Igcine ukubuyekezwa ngoDisemba 4, 2022 ngu Roger Kaufman
Lapho ngidedela into engiyiyo - ukuhlakanipha okuyingqayizivele
Isikhathi esiningi, ukuze bakhule ngempela futhi belaphe, abantu badinga ukudedela okuthile.
Kwesinye isikhathi kuba ubudlelwano obunzima kusukela esikhathini esidlule. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba yinkolelo engeyinhle esibuyisela emuva.
Lokhu kungafaka futhi isimo esikhawulela ukucabanga kwethu nezinkolelo zethu.
Kodwa ngubani ongadedela lokho ayikho?
Sixoxa kanjani thina funda ukudedela futhi sakhe kabusha ukuzethemba kwethu kithi lapho sizibuza thina nenjongo yethu.
Thola kulokhu okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi ukuthi kungani ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kangaka ukukuyeka nokuthi usengathola kanjani amafomu anempilo thola ukuyeka futhi wandise ukuzethemba kwakho kuwena.
Izilinganiso ukuhlakanipha okuyingqayizivele - ukuhlakanipha kosuku
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"Angikaze ngibone osekwenziwe, ngike ngibone okusamele kwenziwe." - Buddha
"Uma mina yekelaengiyikho, ngiba yilokho engingaba yikho.
Uma ngidedela enginakho, ngithola engikudingayo." - Lao Tse
“Injabulo ayikalungi. Kuvela ezenzweni zakho." - Dalai Lama
"I-WHO Fliegen ufuna ukufunda
kufanele aqale ame futhi ahambe futhi agijime
futhi ukhuphuke futhi Tanzen ukufunda;
umuntu akezwani nokundiza.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
"Ngibhidliza amabhuloho angemuva kwami...
Khona-ke akukho okunye ngaphandle kokuqhubekela phambili.” - Fridtjof Nansen
"I ukuphila kufana nebhayisikili.
Kufanele uye phambili
ngalokho ibhalansi hhayi ukulahlekelwa." - Albert Einstein
“Awukwazi ukuqala isahluko sakho esilandelayo AmaLebens qala uma ulokhu uphinda ingxenye yokugcina.” - UMichael McMillan
“Ungahlaziya isimo ngemizuzu, amahora, izinsuku, amasonto, ngisho nezinyanga; ezama ukuhlanganisa izingcezu zephazili, echaza ukuthi bekungaba yini, okungenzeka kwenzeke.
Noma ungavele ushiye izingcezu phansi bese uqhubeka nokuhamba." -Tupac Amaru Shakur
“Umama wayehlale engitshela
kumele esidlule hamba ngaphambi kokuthi uqhubeke." - I-Forrest Gump
"Okucacile kubonwa ngababona kude, futhi kungabonakali kulabo abathatha inzalo." - Lao Tse
Okuningi makuhambe izingcaphuno nezisho, ezithi, zidedele izisho, izaga, izisho. ukusiza uku dedela isihloko kanye nezingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu, izindaba, izisho, izingathekiso mayelana nokuyeka zingatholakala kumavidiyo amabili angezansi:
Ukuhlakanipha okuyingqayizivele ukuyeka, uthi, amazwi athi "dedela"
Ukudedela kuwubuciko abaningi bethu abangenabo ubungcweti.
Sivame ukubanjwa imizwa yokungeneliseki, yokungazethembi, ukuzethemba kanye nokulahlekelwa ukuzibamba.
Le mizwa isivimbela ukuthi sibheke phambili futhi sizame izinto ezihlukile, ezintsha.
Kodwa kuthiwani uma bekunenqwaba yokuhlakanipha okungasisiza sizidedele thina kanye nezethu ukuqinisa ukuzethemba?
Kule vidiyo zicabange ukuhlakanipha okuyingqayizivele ukukusiza ukuthi udedele ukwesaba kwakho, wakhe ukuzethemba okwengeziwe kuwe futhi uphile impilo ekhululekile futhi eyanelisayo.
Funda ukuyeka ukuhlakanipha okuyingqayizivele ngezingcaphuno
Yekela Ngezinye izikhathi ikhono liwumzabalazo - kodwa liphinde libe yikhono elibaluleke kakhulu uma selifundiwe.
amazwi nokuhlakanipha mayelana Yekela kungaba ithuluzi elinamandla lokuthola nokunikeza induduzo, kanye nokusikhuthaza ukuba siyeke ukuziphatha nezindlela zakudala zokucabanga.
Kule vidiyo ungabona ukuhlakanipha okuyingqayizivele, izingcaphuno nezisho ezimayelana nokudedela ezingakusiza ukuthi uzibandakanye ohambweni lwakho futhi uhlole izindlela ezintsha zokuzethemba nenkululeko.
