Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngo-Ephreli 21, 2022 ngu Roger Kaufman
Yekani i-EX - Kuphelile futhi
Ngokuqhubekayo - ukudedela i-EX - Uzakwethu ushiye isikhala esikhulu.
Akumnandi ukuvuka ekuseni uwedwa.
Uzizwa unesizungu futhi ucabange izikhathi ezinhle.
Yeka - lokhu akukhona ukuziphatha okunengqondo.
Kunezizathu zokuthi kungani ubudlelwano bahlukana.
Kuphelile - nalezi amathiphu uyafunda, kanjani ukudedela i-EX, noma ukudedela ubuhlobo.
Sidalelwene! Ngokuphindaphindiwe - Ukuyeka i-EX?
Awufuni ukukuvuma. Benifanelana ngokuphelele futhi kungazelelwe kwase kuphelile.
Manje kufanele uphume ku- hlukana nobudlelwano.
ukudabuka nobuhlungu ukushintshana, kuwumdlalo ongalawuleki wemizwa.
Mhlawumbe ucasukile nje. Kulungile, ngoba imizwa ingabantu.
Thatha izinsuku ezimbalwa bese usula ikhanda lakho.
Kumele Kunqobe ukuhlukana futhi uyeke i-ex yakho.
Iba yini imiphumela uma singakwazi ukudedela?
Abanye bazama ukucindezela imizwa.
Abanye bacabanga ngezingxabano ezindala futhi bazisole bona. Ngakho ungakwazi ungabushiyi ubudlelwano.
Uzakwethu akufanele neze abe sengqondweni yakho isikhathi eside.
Usizi luholela ezinkingeni ezingokwengqondo ezifana nokucindezeleka.
Yinye kuphela indlela yokuphuma: kufanele ulahle i-ex yakho yekela!
Bahambile Izikhathi yemizwa engemihle ngoba uqondisa amehlo akho ekusaseni.
Kwesinye isikhathi kunzima lokho Ukusebenza.
Noma ngubani onomlingani kuphela akakwazi ukukhuluma ngobudlelwano yekela. Okulandelayo amathiphu kukusize ukudedela ubudlelwano.
1. Kufanele wamukele ukuhlukana - uyekele i-EX
Kuphelile. Ubambiswano lwehlulekile futhi akusekho ukujikela emuva.
Kufanele ube yi-ex yekela - akuwona umsebenzi olula nhlobo.
Yilapho kanye inkinga ilele khona: Abantu abaningi bakhathazwa “okufanele”.
Awukasamukeli isimo esisha.
Ngeshwa, okwedlule akukwazi ukuhlehliswa.
UDaher kufanele udedele ubudlelwano. Isinyathelo sokuqala yizindala iphutha ukwamukela.
Kunesizathu esihle sokuthi kungani kunjalo Liebe yehlulekile. Esikhundleni sokucabanga nje ngeholide lokugcina, kufanele futhi ucabange ngezingxabano.
Thembeka ku
Ithiphu: Cabangela ubambiswano oludlule. Faka ohlwini okuhle nokubi ngokuphambene nenothi. Uzothola ukuthi akukho ukukhanya kwelanga kuphela. Inothi lizokusiza ukuthi udedele i-ex yakho.
Akekho ongakhohlwa umlingani wangaphambili. Lokho akusebenzi heute kuze kube kusasa, kodwa izinkumbulo zizofiphala.
Uma usukwamukele ukuhlukana, usuthathe igxathu elikhulu eliya phambili. Yileyo ndlela kuphela ongayenza ngayo ubuhlobo yekela.
2. Yeka i-ex, cabanga ngokunye
Uyavuka, uphenduke ucabange ngomlingani wakho. "Ngikhumbula ukugoba ekuseni!" Akusona isiqalo esihle leso.
Imicabango enjalo ikhombisa kuphela ukuthi awukwazi ukudedela i-ex yakho. Ucabangani ngalesi siphakamiso: Kusukela manje kuqhubeke uzocabanga kahle.
Ubheke phambili ezintweni ezincane ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Uzakwenu ufuna ukukumemela ubhiya ngemva komsebenzi?
Lokhu kuzoba kuhle ngempela! Ungakhuluma naye ngezinto ezibalulekile - ibhola kanye ne-barbecue kusihlwa. Njengowesifazane, ushintshana ngenhlebo yakamuva nabangane bakho.
Kuyafaneleka ukuvuka usuku olunje!
Uma ufuna ukuyeka ubudlelwano, kufanele uzinikele kokuthandayo. Asikho isidingo sokuhlala no-ex wakho ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Lapho ucabanga kakhulu ngaye, isimo sakho sengqondo siba sibi kakhulu. Yebo ungangena emicabangweni isikhashana.
Lezi zigaba kufanele zibe zifushane futhi zibe zifushane nsuku zonke.
Das ukuphila inokuningi okunikezwayo kunomumo ongemuhle. Hamba uye eholidini ngokuzenzakalelayo nabangani bakho.
Lokhu kuzosusa ingqondo yakho ezintweni futhi ungabona i-ex yekela. Ezemidlalo nazo zifanelekile ukunqoba ukukhungatheka.
3. Ngabe kufanele ngilwele ubudlelwano?
Mhlawumbe abangani bakho bakweluleke ngokumelene nakho.
Kodwa ungalwela ubambiswano. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi wamukele isiphetho.
Uma ufuna ukuhlukana ne-ex yakho, yenza umzamo wokugcina. Ngemva kwalokho ungase uthi kuwe: "Ngizame konke, kodwa akuzange kuphumelele." Ungavala isahluko udedele ubudlelwano.
Cela uzakwethu wangaphambili isitatimende esicacile.
Kufanele akutshele ngokucacile ukuthi akhona yini amathuba angempela.
Impendulo ivame ukuba ngucha onamandla.
Ekugcineni ungadedela i-ex yakho.
Akufanele ube nabantu Liebe ukuphoqelela.
Ungamgadli ngezingcingo, ama-imeyili, imibhalo noma imiyalezo ye-WhatsApp.
Ithiphu: Izinkumbulo ziyakudonsa lokho ukuphila ngaphandle. Kodwa bakuvumela ukuthi ujabule ezikhathini zakudala. Khipha zonke izinto ezikukhumbuza nge-ex yakho ekhaya lakho.
ukudedela ubudlelwano kusho okwakhe imicabango ukukhulula.
4. Sebenza ngezinkolelo ezinhle
Kufanele uthathe i-psyche yakho nawe amaqhinga amancane qinisa. Iziqinisekiso zivuma Izinkolelo zokuyeka ubudlelwano. Qala usuku ngesimiso: zenzele itiye noma ikhofi.
Yima phambi kwesibuko bese usho ngezwi elikhulu, “Ngingu ngijabule kakhulu Ongashadile.
Ngisebenza kweyami inhloso futhi izofinyelela kubo. Nginendlela ecacile engqondweni."
Ngemva kwesonto uzoqaphela ushintsho.
Uma ufinyelela indebe, kuqhamuka umuzwa omkhulu. Ebuchosheni bakho, itiye ne Ukuqinisekiswa isenzo.
Uzizwa umkhulu futhi unamandla. Ngalokhu iqhinga ungadedela ubudlelwano bakho futhi uthuthukise i-charisma yakho ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.
5. Ukuyeka i-ex: Dala abangani abangashadile
Gwema abantu abangalungile abadabukisayo ngomlingani wabo. dedela ubudlelwano udinga abangani abaphumelele kulesi simo.
Bangakutshela ngezabo isipiliyoni Usizo.
Kuyenzeka Isiqu ukubona ukuthi ubudlelwano obusha buthuthuke kanjani.
6. Kodwa ngidliwa unembeza!
Kunomuntu okhangayo phambi kwakho.
Uyinhlobo yakho nje futhi uyamoyizela. Uyala ngoba awukwazi ukudedela i ex yakho.
Asikho isizathu sokuba nonembeza omubi.
Abanye bazijezisa ngokuba nesimo esibi. Awushadile futhi ujabulela wonke umuntu inkululeko.
Okwakho injabulo kufanele njalo ibe phambili. Lokho kungu-a iphuzu elibalulekile lapho udedela ubuhlobo.
Izivalo eziningana zilingana ebhodweni ngalinye.
Ukusesha kuzothatha isikhathi esincane, kodwa kulungile. Kufanele nje hlukana nobudlelwano obudala.
Bese isebenza nozakwethu omusha.
Isiphetho: dedela ubudlelwano ukuze uqale kabusha - ngokuphindaphindiwe - yeka i-EX
Akekho owathi kuzoba lula. Kufanele uqine ukuze udedele i-ex yakho.
Amandla atshaliwe akhokha ngenxa yakho Phila kakhulu ngokwezinga uyawina.
U-Verena Kast uthuthukise imodeli yosizi ekusiza ukuthi udedele ubudlelwano.
Imodeli yezigaba ezine zosizi:
- isikhathi sokulila
- Okujulile imizwa
- Sesha, thola futhi ex yekela
- isiqalo esisha
Zihlele futhi sebenzela ukudedela ubudlelwano.
Kwesinye isikhathi kwaneleukucabanga ngesimo. Abaningi abanale nkinga bathola ukuthi izwe linokuningi okunikezwayo kunokuzihlambalaza.
I-charisma enhle yi- isihluthulelo senjabulo - ngisho nakumlingani omusha.
Ukuyeka i-ex yakho - lokho ongeke ukwazi ukukushintsha
Ukuzindla okuqondisiwe nge MOJO TUE: Ukuyeka lokho okungenakushintshwa | Yamukela okuyikho
Yekani ongakwazi ukukushintsha, ngoba kuningi izinto empilweniukuthi awukwazi ukukushintsha, ukuthi awukwazi ukulawula.
Ukudedela kuwukhiye ukuze uguqule impilo yakho kanye nokukhula kokwazi kwakho. Uyekele wonke umzuzu odlulayo futhi uzothola ukuthi ugcwaliseka kanjani ukuphila kungaba.
lokhu ukuzindla okuqondisiwe kuzokusiza ufunde ukudedela.
Kulokhu kuzindla okuqondisiwe, khetha isihloko noma isimo ongeke ukwazi ukusishintsha empilweni yakho.
Kungase kube khona okuthize kulokho esidlule kwenzekile, kodwa kungenzeka futhi kube yinto ofuna ukuyishintsha okwamanje kodwa ongeke.
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