Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoJulayi 27, 2022 ngu URoger Kaufman
Yintoni uvelwano?
uvelane kukukwazi ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu nokuqonda iimvakalelo zakhe.
Kukukwazi ukuzibeka kwimbono yomnye umntu kwaye uqonde kwinqanaba leemvakalelo ukuba yintoni na ajongene nayo.
Abanye abantu ngokwemvelo banovakalelo ngakumbi kunabanye kwaye ke ngoko ngokulula bayakwazi ukwenza unxibelelwano olunovelwano nabanye abantu.
Abanye kufuneka bafunde ukuba novelwano.
Kodwa kutheni ufanele ufunde nokuba novelwano?
Amazwi ovelwano-lukhulisa unxibelelwano lwakho
Sifumana amazwi asinceda sibonakalise iimvakalelo zethu kuzo zonke iintlanga.
Enyanisweni, amazwi amadala anjalo ulwimi Kwaye njengolwimi, amazwi angakunika intuthuzelo, ithemba kunye nokufudumala.
Olu luhlu lweentetho zovelwano kufuneka zikuncede ukufumana amagama afanelekileyoukuxhasa abahlobo bakho, amalungu osapho kunye noogxa bakho ngamaxesha anzima.
- Ubangela iimvakalelo ngokupheleleyo.
- Ndiyayibona indlela oziva ngayo ngokwenene.
- Akuyomfuneko ukuba uzive ungenakuzinceda.
- Ndivele ndisiva intlungu enje kuwe xa uthetha ngayo.
- Uhlale apha kwindawo enzima.
- Ndiyayiva intlungu oyivayo.
- Umhlaba kufuneka uyeke xa uhlala unxunguphele.
- Ndifuna ngokwenene ukuba ungahambi kule nto.
- Ndilapha kwicala lakho.
- Akwaba bendinawe umzuzu nje.
- Owu, kubonakala kulungile.
- Kubuhlungu kum ukuva oko.
- Ndiyasixhasa isimo sakho sengqondo.
- Ndivumelana nawe ngokupheleleyo.
- Uziva ubanjelwe ngokwenene!
- Oko kuvakala ngathi wonyanya ngokwenene!
- Akumangalisi ukuba uzilahlele.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo bendiya kwenza okufanayo njengoko usenza kwimeko yakho.
- Ndicinga ukuba unyanisile.
- Hayi. Makhe ndishwankathele: Le nto ucinga ukuba...
- Usebuhlungu kakhulu apha. Ndiyayiva.
- Kuya kuba kuhle ukukhululeka kuloo nto.
- Imele ukuba yakukhathaza loo nto.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo ibiya kundicaphukisa nam.
- Oku kuyakhathaza wonke umntu.
- Oko kubonakala kuyacaphukisa.
- Oku kuyoyikisa kakhulu.
- Ewe, ndiyavumelana nezinto ezininzi ozithethayo.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo ngendandingonelisekanga yile nto nam.
- Oko bekuya kuzonakalisa neemvakalelo zam ngokuqinisekileyo.
- Ewe lonto ingandenza ndingonwabi nam.
- Wow, inokuba ibuhlungu.
- Ndiyayibona eyona nto uyivayo.
- wenza ingqondo eninzi kum
- Kulungile, ndicinga ukuba ndiyifumene. Ngoko into oyiva ngokwenene kukuba...
- Makhe ndizame ukucacisa kwaye ndishwankathele ibango lakho. Uthi …..
- Ngendinengxaki yokujongana naloo nto.
- Eyona nto ndiyithanda kakhulu kulento uyenzayo....
- Oko bekuya kundikhathaza.
- Loo nto ibonakala iyoyikisa kancinci.
Iintetho ezili-19 malunga novelwano
Uvelwano sisakhono esibalulekileyo sokukhangela kwihlabathi lanamhlanje elikhawulezayo nelihlala lingaziwa.
Xa sithatha ixesha lokuvelana neemvakalelo zabanye abantu kunye neembono zabo, sinokwakha ubudlelwane obunzulu, sandise umbono wethu, kwaye senze umhlaba wethu ube nobubele kwaye ube novelwano ngakumbi.
amazwi kunye neengcaphuno ingasinika ithemba kumaxesha anzima kwaye isincede sitshintshe indlela esicinga ngayo.
Kule vidiyo uya kufumana ingqokelela yeentetho malunga novelwano.
Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuzibeka kwimeko yeemvakalelo nembono yomnye umntu.
Ngamanye amaxesha konke esikufunayo ukusenza sizive bhetele sisicaphulo esibonakalisa iimvakalelo zethu. Nazi ezinye iintetho ezibonisa uvelwano nezisikhumbuza ukuba asisodwa.
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19 amazwi ovelwano
Amazwi anokunceda njani ekuboniseni uvelwano?
Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu nokumqonda.
Uvelwano sisakhono esiphambili sokwakha nokugcina ubudlelwane boluntu.
Xa kungabikho uvelwano, abantu banokuziva bengamalolo yaye beshiywe bebodwa.
amazwi kunye neengcaphuno inokunceda ukubonakalisa uvelwano.
Zinokusikhumbuza indlela esasivakalelwa ngayo kwiimeko ezithile yaye zinokusinceda siqonde iimvakalelo zabanye abantu.
Iingcaphuno malunga namandla ovelwano
“Xa ndandiselula, ndandicinga ukuba ukuba nengqiqo kuthetha ukwazi yonke into. Ngoku sele ndimdala, ndiyazi ukuba kukuphulaphula kunokuthetha.” - Maya Angelou
Andizange ndivumele imfundo yam ukuba iphazamise imfundo yam. - UMark Twain
hleka rhoqo; ukuphumelela intlonipho yabantu abakrelekrele kunye nothando lwabantwana ... ukushiya ihlabathi kwindawo engcono ... ezi mhlawumbi ngobuncwane obukhulu belizwe. ubomi." - uRalph Waldo Emerson
“Xa ndandiselula ndandicinga ukuba ubulumko kuthetha ukwazi yonke into. Ekubeni ngoku ndikhulile, ndiyaqonda ukuba ukuba nobulumko kukufunda indlela yokufunda.” -uSocrates
"Indoda engenangqondo ayinamaphiko." – Aristotle
"Kuxa siyeka ukuzama ukutshintsha abanye apho siqala ukubona amandla abo." - Maya Angelou
"Kufuneka ube nguwe liebenngaphambi kokuba uthande omnye ngokwenene. " -ULao Tzu
"Ndifunde ukuba abantu bayayilibala into oyithethileyo, abantu bayayilibala into oyenzileyo, kodwa abantu abanakuze bayilibale indlela obaphethe ngayo." - Maya Angelou
"Umntu ongenamnqweno wokuphucula akanako ukutshintsha." – URalph Waldo
“Xa ndandiselula, ndandicinga ukuba ukukhula kukufuna imali kuphela. Ngoku ndimdala, ndiyazi ukuba ubukhulu becala iza kuba ngovelwano. " - Maya Angelou
"Ayinamsebenzi into eyenzekayo kuthi, kodwa indlela esisabela ngayo kuyo." - UCharles Swindoll
"Umntu ongenamnqweno wokuphucula akanako ukutshintsha." - uRalph Waldo Emerson
“Awona mandla anamandla kwindalo iphela asingomzimba, ziimvakalelo.” - Albert Einstein
"Kufuneka ufunde ukuzithanda ngaphambi kokuba ufunde ukuthanda abanye." - Oscar Wilde
"impilo kuthetha ukuxolela. Ukufa kukucaphuka.” - George Bernard Shaw
"Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha ingqondo yomntu, zama ukutshintsha intliziyo yakho kuqala." - Maya Angelou
Kucatshulwe ngokubaluleka kovelwano
Njengomntu ofuna uvelwano, kunokuba nzima ukuqonda ithiyori entsonkothileyo emva kombono.
Ngokufunda ukusuka amazwi malunga Noko ke, usenokusebenzisa uvelwano ukuze uyiqonde ngakumbi intsingiselo yovelwano.
Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu kwaye uqonde ukuba uziva njani na.
Luphawu olusenza sahluke yaye lusinceda sinxibelelane size sisebenzisane nabanye.
Zininzi amazwi malunga Uvelwano, kodwa nazi ezinye zezinto endizithandayo:
“Ndicinga ukuba uninzi lweempazamo ezenziweyo emhlabeni zibangelwa kukungabi naluvelwano. Ukuba unokwazana kunye novelwano komnye umntu, ukuthethelela linyathelo nje elifutshane. ” -USusan Saradon
"Asinakucombulula iingxaki ngokusebenzisa ingqondo efanayo ebesiyidala." - Albert Schweitzer
"Uncumo alubizi nto ngaphandle kokunika okuninzi." -Ayaziwa
“Ayikho indlela eya kwithamsanqa. Ulonwabo yindlela ngokwayo.” – Seneca
"Awukhathali ukuba ndisebenza nzima kangakanani ukuba nje ndisebenza nzima ngokwaneleyo ukukholisa wena." -Ayaziwa
"Eyona nto ibalulekileyo esiyifundayo kwiimpazamo zethu kukungazenzi kwakhona." - Albert Einstein
"Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuqonda ukuba kunjani ukuba ngomnye umntu." - Dalai Lama
"Ukuba awunalo uvelwano, uya kuba wedwa." - Oprah Winfrey
"Ndicinga ukuba abantu abanovelwano baphumelele ngakumbi kunabo bangenalo." - Steve Jobs
"Awukwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye de uzazi wena." - Maya Angelou
"Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngovelwano kukuba kusenza sibe ngabantu." - Dalai Lama
"Asinakumazi umntu de sizazi thina." -Karl Jung
"Ndifunda okuninzi malunga nam ngokumamela izigulane zam." - UDkt. Seuss
"Ndiyagula kuphela njengeemfihlo zam." – Anais Nin
"Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuqonda nokwabelana ngeemvakalelo zomnye umntu." - uGqr UDaniel Goleman
Abo banokusondela kwabanye bafumana okungakumbi ebomini
Bonisa:
Sinokudala njani ubudlelwane obuhle nobuphilisayo nabanye?
Lunokubonwa njani ubudlelwane obungalunganga nobuyityhefu? Singaphila njani ngokuzanelisayo nabanye kwixesha lothando oluphelayo?
Unga kanjani uthando uphumelele?
Umthengisi omtsha osuka UDaniel Goleman unika impendulo ku imibuzo ebalulekileyo yobomi.
ubukrelekrele bentlalo iyaqhubeka kwaye yandisa malunga nokuba ubuNgcali be-Emotional babumalunga na: apho bekugxilwe khona kumntu, ngoku malunga nabantu kunye nobudlelwane babo.
Ubudlelwane boluntu zichaphazela impilo-ntle yethu yengqondo neyomzimba, zidlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni ubuntu bethu.
Ubukhulu becala, oku kwenzeka singekho zingqondweni njengoko sifunda iimvakalelo zabanye size sisabela ngokungqalileyo kubo.
Nabani na oyiqondayo indlela yokujongana nemiqondiso enjalo ngononophelo uzuza ngokuthe ngqo kuyo: ngokusebenzisana kakuhle nabanye (nokuba ngabambiswano okanye emsebenzini), ngokusebenzisa ubomi obunelisayo, nangona impilo engcono, kuba amajoni ethu omzimba aqinisekiswa ngokufanelekileyo. Ubudlelwane babo bomeleziwe.
Ngobulumko bentlalontle, uDaniel Goleman usivulela indlela eya ebomini obuyimpumelelo. Indlela yokuphila, ebaliselwa ngendlela emangalisayo incwadi engeyonyani malunga nayo ubugcisa bokubambisana.Fumana incwadi ethi "Social Intelligence" ngoku
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Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba novelwano?
Uvelwano lubalulekile kuba lusinika amandla okuntywila kwiimvakalelo kunye amava ukuvelana nabanye abantu.
Xa sinovakalelo, sinokubona ihlabathi ngokwembono eyahlukileyo kwaye siqonde ngcono amava ethu.
Uvelwano sisakhono esibalulekileyo sentlalo esisinceda siphucule ubudlelwane bethu nabanye abantu.
Ngovelwano, sinokwakha ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabahlobo, usapho, kunye nabantu esisebenza nabo kuba siyakwazi ukunxulumana nabo ngcono.
Kwakhona sinokuluphucula ulwalamano lwethu nabantu esingabaziyo kuba siyasiqonda isizathu sokuba benze izinto ngendlela abazenza ngayo.
Zonke iimfazwe zibangelwa kukungabikho kovelwano: ukungakwazi komntu ukuqonda nokuxabisa ukufana okanye ukungafani komnye.
Nokuba kukwizizwe okanye kwintlanganiso yobuhlanga kunye nesini, ukhuphiswano emva koko luyayitshintsha imicimbi, ukungeniswa kuyayishiya ukufana.
"Uluntu lubonakala lunamandla amakhulu obundlobongela, inkohlakalo, ukungabikho kovelwano kunye nokungabikho kovelwano." –Annie Lenox
“Ndakhe ndakuxelela ukuba ndikhangela ubungendawo. Ndicinga ukuba ndisondele ekuchanekeni: ukungabi naluvelwano. Ububi, ndiyakholelwa, kukungabikho kovelwano." - GM Gilbert
"Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuqonda ukuba omnye umntu uvakalelwa okanye uvakalelwa njani." - UBrené Brown
"Xa sivelana nabanye, siva intlungu yabo ngokungathi yeyethu." - uBrené Brown
inkcazo yovelwano
Uvelwano sisixhobo esinamandla kakhulu kwaye sinokusetyenziswa kwiimeko ezininzi ezahlukeneyo.
Noko ke, amandla okuba novelwano asoloko ezalwa yaye maxa wambi kufuneka afundwe.
Uvelwano luthetha ukuqonda nokuba novelwano ngeemvakalelo neembono zomnye umntu.
Kukukwazi ukuzifaka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu kwaye uqonde ukuba yintoni atyhubela kuyo.
Uvelwano lubalulekile kuba lusinceda sinxibelelane ngcono, sisombulule iingxabano, sakhe ubudlelwane.
isiphelo
Abantu zizinto ezintsonkothileyo kwaye zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuvakalisa iimvakalelo zethu.
Abanye bethu bakhulu ekuvakaliseni iimvakalelo zethu ngokuphandle, ngelixa abanye bekhululekile.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba asikwazi ukuchaza indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngokukhululekileyo?
Oku kunokuba nzima kuthi sonke, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba asifani kwaye kulungile ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zethu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Xa sifihla iimvakalelo zethu, zihlala zisebenza ngeendlela ezimbi, umz. B. ngohlobo lomsindo okanye umsindo.
Kodwa ikho indlela esinokuziqonda ngakumbi ngayo iimvakalelo zethu size siziveze ngokukhululekileyo.
Oku kunokufaniswa nokudlala ipiyano, akukho nto ivela kwinto engekhoyo, kufuneka uzilolonge.
Ukukwazi ukuba novelwano / ukungabi naluvelwano?
Ukuba awunavelwano, udla ngokubhalwa ngokuthi "uswele uvelwano."
Kodwa kuthetha ukuthini ngokwenene oko? Uvelwano kukukwazi ukuvelana neemvakalelo neembono zomnye umntu. Abantu abaninzi banovelwano yaye bayakwazi ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu. Abanye abantu babhalwe ngokuthi "abaswele uvelwano" ukuba abanalo obu buchule.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba novelwano / ukukwazi ukuba novelwano?
Uvelwano sisakhono sendalo kubantu abaninzi, kodwa kukho abantu abangenalo uvelwano. Izizathu zoku zahlukene. Abanye abantu abakwazi nje ukuvelana neemvakalelo zabanye abantu. Abanye abantu bayakwazi ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu, kodwa abanamdla kubo.
