Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoAprili 18, 2022 ngu URoger Kaufman
Zeziphi izizathu zokungakwazi ukuyeka?
Kwiimeko ezininzi ebomini bethu siyacetyiswa ukuba sihambe.
Kodwa oko kulula ukuthetha kunokukwenza. Abekho apho yekela Izizathu zinokwahluka.
"Ukuba ufuna ukubhabha, kufuneka ukwazi ukuyeka into ekutsalela phantsi." -Ayaziwa
Ukungakwazi ukuyeka Izizathu: Abantwana
Isibini esitshatileyo siyayifumana uhlobo.
Uvuyo lukhulu.
Ekuqaleni, esi sidalwa esithandekayo asinakukwazi ukuzinceda kwaye sixhomekeke kwinkathalo yabazali bakhe.
Ingakumbi umama uyakhapha ngenxa ye umanyano olomeleleyo lwendalo nomntwana wakho kakhulu kakhulu.
Bobabini abazali banebhongo ngayo yonke inyathelo lokuphuhlisa umntwana wabo.
Ixesha lifika ngokukhawuleza xa intanda encinci ifuna ukwenza into yodwa.
Abanye abantu bakufumanisa kunzima oku ibhalansi ukufumana phakathi kokukhapha okusayimfuneko kunye nokuzimela komntwana.
Akukho mntu kufuneka akhuseleke ngokugqithisileyo- oku kubasusa amandla abo okoyisa ubunzima.
Kananjalo ayisayi kuhoywa kwaye ilahlwe ijelassen - oku kumoyisa umntwana kwaye kuyamtyhafisa.
Kongezwa koku ziimfuno zezalamane, abahlobo kunye noluntu lokukhathalela umntwana.
Konke oku kunye kunokukwenza oko yendalo Khubaza nayiphi na imvakalelo yokuziphatha okuchanekileyo.
Uluntu lwethu luya lusiba nzima ngakumbi kwaye kukho iingozi ezigqunywe kulo abantu abasondeleyo kwindalo ayifumaneki: iisokethi, ukugcwala kweemoto, izicoci zekhaya ezinetyhefu, ukugqithiswa kweemvakalelo ngokusebenzisa imifanekiso kunye neefilimu kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Abantwana ke ngoko bafuna inkxaso ethe kratya kwaye ende kunokuba kusenokufuneka ukukhula kwabo.
Esi sesinye isizathu sokuba kube nzima ukuyeka abantwana.
Xa abantwana bekhula, into elandelayo iza ILoslassen.
I-Kindergarten kunye nesikolo silungiselele inyathelo.
das uhlobo uchitha ixesha elingakumbi kude nabazali.
Ekugqibeleni uyaphuma aze aqalise usapho olutsha.
Oomama abaninzi inzimaukukhulula isithandwa sakho.
Esinye isizathu soku kukuba umsebenzi wabo awusasebenzi emntwaneni ukhuthalelo lwe.
Umama ngoku unexesha elingakumbi angenzi nto ngalo ixesha, ngenxa yokuba umsebenzi wekhaya uye waba mncinane.
Ngalo lonke ixesha babekho abantwana, lalingekho ixesha lezilangazelelo zobuqu.
Ekukhuleni kwabo, izilangazelelo zikanina ziye zalityalwa.
Kubazali abaninzi kulucelomngeni ukuba sisibini kwakhona leben kwaye wakhe ubomi bakho.
Yiyo loo nto befuna ukuqhubeka benyamekela abantwana babo abadala.
Kubafazi abaninzi namhlanje kusengumbandela wokunyamekela intsapho leben kunye nokukhathalela.
Ukuba lo msebenzi uyanyamalala, abasenayo injongo ebomini.
Oku kwenza kube nzima kubo Ukukhulula abantwana abakhulileyo.
Ukungakwazi ukuyeka Iimbangela: Ukusebenza
Kuluntu lwethu, umsebenzi yinxalenye yobomi.
Uninzi abantu ukuchitha iiyure ezili-9 okanye ngaphezulu yonke imihla emsebenzini nasendleleni eya apho.
Eminye imisebenzi inzima kwaye ithatha ngokusebenzisa ubanjwe kukuba urhatya luchithwa kusenziwa umsebenzi wasekhaya nokubukela umabonwakude.
Umsebenzi yintsingiselo yobomi – ngakumbi emadodeni. Bazazisa bona starker kunabafazi malunga nomsebenzi wabo kunye nomsebenzi.
yaseDordt phumelela bafumana ukuqatshelwa kwaye bahlala nabalingane babo.
Xa umhlala-phantsi uqalisa, amadoda namabhinqa amaninzi awela emngxunyeni.
Azisafuneki. Iminyaka yesiqhelo kunye nesakhiwo sobomi bemihla ngemihla siyawa.
Bafanele benze ntoni ngalo lonke eli xesha?
Ngoobani ngaphandle komsebenzi wabo?
Kwimeko yentswela-ngqesho, oku kudla ngokuba qatha ngakumbi, njengoko umfanekiso wobudenge nokusilela wongezwa.
das Ukuyeka umsebenzi inzima kakhulu kuba iye yaba yinxalenye yobuntu bakho.
Kuthatha ixesha elininzi lobomi bethu.
Sithetha ngento yokuba singababhaki hayi ukuba sisebenza njengababhaki.
Ukukhulula kunokwenzeka kuphela kumgama osuka kumsebenzi wakho wobugcisa.
Ukungakwazi ukuyeka Iimbangela: izinto
Intliziyo inamathele kwezinye izinto.
Zinxulunyaniswa neenkumbulo ezikhethekileyo kwaye zenza ubomi bethu bube mnandi.
Ezinye izinto, njengendlu, imoto yexabiso eliphezulu, ubucwebe obuqaqambileyo kunye nezinto ezinjalo, zibonisa isikhundla sethu esiphezulu (ngokomlinganiselo) kuluntu.
ukuyeka izinto eziphathekayo inzima, kuba oku kukwamisela ubuni bethu.
Isityebi indoda ulunge ngakumbi kunomntu ongenakhaya.
Ngokuphulukana nezinto, nodumo lunokulahleka.
das Ukuyeka izinto lunokuvusa uloyiko olukhoyo kuba lwalukwalulungiselelo lwamaxesha entswelo.
Ukongezelela koku lusizi kuba kukho into entle engekhoyo.
Izizathu zoku azikho ukukhulula zikwamiselwa ziimvakalelo.
Okukhona intsingiselo yeemvakalelo inikwa izinto, kokukhona ibambelela ngokungqongqo kuzo.
Ukungakwazi ukuyeka Iimbangela: Ukufa
Umfundisi omkhulu ekukhululeni ngulo Tod. Xa umntu esifa, liqala ixesha lokuzila.
Izigaba zakho ngabanye zizigaba zokuyeka ukuhamba. Nokuba awufuni ukuyivuma loo nto, yilwa nayo okanye uzike udandatheke: umfi akasayi kubuya.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni kunzima ukuyeka umntu omthandayo.
Kukho iimvakalelo ezinzulu zothando kunye uthando, ezingasabuyiselwayo.
das impilo utshintsho ngenxa yokuba imisebenzi ekwabelwana ngayo ayiseyomfuneko. Abo bazilileyo baba nobulolo ekunzima ukubuthwala.
Ukufa kwakho kuzinyanzelela ekubeni ube sezingqondweni.
Abantu abangekho kwenye Kholwa ibambelele kubomi obuqhubekayo bemiphefumlo ijongene nelahleko enkulu ngakumbi.
Ngokusisiseko, ukufa ngumbandela ongavumelekanga kuluntu lwethu
Abahlobo, abantu ababaziyo kunye nabasebenzi abasebenza nabo abazi ukuba baphendule njani kumntu osentlungwini.
Asikuphela nje ukuba umfi ulahlekile, kodwa nabahlobo kunye nabantu obaqhelileyo.
Konke oku kwenza kube nzima ILoslassen. Kunzima ukuyinyamezela le meko.
Xa usifa, ukuphela kwendlela yokubaleka kwenza kube nzima ukukuyeka.
Ukulangazelela umntu omthandayo kukhulu. Ushiya isithuba kwi impilo.
Nabani na onesilo-qabane uya kuthi ngaxa lithile ajamelane nesigqibo esinzima sokuba isilwanyana sakhe sibulawe.
Kukho iimpawu ezicacileyo xa ilixesha lokuba lowo umthandayo ahambe.
Kumniniyo oku kuthetha enye uthando ukukhulula. Oku kunzima. Isilwanyana akufuneki sisokole ngokungeyomfuneko okanye sife kwangoko kakhulu.
Izilwanyana zethu zinomonde kwaye azinamiqathango uthando izalisekile kuthi bantu.
Xa umntu elungile, yinyathele wenze ukuba indlela yomnyama.
Ukuyeka ukuhamba kunzima kakhulu apha kuba abantu baphila kwaye bacinga Tod umhlobo wakhe wesilwanyana kufuneka enze isigqibo.
Ukungakwazi ukuyeka Izizathu: Isiphelo
Hayi bona yekela Izizathu zinokwahluka.
Zinxibelelene neemvakalelo zethu.
Okukhona unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo luqina ngakumbi ebantwini kunye nokuchongwa ngemisebenzi kunye nezinto, kokukhona besiba nzulu ngakumbi.
Ngesi sizathu asinakusuka siyeke, nokuba intloko iyaqonda ukuba oko kuya kuba ngcono.
