Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoMatshi 26, 2023 ngu URoger Kaufman
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"Kutheni umtshato okanye amalungu osapho ebaluleke kakhulu ebantwini kunomsebenzi, ndiyakholelwa, kungenxa yokuba banikezela ngohlobo lobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukuzaliseka kunye nokupheleliswa kobuqu ekungekho nto yimbi inokukunika." - Dale Carnegie
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Umfundi (osuka Dale Carnegie) wakha wabalisa ngendlela umfazi wakhe, owayesebenza neqela lamanye amabhinqa kwinkqubo yokuziphucula, wamcela ukuba achaze izinto ezintandathu angathanda ukuzitshintsha ngaye ukuze abe liqabane lobomi obulunge ngakumbi kwixesha elizayo.
“Isicelo sakho sindothusile,” yatsho le ndoda.
Xa ndithetha inyani, bekungayi kuba nzima kum ukudwelisa izinto ezintandathu endizithande ngokwahlukileyo ngaye - kodwa, ukulunga, ebenokugxeka izinto eziliwaka ngam.
Khange ndithethe ndabuza qha mandiyicingisise, impendulo ndizokunika ngomso.
Ngosuku olulandelayo ndavuka kwangethuba, ndaya kumthengisi weentyatyambo ndamcela ukuba athumele umfazi wam iirozi ezintandathu.
Ndabeka ikhadi kuyo: “Andikwazi ukucinga ngezinto ezintandathu endifuna ukuzibona ngokwahlukileyo ngawe. I liebe wena njengoko unjalo.
Bendilindelwe ngubani emnyango xa ndibuya ngorhatya? Likhona: mfazi wam.
Uphantse wagcwala iinyembezi emehlweni akhe amehlo. Akufuneki ukuba ndithethe ngendlela enethamsanqa ngayo kuba andizange ndimgxeke ngendlela awayenqwenela ngayo.
Am NgeCawe elandelayo emva kwecawa kwavela imibuzo eliqela, ababefunda isifundo esifanayo nababesele bendixelele ngoku ngempendulo yam, beza kum baza bandicacisela:
Leyo yayiyeyona nto yobuchule sakha siyiva.
Lo mzekelo undenze ndabona amandla okuqondwa.
Uyabona: kuhlala kukho iindlela ezingaphezu kwenye kwaye kufuneka sithathe isigqibo kwimeko nganye ukuba yeyiphi esifuna ukuyithatha: yonke imihla, ngeyure, ngomzuzu ngamnye ....
Vera F. Birkenbihl ecatshulwe kwincwadi ethi How to Win Friends ebhalwe nguDale Carnegie
Abaninzi baseka abaphumeleleyo abantu eneneni baye babonisa ukuba ngoxa isoloko ingumzabalazo othe gqolo phakathi komsebenzi nosapho, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kusoloko bekhetha okanye bexabisa amalungu entsapho amaninzi ngakumbi.
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“Asiyonto onayo okanye umntu oyiyo okanye indawo ukuyo okanye into oyenzayo ekwenza wonwabe okanye ungonwabi. Yiloo nto ucinga ngayo." - Dale Carnegie
“Ukuqhawuka komtshato kudla ngokuba nezizathu ezine. – 1. Ukungangqinelani ngokwesini. - 2. Ukungavisisani malunga neendlela zokutyala ixesha lokuzonwabisa. – 3. Iingxaki zemali. – 4. Iingxaki zengqondo, ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokweemvakalelo. ” - Dale Carnegie
"Ungawufumana umsebenzi ogqwesileyo, kodwa ukuba uphulukene neqabane lakho, loo msebenzi unokungabonakali ugqibelele ukuya phambili." - Dale Carnegie
“Awukwazi ukuphumelela ukungavisisani. Awunako, kuba ukuba uthe wamlahla, ulahlekelwa nguye; kwaye ukuba uyawaphumelela, uya kuphulukana nawo." - Dale Carnegie
“Nasiphi na isidenge sinokubetha, sikhalaze, sigwebe—kwaye uninzi lweziyatha luyakwenza oko. Kodwa kufuneka ubuntu kunye nokuzeyisa ukuqaphela nokuxolela. " - Dale Carnegie
Musani ukubathandabuza abo banibethayo; Yoyika abahlobo abasenyongweni abakucengayo. - Dale Carnegie
“Phucula impumelelo iimpazamo. Ukudimazeka kunye nokusilela zimbini zezona ndlela ziqinisekileyo zokukhokelela empumelelweni Impumelelo." - Dale Carnegie
“Ungangena iinyanga ezimbini ngaphezulu abahlobo ngokucinga ngabantu abahlukeneyo kunokuba uza kwenza kwiminyaka emibini, ngokuzama ukwenza abanye abantu bacinge ngawe." - Dale Carnegie
“Impumelelo yinto oyenzayo nqwenela. Uvuyo lufuna into oyifumanayo. ” - Dale Carnegie
“Wonke umntu kwihlabathi liphela ujonge ulonwabo – kwaye kukho indlela ethile yokulufumana. Lo ngummiselo wemibono yakho. Ulonwabo aluxhomekekanga kwiingxaki zangaphandle. Kuxhomekeke kwiingxaki zangaphakathi. - Dale Carnegie
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Indlela Yokwenza Abahlobo kwaye Uphembelele Abantu Nayo yincwadi yokuzinceda ebhalwe nguDale Carnegie eyapapashwa ngo-1936. Zingaphezu kwezigidi ezingama-30 iikopi ezithengisiweyo kwihlabathi liphela, iyenza ibe yenye yezona zinto zikhutshwayo ezidumileyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
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