Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngo-Agasti 6, 2021 ngu Roger Kaufman
Kungani leli qoqo lamazwi ngesihloko esithi "dedela" ngoba aletha izinhlamvu zemali ezibalulekile empilweni yakho.
"Kusasa uzoba yilokhu okucabangayo namuhla." - Gautama Buddha
Uma usukwazi lokhu, ungonga amadola ambalwa emithi.
"Akumele sizivumele ukuthi sifakwe ubuthi ngenxa yokucasuka, ukuhaha nobudlova, ngoba lobu buthi budala cishe zonke izinkinga kulo mhlaba." Eyeshumi nane Dalai Lama
Uma usuqaphela ukuthi ushintsho lungenzeka, uzozizwa ungcono ngokuzenzekelayo.
Isifinyezo kuvidiyo ekhethiwe yeka izingcaphuno, amazwi nokuhlakanipha
umthombo: Roger Kaufman
"Ayikho into ehlala njalo njengoshintsho." - Heraclitus
Imibono eminingi ekhuthazayo futhi ewusizo yakudala mayelana nenjabulo
Uma usuqaphela ukuthi ushintsho lungenzeka, uzozizwa ungcono ngokuzenzekelayo.
Uma ingqondo yakho ikutshela ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sesahluko esisha, leli qoqo elinamandla le izingcaphuno eziqalweni ezintsha yenza ukulungisa ongathanda ukuba nakho.
Zikhuthaze, ngosizo lwalezi zicaphuno ezibalulekile, ukuze uvumele imibono yakho iqhubekisele phambili lokho okubambile.
"Awukho umqondo ongavamile kangangokuthi akufanele ubhekwe ngokuseshwa, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo iso eliqinile." - Winston Churchill
Ufuna ukuphuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka neyakho ukuphila Qala phansi? UJeder Mensch kufika endaweni lapho sicikwa yisimo sethu samanje. Ngezikhathi ezinjengalezi, ukukhulula nokuqala kabusha kungakwenza lokho best kube ngawe
"Ukuze sijabule, akumelwe sikhathazeke kakhulu ngabanye." - U-Albert Camus
Uma udedela okungasebenzanga, obekukade kukubambezela, noma ukwesaba okungafanele usabambise, wenza indawo yokuba ngumuntu oshisekayo, ozibandakanyayo, futhi... umuntu okhuthazayo ukuba.
"Asikhohlwe imithwalo yesikhathi esidlule siqale kabusha." – Shahbaz Sharif
Uma kukhona izinqubo, ubambiswano, noma imisebenzi engasasizi, kungcono ukuyikhipha ngokuphelele empilweni yakho. ukuphila Khipha. Ngemuva kokukhulula isikhala, dala ukwenza ngokwezifiso okusha kweyakho ukuphila futhi niwalandele futhi.
Ungaqala kanjani kabusha?
ungakwenza lokho ukuphila thuthukisa okufisayo, uyaqala ngokususa izinto ongasazisebenzisi, ukuze nawe ugcine indawo okuyo ihlelekile?
Ngenxa yokuthi akekho kithi owaziyo ukuthi ikusasa lisiphatheleni, ukuphakamisa isiqalo esisha ngezinye izikhathi kungase kwesabise ngempela. Gxila kulokho okujabulisayo nokugqugquzelayo, kungaba isikhathi esimangalisayo sokuqala phansi.
Izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu mayelana nokuyeka - kanye nemvelaphi emisha neziqalo ezintsha
"Khumbula ukuthi ubudlelwano bomuntu bubonke abushintshi, khona-ke ngeke ujabule kakhulu enjabulweni futhi ungadabuki kakhulu ngenxa yokungajabuli." - uSocrates
Mhlawumbe uyaqaphela nje ukuthi kunjalo omuhle ngokuzethemba kwakho kuyathinta.
"Akumele sizivumele ukuthi sifakwe ubuthi ngenxa yokucasuka, ukuhaha nobudlova, ngoba lobu buthi budala cishe zonke izinkinga kulo mhlaba." - Eyeshumi nane Dalai Lama
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi ngabe usukulungele yini ukuziphusha kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle ukumangala?
"Yakho ukuphila umfula. Uma ubhekisisa kahle, uzobona ukuthi yonke into iyashintsha ngaso sonke isikhathi." - Drukpa Rinpoche
Ngesinye isikhathi futhi endaweni ethile uzoba nombono omusha kuwo, lapho yonke into ngokuzumayo yenza umqondo ojulile.
“Umfudlana ofanayo we AmaLebens, egeleza emithanjeni yami ubusuku nemini, igeleza emhlabeni wonke futhi iyaqhubeka nokudansa ngesigqi esikhulu.” - I-Rabindranath Tagore
Ungase ube munye shintsha kwenze ngokuzenzakalelayo ngokuphelele futhi ngendlela elula kakhulu.
"Ezindaweni ezifanayo, wonke umuntu uhlala emhlabeni ohlukile." - U-Arthur Schopenhauer
Ngokushesha noma kamuva uzokuthola lokhu ukuhlakanipha sebenzisa ngokunenzuzo futhi uqale ukujabulela izinto eziningi ezincane ekuphileni futhi.
Izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu ongaziyeka - zikhuthaza isiqalo esisha
“Zimbili iphuthaongakwenza endleleni eya eqinisweni...ungahambi yonke indlela futhi ungaqali." - Buddha
“Ukuqala phansi wukwamukela okwedlule esingakwenzi ändern ikhono, inkolelo engapheli yokuthi ikusasa lingase lihluke, nokuhlakanipha okunenkani ukusebenzisa okwedlule ukwenza ikusasa libe yilokho okwedlule okwakungenjalo. - UCraig D Lounsbrough
"Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isikhathi esidlule sinzima kangakanani, ungahlala uqala phansi." - Buddha
“Ungalindi kuze kulunge izimo. Isiqalo senza izimo ziphelele. ” - Alan Cohen
ayeke athi
"I iqiniso uma ungakuyeki, uma ungaxoleli, uma ungaboni ukuthi isimo sesiphelile, awukwazi ukuqhubekela phambili." - USteve Maraboli
Igama elilotshiwe liyinto emangalisayo ngempela - izingcaphuno okufanele uyeke
Ngosizo lwabo singakwazi kwangaphakathi imibono siyiqophe eteyipini futhi siyisabalalise uma sithanda.
Ngosizo lwezwi elibhaliwe singabheka emuva eminyakeni eminingi edlule, neminyaka, amakhulu eminyaka futhi, yebo, nangeminyaka eyinkulungwane.
Namuhla ngithanda ukukhuluma ne esidlule khumbula ukuphefumulelwa futhi ubone ukuthi abantu abanengqondo abahamba kulomhlaba bangasitshelani ngenjabulo nokuthi nathi singakwembula kanjani. Ukuthi baphila namuhla noma eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane ezimbili edlule waphila babe.
“Injabulo ayikapheli. Kuvela ezenzweni zakho." - Dalai Lama
“Izinkulungwane zamakhandlela zingakhanyiswa ngekhandlela elilodwa kanti impilo yekhandlela ngeke ifinyezwe. Injabulo ayinciphi uma ihlanganyelwa.” - Buddha
“Izikhathi zenjabulo esizijabulelayo ziyasimangalisa. Akukhona ukuthi siyababamba, wukuthi bayasibamba. " – Ashley Montagu
“Abanye baletha injabulo nomaphi lapho beya khona; abanye noma nini lapho behamba." - Oscar Wilde
Ukuhlakanipha okuhle - ukuhlakanipha - amazwi nezingcaphuno Let go
