Ungabhekana kanjani nezinselele zempilo ngesibindi

Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngoMashi 8, 2024 ngu Roger Kaufman

Umhlahlandlela we-minimalist wesibindi esengeziwe

Ungabhekana kanjani nezinselele zempilo ngesibindi. Ngokuqinisekile nawe uyazazi ezinye zalezi zimo?

Imiyalo ye-Minimalist ukuze ube nesibindi ngokwengeziwe ezimeni ezilandelayo

• umuntu unokwesaba izinto ezithile, uvalo noma amahloni; umuntu wesaba izinto ezibambekayo zezwe njengokugula, ubuhlungu, izingozi, ubumpofu, ubumnyama, isizungu, ukungajabuli;
• kushubile ngaphakathi; Ngezikhathi ezithile uba nenkinga yokukhuluma noma ukungingiza;
• umuntu ukhuluma kakhulu ngenxa yokwethuka;
• umuntu uphusha izinto phambi kwakhe ngenxa yokukhathazeka (kimina ngokuvamile kuyimbuyiselo yami yentela)
• umuntu uba nokukhathazeka kakhulu lapho ebhekana nokuphikiswa noma lapho okuthile kungasebenzi;
• ukuba khona kwabanye kuyakuqeda amandla.

Ngeke sikuzuze lokho ngamandla kuphela Indlela yempilo, esikulwelayo.

Ukuzinikela okuphelele kuphela okusinika ukhiye wokwengeziwe Isiqu.

Indaba ekutshela ngalezi ubunzima kanye nezinselelo zempilo kufanele zisize ukubhekana nazo ngesibindi nangokuzola:

Indaba ukuze uthole isibindi esengeziwe

Kukhona enhle umlando ngokhozi olwakhuliswa nezinkukhu.

Lolu khozi lwabe selukholelwa ukuthi uyinkukhu futhi lwachitha usuku lonke lucofa okusanhlamvu.

Ngolunye usuku umshisekeli wezinyoni wathola ukhozi futhi wanquma ukubuyisela lolu khozi kulokho olwaluyikho, inkosi yesibhakabhaka, ukhozi nje.

Aqale angene ehhokweni lezinkukhu aphakamise ukhozi phezulu.

Ukhozi lwabhakuzisa amaphiko alo, lubonisa ngokucacile amandla alo acashile.

Umthandi wezinyoni wathi kuye: "Yelula amaphiko akho futhi ndiza kusukela kulokho! Awuyona inkukhu, uyinkosi yezulu. Ungandizela phezulu. Unganeliseki ngempilo yenkukhu!"

Kodwa ukhozi lwawela phansi lwaphindela emuva ngokushesha lucofa okusanhlamvu, njengoba kwenza zonke izinkukhu.

Kwaphela izinsuku umthandi wezinyoni ezama kaningi.

Kodwa ukhozi lwahlala nezinkukhu. Ngolunye usuku, ecasukile, isithandwa senyoni safaka ukhozi ehhokweni saluyisa ezintabeni.

Wabeka ikheji phezu konqenqema wase evula umnyango wehhoko.

Nokho, ukhozi lwavele lwamubuka ngendlela eyisimanga futhi lwacwayiza amehlo akhe.

Umthandi wezinyoni ngokucophelela wakhipha ukhozi ehhokweni walubeka phezu kwedwala.

Ukhozi lwabheka phezulu esibhakabhakeni lwaphinde lwelula amaphiko alo amahle.

Ngokokuqala ngqa kwaba sengathi kukhona into ayizwayo ngaphandle kwenkukhu ngaphakathi kuye.

Lapho ukhozi lubheka phansi, amaphiko alo aqala ukuthuthumela. Umthandi wezinyoni waqaphela ukuthi ukhozi lwalufuna ngempela ukundiza, kodwa lokho kwesaba kwabavimba.

Waluphusha ngokucophelela ukhozi lwaya kwalasha, kodwa ukhozi lwavele lwaqhaqhazela lwangabe lusandiza.

Ngemva kwemizamo eminingi, umthandi wezinyoni wahlala phansi edangele futhi wayengasazi ukuthi enzeni. “Ngingalufundisa kanjani ukhozi ukundiza?” ezibuza.

Waqalaza wathatha i-panorama yentaba. Lapho ebuka esiqongweni sentaba, impendulo yavele yafika kuye.

Walubuyisela ukhozi ehhokweni wagibela nalo waze wayofika kwesinye seziqongo. Kwakukhona izinkozi. Lapho zazinezidleke zazo. Basuka lapho bandiza bephethe ama-wing beats anamandla.

Ukhozi lwakubhekisisa konke lokhu, kwathi nje lapho seliphumile ehhokweni, lwelula amaphiko alo, lwabhakuzisa futhi lwagxumagxuma edwaleni kwanhlanga zimuka nomoya.

Kuthe kusenjalo washibilika ngoba nelanga selimphumputhe. Kodwa lapho ewa, wavele wabona ukuthi wayekwazi ukundiza kalula, njengezinye izinkozi.

Wathola ukuthi ungubani, ukhozi! Ekhululiwe futhi edakiwe, wazungeza isiqongo sentaba izikhathi ezimbalwa futhi ekugcineni wandiza.

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Isibindi esengeziwe siyindlela ephumelela kakhulu

Sivame ukuvumela ukwesaba kulawule izinqumo zethu. Noma kunjalo, eyodwa isibindi Ukuphila kungenye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuthola impumelelo enhlanganweni nasempilweni.

Eqinisweni, ngokuka-Aristotle, isibindi siwubuhle bokuqala bomuntu ngoba senza zonke ezinye zibe nokwenzeka.

Umcabango omuhle odumile Dale Carnegie weluleke abantu ukuthi benze izinto abazesabayo njengendlela esheshayo yokunqoba ukukhathazeka.

Uluxosha kanjani uvalo futhi uphile lokho ukuphilaukuthi ufuna?

Amathiphu ayi-10 esibindi esengeziwe

1. Yamukela ukuba sengozini

MenschenAbantu abaphila ukuphila okusekelwe ekwesabeni bavame ukuba nokuzethemba okuncane noma abanakho nhlobo. Uma wesaba ukuthi abanye abantu bazobona ukuthi ungubani, vula isifuba futhi ube sengozini enkulu.

2. Vuma ukuthi unovalo

Awugcini nje ngokuvuma ukuthi uyazivulela, kodwa futhi ukuthi kukhona okukukhathazayo.

Lapho uqaphela ukuthi yini ngokuphelele I-Sorgen Ukwenza lokhu kuzokunikeza ulwazi oludingayo ukuze ususe ukukhathazeka nokungazethembi.

3. Bhekana nowakho Ukunakekela.

Ukudalula okukukhathazayo ngokwakho kukodwa indlela enhle kakhulu, ukususa ukwesaba noma ukwesaba.

Abantu abesaba izinyoka bavame ukushintsha ingqondo yabo ngemva kokwelapha izinyoka ngosizo lochwepheshe abaqeqeshiwe.

4. Cabanga ngendlela eyakhayo

Ingxenye yomqondo omuhle ukuvumela abanye ukuthi bakuthande futhi babonise uthando lwakho. Uma uwuhlobo oluphika izintandokazi, vumela abanye abantu bakwenzele izinto ezinhle.

5. Nciphisa eyakho Ukucindezeleka

Uvame ukukhathazeka ngokukhathala. Qinisekisa ukuthi udla ngokwanele, ulala ngokwanele, futhi isitimela. Thatha ikhefu futhi wenze isikhathi nesakho travel.

Sonke siyayidinga eyodwa ikhefu.

6. Khombisa imizwa

Enye indlela ebalulekile yokunqoba ukukhathazeka ukuveza isibindi sakho. Thatha isikhathi sakhoukusiza umuntu osesimweni esiyingozi.

Esikhundleni sokunganaki umuntu oswele, cela usizo noma uthathe isinyathelo esinesibindi sokungenela.

7. iphutha qaphela kodwa uqhubekele phambili

Uma uyeka ukusebenza, ungagijimeli ekhoneni elingokomfanekiso.

UMache lieber ku.

8. Ukubhekana nobungozi kanye nokungaqiniseki

Ungakunqoba ukwesaba kwakho ngokuthola ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokungaqiniseki kwe ... AmaLebens uyakwazi ukuphatha.

Uma ukhathazekile ngokunikeza owakwakho komunye umuntu noma ukulahlekelwa amakhasimende akho, thola ukuthi yini edingekayo ukuze uwagcine.

9. Hlala ukuze uthole

Hlala unolwazi lwakamuva ngokuzama ngokuqhubekayo ukuthola nokuthuthukisa amakhono akho.

Sebenzisa lonke ithuba lokufunda ikhono elisha sha.

Funda izincwadi zabaholi bomcabango abahamba phambili futhi ufunde konke ongakwenza embonini yakho.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe, usongo luyancipha ukusebenza ngempumelelo.

10. Yamukela izithiyo zakho

Hlala enkambweni ngisho nangemva kwezithiyo nokwesaba. Ngokuphambene nokufihla ubuso balokho okuzayo.

Isikhathi esiningi uvalo lusekhanda lakho. Okuningi okwesabayo ngeke kwenzeke.

Ungachithi isikhathi ngokukhathazeka uma ufuna ukuya phambili empilweni.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzofinyelela izinhloso zakho!

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