Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngo-Agasti 5, 2023 ngu URoger Kaufman
Imfihlelo yokutsala umdla - injani ikhampasi yam iseti
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngale misebenzi ngaphandle koluvo lokuba kufuneka "senze" nantoni na ukwenza iimfuno zethu zibonakale - Umthetho wokutsalwa
Ngokuya singena nzulu kwimiba yokumisela umthetho injongo jongana nayo, kokukhona siqonda ngcono ukuba kukho indlela eyongezelelweyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo abanye banokulibiza ngokuba lunyango olungcono, kodwa sivumele ukuba siluthathele ingqalelo nje njengenye indlela yokuya kwindawo enokuthelekiseka.
Bekunjani ngaphambili, besinenkululeko yokuzikhethela ukwenza into ebesiyifuna ngokwenene
Kwizizukulwana zangaphambili, ukusebenza nzima kwakuyindlela yokuphila. Umsebenzi onzima yayiyinyani nje yobomi, ingeyiyo into ephoxayo, kodwa yinto efanele ukwenziwa, njani Ukuphefumla okanye ukuphumla xa ilanga litshonile.
Ngemizekelo yezinyanya zam ndaboniswa ukuba akukho kwanto impilo iwela ngokulula.
Kukwam ukuba ndibeke impumlo yam kwi-whetstone kwaye ndiyisebenzele nayo xa kukho into endiyenzayo Iminqweno.
Ayiyonto imbi leyo, kwaye andifuni kujongela phantsi impumelelo yabo basihlahlele indlela.
Uninzi lwethu alukhumbuli inxalenye enye ebalulekileyo yenkqubo: ukwamkelwa.
Ukuvunywa sisigaba esinzima kwinkqubo yokuvelisa kwaye sinokudideka nakwabo bangakhange bavezwe ngokuthe ngqo kwiMigaqo.
Umthetho wokutsala, yintoni esiyifunayo - iingcamango zizaliseka
Apha kulapho imvume ingena khona umdlalo. Ah, kodwa sinako ihlabathi ukuvumela ukubonisa kanye into esikhethayo.
AKUFUNI senze amanqaku, sinokuvumela kuphela ihlabathi ukuba lizalisekise iminqweno yethu, edalwe ngokupheleleyo kwaye igutyungelwe kakuhle kwisicwangciso esihle kunye ne-arch phezulu.
Sifuna ukufumanisa ngakumbi malunga nokuba sijolise njani kumthetho wenjongo yethu impilo inokuzisa, ngoko siya kuba ziinkosi kuyo.
Ewe, ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wethu sitsala oko sikufuna ngokwenene. Sifumana indlela yokufumana iminqweno yethu imvakalelo kwaye sixhobise, sifumanisa ngokuchanekileyo indlela yokwandisa ukuvakala kwethu ngezimvo ezivuyisayo kwaye silungelelaniswe ngakumbi neemeko esinqwenela ukuvelisa.
Ingaba siyivumela njani le nto? Kukho izinto ezi-3 ezibalulekileyo zokwenza oku kwenzeke imfihlo umtsalane:
vele uyeke, phumla kwaye uvumele inkqubo yokuvelisa ihambe ngokuchanekileyo njengoko ifuna. Ukuba akunjalo, qiniseka nje ukuba ihlabathi lineyona nto ibalaseleyo engqondweni.
Umthetho womtsalane uyandithobela, ndiya kuhlala ndifumana into endiyibeke kuyo ingqondo yam
Ukuba kukho into endiyifunayo, kukum ukuba ndibeke impumlo kwi-whetstone ndisebenzele yona. Xa sigxila kumnqweno, sikhula ngakumbi umnqweno.
Ngaba sinokuhlala nje emva kwaye "sivumele" i-cosmos ukuba isinike nantoni na esiyifunayo?
Ngamaxesha athile, emva kokuba siyigqithisele iminqweno yethu kwicosmos kwaye siqalise ukuyiguqulela ngokuthe ngqo kweyethu. impilo Ukuvumela "ihlabathi" ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kusinika indlela yokufezekisa oko sikunqwenelayo, endaweni yokuyilungisa, ukuyila ngokupheleleyo kwimijikelo yethu.
Die okwakhiwa Iingcinga zakho - wakuba uyiqonda, iya kutshintsha ubomi bakho - umthetho wokutsalana
Ngaba sinokuhlala phantsi kwaye "sivumele" ihlabathi ukuba lisinike nantoni na esiyifunayo?
Ngamanye amaxesha emva kokuba siye satyhila iimfuno zethu kwihlabathi kwaye siqalise ukuziguqulela ngokuthe ngqo kwezethu impilo "Ukuxhobisa", ilizwe esiphila kulo ngokuqinisekileyo liya kunika indlela yokufezekisa oko sikunqwenelayo, kunokuba siyenze ngokufanelekileyo, kwimijikelo yethu yavela ngokupheleleyo.
Yiloo ndlela kanye onokwazisa ngayo ukuba unomdla wokwenza umsebenzi othile, kunokuba uzive ngathi kufuneka uwenze ukuze ufumane into oyifunayo.
Eli lelinye lawona manqaku anzima njengoko sinqwenela le nto siyifunayo ngoku ngokufanelekileyo. Asifuni kulinda enye okanye nantoni na eyenye. Xa sigxininisa kumnqweno, senza umnqweno owongezelelweyo.
Kunokuba nzima ukuvavanya oko sinako xa sijongana nezinto zethu ubomi abunelanga zi. Nangona kunjalo, xa kubuyela kwinto esiyigxininise kuyo kunye noko sikubandakanyayo.
Thatha umzuzu kulo lonke usuku lwakho ukuvavanya oko unako kein Ingxaki, nokuba incinci kangakanani kwaye iyinto engenamsebenzi isenokubonakala.
Kunye ne ixesha oku kukubeka kwisimo sombulelo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuzisa amanqaku amaninzi - kwaye la manqaku ahlala ekhula kwaye ekhudlwana.
Zinakekele ngale ndlela.
Xa siphendula ngokukhawuleza kolu lwaphulo-mthetho, iimeko ziyatshintsha kwaye zivele amathuba.
La mathuba ngokubanzi akhokelela ekuvulekeni okunokusinceda ukuba sihlangabezane neemfuno zethu ngokufanelekileyo nangokufanelekileyo, rhoqo kwaye ngokukhawuleza.
Phila ubomi ngokukhululeka kangangoko, phila - umthetho wokutsalana
Khumbula ukuba izinto ezithandekayo azikho rhabaxa okanye zingonwabanga. Le yindlela kanye onokufumanisa ngayo ukuba uyaphenjelelwa kumsebenzi othile.
Endaweni yokuziva ngathi kufuneka uyenzile ukuze ufumane le nto uyifunayo.
Kulula ukubandakanya umthetho wokutsala umdla, akunjalo?
Kusenokubonakala kunjalo ekuqaleni, kodwa njengoko uninzi lwethu lungenela, ekugqibeleni siyaqonda ukuba okukhona sizama ukulawula eyona nto iphambili, iimeko ezimbalwa ezingalawulekiyo ziya kuthotha ngokupheleleyo kwaye zibonakale zisebenza ekuxhaseni kwethu .
Imfihlelo Yomtsalane
Ngokuvumela ngabom ukuba i-cosmos iya kuyenza njani iminqweno yethu, siyaqinisekisa ukuba isiphelo esisinqwenelayo ngoku sisivumelwano esenziweyo. Kufuneka nje sizivumele ukuba sithembele kuyo.
