ndiyeke ndifunde ukuthemba | faka isicelo ngempumelelo

Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoAprili 9, 2023 ngu URoger Kaufman

Ukuyeka ukuhamba, ukufunda ukuthembela - njengesiseko sobomi obunempilo

Ku Ugqirha wengqondo uFreud zintathu iimbandezelo zoluntu.

Eyokuqala ihambelana nenguquko kaCopernican, oko kukuthi ukuqonda ukuba umhlaba ujikeleza umhlaba. ilanga iyajikeleza kwaye hayi - njengoko bekucingelwa ngaphambili - ngokuphambanayo.

Kwityala lesibini, ngokutsho kukaFreud UCharles Darwin ifak’ isandla ngokubanga nangokuchaza ngokwenzululwazi ukuba umntu ukulandelelwano lokukhula okufanayo nezilwanyana.

Umfanekiselo womntu onjengomfanekiselo kaThixo ngoko waba sengozini.

Ityala lesithathu labangelwa nguFreud ngokwakhe ngengxelo yakhe yokuba indoda ayiyonkosi yendlu yayo.

Ukuze kubekho iinxalenye zomphefumlo ezisekhaya ekungazi nto zisinde kwintando yomntu.

Umntu akazilawulanga kwaye akanakulawula yonke into

Ingaba ukuxilongwa kukaFreud kuchanekile ngokweenkcukacha, ukushiywa ngaphandle kwesigqibo.

Nangona kunjalo, umzekelo wenzelwe ukubonisa ukuba asizimelanga kwaye sikhethekile njengoko bekucingelwa ngaphambili.

Kwaye oko kusebenza kuzo zombini i-genus indoda, ngokomntu ngamnye.

Iqala ngokuzalwa kwethu. Akukho mntu wakhetha ukuzalwa.

Savele safakwa kuzo ngabazali bethu singabuzwanga.

Inyathelo lokuqala impilo ngoko asizange sizenze ngokwethu.

“Saphoswa sabakho” njengabo badumileyo isithandi sobulumko uHeidegger uye wavakalisa.

Enye umzekelo kuba ukuzimela kwethu okunqongopheleyo kukuba thina ngokwethu asinako ukuvelisa umoya esiwudingayo ukuze siwuphefumle.

Ngoko ke singabethu umzuzu ngamnye Iilebhile sixhomekeke kwinto engaphaya kwamandla ethu.

Kusenokwenziwa okungakumbi Imizekelo khankanya ukuxhomekeka kwethu.

impilo kuthetha ukufunda ukwamkela ukuba iimeko ezisisiseko - hayi kubomi bethu bebhayoloji kuphela - ziyayibaleka impembelelo yethu.

Funda ukuyeka ukuthembana iza noku kuqonda.

Nangona kunjalo, olu lwazi lusafuna a isiseko somoya.

Yonke inkolo ineendlela zayo zokomoya zokufunda ukuyeka nokuthembela

Into ethi qatha engqondweni kuqala natürlich ukucamngca njengokucamngca kwangaphakathi.

Njengendlela yokuzifumana okanye ukusondela kuThixo.

Olu hlobo lokuziqhelanisa ngokwasemoyeni likuvumela ukuba uzikhwebule kude ISorgen kubomi bemihla ngemihla, ukubabona ngokwembono eyahlukileyo.

Kusenokwenzeka ke ukuba izinto ezininzi azisabonakali zibalulekile okanye zigrogrisa.

Ukucamngca okanye oko umthandazo kukwenza uqaphele okwakho ukuphela kunye nokungakwazi ukulawula yonke into.

Ukufunda ukuthemba kunye nokuyeka ukuhamba kuqala ngokuziqhelanisa ubuchule bomoya.

Je starker Ezi zisulungekisiwe kwaye zandisiwe, kokukhona ukuqonda ngakumbi kubuncinci beengxaki zemihla ngemihla.

Ukuba uphilela wena kuphela, yiloo nto natürlich Elula.

Ijongeka ngokwahlukileyo abantu uxanduva kwabanye, nokuba ngutata okanye umama.

Ubomi bakhe bubunjwa kukuxhalabela inzala yakhe.

Kodwa nalapha, awukwazi ukulawula yonke into kwaye kufuneka uyenze masihambe sifunde ukuthemba.

Isiseko sokuthembela siselukholweni lobuKristu natürlich UThixo, ngokuthe ngqo: UThixo oxolela izono kwaye ngaloo ndlela ekhulula abantu ukuba bakhululeke.

UThixo unika ukholo lokuyeka izinto eziphathekayo izinto kunye nezibakala, ezingenakuguqulwa, zivumelekile.

Namhlanje, le ngcamango ayibakrazuli abantu abaninzi, ngoko baye bafune iindlela zonqulo ekuthiwa zezanamhlanje. ubumoya.

Uloyiko njengomntu okhoyo

Sihlala kwiuluntu loloyiko' sisihloko sencwadi eyaziwayo.

Kodwa ngaphandle koloyiko lwe-pathological okanye lwezopolitiko, kukho uloyiko oluyimfuneko ebantwini.

Yinto ekwenza ube dizzy malunga nento yokuba thina ngamnye tag bangqongwe kukufa yaye banokubuyela ekubeni lilize nangaliphi na ixesha.

Ayingombuzo wokoyisa olu loyiko, kodwa ngowokwamkela.

Kuluncedo ukuqhelana “neentanda-bulumko ze ukwesaba” ukujongana, njengoHeidegger okanye Kwiyadi, endaweni yokujongana kuphela ne-esotericism enzulu.

Kukho olunye uloyiko olunokoyiswa ngokwenene okanye luthotywe.

Olu luloyiko lokungonelanga kwi-meritocracy.

Kwimeko embi kakhulu, oku kubangela ukulahlekelwa sisidima.

ukucamngca kubomi bemihla ngemihla

Abanye abantu bazithembile kwaye oko impilo walala ebhedeni.

Abanye abanayo.

kunye amanyathelo amancinci kodwa unokukhulula kwaye ufunde ukuthembela.

Eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukufumana indawo ezolileyo, inokuba segadini okanye kwipaki engaxhaphakanga kangako.

Emva koko uvale eyakho amehlo uze unikel’ ingqalelo ekukhondweni kweentaka okanye kwivumba leentyantyambo ezikungqongileyo.

Ibandakanyiwe yomoya Ucotha ngaphakathi nangaphandle kabini ngokucothayo.

Iingcinga zakho zonke zikuwe ingoma yeentaka.

Uyayibona indlela amalungu akho aqala ukufudumala ngayo kwaye umzimba wakho uziva ukhaphukhaphu.

Esi ayisosikhokelo sokucamngca, kodwa kaninzi ukuzithathela ixesha kwanele. Khawunqumame, ucamngce kwaye uqonde oko kukulungeleyo kunye nento oyifunayo ngokwenene - hayi abanye.

Ukuzikhumbula linyathelo elibalulekileyo kwinkqubo masihambe sifunde ukuthemba.

Kuphela kuxa uzicingela ngokwakho apho okusingqongileyo kuya kuba kukukhumbula.

Ukufunda ukuthemba luphuhliso oluhlala luqhubela phambili kwaye kufuneka lulungiswe ngokutsha yonke imihla.

Uphuhliso aluqhubeki kumgca othe ngqo, kungafuneka wamkele ukubuyisela umva kwakhona.

Kodwa kusoloko kubalulekile ukuba nguwe ixesha kwiimfuno zakho kwaye uzingqonge ngabantu ababalulekileyo kuwe nabakuxabisayo.

Ukufunda ukuthemba kuthetha ukuba namava okuba awuxabisekanga ngenxa yeempumelelo zakho, kodwa ngenxa yokuba unjalo.

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