Ucaphula uDale Carnegie ngobomi, uthando kunye nolonwabo

Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoMatshi 26, 2023 ngu URoger Kaufman

UDale Carnegie wayengumbhali waseMelika owabhala ngokuphumelela abahlobo kunye nokuphembelela abantu. Wazalwa ngo-1887 waza wafa ngowe-1955.

Wabhala iincwadi ezininzi zokuziphucula, kuquka nendlela yokuPhumelela abahlobo.

Sihlala sicinga ukuba kufuneka senze into enkulu ukwenza... impilo ukutshintsha.

Kodwa notshintsho oluncinci lunokuba nempembelelo enkulu.

Enyanisweni, ezinye zeenkokeli ezinkulu ziye zaba imbali Abantu abenze utshintsho oluncinci kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.

"Simele sizimisele ukulahla iingcamango zakudala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zingcwele kangakanani, ukuba iinyaniso ezintsha ziza kuthatha indawo yazo." - Dale Carnegie

Ucaphula uDale Carnegie oya kukukhuthaza ukuba ukuba ngumntu ongcono

UDale Carnegie uthe "imfihlo yokuya phambili ebomini kukuqala".

Funda eyakhe apha isicatshulwa esikhuthazayo.

"Ukuba uzifumana usemngxunyeni - yeka ukumba." - Dale Carnegie

"Indoda engenanto iseleyo kuye ayinakwenzeka." - Dale Carnegie

“Uvavanyo lwenkqubela yethu asikokuba songeza ngakumbi kwintabalala yalowo unezinto ezininzi; imalunga nokuba sinikela ngokwaneleyo na kwabo basweleyo.” - Dale Carnegie

"Simele sikhulise amandla ethu okuxolela abanye ngokukhawuleza njengoko sizixolela." - Dale Carnegie

"Indoda engazange yenze impazamo ayizange izame nantoni na entsha." - Dale Carnegie

Kulula ukucinga ukuba impumelelo iza kuphela ngokusebenza nzima nokuzinikela. Nangona kunjalo, zikho ezinye iindlela zempumelelo. Enye yazo kukufunda kwiimpazamo. Ukuba wenza impazamo, funda kuyo kwaye uqhubeke. Sukuhlala kuyo kuba iya kukugcina umva.

“Uvavanyo lwenkqubela yethu asikokuba sinobutyebi obuninzi kunookhokho bethu; kukuba thina ngakumbi ubulumko ukufumana." - Dale Carnegie

Zininzi Quotes nguDale Carnegie onokukukhuthaza ukuba ube ngumntu ongcono. Nazi ezinye zakhe Iingcaphuno ezidumileyo:

"Umntu akufanele athethe nantoni na ngaphandle kokuba unento enengqondo yokuthetha." - Dale Carnegie

“Ubutyebi asibokuba nemali eninzi; kukwenza oko unako.” - Dale Carnegie

"Andazi kakhulu ngembali, kodwa ndazi into enye: umntu akazange afunde nto ngokuma ngxi." - Dale Carnegie

Kwincwadi yakhe ethi How to Make Friends, uDale Carnegie wathi:

Ungaze uxelele abantu ukuba benze ntoni. Baxelele into abanokuyenza. Emva koko babukele bezama ukufumanisa ukuba bangayenza njani ngokwabo. ” - Dale Carnegie

Esi sicatshulwa sibonisa ukubaluleka kokunceda abanye baphumelele kunokuba ubaxelele ukuba benze ntoni.

“Yenza impumelelo kwiimpazamo. Kokubini ukuphoxeka nokungaphumeleli zizinto ezimbini eziqinisekileyo zokukhokelela empumelelweni.” - Dale Carnegie

“Asiyonto onayo okanye into oyiyo okanye indawo oyenzayo ekwenza wonwabe okanye ungonwabi. Yiloo nto ucinga ngayo." - Dale Carnegie

“Musa ukoyika ukuba iintshaba zikuhlasela. Musa ukubangabaza phambi kwabahlobo abakuncomayo.” - Dale Carnegie

"Unokwenza abahlobo abaninzi kwiinyanga ezimbini ngokucinga ngabanye abantu kuneminyaka emibini ngokuzama ukwenza abanye abantu bacinge ngawe." - Dale Carnegie

"Nasiphi na isidenge sinokugxeka, ukukhalaza, nokugweba-kwaye uninzi lwezidenge luyakwenza, ngokunjalo. Kodwa kufuna isimilo kunye nokuzeyisa ukuqonda nokuxolela.” - Dale Carnegie

"Xa usebenzisana nabantu, khumbula ukuba awujongani nezidalwa ezinengqiqo, kodwa izidalwa ezinomkhethe kwaye zikhuthazwa kukwaneliseka kunye nelize." - Dale Carnegie

“Impumelelo kukufumana le nto uyifunayo. Uvuyo lufuna oko ufumanayo.” - Dale Carnegie

Indlela yokuphumelela abahlobo | 68 Dale Carnegie Ucaphula

UDale Carnegie ngumbhali kunye nomfundisi-ntsapho waseMelika owaphakama waya kwisikhundla esiphezulu ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane yama-20.

UDale Carnegie wabhala iincwadi ezimbalwa, eziquka iHow To Win Friends kunye neHow to Influence Someone.

UDale Carnegie wayesisithethi esihle kunye nomfundisi-ntsapho okhuthazayo. UDale Carnegie uneengcaphuno ezintle malunga nobomi uthando kunye nolonwabo olubhaliweyo endifuna ukwabelana nawe apha.

Indlela yokuphumelela abahlobo kunye nefuthe kwiimpawu zabantu-uDale Carnegie ucaphula ulonwabo

• “Wonke umfana endidibana naye ungumntu ongaqhelekanga ngendlela yam. Kuyo ndiyamfumana.”
• "Ukuqonda nje into esetyenziswayo kuhlala entlokweni yakho."
• "Umntu ongaqhelekanga ofuna ngokuzinikela ukukhonza abanye unenzuzo enkulu."
• "Ekuphela kwendlela endinokukwenza ngayo nantoni na kukukunika into oyifunayo."
• "Igama lomntu kukuba, kuloo mntu, isandi esimnandi kunye nesisigqibo kulo naluphi na uhlobo lolwimi."
• Vuselela omnye umntu ukuba abe nolangazelelo. Ukuba ungayenza loo nto, unomhlaba wonke kunye nawe. "
• “Wonke umntu ophumeleleyo uyawuthanda umdlalo. Ithuba lokuzibonakalisa, ukugqama, ukuphumelela. "
• "Impumelelo ekusebenzelaneni nabantu ngabanye ivela ekuqondeni ngononophelo imbono yomnye umntu."
• “Hlawula inzala encinci koko kuthethwe ngamadoda. Jonga nje into abayenzayo. ”

• "Buza imibuzo endaweni yokunika imiyalelo."
• "Umntu oqhelekileyo unomdla ngakumbi ngegama lakhe kunawo onke amagama ahlukeneyo adalwe emhlabeni."
• "Khumbula igama kwaye ulithethe kwaye uye wanikela ngencomo ephucukileyo kwaye esebenzayo kakhulu."
• "Inye kuphela indlela yokufumana eyona nto ilungileyo kumlo-kwaye kukuthintela oko."
• “Isithathu-kwesine sabantu oqinisekileyo ukuba siyabakholisa balambele uvelwano. Banike njengoko ubanika ngokunjalo lieben intando."
• Abantu badla ngokuwamkela umyalelo xa bephembelele isigqibo esikhokelele ekubeni kwenziwe lo myalelo.
• "Intshiseko evuthayo exhaswa yingqondo ecacileyo kunye nokuzimisela ngowona mgangatho uphezulu odla ngokukhokelela kwimpumelelo."
• Zibuze: yeyiphi eyona nto imbi kakhulu enokwenzeka? Emva koko lungiselela ukuyivuma. Emva koko uqhubeke ukomeleza eyona nto imbi. ”
• "Uvuyo aluxhomekanga kwiingxaki zangaphandle, lulawulwa sisimo sethu sengqondo."
• “Esinye isizathu sokuba iintaka namahashe angonwabi kukuba abazami ukukholisa ezinye iintaka kwakunye namahashe.”

• "Ukuze ube nomdla, yiba nomdla."
• "Bonke abantu banoloyiko, kodwa abanesibindi babeka phantsi uloyiko lwabo kwaye baqhubele phambili."
• "Inika ukuthembeka okulungileyo kwabanye abantu abahlukeneyo."
• "Thetha nomntu malunga nabo kwaye baya kukuphulaphula iiyure."
• “Awunakufundisa umfana nantoni na; ungamnceda kuphela ukuba ayifumanise kuye ngokwakhe.”
• "Ukugxekwa kuyagrogrisa kuba kulonakalisa ikratshi lomntu, kumenzakalisa ukubaluleka kwakhe kwaye kuvusa inzondo."
• “Imisebenzi ithetha ngaphezu kwamazwi. Uncumo luthi, 'Ndiyakuthanda. Ndiyavuya ukukubona.'
• "Awukwazi ukuphumelela ukungavisisani. Ukuba uthe walahlekelwa nguye, ulahlekelwa nguye; kwaye ukuba uyawaphumelela, uya kuphulukana nawo.”
• "Ukuba ufuna ukuqokelela ubusi, musa ukukhaba phezu kwendawo yokuhlala."
• "Iyakuphakamisa malunga nomhlambi kwaye ikunika imvakalelo yobuhandiba nobungangamsha ekuvumeni iimpazamo zomntu."

• "Abantu abaphumeleli ukuba abayonwabeli into abayenzayo."
• "Ukungcakaza! Bonke ubomi lithuba. Indoda ehamba umgama omde idla ngokuba yiyo ekulungeleyo ukuyenza ize izame.”
• “Namhlanje bubomi – okuphela kobomi oqinisekileyo ngabo. Yandisa namhlanje. ” Yiba nomdla kwinto ethile. zivuse Phuhlisa ixesha lokuzonwabisa.
• “Impumelelo kukufumana le nto uyifunayo. Uvuyo lunqwenela oko umntu akufumanayo.”
• Ukuba awukwazi ukulala, vuka wenze okuthile endaweni yokulala phantsi kwaye ucinezele. Ixhala liyakufumana, hayi ukungalali.”
• “Qala wenze umsebenzi onzima. Umsebenzi olula ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzinyamekela. ”
• "Khumbula, namhlanje yile ngomso ubunomsindo ngayo ngenye imini."
• "I uninzi lwamanqaku abalulekileyo kwiplanethi afezekiswe ngabantuowazama ngokuphindaphindiweyo xa kwakubonakala ngathi akukho themba.”
• "Yenza impumelelo ekuphumeleleni. Kokubini ukuphoxeka nokungaphumeleli zezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokukhokelela empumelelweni.”
• “Ukungenzi nto kudala ukuthandabuza kunye nexhala. umsebenzi owenziweyo ukuzithemba kunye nesibindi. Ukuba ufuna ukulawula uloyiko, musa ukuphumla kwaye ucinge ngayo. "

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Bendihlala ndinexhala ngayo yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bam:

Kuthekani ukuba ndingaziphumelelanga iimviwo?

Kuthekani ukuba ndiqala ishishini kwaye ndingaphumeleli?

Kuthekani ukuba ndiyasilela isidanga sam kwaye ndiphoxe abazali bam?

Kuthekani ukuba andiwufumani umsebenzi emva kweyunivesithi?

Kuthekani ukuba umhlobo wam akayibuyisi imali endandimboleke yona kwaye andikwazi ukuhlawula amatyala am?

Kuthekani ukuba ndiyagxothwa - abahlobo bam kunye nabantu endisebenza nabo bangacinga ntoni ngam?

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