Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoMatshi 31, 2024 ngu URoger Kaufman
Ukuyeka ukuhamba kunzima kakhulu - ukuyeka ukuthetha
Nokuba sinayo na ikamva ukubamba kuxinzelelo okanye ukuba sigxeka iimpazamo ze edlulileyo ukuphinda-phinda kwiintloko zethu - kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu ukuba sinengxaki yokuqhubekela phambili.
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Ukwazi ukuyeka | Isitshixo kubomi obanelisayo nobuvisisanayo
Kweli hlabathi lixakekileyo, “ukukwazi ukuziyeka” kudla ngokuba yeyona ndawo izolileyo esiyifunayo ukuze sifumane ulungelelwano.
Bubuchule bokuncama ukuncamathela kunye nokubamba ubomi kuzuko lwabo olupheleleyo.
Kwezi zicatshulwa ezili-15 ezikhethwe ngononophelo kunye namazwi uya kufumana ukuqonda okuxabisekileyo okunokukunceda kuhambo lwakho lokuzola ngakumbi, ukuzithanda kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi.
Khuthazeka kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okuqala kwindlela yokuyeka.
Bhalisela ijelo lethu ukufumana iingcebiso ezibaluleke ngakumbi kwaye wabelane yokuzonwabisa nabahlobo kunye nosapho abanokuthi baxhamle kubugcisa bokuziyeka.
umthombo: Iintetho ezigqwesileyo kunye neeQuotes
Ubomi bumalunga notshintsho oluqhubekayo
Oku kusicebisa ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba sizama kangakanani na ukugcina izinto njengoko zinjalo, ekugqibeleni siya kujongana notshintsho olungakhathaliyo, enoba siyathanda okanye asithandi.
Nangona kunjalo, sakube siyeka ukuba ngabanini kunye nokulawula indawo esihlala kuyo, siyavula amathuba amatsha.
Yiyo le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sikwazi ukuyeka ukuhamba: ukuqhubela phambili kuyasinceda injabulo kwaye injabulo ukungena.
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, abantu baqhelana nokubamba izinto.
Sibambelele kwizinto ezidlulileyo, iinkumbulo zethu, iimvakalelo zethu kunye nemikhwa yethu.
Ukubamba kunokwenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwenzeke. Ngamanye amaxesha sibambelela kwizinto ngenxa yethu ukwesaba ukoyika ukuphulukana nabo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kungenxa yokuba sicinga ukuba asikho yekela unako okanye kufanele.
Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kungenxa yokuba asazi ukuba masihambe njani.
Ukuyiyeka kunzima kakhulu, kodwa ikwabaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba thina Ukuba asifundi ukukhulula, asinakuphila ngokwenene.
Sisoloko sicinga ngento ethile bambelela uqinise kwaye ngenxa yoku siya kuhlala singonwabanga.
Ezilandelayo ukuyeka ukuthetha malunga nokuyeka kwaye uqhubele phambili kuya kukukhokela kweli xesha linzima.
Ezi ziya kuqaqambisa umoya wakho kwaye zikuncede impembelelo entle ukufumanisa okunokwenzeka okutsha okunxulumene nohlengahlengiso olutsha oluhle.
Awona ma-65 angcono ayeke ukuthetha kunye neekowuti
"Yilibale into ekukhathazayo, kodwa ungaze uyilibale into ekufundise yona." - Shannon L. Alder
“Xa usiya ezulwini fly Ukuba uyafuna, kufuneka uwushiye umhlaba. Ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka, kufuneka uqhubeke ndiyeke ixesha elidlulileyooko kukutsalela phantsi.” -Amit uRay
"Xa uyeka, ulahlekelwa zizinto ezininzi zexesha elidlulileyo, kodwa uya kuzifumana." - Deepak Chopra
Into kuphela a Umntu into endinokuze ndiyenze kukuqhubela phambili. Thatha loo mtsi mkhulu ngaphandle kokuthandabuza, ngaphandle kokujonga ngasemva. Ulibale nje ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye uqhubele phambili Ikamva." -Alyson Noel
"Siyaqhubeka nokuqhubela phambili, sivula iingcango ezintsha kwaye senze izinto ezintsha kuba sinomdla kwaye umdla uyaqhubeka usikhokelela kwiindlela ezintsha." - Walt Disney
“Xa ndiyiyeka le nto ndiyiyo, ndiba yile nto ndinokuba yiyo. Xa ndikhulula oko ndinako, ndifumana oko ndikufunayo.” - Lao Tse
“Awusoloko ufuna iqhinga. Ngokuqhelekileyo kufuneka uphefumle, vertrauen, hamba uye kubona ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni na.” -Ayaziwa
“Ukunikezela akusoloko kuthetha ukuba ubuthathaka. Rhoqo oku kuthetha ukuba womelele kwaye ukrelekrele ngokwaneleyo ukukhulula. " -Ayaziwa
Ukuqala namhlanje, kufuneka ndilibale into ehambileyo, ndikuxabise okuseleyo, kwaye ndilindele okulandelayo. -Ayaziwa
Awukwazi ukuqala isahluko esilandelayo sobomi bakho ukuba uphindaphinda isahluko sokugqibela. " - UMichael McMillan
“Nantoni na ezayo, mayifike. Nantoni na eseleyo mayihlale. Nantoni na eyenzekayo, yiyeke.” -Ayaziwa
Nabani na ofuna ukuba yiloo nto afanele ukuba yiyo kufuneka ayishiye le nto ayiyo ngoku. – Master Eckhart
"I - impilo kuba lula xa ufunda ukuvuma ukucela uxolo.” -Ayaziwa
“Ungaze umkhalele umntu okonzakalisayo. Ncuma nje uthi: Enkosi ngokundinika ithuba lokufumana umntu ongcono kunawe!” -Ayaziwa
Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba kufuneka ube ngcono, kuya kuba njalo Ukuyeka yayisesona sigqibo silungileyo kuba." -Ayaziwa
Yiba nomntu ovelisa okona kulungileyo kuwe, hayi kubo istres kuwe." -Ayaziwa
"Awunakwenza nto Qala ngokutsha"Xa izandla zakho zisagcwele inkunkuma yayizolo." —ULouise Smith
“Kubuhlungu ukuthi ndlela-ntle kumntu omthandayo, kodwa yiloo nto Ukwakhiwa ukuba siqhubeke sobabini.” -Ayaziwa
Xa ukhulula, unezandla zozibini.” - Isaci samaTshayina
Andizange ndiyeke ukukhathalela, kodwa uyenzile, yiyo loo nto ndiye ndaqhubeka. -Ayaziwa
"Qhubeka, sisahluko esidlulileyo, ungayivali incwadi, tyhila iphepha." -Ayaziwa
“Awunakuqala isahluko esilandelayo ukuba uphindaphinda isahluko sokugqibela qalisa ukufunda kwakhona. " -Ayaziwa
“Ngamanye amaxesha kubhetele ukuqhubekeka kunokuhlala nomntu ongakuqondiyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuswela kwakho kufundisa into ubukho bakho obungenako. ” -Ayaziwa
"Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha xa umthanda loo mntu kufuneka ulibale ngaye kwaye uqhubeke." -Ayaziwa
Isifundo ku Ubomi - ukukhulula Iingcamango ezintsha
Indoda esisilumko yahlala phakathi kwabaphulaphuli yaza yenza isiqhulo. Wonke umntu uyagigitheka ngathi uyaphambana. Emva komzuzu waphinda waqhawuka kwaloo joke. Babembalwa abantu ababegigitheka ngeli xesha abantu. Waqhubeka esenza isiqhulo esifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ukuba ngobuninzi akukho ILachen yi, wancuma wathi, "Awukwazi ukuhleka isiqhulo esifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kodwa kutheni ukhalela into efanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo?"
"Eyona nto inzima malunga nokwahlukana kukuyeka inxalenye yokugqibela yentliziyo yakho." -Ayaziwa
Ndigqibile. Ndigqibile ukubhala. Sendigqibile ngethemba loba uzofowuna ndagqiba ndalala. Awusakufanelanga.
Awukwazi ukulawula nantoni na. Kwezinye iimeko kufuneka nje umo- kwaye uyathemba ukuba izinto ziya kulunga. Yiyeke kancinci kwaye uvumele ubomi bube.
Ubomi bufana nencwadi. Ezinye izahluko zilusizi, ezinye ziyavuyisa, kwaye ezinye ziyamangalisa ngokwenene. Kodwa ukuba awusoze ulityhile eli phepha, akusoze ukuqonde okuqulathwe sisahluko esilandelayo.
“Inyaniso yeyokuba, ukuba awukhululi, ukuba awuzixoleli, ukuba awuxoleli imeko, ukuba awuqondi ukuba imeko iphelile, awukwazi ukuya phambili.” -Steve Maraboli
“Ngemini endaqonda ngayo yonke into yayiyimini endayeka ngayo ukuzama ukufumanisa nantoni na. Mhla ndi... uxolo “Ndaqonda, yayilusuku endakhulula ngalo yonke into.” – C. JoyBell C.
"Konke ubugcisa bokuphila kuxhomekeke kwintsebenziswano echuliweyo phakathi kokuyeka nokubambelela.” Havelock Ellis
"Nditshisa iibhulorho zam emva kwam ... kodwa ke akukho ndlela yimbi yokuqhubela phambili." - Fridtjof Nansen
Eyona nto iphefumlayo hamba Ezi ntsuku zinokuqala kuphela xa sifunda ukuyeka ngenye imini. ” -Steve Maraboli
“Khulula ukhuseleko. Okuchaseneyo akunakwenzeka. Kukuvuleleka, ukufun' ukwazi kunye nokuvuma ukwamkela ii-paradoksi endaweni yokukhetha icala. Owona mqobo mkhulu kukwamkela kanye ngale ndlela siyiyo kodwa singayeki ukufunda nokukhula.” -UTony Schwartz
“Intlungu iya kukushiya ukuba uyayeka.” – uJeremy Aldana
“Ukubambelela kukukholelwa ukuba inye kuphela idluleyo; ILoslassen kuthetha ukwazi ukuba kukho ikamva.” - UDaphne Rose Kingma
""Yekela kuthetha ukuqalisa imifanekiso neemvakalelo, ingqumbo nosizi, ukubambelela nkqi nokuphoxeka kwexesha elidluleyo elisibophezelayo.” - Jack Kornfield
“Musa ukucinga ngento engalunganga. Kunoko, gxininisa kwinto omawuyenze ngokulandelayo. Tyala eyakho amandla kunye kwimpendulo. " - Denis Waitley
"Nokuba ungawa ngobuso bakho, uhlala ushukuma." -UVictor Kiam
"Kungekudala sonke kufuneka senze uluntu lwethu lwangaphambili." -UDan Brown
“Ukuba wonke umntu uqhubela phambili kunye, uya kuyinyamekela erfolg ngawe.” - uHenry Ford
"Amaphiko enkululeko alele ekukhululeni." – Ubulumko Folk
"I - Ubomi buyaqhubeka kwaye kufanele nayo." -USpencer Johnson
"Uhlengahlengiso kufuneka luze ukuze ubomi bube nzima phambili." -UHelen Hollick
"Kulungile ukuphuma kwiimeko ezithatha umoya wakho." – UPaula Moderson-Becker
"inkalipho ngamandla okuphelisa into eqhelekileyo.” –Raymond Lindquist
“Ungazalisa isitya esingenanto kuphela.” – Ubulumko Folk
“Kukho enye ebalulekileyo umahluko phakathi Ukuncama nokuyeka.” -UJessica Hatchigan
"Ukuxolela kuthetha ukuyeka ixesha elidlulileyo." -Gerald Jampolsky
"uthando ungaze wenze into embi kangangokuba awukwazi ukuyiyeka." -Ginnie Rometty
“Kubalulekile ukuba senze iimpazamo uxolo. Kufuneka siphume kweyethu iimpazamo zuza kwaye uqhubeke. ” -Steve Maraboli
“Yeka iindlela zokwazisa ukuba abanye abantu bayinxalenye yakho imbali zikho, kodwa aziyonxalenye yekamva lakho.” -Steve Maraboli
"Amaxesha amaninzi kufuneka ubuye umva ukuze uqhubeke." -Erika Taylor
"Vula iingalo zakho ukuze utshintshe, kodwa ungaliyeki ixabiso lakho." - Dalai Lama
"Ukuba sikholelwa kwixesha elidlulileyo ngokwenene kumntu wonzakele Siphuhlisa iindlela zokuzikhusela ukuze sizikhusele kukwenzakala kwixesha elizayo. Ngoko ixesha elidlulileyo elinoloyiko lixhokonxa ikamva eloyikekayo. Ixesha elidlulileyo kunye nekamva liba yinto enye. Asinako uku liebenxa sisoyika. Xa siqala uloyiko oludlulileyo kwaye sixolela wonke umntu, siba luthando olupheleleyo kunye nobunye kunye nomntu wonke amava." – Gerald G. Jampolsky
“Ubomi buqhubela phambili. Amagqabi amadala abune, abola kwaye awele, kwaye uphuhliso olutsha luqhubela phambili Ukukhanya." -Bryant McGill
“Intlungu ayikuthobi. Uyabandezeleka. Ukuba unobuchule bokuyeka ukubandezeleka, uya kuqonda ukuba bekungeyomfuneko kangakanani ukuba uthwale le mithwalo. Uzakubona ukuba akukho mntu unoxanduva kulento ngaphandle kwakho. Inyaniso kukuba ubukho bufuna ukuba ubomi bakho bube ngumbhiyozo.” - Osho
“Kukho utshintsho olumangalisayo ngaphakathi kuwe impilo kwenzeka xa ukhetha ukulawula oko unamandla phezu kwako kunokuba ulangazelele ukulawula oko ungenako. -Steve Maraboli
Uya kufumanisa ukuba kubalulekile ukuyeka izinto zihambe; ngenxa nje yokuba zinzima. Myeke ke ahambe. Andizibophi iintsimbi emaqatheni.” – C. JoyBell C.
"Kwezinye iimeko, kuthatha intliziyo ebuhlungu ukusishukumisa kwaye usibonise ukuba sixabiseke kakhulu kunokuba sifuna." –Mandy Hale
Isiqhamo se Ukuyeka kukuzalwa into entsha.” – Master Eckhart
“Kutheni ubambelele kwiintlungu nje? Akukho nto unokuyenza ngentswela-bulungisa izolo. Akukho kuwe vavanya. Kutheni ubambelele ngokuthe ngqo kwinto ekunika ithemba kwaye uthando iyema?” - Leo Buscaglia
Nakwimihla yam ebuthathaka ndiba ncinci starker - USarah Evans
Intliziyo eyaphukileyo ibuhlungu, kodwa ziya kukwenza womelele. -Ayaziwa
Thanda Ukuyeka Iintetho-Ividiyo
Kuyathandeka amazwi othando | Ama-21 amazwi othando onokucinga ngawo.
Die uthando mhlawumbi yeyona mvakalelo ibalulekileyo esoloko ihamba nathi njengabantu.
21 Uthando ucaphula ukucinga ngayo kwaye ndikhulule.
Amazwi othando abonisa indlela esivakalelwa ngayo.
Intle Ukuthi uthando kunokuthiwa komnye ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bonisa into oyivayo ngalo mntu kwaye womeleze ubudlelwane kunye nolonwabo oluselula ngendlela ekhethekileyo.
Funda ukuyeka ukuthembana
Ndiyathemba ukuba uyonwabele le 65 ingasentla uyeke iintetho kunye neekowuti.
Yintoni eyona nto iphambili kuyo yonke le nto Ukuyeka ukuthetha kunye neengcaphuno?
Kunzima ngokwenene ukwenza konke oku kungasentla amazwi kunye neengcaphuno ukushwankathela.
Nangona kunjalo, masizame oko Ubulumko bokushiya okumangalisayo Ukunciphisa iintetho kunye neengcaphuno ezingentla.
Ubomi buyiyo yonke into utshintsho. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukukhulula zonke izikhalazo kunye namaxhala esithwala emagxeni ethu.
ILoslassen kwaye ukuqhubela phambili kusinceda sifumane izinto ezintsha ezinokwenzeka. Oku kukwaluncedo ekuchacheni kwethu.
Enyanisweni, awusoze uphilise ngokupheleleyo ukuba uthe Musa ukukhulula unako.
Awona magama angama-65 ahamba phambili e-WhatsApp ukuze wabelane ngawo
Nceda uzive ukhululekile ukuba wabelane ngeli nqaku nomnye umntu ophila ngoku ukuba kukho umntu omaziyo ohamba ngendlela enzima.
Iintetho kunye neengcaphuno malunga nokuyeka
Ibhonasi - 18 amazwi ahlekisayo malunga nokuyeka
Ukukhululwa bubugcisa obungasikhululi nje kuphela, kodwa budala indawo yezinto ezintsha.
Ngepinki uburharha Le nkqubo inokwenziwa lula kancinci.
Nazi i-18 amazwi ahlekisayo ngesihloko sokuyeka, onokusisebenzisa kwiiprojekthi zakho zokubhala okanye kwisitishi sakho sikaYouTube ukubeka uncumo ebusweni babalandeli bakho:
“Ukuyeka ukuhamba akuthethi ukunikezela, kodwa ukwamkela ukuba ezinye izinto zifana ne-boomerang. Babuya xa bengabakho ngokwenene - okanye badibana nomnye umntu endleleni. "
“Phatha ukuyeka njengokutya komphefumlo. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uyeke umthwalo weemvakalelo ukuze udanise ebomini ngokulula ngakumbi. "
"Ukuyeka ukuhamba kufana ne-detox ebonakalayo: ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uvale ii-apps zengqondo ezisebenzisa i-RAM eninzi!"
"Khumbula: Xa uyekile, unezandla zozibini zepizza okanye into engcono."
“Ukuzikhulula kububuchule bokuthi 'Hayi isekisi yam, hayi iinkawu zam' ngelixa uhlala uzimisele ngokupheleleyo."
“Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka nje khulula uhambe nobomi Makwenzeke-okanye ungenza ngathi ulawula kwaye u-odole enye ikofu. "
"Khumbula ukuba xa uyeka, ubomi abuyi kuba lilize, kodwa indawo yabatsha imposiso iyadala. Kuyavuyisa, akunjalo?"
“Ukuyeka kuthetha ukuqonda ukuba abanye amabali isiphelo - hayi ngenxa yokuba incwadi yayimbi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba iklabhu yakho yeencwadi isela iwayini kakhulu kwaye ayizukufunda."
“Imfihlelo yokukhulula? Qonda ukuba kulungile, hayi ngenxa yonke ukumenywa epatini. Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye uthethe nekati yakho. "
"Ukuyeka ukuya kukwamkela ukuba ekuphela kwento ekufuneka ubambelele kuyo ebomini yikomityi elungileyo yekofu."
"Musa ukulibala: ukuyeka ukuhamba akulophawu lobuthathaka. Kuthetha nje ukuba womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ukhuphe i-clown emotweni kwaye uthathe ivili ngokwakho. "
"Ngamanye amaxesha ukuyeka kufana nokucima imbali yesikhangeli: ikukhulula kumzila wexesha elidlulileyo kwaye ikunika ithuba lokuphinda uqalise. Kwaye, akuyontloni xa umntu esebenzisa ilaptop yakho. ”
"Khawufane ucinge, Ukukhulula kufana newodrophu yeengcamango zakho. Lixesha lokulahla uloyiko oludala, alusekho lufanelekileyo isithuba ukwenza iimpahla ezintsha."
"Khumbula: ukuyeka kunokuthetha ukucima iqhosha lokubhalisa kumaxhala obomi bakho."
“Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhulula kulula ukuba ucinga ngako njengeqhosha elikhulu elibomvu elithi 'cima'. Yicinezele kwaye ubukele amaxhala akho ephela emgqomeni. "
"Ukuyekela kukuyeka ukuba yinto yokulawula kunye nokwamkela ukuba ubomi bungumdaniso ophuculweyo kunendlela ehleliweyo."
“Khumbula, ukuyeka kufana nokucoca ikhabethe lakho: kuvakala kungaqhelekanga ekuqaleni, kodwa emva koko ufumana zonke izinto ozifuna ngokwenene. uthando kunye neentswelo. "
“Ekugqibeleni: ukuyeka kuthethaukuba ulungele ukufikelela kwiinkwenkwezi ngezandla zombini. Okanye ulawulo olukude, nokuba yeyiphi ebaluleke ngakumbi kuwe. ”
