese ezibuza ukuthi: Ubani lo ophuze wonke amanzi?

Ama-Optimists afana nobhekilanga: Bahlale bebhekisa ubuso babo elangeni, noma lina.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi, ewela emgodini, aqale ngokushesha ukumba ingcebo.

Umuntu ongenathemba ubona ukukhanya kuwo wonke umhubhe. Umuntu onethemba uyasibona isitimela esizayo. Umenzi wangempela ubona udonga isitimela esibheke kulo.

Ama-Optimists afana namabhaluni: Kwesinye isikhathi kumele uziyeke ziphefumule ukuze zingandizi.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi, lapho e-oda inkomishi yekhofi, acabange ukuthi: Ukuthi nayo izogcwala uma eseyitholile.

Umuntu ongenathemba ubona ukubamba kukho konke ukuncoma. Umuntu onethemba ubona yonke ihuku njengokuncoma.

Ama-Optimists afana ne-chewing gum: Abalokothi balahlekelwe ukunambitheka kwabo ngokuphelele, noma ngabe sebesemlonyeni wakho isikhathi eside.

Kungcono ukudansa emvuleni kunokulinda kuphume ilanga.

Ama-optimist afana nothingo lwenkosazana: Ubabona nje uma lina.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi, lapho ebona indawo yokwakha, acabange: “Awu, ekugcineni kwakhiwa okuthile okusha lapha!”

Umuntu ongenathemba ubona zonke izipho azinikwa njengehhashi, kodwa ngokushesha ubheka emlonyeni ukuze abone ukuthi ayikagugi yini kakade.

Ama-optimist afana nezinkanyezi: Zikhanya futhi ebumnyameni.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi uma ebona inyoka, acabange: “Hawu, yeka isilwane esihle!”

Umuntu ongenathemba ubona wonke amaholide njengamathuba okugula.

Ama-Optimists afana nezintuthwane: Abapheli amandla, ngisho noma benentaba enkulu phambi kwabo.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi, lapho ebhekene nenkinga, acabange: “Leli yithuba lokufunda okuthile okusha!”

Umuntu ongenathemba ubona wonke umuntu njengesitha esingase sibe yisitha.

Ama-optimist afana namadayimane: Ziyigugu kakhulu ngaphansi kwengcindezi.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi, lapho ewa, acabange: “Ngakho-ke manje sengingakwazi ukuziphakamisa futhi ngiqhubeke!”

Umuntu ongenathemba ubona imaskhi kukho konke ukumamatheka.

Ama-optimist afana nelanga: Baletha imfudumalo nokukhanya emhlabeni.

Umuntu onethemba yilowo othi uma efa acabange: “Kwakuyimpilo emnandi!”

Amazwi okudala akhayo amafushane:

Imisebe yokukhanya kwelanga enhliziyweni: Imfudumalo nokukhanya emphefumulweni.

Amaphiko ovemvane esiswini: Ukukhanya okumsulwa nenkululeko.

Uthingo ngemva kwesiphepho: Ubuhle emva kwezinselelo.

Izinkanyezi ebusuku: Ithemba nogqozi ngezikhathi zobumnyama.

Ukuhleka njengomuthi: Umuthi ongcono kakhulu womzimba nengqondo.

Ukubonga njengesimo sokuphila: Injabulo ezintweni ezincane nezinkulu.

Isiqu ku-adventure: Zitholele izinto ezintsha ngelukuluku nokuvuleleka.

Shintsha njengethuba: Ukukhula kanye nentuthuko ngokusebenzisa izindlela ezintsha.

Liebe njengomthombo wamandla: Amandla angenamkhawulo kanye nenjabulo ejulile.

Amandla ngaphakathi kuwena: Ukwethembana nokuzethemba okungapheli.

Ukuhluka njengesipho: Cebisa umhlaba ngamakhono akho.

Ukuzibongela: Uthando nokuhlonipha ubuntu bakho.

Abathandwayo Futhi Abaxhunyiwe: Ukuvikeleka nokufudumala enhliziyweni.

Amaphupho njengemihlahlandlela: Ugqozi kanye nogqozi lwezinjongo zakho.

Kholwa emandleni akho: Ukwenza okungenzeki kwenzeke.

Phila impilo yakho: Dala injabulo yakho ngawo wonke umoya.

Amagama akhuthazayo:

Zethembe: Ungazuza noma yini obeka umqondo wakho kukho uma ukholelwa kuyo.

Ungalahli ithemba: Indlela eya empumelelweni ivamise ukuba namatshe, kodwa ekugcineni uyovuzwa.

Yiba nombono omuhle: Umhlaba ugcwele ubuhle futhi uyazibuza ukuthi uma ubheka nje uvule amehlo.

Landela inhliziyo yakho: Yenza okukujabulisayo futhi uzophumelela.

Hlala lapha futhi manje: Okwedlule kuphelile futhi ikusasa aliqinisekile. Jabulela isikhathi futhi usisebenzise ngokugcwele.

Bonga: Kuningi ongakubonga empilweni yakho. Zazise izinto ezincane futhi uzojabula.

Hleka kaningi: Ukuhleka kuwumuthi ongcono kakhulu futhi kwenza wena nabantu abaseduze kwakho nijabule.

Zizungeze nabantu abaqondile: Abantu ozungeze nabo banomthelela omkhulu emoyeni wakho nasenhlalakahleni yakho.

Shiya indawo yakho yokunethezeka: Kuphela ngokuzama izinto ezintsha ungakhula futhi uthuthuke.

Gxumela ku-adventure: Ukuphila kufushane kakhulu ukuba ungakuchitha ngokwesaba nokungabaza. Phila impilo yakho ngokugcwele!

SHINTSHA Umhlaba: Unamandla okwenza umhlaba ube indawo engcono. Yenza okuthile okuhle kwabanye futhi uzozizwa ungcono ngawe.

Usuku ngalunye luyisipho: Zazise nsuku zonke futhi ukusebenzise ngokugcwele.

Kumnandi ukuphila: Jabulela izinto ezincane empilweni futhi ubonge ngakho konke onakho.

Uhlukile: Akekho ofana nawe emhlabeni.Ziqhenye ngobuwena nobungqayizivele bakho.

Unamandla: Ungafeza noma yini obeka umqondo wakho kukho uma nje ukholelwa kuwena.

Uyigugu: Ungumuntu obalulekile ofanelwe ukujabula.

Uyathandwa: Uyathandwa abantu obakhathalelayo kanye nawe.

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1. #amazwi amahle: I-hashtag evamile yazo zonke izinhlobo zamazwi amahle.
2. #ukugqugquzela: Okwezisho ezihloselwe ukukhuthaza nokukhuthaza.
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4. #ukujabula: Okwamazwi ahloselwe ukuletha injabulo.
5. #ugqozi: Okwezisho ezihloselwe ukukhuthaza nokuvuselela imibono emisha.