Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoFebruwari 25, 2023 ngu URoger Kaufman
Imfihlo-Yintoni Uthando Olungenamiqathango?
Uthando olungenamiqathango ikhululekile kwiimeko okanye kwizinto ezilindelekileyo.
Luthando olunikwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ngaphandle kokulindela ukubuyiswa okanye ukubuyiselwa.
Olu thando lwamkela omnye njengoko lunjalo, ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukugxekwa, kwaye lubanika uthando, inkathalo, nengqalelo.
Womelele, akashukumi kwaye unokuma naphantsi kwamaxesha anzima. Uthando olungenamiqathango luhlobo lothando olunzulu, olunyanisekileyo nolunyanisekileyo oluzisa uxolo, ulonwabo nokwaneliseka kwaye lomeleza kwaye lutyebisa ubudlelwane bethu kwinqanaba elinzulu.
Umlingo wothando olungagungqiyo: Butyebisa njani ubomi bethu
Ku ngokusebenzisa umsa omnye komnye, ukuxabisa nokwamkelana kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kubudlelwane obugqibeleleyo.
Kodwa ngakumbi iifilimu, iincwadi kunye nochungechunge lwezothando zoba umfanekiso owahluke ngokupheleleyo we uthando.
Kwamanye ala mabali, i uthando olungenamiqathango iboniswe njengento efanelekileyo yothando.
Ezi filimu zithatha uthando lothando olugcwele uthando kunye nokuqonda.
Ubuncinci yimeko apho bonke abathandi bafikelele ngesiphelo esimnandi ekupheleni kwefilimu.
“Uthando lunzima xa kukho uthando. Kuba akukho mntu ufezekileyo, kuhlala kukho umntu ofezekileyo kuwe. " - Bob Marley
Abanye abazukiswanga kangako amabali othando cinematic bonisa icala eliphantsi lothando olungagungqiyo olungasekelwanga kukubuyisana.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, umbuzo uvela malunga nokuba yintoni uthando olungenammiselo kunye nokuba ngaba ngokwenene kuya kunqweneleka ukuthandana ngokungenamiqathango.
Kunoko, zabeka isohlwayo okanye zabeka iimvavanyo ukuze abantu baphumelele.
Nangona kunjalo, aba thixo babangela ukuba abantu bacinge ngehlabathi labo kwaye ngaloo ndlela nangombuzo wokuba yintoni Uthando lukho kwaye nokuba alunamiqathango na ingayi.
Uthando olungenamiqathango imele ibe ngaphezu kothando nje oluphakathi kwabantu ababini.
Kuya kutshintsha nini oku? uthando, ukuze umntu athethe ngothando?
Kwaye ukuba kukho iimeko apho uthando kufuneka luhlangane, lunokubakho uthando olungenamiqathango ukunika konke?
Uthando njengemeko efanelekileyo
umqolomba ngokusebenzisa ekuthobeleni okungenamiqathango, i occidental okanye Imfundiso yobuKristu ayifanelekanga nangayiphi na indlela.
Kukwakho nentlaninge yemithetho eseBhayibhileni emele izaliseke.
Eyona eyaziwayo ithi uthando kunye ne ukuzithanda ukulingana.
Ukuba uhlengahlengisa lo mgaqo, ayithethi nto ngakumbi ukuba uthando kunye ukuzithanda kufuneka avuke kwaye awe.
Ukuba lo mgaqo wawuzalisekisiwe, imfundiso yeBhayibhile yayinokwenzeka abantu bonwabile kwaye sihlale kunye ngaphandle kwentlungu.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, lo mgaqo ukhangeleka njengemeko. Kwaye le mbonakalo ayikhohlisi.
Nangona kunjalo, ezi ayizizo iimeko ukuba uthando yenziwe, kodwa iyimfuneko nje ekufuneka ivumele abantu ukuba bahlale ngolonwabo kunye.
Uthando alukho phantsi kweemeko apha, kodwa lujongwa njengemfuneko esisiseko okanye isibakala esinikiweyo.
Kodwa oko akumenzi angabi namiqathango, abe mnye kuphela yendalo kunye nesiganeko esingenakuthintelwa.
Iimbono eziphikisanayo
Nangona ubuKristu ekuqaleni babulungile ngokumangalisayo ekuchazeni uthando olungenamiqathango enikelwe, uyaziphazamisa, apho naye ezama ukuchaza uthando.
Owona mzekelo waziwa kakhulu yincwadi yokuqala kaPawulos eya kwabaseKorinte. Kwisahluko 4 ivesi 13 uchaza uthando ngolu hlobo:
Die uthando Uzeka kade umsindo, unobubele, akanamona, akaqhubi uburheletya. Alizikhukhumali, aliziphathi kakubi, alizifuneli okwalo, alicaphuki, alibugxeki ububi, alivuyeli kungalungisi, kodwa liyavuya. yona iqiniso.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ezi nzame zisebenza njengengcaciso yengcamango yothando.
Kodwa iinkcazo zikwadala iimeko okanye izinto ezifunekayo ekufuneka kuhlangatyezwane nazo. Ngenxa yoko, umKristu uyaphulukana Thanda uphawu lokungabi namiqathango.
Uthando lukaThixo olungagungqiyo?
Eyona njongo iphambili yento esele ikhankanyiwe nefunekayo intobelo engagungqiyo sisithembiso sothando lukaThixo olungagungqiyo oluya kwenzeka.
Kodwa ingakanani impembelelo yesi sithembiso?
Ngaba uthando lukathixo lunokungabi namiqathango xa ukwaphulwa kwemithetho kujongene nesohlwayo okanye umgwebo?
Kwakhona, ngaba intlungu kaYesu Kristu ibingayi kuba yimfuneko ngokupheleleyo ukuba umsa woThixo usomandla ubunikelwa ngokungenamiqathango?
Luyintoni uthando olungagungqiyo ukuba umntu kufuneka afe ngaphambi kokuba axolelwe?
Yonke le mibuzo inika umbono wokuba ubabalo lukaThixo ongumKristu aluzi ngaphandle kwemiqathango.
Kwakhona, kuya kubakho abathile abangayikholelwayo ingcamango yokuthanda uThixo, ekubeni nabo bengakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo.
Ngoko ke, uthando olusekelwe kwimilinganiselo yonqulo alunakuba sisisombululo.
Indlela entsha yothando olungagungqiyo
Emva kokuba inxalenye yokuqala yesicatshulwa sijongane neengcamango zonqulo zothando kubuKristu, umntu kufuneka abuze umbuzo ukuba yintoni uthando olungenammiselo? imbono eyahlukileyo qwalasela.
Kwelinye icala, umbuzo ophakamayo kukuba yakha yabakho kusini na kodwa nabanye umbuzoingaba ingaze ibekho, umbuzo wokugqibela mhlawumbi awubalulekanga ukuba impendulo kumbuzo wokuqala ibilungile.
Ekuqaleni koluntu, kuyathandabuzeka kakhulu ukuba uthando lwakha lwabakho okanye lwalungenamiqathango.
Ubudlelwane mhlawumbi bekulula ukwakha kuba bebungakhelwanga kumsa, ulwamkelo, okanye ulonwabo.
Kunoko, yayingakumbi ngokuqhubeka kobukho bezilwanyana.Le yayinye kuphela, kodwa kwangaxeshanye yayiyeyona meko ibalulekileyo kookhokho bethu, kungoko umbuzo wothando olungagungqiyo kubo. ixesha alubalulekanga ngokubanzi.
Olunye uhlobo lothando olunokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo lusasazeke kungaqondanga yayikukuzithanda. Ekubeni ezi kodwa kunye eliphezulu ukuzibona inxibelelene, nokuzithanda akunamiqathango.
Umfanekiso wothando wamandulo kutheni umntu efuna uthando
Kumaxesha amandulo, kungekhona kuphela iinkolo zokuqala kunye neendlela zokwakha, abantu baqala ukucinga ngehlabathi. Oothixo belo xesha babengathandi kwaphela.
der IGedankeukuba kukho uthando lwahlala lungenakuphikiswa. Kodwa kwaphakama umbuzo wokuba kwakutheni ukuze abantu bamkhangele.
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ifumaneka koko kubizwa ngokuba yintsomi yabantu abangqukuva. Abantu besphere babengazalani nabantu ababephila ngelo xesha.
Babenefiziognomy yabo eyayingafani neyabantu.
Kodwa inye into ephawulekayo: ekuqaleni babesoloko bebonakala ngababini. Zaziquka iziqingatha ezibini ezihambelanayo nezigqibelelisa enye kwenye.
Kodwa ngexesha elithile aba bantu bebhola benza, ngokuziphatha kwabo, uyise wezithixo Zeus umsindo wakhe, ngokokude abohlwaye.
Wahlula abantu be-sphere omnye komnye kwaye waqinisekisa ukuba abazukufumanana kwakhona. Bezaliswe ziintlungu neentliziyo ezibuhlungu, bazama kunjalo.
le imbali yayiyimpendulo yombuzo othi kutheni umntu efuna uthando. Wayejonge isiqingatha sakhe sesibini esasiza kumenza agqibelele kwakhona kwaye akhulule intlungu.
Intsomi yabantu abangqukuva njengomfanekiso wothando olungenamiqathango - ubambiswano?
Ngaba oku indala ibali lingabonisa isitshixo sothando olungagungqiyo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo umntu kufuneka athathele ingqalelo into yokuba ezi imbumbulu abantu Musa ukungayihoyi into yokuba eli linge lokucinga nje.
Kodwa, sicinga ukuba iziqingatha ezibini zinokufumana indlela yokubuyela kunye ukuze zimanyane, ngaba olo lwalamano alunamiqathango?
Oko bekudibene kwasekuqaleni bekuya kukhula kunye.
Ekuphela kwento eya kuba nemiqathango apha iya kuba yindlela yokubuyisela kwakhona. Ziya kuhlangana njani, nini kwaye phi ezi ziqingatha zimbini kwaye kuya kwenzeka ukuba zihlangane kwakhona zibe sisinye ngokukhawuleza?
“Abantu bayathanda ukuthi uthando luyinto yokwenyani, kodwa akunjalo, kwaye naxa lungenamiqathango, alukhe lwasimahla. Kuhlala kukho ukucinga. Yena nqwenela rhoqo ukufumana into ngembuyekezo. Njengoko banqwenela ukuba uvuyiswe okanye nantoni na kwaye oko kwenza ukuba uxanduva lolonwabo lwabo ngokuzenzekelayo njengoko abayi konwaba ukuba awufuni ... Andinqweneli loo mbopheleleko. ” - Katja Millay
Le mibuzo ibalulekile ukuba ingaba ezi zidalwa zibini zingekhoyo ziya kubuyelana na, kodwa zange zitsho nto. malunga nobudlelwane babo omnye nomnye okanye uthando lwabo omnye komnye.
Ngoko ke loo nto yenza ukuba uthando lube yinto yendalo ngokupheleleyo.
Ke le mvakalelo ayibi yinto edityaniswe neemeko, kodwa ibe yinto yendalo kwaye ke ngoko inokuthathwa njengekhoyo ngokungenamiqathango.
Ke, ubuncinci kwithiyori, uthando olungenammiselo lungaphakathi kwendawo enokwenzeka.
Luyintoni uthando olungagungqiyo emntwini?
Siyazama ukuyifihla indlela esivakalelwa ngayo kodwa silibale ukuba amehlo ethu ayakwazi ukuthetha.
Isichasi sothando asiyontiyo, kodwa ukwesaba.
Jonga abancinci abantwana dlala. Abacingi ngekamva okanye elidlulileyo ngelixa bedlala, bahlala kulo Apha kwaye ngoku.
Emva kokuba inkalo yethiyori yothando olungagungqiyo ilungiswe ngokwaneleyo kusetyenziswa intsomi yomntu engqukuva, ngoku lixesha lokujika kumbuzo osebenzayo wokuba olu thando lufanelekile na kuthi bantu.
Ngapha koko, asithethi nabantu basentsomini abahlulwa nguthixo, nangona eneneni bekunye.
Le meko uyasinyanzela ukubaukukhangela iqabane elifanelekileyo. Nakweyiphi na imeko, indlela yokuziphatha esiyibonisayo ichaphazela umfanekiso wethu woluntu.
Caphula umama notata
Ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha yamkelwe ngabanye abantu, ngokuqinisekileyo kunokubakho a Freundschaft phuhlisa.
Xa olo kwamkelwa kamva lujika lube luthando, sinokuqiniseka ukuba kuya kukhula ngakumbi kulo.
Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene uvela kumacala omabini nomntu uthando olungenamiqathango Phuma?
Ngaba akunjalo na ukuba ukuziphatha komntu kutshintsha kunye neemeko zentlalo?
Ngale ndlela, kuphela iimeko zangaphandle zobomi zitshintsha, kodwa ukuba ezi zikhokelela ekutshintsheni ukuziphatha ukuba iqabane aliyi kuvuya, Uthando ke lusanyamezele kwaye lungenamiqathango I-bleiben?
Ubuncinane ukususela ekuKhanyiseni, abantu baye baqala ukuthandabuza izenzo zabo. Kwangaxeshanye, babenqwenela ukukhululeka kulo naluphi na unyanzeliso.
Ukusukela phakathi kwenkulungwane yamashumi amabini, inkululeko yomntu ngamnye kwaye ngokunjalo nomntu injabulo ifumene ukubaluleka.
Yiyo loo nto isiya ixhaphaka into yokuba abantu bazabalazele ngokuphandle into ebhetele.
Oku kuzabalazela ukuba nemeko efanelekileyo akupheleli kulwalamano olusekelwe kuthando.
Uthando olwanikwayo ekuqaleni luyaqwalaselwa kwakhona kwaye ngequbuliso alusabonakali lungokwemvelo.
Xa isizathu nokuqonda kungenelela, uthando kwintsebenziswano alufanele lubandezeleke.
Kodwa uyayeka ukungabi namiqathango.
Kuba ngaxa lithile thina bantu siqala ukukhangela ukuyekelela kubudlelwane bethu.
Nangona olu luphawu lokwamkelwa nokuxabisa iqabane, likwabonisa ukuba uthando lufuna iimeko ukuze lukwazi ukuqhubeka.
Ngoko ukuba uyabuza: Yintoni uthando olungagungqiyo umntu, kufuneka ngokusebenzisa Yamkela ukuba olo thando lunokwenzeka kuphela, ukuba kunjalo, kumanqanaba okuqala obudlelwane.
Musa ukuzifihla iimvakalelo zakho, yenza okuthile ngazo. Awusoze wazi ukuba uya kuba nalo nini ithuba lokugqibela lokwenza oko.
Amandla okuphilisa-okulindelekileyo-Yintoni uthando olungenamiqathango?
iimvakalelo ezifana nolonwabo, ithemba kunye novuyo, intshiseko kunye nokuzola kubonakaliswe ukukhuthaza impilo: ithemba kunye nothando lunciphisa intlungu kunye nokunceda ekuphiliseni.
Iinkcazo zamagama othando
Unokufumana amagama othando ngakumbi ngokufunda iinkcazo zamagama asetyenziselwa ukubhekisa kubantu abathandanayo okanye ngokwakho lieben.
Ukuthanda umntu - ukubakhathalela kakhulu
- Uthando - imvakalelo yothando kunye nokufudumala kumntu; umnqweno ogqithisileyo.
- Eluthandweni-Umnqweno ochukumisayo wonxibelelwano olunomtsalane okanye lomzimba.
- uhlobo Umfazi - ileyibhile ekhathalayo yeqabane kubudlelwane obuthandekayo
- ixesha lomntu onomdla; lithetha "phambi kwakhe nawuphi na omnye umntu."
- Ukuqwalasela ukuthantamisa okusetyenziselwa lowo ubambe intliziyo yakho.
- Ukuxabisa - kuhle kakhulu ube nothando kunye nomntu jonga emva; mbambe umntu.
- uboya - obunomtsalane; Elinye igama lokuthandana.
- I-Enchant - ukuthakatha umntu.
- Elegant - incasa eqinileyo okanye uthando, okanye umtsalane kumntu.
- Ubuncwane-Ixesha lalowo woyisa intliziyo yakho ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuncoma - ukuthanda umntu kakhulu kangangokuba uyamncoma owakhe imposiso ayisaboni.
- Ukuthatheka - iimvakalelo zothando zakwangoko.
- Ukunqwenela - ngokwenene ukufuna umntu; ukuba kunye nabo xa behlukene.
- Lovebirds-Amaqabane kubudlelwane obunomtsalane abonwabileyo.
- Umdla - uthando olugqithisileyo kakhulu okanye umtsalane womzimba kumntu.
- Uxhwilo-imvakalelo yovuyo olukhulu olunokukhapha ukuthatheka.
- izinto ezibangela - chemistry; umtsalane wokhenketho onamandla phakathi kwabantu aba-2.
- ubutyebi -nikezela ileyibhile yeqabane lakho.
- Ubumnandi - ileyibhile eyongezelelweyo yoko ukonwabelayo.
- Ubuncwane-imvakalelo yokuxabisa umntu omthandayo ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into.
- Indumiso - ukunqula kakhulu.
- Ukulangazelela - umnqweno onamandla kakhulu wokuba nomntu omthandayo.
Isicatshulwa somlingani
"Ndikuxabisile. Ndiyakonyanya. Ndikuxabisile. Ndiyakonyanya. Ndikuxabisile. ndicinga ukuba usisidenge Ndicinga ukuba ulahlekile. ndicinga ukuba ulungile Ndifuna ukubanawe. andifuni kuba nawe bendingasoze ndithandane nawe Ndiyakonyanya. Ndiyakuthanda... Ndicinga ukuba impambano yaqala ngalamzuzu sasidibana nawe wasenza sangcangcazela isandla sam. Ngaba unesigulo okanye into? ” - Shannon L. Alder
Ukuthandwa quote
“Uthando aluhlali nje apho, njengelitye, kufuneka lwenziwe, njengesonka; ngokuphindaphindiweyo, yenziwe ntsha ngokupheleleyo.” – Ursula K. Le Guin
"Ungawuhlambulula umzimba wakho ngokuzila ukutya kunye nokuziyeka, kodwa uthando kuphela luya kuyihlambulula intliziyo yakho." – Elif Shafak
Iingcaphuno zokuqonda abanye kunye nobudlelwane bakho
"Yonke into encinci esicaphukisayo malunga nabanye inokusikhokelela ekubeni siziqonde." – CG jung
“Ndinokukhokela nabani na ukuba afumane oko akufunayo ebomini. Ingxaki kukuba andimfumani umntu onokundixelela into ayifunayo. - UMark Twain
"Xa uqala ukuqaphela into oyiyo ngaphandle kokuzama ukuyiguqula, into oyenzayo iyatshintsha." – Jiddu Krishnamurti
“Ukwazi wena sisiqalo sobomi bakho Ubulumko." -uSocrates
"Kuphela xa silahlekile siqala ukuziqonda." - uHenry David Thoreau
"Ukuzibuza, kunye nomnqweno wokuziqonda, sisenzo esidumileyo sobuntu." – Kilroy J. Senior Citizen
Amazwi othando angenamiqathango
Yabelana ngothando olunzulu ngamazwi
Ukujula ukubonakalisa uthando ngamazwi, umntu kufuneka athethe ngokusuka entliziyweni, nokuba uthembela kumagama anamacatshulo amnandi othando okanye ukhetha umsebenzi othe ngqo wothando. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokuthi "Ndiyakonwabela."
- Ndiyakubulela.
- Ndifuna ubomi bakho nawe.
- Iliebe dich erhawuzelelayo.
- ndingcono kuwe
- Ndifuna wena ecaleni kwam.
- Andikwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngawe.
- Ukutya Uthando kuwe alunamiqathango kwaye ayinasiphelo.
- Yonke into enkulu ebomini bam sisiphumo sakho.
- ndingaphila njani ngaphandle kwakho
- Andikwazi ukucinga ubomi ngaphandle kwakho.
- Ndiyayixabisa imini owahamba ngayo ngqo ebomini bam.
- Kudala ndikukhangela kwasekuqaleni.
- Uthando andizange ndalwazi de ndadibana nawe.
- Ndifumene iqabane lomphefumlo wam kuwe.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingancama yonke enye into ukuze ndibe nawe.
- Intliziyo yam ihleli ezandleni zakho.
- Intliziyo yam ilangazelela wena.
- wam Ubomi baqala ngaloo mini, esanelisekile yiyo.
- Ubomi bam batshintsha ngokusisigxina xa ubungenile.
- Uthando lwam kuwe lukhula ngomzuzu ngamnye starker.
- Ukutya Uthando kuwe alunamiqathango kwaye ayinasiphelo.
- Ekuphela kwento endizisola ngayo kukuba asizange sidibane kwangoko ukuze sibe nexesha elingakumbi kunye.
- Umphefumlo wam uzele oko wena usecaleni kwam.
- Kum ungoyena ubalaseleyo.
- Yintoni ngokuqinisekileyo enokubakho kuwe ebomini bam?
- Amazwi anokubonisa uthando olunzuluAndiyivezi into endiyiva ngawe.
iindlela zokubonisa uthando lokwenene
Amazwi abalulekile, kodwa izenzo ziyazithethela kwezinye iimeko. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala kunye kwaye niphile ngalo mzuzu.
La mazwi obomi anokuba nefuthe lengqondo kuwe okanye kumntu omthandayo.
- Sanganani rhoqo.
- Nincamisane nobabini xa ninodwa naxa ninabantu.
- Yenzani izinto kunye yonke imihla, njengokupheka okanye ukuhambahamba.
- Camngca kunye.
- Bamba izandla.
- hambani nidlale kunye.
- Yenzani i-massage yonyawo okanye unyango lokuphulula.
- Shiya amanqaku othando okanye izicengcelezo ezinamagama anemvano-siphelo yothando apho abanye abahlukeneyo bazifumana khona.
- Bukelani kunye ukusa okanye i Ukutshona kwelanga.
- Yaya ngasemva kwibhafu eshushu.
- Jongani emehlweni.
- Ukugcoba kwindawo ekude.
- Hlakulani izinto zokuzonwabisa kunye.
- Amagama abalulekile, kodwa izenzo ngamanye amaxesha zithetha kakhulu. Ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokubakho ngomzuzu.
Amabinzana othando kunye namabinzana amnandi othando
- Igama elinye lidla ngokunganelanga. Fumana amagama othando kunye namagama asetyenziswa ukuchaza uthando.
- Umfanyekiswe luthando - uphambene kangangokuba umntu akanakuzibona iintsilelo zeqabane lakhe.
- Unomdla - uthandana ngokupheleleyo nomntu.
- Intloko phezu kwezithende - ukuba uxakeke ngokupheleleyo nomntu.
- Uthando - uthando oluninzi ngomntu ukufumana.
- Igama elishushu le-slang elibhengezayo, lilinye ngokwenene qinisa ukuba nomnqweno womntu.
- Abanakwahlulwa - abathanda ukubamba yonke into kunye.
- Indawo yokuzama - indawo apho abathandi nichithe ixesha kunye.
- Main Squeeze-iqabane lakho kwintsebenziswano eyodwa.
- I-Puppy Love - iimvakalelo zothando phakathi kwabantu abancinci kakhulu.
- Umntwana weswekile - ixesha lothando kulowo umthandayo.
- Uthando lokwenyani - fan yakho okanye uthando lokwenyani
Uthando olungenamiqathango: INDLELA yokuphilisa amanxeba akho angokweemvakalelo uMaxim Mankevich
“Ingaba singabantu bomoya amava senza okanye sibaninzi, kakhulu abantu bomoya abanamava omntu?"
Emehlweni am omnye weyona mibuzo ibalulekileyo sizibuza yona abantu bavumelekile ukubuza kobu bomiukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo nobanelisayo.
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Ukuba umgqala ummelwane wakho njengawe siqu, ngoko omnye usenokuthi: Olo luthando lokwenene.
Enyanisweni, uthando kukuzaliseka komanyano.
Mhloniphe ummelwane wakho njengoko uzithanda ngako.
Oku kuzazi ukuba omnye umntu akahlukanga ngokwenene kuxabiseke ngendlela emangalisayo.
Igama elithi "ezahlukeneyo" lisebenza kuphela kwinqwelomoya ethe tye.
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Yintoni uthando olungagungqiyo "othanda umntu unento yonke" ividiyo
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FAQ uthando olungenamiqathango
Yintoni uthando olungagungqiyo?
Uthando olungagungqiyo luhlobo lothando olungenamiqathango okanye olulindelekileyo. Ayiguquguquki kwaye inikwa ngaphandle kokubekelwa bucala, kungekho lindelo lokuba ibuyiswe okanye ibuyiswe. Olu thando lwamkela omnye njengoko lunjalo, ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukugxekwa, kwaye lubanika uthando, inkathalo kunye nengqalelo.
Ndingalubonisa njani uthando olungagungqiyo?
Uthando olungagungqiyo lunokubonakaliswa ngeendlela ezininzi, njengokunikela ingqalelo, inkathalo, ukuqonda nokuxolela. Kuthetha ukwamkela omnye ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukugxekwa nokubanika uthando olungagungqiyo. Imalunga nokugxila komnye kwaye uzame ukubanceda nokubaxhasa, kungakhathaliseki iimeko okanye iimeko zangaphandle.
Ziziphi iingenelo zothando olungagungqiyo?
Uthando olungenamiqathango luzisa uxolo, ulonwabo kunye nokwaneliseka ebomini bethu kwaye lusinceda ukuba someleze kwaye sityebise ubudlelwane bethu kwinqanaba elinzulu. Inokunceda ukwandisa ukuzincama kwethu kunye novelwano, kwaye isincede siziqonde ngcono thina kunye nabanye. Kwakhona kunokusinceda sikhuphe iimvakalelo ezingafanelekanga njengenzondo, umsindo, nokungaxoleli.
Ngaba ndinganalo uthando olungagungqiyo nakubani na?
Nangona ukuziva uthando olungenammiselo kubo bonke abantu kuyinjongo ehloniphekileyo, kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Kudinga uvelwano oluninzi kunye nomonde ukuthanda ngokungenamiqathango, ngakumbi kubudlelwane obunzima. Nangona kunjalo, kuyenzeka ukuziva uthando olungenamiqathango kubantu abasondeleyo kuthi, kwaye olo thando lunokusinceda siphucule ubomi bethu kunye nobudlelwane.