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Ukuchukumisa kuluvo lokuqala kwaye ikwayindlela ephambili yokudala usana uthando ukunikeza.
Ngoku siyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukudibana nomzimba kuphuhliso lomntwana olusempilweni.
Ukuchukumisa kufana nothando - ukuchukumisa okuphilisa
Ngaphandle kokudibana ngokomzimba umntu unako uhlobo fa nokuba zonke ezinye iimfuno zihlangatyezwa.
U-Alberto Gallace noCharles Spence (2010) bachaza imiphumo enenzuzo yokuthintela kubungqina malunga nophando lokuthintela:
Abantu abahlala kumakhaya abantu abadla umhlala-phantsi ngokuqhelekileyo baziva bengafunwa okanye bejongelwa phantsi ngenxa yokuba abanxulumani ngokwasemzimbeni nabanye.
Abathengi basabela kakuhle kakhulu kwitshekhi kwaye bathenge kwivenkile yegrosari xa bechukunyiswa ngumthengisi ozenza umthengisi.
Abantu ngokwenyani banakho ukubuyisela idime eshiywe kwindawo yefowuni xa "umfowuneli" ongenayo eyibambile.
Abaqhubi beebhasi kunokwenzeka ukuba banike undwendwe uhambo lwasimahla ukuba luyabachukumisa ngexesha lesicelo.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba abantu ukunika umntu icuba lasimahla ukuba isicelo sivela kumntu osichukumisileyo kwangaxeshanye.
UGallace noSpence baphikisa ngelithi kwanokuchukumisa nje ngokufutshane komnye umntu kunempembelelo enamandla ngokweemvakalelo amava kunokubangela.
Bachaza ngakumbi ukuba zombini ubungakanani kunye nohlobo lokuchukumisa luyahluka ukusuka kuluntu ukuya kuluntu:
EItali, ukwanga nokuncamisa esidleleni ngasinye kugqalwa njengendlela eqhelekileyo nefanelekileyo yokubulisa.
In Japhan Umbuliso ofanelekileyo uquka isaphetha esinolwazelelelo kunye nokungabikho naluphi na uhlobo lokuchukumisa.
Ngokubanzi, abantu abavela eGreat Britain, kwiindawo ezithile zoMntla Yurophu ngokunjalo Asia ngaphantsi kakhulu kunabantu abavela eFransi, eItali okanye eMzantsi Melika.
Ukungachukumisi ngokuqhelekileyo kuzisa iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezingathandekiyo, njengakwibinzana elithi “ukungafumaneki enyanisweni,” ngelixa uvakalelo olunzulu. Amava edla ngokubizwa ngokuba “kukuchukumisa”.
Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Touch (2001), iTiffany Area ichaza loo chukumisa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo starker ifana nentetho okanye imvakalelo.
Ukubamba kubalulekile ekukhuleni, ekukhuleni nakwimpilo ye Bantwana kwakunye nempilo yomzimba nengqondo yabantu abadala.
Nangona kunjalo, iiFields zicebisa ukuba iinkcubeko ezininzi, njengale yangoku yaseMelika isiko, azichukumiseki ngokungqongqo - xa kuyimfuneko, abantu abaninzi namhlanje banengxaki yokungakwazi ukuvuseleleka, nto leyo ayibiza ngokuba “yindlala ephathwayo.”
Ukuchukumisa okungafunwayo
"Yiba nentliziyo engapheliyo, kunye nomsindo ongadinwa, kunye nokuchukumisa okungaze kube buhlungu." -UCharles Dickens.
Kukho iimeko apho ukubamba kuthathwa njengokuyingozi kwaye ukubamba ngokugqithisileyo okanye okungafunwayo nako kunokukhokelela kwizityholo zolwaphulo-mthetho.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngenxa yempembelelo enamandla yeemvakalelo yokuchukunyiswa, abantu bajonga ukubambana ngokwasentlalweni njengento ekhathazayo ngakumbi kunezenzo zamazwi.
Umbono wokuchukumisa njengento eyingozi kuxhomekeke kwindawo ethile yomzimba echukunyisweyo kunye nakwiimpawu ezithile zomntu oyichukumisayo (isini, Ayinakutshintsha kunye nentsebenziswano nomntu ochaphazelekayo).
Qaphela ukuba ukuchukumisa ubuso kuthathwa njengento engafanelekanga kwaye iphinda iphazamise, ngelixa ukucofa okanye ukubetha emagxeni kuthathwa njengokuziphatha okuncinci.
Kupapasho lwakhe oluthi Bad for Us (2004), uJohn Portmann ubalisa ngomdanisi wepali owayengavumi ukuba amakhwenkwe amchukumise, egxininisa ukuba umsantsa ophakathi kokubukela kunye nokuchukumisa wenza iglowubhu yokwahluka ngokuziphatha ngaye:
Yayingesosenzo ngokwaso; wayebhekisa kuyo ndaweni ithile Umda ukuze ngenene ungaziva ngathi ubuwena buphela bubaleka. “
Ukuchukumisa okuthandekayo - ukuchukumisa okuphilisa - ukulangazelela ukubamba
“Ndithumele ngokwanga kwigumbi lonke...bamba iinwele zam njengoko udlula esitulweni sam, izinto ezincinci zithetha lukhulu.” – Kallen Feline.
Ukuchukumisa kubalulekile ekudaleni nasekomelezeni unxibelelwano lwezothando.
Uchuku ngokwasemzimbeni uthando inxulumene kakhulu nentsebenziswano epheleleyo kunye nokwaneliseka okupheleleyo kweqabane.
Ukongeza, ukusombulula iingxaki kumzimba ngakumbi uthando lula - iingxaki zilula kakhulu ukusonjululwa ukuba kukho ukuwola ngakumbi, ukubamba / ukubamba kunye nokuncamisa emilebeni (Gulledge et al., 2003). Ukulangazelela ukubamba
UGallace kunye noSpence (2010) babika uphando olubonisa ukuba abantu abaye badibana neqabane ngaphambi koxinzelelo banoxinzelelo oluphantsi kakhulu lwe-systolic kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi lwe-diastolic kunye nokunyuka kwentliziyo kunomzimba ongadibananga.
Uthando lomzimba olungenasondo olunentshukumo esabelayo efana I-massage yangasemva kwaye ukwanga kubonakalise ukuxabiseka:
Abasetyhini abathi ngenene bafumene ukwangiwa okuninzi kumaqabane abo kwixesha elidlulileyo babonakaliswe ukuba banoxinzelelo lwegazi olusezantsi kunabo bangazange bafumane ukwangiwa kakhulu ngabalingane babo ngaphambili.
Ngako oko, ukuziphatha ngokomzimba okunothando kunokunciphisa ukuphendula kwiziganeko zobomi ezinzima.
Inqanaba lovakalelo lokuphendula li natürlich ikwanxulunyaniswa nokuvuseleleka ngokwesini, kunye notshintsho kwimpendulo yobuntununtunu inokuchaphazela isimilo sesondo.
Uvuselelo olulungelelanisiweyo ludlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu kunxibelelwano loluntu kwezitabane kunye nophuhliso lwamaqhina phakathi kwabantu.
Abantu abatshatileyo ngokuqhelekileyo bajonga ukubambana njengento eyakhayo ngakumbi, ingakumbi enothando nenobubele, yaye banxibelelana ngokukhululekileyo ngakumbi kunabantu abangatshatanga.
Ukudibana kwamehlo kubalulekile, kwaye ngokuchukumisa impembelelo yayo ekhangayo iyaphindaphindeka.
Ukuba abantu abakaqinisekanga ukuba yeyiphi na indawo ekhangayo esandul’ ukubazalisekisa, ukudibana kwamehlo ngokuphathwa ngesandla “ngengozi” kunokususa nawaphi na amathandabuzo.
Chukumisa kwi-intanethi - imfuneko yokubamba
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba kunye nomntu kwanele. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ndimchukumise. Ungaze uthethe. Kudlula imvakalelo phakathi kwenu nobabini. Asinguwe wedwa.” - UMarilyn Monroe
Ukuthandwa kwe Ubudlelwane be-Intanethi inokuphakamisa amathandabuzo malunga nokufaneleka kokuchukumisana ngothando njengoko unxibelelwano olunjalo alubandakanyi ukubambana ngokwasemzimbeni.
Nangona kunjalo, unxibelelwano olukwi-intanethi lunokuchaphazela imiba ebuthathaka kakhulu, enomtsalane: abantu ngamanye amaxesha bathi baziva ngathi amagama akumboniso ayabachukumisa.
Elinye inenekazi labhala: “Andiqondi ukuba kunjani ukuchukumisa le ndoda, kodwa iye yandichukumisa izihlandlo eziliwaka emaphupheni am.
Elinye inenekazi lathi kumntu eliqhelene naye kwi-Intanethi: “Wangena nzulu entliziyweni yam waza wachukumisa nalapho engazange yahamba ndoda ngaphambili.”
Elinye inenekazi elabelana ngesondo kwi-Intanethi lathi isithandwa sakhe se-Intanethi, "esingazange sandibona okanye sindichukumise, siyawuqonda umzimba wam kunye nezenzo zawo ngcono kunomnye wabayeni bam ababini bangaphambili."
Ixabiso elikhulu lokuchukumisa umzimba kwintsebenziswano enomtsalane lidala imvakalelo eqinileyo yochuku lwengqondo kubathandi be-intanethi, nangona ukubamba komzimba kungabikho kwaye kubonwa kuphela.
Abantu abakubudlelwane be-intanethi babambana ngothando nangesondo ngaphandle kokufowunelana ngokuthe ngqo.
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"Ngokuchukumisa uthando wonke umntu uba indoda kwimbongi.” - uPlato.
Ukubamba kunento esebenzayo, ixabiso elinomtsalane.
Ukusetyenziswa kwayo okwahlukileyo kunokuvuselela iimbono ezahlukeneyo zeemvakalelo kubantu ababathandayo.
Kwimbali yamaGrike, uKumkani uMidas 'uchukumisa wayebala yonke into ayichukumisile ngqo kwigolide.
abantu inokuguqula abo bajikelezileyo ukuba babe ngabantu abanomdla ngokuchukumisa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo yegolide.
Njengoko uMelanie Griffith ekubeka kakuhle: “Uyazi ntoni? Inye indawo onokuthi uchukumise ibhinqa eliqinisekileyo ukuba liyakuphambana - intliziyo yakhe. "
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Ulusu lwethu lulambele ukubamba kwaye ukungabikho koqhagamshelwano kusenza sibe nesithukuthezi kwaye sigule.
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Umzimba wethu kunye nolusu lwethu lukwafumana amalungu. Ukubamba kunye nokuphulula kunokusinika impilo-ntle eninzi kwaye kunokuphilisa.
Umgangatho kunye novakalelo lochuku lubalulekile apha. Sele abantwana qonda ngokubamba, ukubamba okanye ukuva into ethile. Sifumana amaxesha asezantsi, apho iirobhothi zokuphulula iirobhothi mhlawumbi aziyi kunceda.
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