Iindlela ezisi-7 zokungazikhathazi ngento ekholelwa ngabanye

Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoMeyi 19, 2022 ngu URoger Kaufman

Ophumeleleyo isikweko malunga namaxhala kunye neengxaki - Ibali elivela eIndiya

Kudala kwakukho indala, eyomeleleyo elalini imithi. Ngenye imini bonke abantu belali bamenywa ukuba baxhome amaxhala, iingxaki kunye neemfuno zabo zisongelwe kakuhle kulo mthi.

Imeko, nangona kunjalo, yayikukuhamba nenye ipasile. Ekhaya, iipakethe ezingaqhelekanga zavulwa. Kodwa kwanwenwa ukuqhiphuka umbilini; ISorgen yaye iingxaki zabanye zazibonakala zinkulu ngakumbi kunezakhe! Kwaye ngoko bonke bebaleka bebuyela kuye Ilungile Baum kwaye ngokukhawuleza bathatha iipakethe zabo endaweni yezingaqhelekanga kwaye bagoduka benelisekile. -Ayaziwa

Iindlela ezisi-7 zokuyeka ukuzikhathaza ngento eyenziwa ngabanye kholwa

Ngaba usoloko uzikhathaza ngendlela abanye abantu abacinga ngayo ngawe?

Ngaba unexhala lokuba abantu baya kukugweba noko ukwenzayo?

Ukuba kunjalo, unendlela eninzi kakhulu istres, njengabaninzi bethu.

Kunokuba nzima ukuyeka ukukhathalela oko abanye bakucingayo nokuba ungakhathali.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye izinto onokuzenza ukuze kube lula kuwe.

Kuluntu lwanamhlanje kulula kakhulu ukuba nexhala malunga nokuba ungakhangeleka njani okanye yintoni na ezinye malunga cinga wena.

Usenokungayiqondi into yokuba uzikhathaza kakhulu.

Yiyo loo nto ndidale ezinye izalathisi onokuzisebenzisa ukujonga ukuba uyavumelana naso nasiphi na kwezi zalathi.

Emva koko, ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kuthetha malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukukhathazeka kunye nayo iqala uku leben.

Imiqondiso kukuba ucinga kakhulu malunga nokuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni

Kukho ezinye iimpawu ezinokukuxelela ukuba unexhala kakhulu.

Nazi ezinye izalathisi:

• Du uyenzile ukwesaba ukubanga into oyikholelwayo ngenene oyikholelwayo;
• Ndihlala ndicinga ukuba abantu bandifuna;
• Wenza izinto ongafuni ukuzenza uze uzisole;
• Es ufumanisa kunzimaukwenza enye into, kwaye usenokoyika ukuyenza.
• Ukuphepha ngamandla abantu abathile, ngokubanzi kuba usoyika ukuba abakuthandi ngenene;
• Wenza oko abanye bakucela ukuba ukwenze kwaye oko nawe ukufumanisa kunzima, Ukwenza izigqibo.

Ungayeka njani ukuzikhathaza ngento ecingwa ngabanye abantu

Kuba wena zizalathi ezigqithisileyo Ukucaphukisa Qaphela, kufuneka ujonge iindlela onokuyeka ngazo ukucinezela abanye kwaye uqale ukuphila ubomi bakho kangangoko.

Ngaba ufuna iskimu samandla esibi kwindawo yakho impilo ukunciphisa?

1. Cinga ukuba kutheni kunjalo?

Isizathu sifumanisa ukuba rhoqo ukucaphukisa, ixhomekeke kwimilinganiselo yethu yentlalo.

Kule mihla ixesha ngokuqhelekileyo sixelelwa ukuba kufuneka sinxibe ngendlela ethile.

Kuyathandwa ukucinga ukuba nantoni na evela kwi "Ngokwesiqhelo"Iyahluka, yahluke kakhulu.

Kulapho sinokuqala khona ukuzikhathaza kakhulu kwaye sizixhalabise ngokugwetywa ngabanye.

Zama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni oku kunjalo kwaye ube nomdla kwinto elungiselelwe wena wichtige yi. Ukuze uqalise ukuqonda ezi patheni.

Yazi ukuba ayilotyala lakho okanye kukho into engalunganga ngawe.

Luluntu esikhulele kulo olunegalelo elikhulu kwinkxalabo malunga nokungafunwa okanye isigwebo sethu.

Ukuba uqala ukuyiqonda le nto, kunokuba lula ukuyamkela kwaye uzithande ngale ndlela ufuna ukubayiyo.

2. Gxininisa ekubeni kwi Apha kwaye ngoku ukuhlala

Xa uhlala okwangoku, kunokuba lula kakhulu ukuyeka uxinzelelo kwaye ugxininise kwinto eyenzekayo.

Kunokuba ndicinge ukuba ndifana nale lokhwe, ndicinga ukuba ndikhangeleka ndimhle ngale ndlela ndiyiyo.

Ndicinga ukuba ndikhangeleka ndinomtsalane kuyo.

Awuyi kugxila kwinto enokwenzeka, yintoni na Winde unokucinga.

Zama ukugxila kuyo kwaye uzamkele ukuba ungubani.

Zama ukuba ungagxininisi kwi "stampu" kunye "yintoni" ye ikamva uxakeke kakhulu.

Oku kunokwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuyeka ukuzikhathaza ngomntu ovavanyayo.

3 Ukwazi ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abagwebi

ngexesha lethu Iilebhile sigxile kuthi amaxesha amaninzi.

Oku kudla ngokufana kuye wonke umntu, kuquka nabo ucinga ukuba bayakugweba.

Zama ukuqonda ukuba wonke umntu indoda unobomi bakhe kunye nezinto ajongene nazo.

Njengoko uphuma, unokuba nexhala lokuba abantu banokukugweba ngokwendlela onxiba ngayo okanye indlela oziphethe ngayo.

Nangona kunjalo, uya kumangaliswa xa usiva ukuba uninzi lwethu ngokuqinisekileyo lucinga into enye.

Ubukhulu becala, akakho umntu oyaziyo into anxiba okanye ayenzayo omnye umntu.

Nje ukuba uqaphele ukuba abaninzi abantu Xa unokungaqiniseki kwakho kunye nobhaka wakho, kunokuba nzima ukuba ungakhathazeki kakhulu malunga nokuba abantu bakholelwa ntoni.

4. Ziqhelise ukuzithanda kunye nokuqatshelwa

Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka sizikhumbule xa sithetha kakhulu malunga nexhala kukuba uzibeka kuqala lieben kufuneka.

Khupha kwaye uyeke uhambe kwaye uzilolonge ngokwakho ukuze utyhile amampunge.

Oku kungadlula ukucamngca yenzeke, idle ngokusempilweni, ihlale kunye nendalo, njl.

Nantoni na ekuzisela uvuyo inokusebenza, yizame nje kwaye ubonise amampunge ngokwakho.

Oku kungathatha ixesha wakufumanisa ukuba nguwe uthando kwaye uzazi ukuba ungubani na.

Awudingi mvume nakwabanye abantu, kulungile?

5. Fumana umtsalane wakho - yenza isiphithiphithi

Xa uphakathi kwabantu, bonisa umtsalane wakho njengoko uziva unethemba ngokwenene ngabo.

Oku kunokukunceda ngokwenene kuhambo lwakho lokuzamkela.

6. Qonda ukuba akunako ukukholisa wonke umntu.

Mhlawumbi sele uqonda intetho ethi, "Kungcono ukuthandwa ngabantu abambalwa abakuxabisayo kunokuba uthandwe ngumntu wonke."

Kufuneka wazi ukuba awukwazi ukukholisa wonke umntu, akunakwenzeka.

Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakho abantu abaya kuhlala bekugweba kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenza ntoni na, yindlela nje abayiyo.

Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, abantu obakhathaleleyo kusenokwenzeka ukuba abayi kukugweba.

kwanabo banigwebayo. Spielen eneneni ayinamsebenzi.

Ukuba u iqiniso Ukuba uyavuma ukuba awukwazi ukukholisa wonke umntu, ungaqala ukuwavuma kwaye usebenze ekungabangeli uxinzelelo olungako.

7. Khumbula ukuba ubomi bufutshane kakhulu - ixhala

Xa yonke loo nto iphelela apho, ubomi bufutshane kakhulu.

Kunzima ukuyiqwalasela ngenene, kodwa unobomi obunye kuphela.

Ngoko kutheni ukumosha ngokuzikhathaza ngabanye?

Bubomi bakho obu, ukuphila ngendlela ofuna ngayo wenze oko ubuzimisele ukukwenza.

Gxila kwinkulu yakho okanye encinci iinjongo.

Sebenzela ukuziphumeza, nokuba zibonakala zoyikeka okanye ucatshukiswa yinto ethethwa ngabantu, yiba neenjongo zakho.

Kwakhona, kufuneka uzame kwaye uthathe isigqibo malunga nento oyifunayo kwi impilo funa. Musa ukukutyeshela oko abanye bafuna kuwe.

Uya kuhlala unoloyiko, kodwa eyona nto ixhalabisayo kukungabavumeli ukuba balawule kwaye bakuthintele ekwenzeni izinto ozithandayo.

Nje ukuba uqalise, uya kufumanisa ukuba nguwe wedwa olawulayo malunga nobomi bakho ungxamile.

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