Izingcaphuno eziyi-10 nokuhlakanipha mayelana "nokuyeka"

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Ukudedela - Izimfihlo eziyishumi nobuhlakani mayelana nokudedela.
Izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu ezivela ku-"yekela” ibhulogi.

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Nazi izingcaphuno ezikhethiwe eziyi-10 namagama obuhlakani esihlokweni esithi "ukudedela":

“Ukudedela kusho ukuqaphela ukuthi abanye abantu nezinto zisenathi kuphela isikhathi esithile ukuphila zazimiselwe, kodwa hhayi phakade.” - Akwaziwa

“Ukudedela kusho ukwanga umoya esikhundleni sawo kusukela emkhosini Ukufuna." - UToni Morrison

“Kwesinye isikhathi ukudedela kuyisenzo Liebe. Kubonisa ukuthi umfunela okungcono kakhulu othile, ngisho noma kungeyakho.” - Akwaziwa

"I Ubuciko bokukhulula uyazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyiyeke nokuthi yini okufanele ubambelele kuyo.” - Akwaziwa

“Ukudedela kusho hhayi ukuyeka, kodwa ukwamukela ukuthi ezinye izinto azihloselwe ukuba zibe khona.” - Akwaziwa

“Uma ukhulula, udala isikhala sezinto ezintsha futhi ngcono.” - Akwaziwa

“Ukudedelwa yesikhathi esidlule ivula umnyango wamathuba amasha.” - Akwaziwa

“Kwesinye isikhathi kumele uyekele okwedlule ukuze uvulele indawo Ngokuzayo zu schaffen." - Akwaziwa

“Ukudedela wukhiyeukuthola ukuthula kwangaphakathi.” - Akwaziwa

"Indlela yeqiniso eya enjabulweni ukudedela yonke into ekucindezelayo futhi ekugcina ungaqhubeki phambili."- Akwaziwa

Ukuthi ukudedela kusikhulula kanjani 21 Izingcaphuno Ezikhuthazayo | ukuhlakanipha

lokhu izingcaphuno nokuhlakanipha zihloselwe ukusikhumbuza ukuthi ukudedela kuyikhono elibalulekile elisivumela ukuthi sicebise izimpilo zethu futhi sizibandakanye kokuhlangenwe nakho okusha.

Ngokuvamile akulula, kodwa kungasinika ukukhula, inkululeko kanye ukuthula kwangaphakathi letha.

Ukuthi ukudedela kuyasikhulula kanjani

• Ukukhishwa kwemizwa: Ngokuyeka ubuhlungu besikhathi esidlule, ukucasuka, noma ukudumazeka, siyazikhulula emizwelweni engafanele esicindezelayo. Kusivumela ukuthi siye phambili ngenhliziyo evulekile nengqondo ehluzekile.
• Ukukhululwa kwengqondo: Ukuvumela ukuhamba kukhulula ingqondo yethu emibuthanweni yemicabango eqhubekayo futhi I-Sorgen ngezinto esingaphezu kwamandla ethu. Kusinikeza ukucaca futhi kusivumela ukuthi sigxile kulokhu futhi manje.
• Inkululeko kulokho okulindelekile: Sivame ukubambelela kulokho esikulindele, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngokwethu noma kwabanye Menschen noma izimo zokuphila. Ukudedela kusisiza ukuba siyeke lezi zinto esizilindele futhi sizikhulule ekucindezelweni okungadingekile.
• Ukuzikhulula: Kwesinye isikhathi singangena ngendlela yethu stehenngokubambelela ezinkolelweni ezindala noma ekuziphatheni kabi. Ukuvumela ukuhamba kusivumela ukuthi sizikhulule kule mikhawulo futhi sithuthukise amandla ethu aphelele.
• Inkululeko Ekulawuleni: Ukudedela nakho kusho lokho Ukuyeka ukulawula izinto esingeke sizishintshe. Kusivumela ukuthi sibhekane nokungaziwa nokungalindelekile futhi sifinyelele esimweni sokwamukelwa.
• Igumbi lezinto ezintsha: Ngokudedela, sivulela abasha indawo isipiliyoni, abantu namathuba ezimpilweni zethu. Siyazivulela omuhle Izinguquko nokukhula.
• Ukuyeka izinto ezibonakalayo: Ukudedela izinto ezingadingekile kungasikhulula ekugxiliseni izinto ezibonakalayo futhi kusivumele ukuba sigxile kulokho okubaluleke ngempela.
• Ukukhululwa ebuhlotsheni: Ngezinye izikhathi kunjalo Yekela ubudlelwano obunobuthi noma obungasebenzi kahle kuyisinyathelo esingcono kakhulu sokuzikhulula emthwalweni wemizwa kanye nokubi.
• Ukuthula nokuthula: Ukudedela kusivumela ukuba sihambe ukuthula kwangaphakathi futhi uthole ukuthula. Kusivumela ukuthi sigxile kulokho Ukugxila ezintweni ezinhle futhi sivumele izimo zangaphandle zisithonye kancane vumela.
• Inkululeko Engokomoya: Amasiko amaningi kamoya agcizelela ukubaluleka kokudedelaukuzuza umuzwa wokuxhumana nokugcwaliseka kwangaphakathi. Kungasiholela esimweni sokuzwana kwangaphakathi nokuphelele.

Kafushane, ukudedela kungasikhulula emithwalweni engokomzwelo, yengqondo nengokomoya futhi kusenze sibe munye izimpilo ezanelisayo nezikhululekile ukuhola. Kuyisenzo sokuzinakekela futhi ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu.