Imfihlelo Yobomi | kubomi balapha nangoku

Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoJulayi 30, 2023 ngu URoger Kaufman

Khawuziyeke uphile njengomntwana apha kwaye ngoku

"Xa bekuxelela ukuba ukhule, oko bathethayo ngokwenene kukuyeka ukukhula." - uPablo Picasso

Iingcebiso ezingama-20 zokonwaba ngakumbi | Ubomi - Imfihlelo yobomi 💁 ♀️💁 ♂️

Kukho isizathu esilishwa sokuba kutheni ulonwabo kunye nolonwabo luhlala lungekho - ubuchopho bethu abufakwanga ukwenza oko.

Endaweni yoko, ingqondo yethu yazivelela ukuze iphile, isikhusele kwaye isikhusele.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, sinemizuzu yovuyo kunye nexesha lokwaneliseka kunye unethamsanqa.

Kodwa uninzi lwethu luthwaxwa ziimeko ezingathandekiyo ezingapheliyo Iimvakalelo - sihlala sibambeka kwi "blahs".

Silufumana njani ngakumbi uvuyo lwethu impilo?

Njengayo nayiphi na enye into, ukuhlakulela ulonwabo oluhlala luhleli kufuna ukuziqhelisa.

Ngandlel’ ithile, kufuneka siwumisele ngokutsha umgangatho wethu.

Ayizukwenzeka ngobusuku, kodwa nantsi i-20 amanqaku abalulekileyoonokuthi wenze yonke imihla ukufumana amaqhinga angcono.

1. Gxininisa kwizinto ezilungileyo 🧘‍♂️

Funda ukucinga kakuhle ngamanyathelo ama-5 alula

Cinga kakuhle funda -Kule vidiyo uya kufunda ukuba unokufunda njani ukucinga okulungileyo kumanyathelo ama-5 kwaye ube nethemba.

umthombo: Anchu Kögl

Ukufumana ulonwabo oluhlala luhleli, kuya kufuneka utshintshe ingqondo yakho isuke koyingalunganga isimo sengqondo esihle Phinda uqeqeshe isimo sengqondo.

Zama la manqaku: Tyala umzuzu okanye emibini ukuze ubone iziphumo ezincumisayo kwinqaku lakho impilo ukuphumelela. Yenza oku ngamaxesha e-3 ngosuku ngeentsuku ze-45 kwaye ingqondo yakho ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuyenza ngokuzenzekelayo nayo.

Ukubheja kuyasebenza?

Khetha ingcamango engabizi kakhulu yosuku-into onokuyiphinda, njenge "heute lusuku olumangalisayo” okanye “ndiyibulela kakhulu yonke into endinayo.

Kwaye nokuba amanqaku ayalahleka, thatha umzuzwana ixeshaukuzama ukukubona ngendlela efanelekileyo nawe.

Ungaze uyithabathe lula ngokubaluleka kokuvuma icala eliqaqambileyo ebomini.

2. Ziphathe kancinci erfolg 🙌 - Imfihlelo yobomi

Ziphathe ngempumelelo yakho!

umthombo: Theresa Kaliga

das ubomi buzele Amahlandinyuka, kodwa phakathi sinoloyiso oluninzi oluncinci olungaqatshelwanga.

Thatha umzuzwana uqonde le nto incinci erfolg ukubhiyzela.

Ngaba sele uziphawule zonke izinto kuluhlu lwakho lwezinto oza kuzenza osele wazizuza?

Ngaba uye wagqiba ukucima i-imeyile eziliwaka ugcwalisa ibhokisi yakho yangaphakathi?

Zonwabele ezi encinci Iimpumelelo.

Bayakwakha!

3. Fumana umsebenzi wakho kwaye uphile ubomi obulungeleleneyo ✔️

Umsebenzi wakho uthatha inxalenye enkulu yosuku lwakho, kodwa akufanele kube yinto kuphela oyenzayo.

Kubalulekile ukujonga imisebenzi kunye namaqela anomdla ahamba ngaphaya komsebenzi wethu.

Ngaba unayo into yokuzonwabisa?

Ngaba uhlala nabahlobo abalungileyo? fumana

sithandwa wena intshukumo?

Ukudala ibhalansi yakho impilo ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuthomalalisa uxinezeleko kwaye inike amanye amathuba okuzityhila kwaye wonwabe.

4. Ziqhelise ukuba nengqiqo - kubomi balapha nangoku ✨

Ukufunda ukuqaphela: Iingcebiso ezi-5 ezilula ezingenanto yakwenza nokucamngca ☀️

ngubani Aktsamkeit edityaniswe kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla, ubona okumngqongileyo, abantu angoowabo kunye nehlabathi lakhe langaphakathi ngokucacileyo ngakumbi.

Ukucamngca yinto enye Isitshixo ekucingeni ngakumbi, kodwa hayi wonke umntu. Ngezi zintlanu Iingcebiso ziya kukunceda uqalise ubomi obunengqondo khaphukhaphu. Fumana impembelelo!

KULUNGILE UKUZONWABISA

Ziqhelise ukuba nengqiqo, ngokulola ukuqonda kwakho kunye nokugxininisa ngoku.

Inento yokwenza nokungagwebi nokwamkela indlela oziva ngayo.

Ukuziqhelanisa nokuba nengqiqo kuthetha ukubakho, ukuqonda kunye nomdla.

Ukwamkela le nto sijongene nayo kunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye kusinceda ukuba siqaphele iimeko okuzo.

Ngokusebenzisa ingqondo sinokufumana uxolo kunye nokuqinisekiswa ngaphakathi kwethu.

5. Yiba nezinto ezintsha 👌 - Imfihlelo yobomi

Fumana inguqulelo yokwenyani-Ungayenza njani into entsha | Lars Behrendt | TEDxOldenburg

I-90% yayo yonke ingeniso iphunyezwa ngeemveliso ezingezizo izinto ezintsha.

I-90% yazo zonke izinto ezintsha ezisungulwayo aziphumelelanga.

I-90% yazo zonke iinkampani ezifunayo utshintsho kwaye

I-90% yabo bonke abasebenzi isebenza kuphela ngokulawula kunye/okanye sele berhoxile ngaphakathi.

Kutheni kunzima ukwenza izinto ezintsha?

umthombo: Iintetho zeTEDx

Usenokubona iimvumi zinomsindo kwaye zidandathekile, kodwa uphando lubonisa ukuba ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiinzame zokudala kudla ngokubenza babe ngcono.

Abo basebenzisa intelekelelo yabo yokuyila kwaye bayila banomdla ngakumbi kwaye banokuziva ulonwabo oluhlala ixesha elide kunye nokuphila kakuhle.

Imisebenzi enjalo yokuvelisa izinto ezintsha inokukwenza oko Yenza, ukupeyinta, ukunxitywa kunye nokudlalwa komculo.

6. Zivumele wenze iimpazamo ❤️

Yiba nobuganga bokwenza iimpazamo! | Kutheni iimpazamo zilungile

Lolunye lolona loyiko lukhulu thina bantu sinalo imposiso ukuzibophelela!

Sifundiswa sisebancinci ukuba sohlwaywa ngeempazamo.

Akukhathaliseki nokuba kukubazali, nabahlobo okanye ngomgca obomvu ngamnye emsebenzini esikolweni.

Kwaye ngala mava kanye atshileyo.

Ininzi into edabukisayo yethu namhlanje. Kungenxa yokuba luloyiko kanye oluthi rhoqo singakwazi ukwenza izinto ebesifanele ukuba siyazenza.

Oku kusebenza kwakhona xa kuziwa kwinkululeko yethu kwiintlungu okanye nakwimpilo yethu kunye nemidlalo.

Siyoyika kakhulu ukwenza into engalunganga kangangokuba asizihluphi nakancinci ngokutshintsha indlela esitya ngayo, siqalise umthambo, okanye sizame imithambo enokunciphisa iintlungu zethu.

Iimpazamo azikho nje ukuba nkulu ngokomgaqo wichtige kuphuhliso lwethu, kodwa kwelinye lawona macandelo abalulekileyo kwezemidlalo!

Ke yonwaba ngevidiyo yanamhlanje kwaye wenze iimpazamo ezininzi kwakhona, ugqirha wakho wezemidlalo uAlex

umthombo: Ingcali yezeMidlalo

Uninzi lwethu luzabalazela imfezeko - sifuna ukuzinyanzela ukuba senze konke okusemandleni ethu.

Noko ke, ukuze waneliseke ngokupheleleyo, umele ukwamkele ukungafezeki okuba yinxalenye yobomi.

Ukubalasela akunakwenzeka, kwaye ukuzibamba thina kunye nabanye kuloo migangatho kulilize.

Ngokuqinisekileyo siya kuhlala siziva siphoxekile.

Yamkele into yokuba ubomi abufezekanga kwaye ukwamkele ukuba oku kungafezeki kuqulethe kokubini umtsalane nobuhle.

7. Yenza into oyithandayo 😂 - Imfihlelo yobomi

Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala wonwabile xa udelela injongo yakho.

Sukuphulukana neyona minyaka ilungileyo yobomi bakho kumsebenzi ongenaluvuyo, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuhlawula amatyala.

Ucinga ngantoni?

Uchulumancile ngantoni?

Gxininisa ekwakheni umsebenzi kwindawo ekukhuthazayo kwaye ikubonelela ngenqanaba eliphezulu lokwaneliseka, kwaye ulonwabo lwakho luya kwanda kakhulu.

8. Yisebenzise imali ngengqiqo 💰 - Imfihlelo yobomi

Kuyahenda ukucinga ukuba okukhona unemali eninzi, kokukhona ungcono.

Die iqiniso Nangona kunjalo, okubalulekileyo kukuba indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo imali yakho ikwenza uzive ungcono.

Iqhinga kukwenza ngokufanelekileyo.

chitha imali kumava zokuhamba, ukutya, imiboniso, njl.-kunokusenza sonwabe ngakumbi kuba sisabelana nabanye ngala mava.

Noko ke, ulonwabo olunxulumene nokuba nezinto luyayitshintsha ibala.

9. Hlala apha ngoku 💕💕💕

zethu Izimvo kunye neemvakalelo zidla ngokujikeleza kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye ikamva.

Inyani yile nto ujongene nayo ngalo mzuzu; into ojongene nayo namhlanje.

Kwezinye iimeko sifuna ukuyibaleka loo nyaniso.

Kodwa ukuba sihlala apha kwaye ngoku, sixakeke ngokupheleleyo ngobomi bethu.

Xa uzibophelele ngokuhlala apha kwaye ngoku, uya kufumana ukuthandwa okunzulu kakhulu kwakho impilo nayo.

10. Hlakulela umbulelo 🙏

Amanqanaba amathathu okubulela

Ukuba uvula intliziyo yakho nengqondo yakho kwisimo sengqondo sokubulela, uya kutsala izinto ezininzi ezintle ebomini bakho, kuba umbulelo usebenza njengemagnetism.

Ndohlula amanqanaba amathathu ombulelo:

1. Umbulelo ngazo zonke izipho ezincinci nezinkulu esizifumana mihla le impilo fumana njengesipho

2. Ukubonga kwangaphambili umz. ekuqaleni kosuku okanye unyaka omtsha kwisimo sengqondo ithembaukuba izipho ezininzi zilinde wena

3. Umbulelo nangawona mava angathandekiyo, abuhlungu ngokuqaphela ukuba kukho isipho esongelweyo kuyo yonke into.

umthombo: I-BETZ MOVES – Robert Betz

Ukufumanisa kuthetha wonke umntu tag hlakulela umbulelo.

Xa uxabisa yonke into onayo kwaye unombulelo, niba nobabini ndonwabe ngakumbi ngokunjalo nezinto ezininzi.

Ukubonga kukwaziwa okuvuyisayo, yiyo loo nto wonwabe ngakumbi ebomini impilo baye baba

Ezi zipho zinokuba yinto ebonakalayo okanye engabonakaliyo.

Ukuba yonke imihla chitha ixesha kunye nayo, ukuqonda konke okulungileyo ebomini, uya kufumanisa ukuba kuninzi kunokuba ucinga kwaye uya kufumanisa ukuba ukuphelelwa lithemba, uxinzelelo, ukuxhalaba kunye nokudandatheka kuya kuncipha.

11. Nikela, ubuyisele into

Ngaba uyayazi intsomi? Isithi: Umlimi uya kuvuna kanye loo nto ayihlwayeleyo.

Yiba nesisa ngexesha kunye nemali yakho.

Nika abanye abasweleyo.

Yenza kufumaneke kwabo bakuthandayo, ubakhathalele nabo.

Abo bahlawulayo banengqiqo yokuthanda abanye kunye nobuntu.

Abo bachitha imali eninzi kwabanye badla ngokuba sempilweni, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ukunikela kunempembelelo ebandayo ethoba uxinzelelo lwegazi kunye noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.

12. Zothuse ngento entsha 😂

Kunzima wena ukuziva wonwabilexa udikiwe okanye uziva ngenene blah blah blah malunga nobomi.

Inxalenye yokuziva wonwabile kukuziva unamandla, unomdla, kunye nokuba ndindisholo okuncinci ngobomi.

Ngoko wothuse ngokubeka iinjongo ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela.

Zibeke kwiimeko ezintsha kraca okanye obungazilindelanga.

Zibekele usukelo lwakho lokulufikelela. Kwaye khumbula ukonwabela ukukhwela nawe!

13. Mamela umculo kwaye uzibandakanye nawo 🎼

Ukumamela umculo kuyasihlaziya.

Ngokwenene siziva sibhetele, ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yokunikela ingqalelo iingoma kubangela ukuba ingqondo yethu ikhuphe i-dopamine, i-neurochemical ehambelana nolonwabo kunye nokuvuselela.

Abo bajongana nabo Musik exakeke umdaniso okanye iikonsathi ingxelo iqondo eliphezulu lolonwabo kunye nempilo.

14. Yiba nguwe 🤟

Yiba ngokwakho - iingcebiso ezi-5 zokuba yinyani!

Ukwazi njani ukuba nguwe ngokwenene? Nazi iingcebiso ezi-5 zokuthi ngokuthe ngcembe ube yinyani ngakumbi! ► ► Ufuna eyakho Ubuwena Nyusa? Phuhlisa owomeleleyo MNA: http://gluecksdetektiv.de/starkesich/yt

umthombo: unethamsanqa umcuphi

Enye yezona zinto zingcono onokuthi uzenze ukuphucula ulonwabo lwakho kukuba wedwa.

Oku kuthetha ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba uxhomekeke ekuvunyweni kwabanye, kodwa uvumelane nawe ukuba ungubani na.

Chitha ixesha elide ukuze uzazi.

yintoni ekwenza ube special

Uthembele ngantoni?

Ungubani phantsi kwayo yonke lento?

Fumana iindlela zokukhululeka eluswini lwakho.

15. Phuhlisa ubuhlobo obujolise kwixesha elizayo 🤝

Ubenza njani Abahlobo-iAudiyobook-Iyavakala

Ulonwabo, uthando, ubuhlobo kunye nommelwane zikunye.

njengoko abantu sinesidingo esisisiseko sokunxibelelana kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye.

Ngokuqhelekileyo sijonga abantu bethu - abantu abasixhasayo, abasiqondayo kwaye bakhwele i-rollercoaster ye Iilebhile zikho ngenxa yethu.

Ngaphandle konxibelelwano olunenjongo, sinesithukuthezi kwaye sikwahlukanisiwe.

sind glucklichyena xa sisonwaba nabanye.

16. Akukho nto ifana nawe 🌠

Yeka ukuzithelekisa nabo bonke abakungqongileyo.

Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, yeka ukuthelekisa amanqaku akho nento wonke umntu anayo.

Iintanethi zoluntu zisasaza indlela yokusenza sizive ngathi wonke umntu ungcono kunathi.

Kukangaphi uziva ungalunganga ngelixa uskrola kwiindaba zabo?

Ukuvumela kwe umona kunye nokucaphuka ngokuzinza kusenza singakuxabisi oko sinako.

17. Yeka ukucinezela 💦💦💦

Xa uhlala uxakeke ngayo yonke into, uloyiko oluyingozi luvela apho ingqondo yakho ijikeleza kwi-negative ngokusebenzisa kungene.

ISorgen thwalisa ingqondo yakho kwaye ukoyike. Uzikhathaza ngemibandela osoloko ungenako ukuyilawula.

Kwezinye iimeko, ingqondo yethu icinga ukuba ukuba sizikhathaza ngokwaneleyo, sinokuzithintela iingongoma ezimbi ukuba zingenzeki.

Noko ke, inyaniso ikukuba akufumani luvuyo okanye ulwaneliseko erfahren unako xa utyiwa lixhala.

18. Nxulumanisa abantu abonwabileyo 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️

Ngaba wakha wadibana nomntu olahlekileyo zoqhagamshelwano wakhatywa kwaye wamangaliswa?

Oku kungenxa yokuba iimeko zengqondo zinokudluliselwa.

Kuyavela ukuba iimvakalelo ziyahluka kumntu nomntu Winde inokususwa.

Okukhona sisabelana ngamava, kokukhona sinxibelelana ngakumbi iimvakalelo kunye nezenzo zethu.

Iqhinga kulonwabo lwexesha elide kukufikelela kwabanye imidaabo bonwabileyo ngakumbi.

Related: Kutheni abantu aba-5 abakujikelezile wichtige zezempumelelo yakho.

19. Ukuxhoma kwindalo 🍃🍃🍃

Abanye abaphandi bakholelwa ukuba isizukulwana sanamhlanje esinentambo zombane ngenene sinengxaki yokusilela kwendalo.

Ngapha koko, uphando lubonise ukuba okukhona sityala ixesha elininzi kwindalo kwaye okukhona sinxibelelana nendawo esingqongileyo, kokukhona siziva sivuya ngakumbi.

Uqhagamshelwano lwethu uhlobo ukongeza igalelo kugcino lwentlalontle ngokwasengqondweni.

20. Khumbula iinkumbulo ezonwabileyo - Imfihlo yoBomi 👪🌻

Kutheni sonwabela onke amachaphaza kwiretro?

Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba i-nostalgia iyasivuyisa.

Iimvakalelo ezingapheliyo okanye izikhumbuzo zexesha lethu elidlulileyo zinokusinceda siphinde sihlangane neemvakalelo zothando kunye nemvakalelo yokumangala kunye nokwaneliseka ngokunjalo.

Ixesha lethu elidlulileyo liyasibumba kwaye likwachaza ukuchongwa kwethu.

Xa sicinga ngamaxesha amnandi kunye neenkumbulo ezimnandi, sinokwenza ezethu HIVqinisa kukuzijonga kwaye siziva sisondele ngokwenene kwabanye abantu.

Iintetho zonwabele ubomi-Phila apha kwaye ngoku

Ubomi buyamangalisa, ungachithi eli xesha lihle, lixabise yonke imizuzu yobomi.

Musa ukutyala ubomi bakho bonke ngaphandle kokuyonwabela

Awuyiqondi into ezayo, ngoko wonwabele okwangoku kwaye uxabise yonke imizuzu yobomi.

Ebomini yonke iminithi izele luvuyo olufuna ukubonwa, ke, ukuhlala apha kwaye ngoku.

“Yonwabela yonke imizuzu yobomi, kuba aniqondi ukuba kuza kwenzeka ntoni ngomso” -Ayaziwa

“Imfihlelo yobomi ikukuxabisa ukuhamba kwexesha.” -UJames Taylor

"Ngaphezulu kunokonwaba njengoko unobomi obumangalisayo ke phila ukuze wonke umntu akukhumbule xa ungekho" -Ayaziwa

“Kubo bonke ubomi, yonwaba kwaye ugigitheke. Ubomi benzelwe ukuba sinanditshwe, kungekhona nje ukunyamezela.” - UGordon B. Hinckley

der intsingiselo yobomi kukuphila ngokuvisisana nayo, ukonwabela amava kangangoko, ukufuna ngolangazelelo yaye ngaphandle kwamaxhala amava amatsha natyebileyo.” - Eleanor Roosevelt

“Yehlisa isantya uze unandiphe ubomi. Ayisiyondawo osingqongileyo ophulukene nayo xa uhamba ngokukhawuleza - uphinda uphoswe kukuqonda apho uya khona kwaye kutheni. " – UEddie Cantor

“Dlala nje. Yonwaba. wonwabele umdlalo.” - Michael Jordan

"Awuqondi ukuba kuza kwenzeka ntoni emva koko, ungakhathazeki ngokungafanelekanga" -Ayaziwa

"Ulonwabo lukhetho, isenzo esimele siphindwe." – Akilnathan Logeswaran

Imfihlelo yebali lokwenene lobomi

Kudala kwilali encinci ecaleni kweentaba kude nempucuko yanamhlanje mdala indoda egama linguFrederick. Nangona wayephila ngokuthozama kakhulu, wayehlala onwabile, elula, kwaye ebonakalisa isimo sengqondo esingagungqiyo esasichukumisa wonke umntu odibana naye.
Abahlali baloo lali babedla ngokubhideka yindlela uFriedrich awayenokonwaba ngayo phezu kwazo nje iimeko ezinzima zokuphila nobulolo. Babesoloko bembuza imfihlelo yokuthanda kwakhe ubomi, kodwa wayevele ancume aze awangawangisa isandla sakhe. Kodwa kwakukho intombazana eselula egama linguEmma eyayinomdla ngokukhethekileyo. Wayezimisele ukufumanisa imfihlelo kaFriedrich.
Ngenye imini uEmma wazoyisa iintloni zakhe waza wagqiba kwelokuba atyelele uFriedrich. Wathi akufika wamfumana egadini yakhe enkcenkceshela iintyatyambo zakhe. “Friedrich,” waqala, “ndiyawathanda amathamsanqa kunye nokulungelelana kwakho. Ndicela undixelele imfihlo yakho?"
UFriedrich wamjonga ngamehlo akhe afudumeleyo, obulumko kwaye wancuma. “Hamba nam,” watsho, emkhokelela kumthi omkhulu wom-oki owawume embindini wegadi yakhe. “Uyawubona laa mthi wom-oki, Emma? ngu ngaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka ubudala. Unezaqhwithi, imbalela kunye nobunzima Busika wasinda. Womelele kuba umiliselwe ngokunzulu yaye wahlukile elangeni nakwilanga imvula kondliwa.
“Kunjalo, kodwa idibana njani novuyo lwakho?” wabuza uEmma ebhidekile.
UFriedrich waphinda wancuma. Ithamsanqa lam, wethu Uthando", wathi, “ifana nalo m-oki. Imiliselwe kum. Ayiveli kwizinto endinazo okanye endingenazo. Iphuma kuthando nombulelo endiwuvayo ngobomi. Ivela ekukwazini kwam ukuxabisa yonke imzuzu, elungileyo okanye embi. Ivela ekukulungeleni kwam ukwamkela kunye nokuthanda abanye oko bakuko. Ivela ekuzimiseni kwam ukuqhubeka ndiphakama kungakhathaliseki ukuba ndiwa kangaphi na. Yimfihlo yam leyo.
UEmma wamjonga emangalisiwe waza wajonga kumthi wom-oki. Ngaloo mzuzu waqonda ukuba ulonwabo lokwenene aluxhomekeke kwiimeko zangaphandle, kodwa kwisimo sengqondo sangaphakathi. Uye wambulela uFriedrich ngeyakhe ubulumko kwaye wayishiya igadi yakhe enokuqonda okutsha kunye noncumo ebusweni bakhe.
Kwaye ke uFriedrich waqhubeka ehlala kwindlu yakhe ethobekileyo ngaphandle kwelali, esonwabile kwaye anelisekile. Kwaye nangona engazange azityhile iimfihlelo zentliziyo yakhe, wonke umntu owayemazi wayenokuthabatha uvuyo lwakhe kunye nokuzola kunye nabo.
eyenyani imbali kaFriedrich kunye nemfihlo yakhe yasasazeka ngaphaya kwelali, ikhumbuza wonke umntu oyivayo ukuba imfihlelo yobomi obonwabileyo ilele ngaphakathi kwethu ngamnye.

-Ayaziwa