Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoMeyi 25, 2022 ngu URoger Kaufman
Awukwazi ukuyeka - Uvaleleke kweyakho ukwesaba
Abantu abangakwazi ukukhulula banamathele ngokweemvakalelo kwimeko engabakhathazi nje kuphela ngengqondo, kodwa inokubenza bagule.
Inkuthazo iyancipha, ukudinwa kuyaqalisa kwaye nokudakumba kuyaqalisa.
Esi sikhokelo silandelayo sichaza ukuba kutheni kunzima kangaka ukungakwazi ukuyeka.
Kutheni ndingakwazi ukuyeka - uphando ngezizathu
Izinto ezikukhathaza kakhulu ngokwasemphefumlweni zide zikubhuqe kwaye zingaphumi entlokweni yakho inokuba zezi zilandelayo:
-I ubambiswano
Awonwabanga kubudlelwane benu kuba iqabane lakho alikuhoyi nanye ixesha kuwe, uba ndlongondlongo, okanye ulinxila.
- Indawo yokusebenza
Uyasindwa emsebenzini. Mininzi kakhulu imisebenzi ongenakukwazi ukumelana nayo kwaye iiodolo zinyuka yonke imihla.
Okanye abaceli mngeni kwaye benza umsebenzi obudenge xa unokuninzi onokukunika.
- Abamelwane
Ekhaya uxhatshazwa ngabamelwane. Yonke imihla ikhona inkathazo kwaye uziva ungakhululekanga kwiindonga zakho ezine.
- Ityala
Hayi yekela Ukuziva unetyala akunto ingaqhelekanga.
banayo enye imposiso yenziwe, kodwa uyoyika ukuyivuma ngenxa yokuba usabela ngovakalelo kakhulu kwindlela abasabela ngayo abo bakungqongileyo.
- Usizi
Unayo ebalulekileyo abantu ilahlekile. Ukulahlekelwa kwakhe kubuhlungu kwaye ucinga wonke umntu tag kuloo mntu.
Umbuzo othi "kutheni?" rhoqo ukujikeleza entlokweni yakho.
-Abantu abafuni ukutshintsha
Ulindele ukuba abantu, njengeqabane lakho, batshintshe.
Ukuziphatha kwakho kuyakukhathaza, kodwa akunamandla njengoko yonke into ihleli ngendlela eyiyo.
Le meko ikwenza ukuba unganeliseki.
– Amathuba aphoswe
Babefuna okungakumbi. Bona ihlabathi, funda umdlalo omtsha, owakho umsebenzi wokuphupha fumana okanye abantwana fumana kwaye utshate.
Abazange balithabathe ithuba. Umsindo okhoyo ubangela ukuba ulale.
- Imeko yehlabathi
Imfazwe, ukungabikho kokusesikweni kunye nemali elawula ihlabathi.
Abanye abantu bayakucaphukela izinto zabucala, kodwa awonelisekanga yimeko iyonke.
Izopolitiko ziyakucaphukisa.
Ungathanda ukubandakanyeka, ukunceda abanye abantu, kodwa unokwenza okuncinci.
-I impilo
Unesigulo esinganyangekiyo kwaye uziva udiniwe kwaye ungacelwa mngeni.
Hayi yekela ngenxa yempilo yabo, yimeko edla ngokwenzeka kuba ingafane iguqulwe.
– Indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga
Uhlala uzincama, ungene ekwaphuleni abanye, uluncedo kwaye uyathanda ukwenza abanye bonwabe.
Wena, kwelinye icala, uyasilela. Xa uziva uphantsi, akufane kubekho mntu apho.
Oku kungabikho sikweni akuyi kukuyeka.
Kutheni ndingakwazi ukuyeka-Yiyo loo nto kunzima kangaka?
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba ukwizo meko kwaye ngokusebenzisa ziyaqhubeka, nto leyo egulisa kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwako konke, kungenxa yesimo sakho sengqondo kunye noloyiko lwakho.
Imvakalelo yokungafanelwanga nto ibhetele, umzekelo xa iqabane lingalunganga, lixhaphake kakhulu.
Xa kufikelelwa kubamelwane abanesiphithiphithi, usenokungcungcuthekiswa kukoyika ukungquzulana.
Hayi ukukhulula, kuba umntu engafuni ukumlibala umntu ofileyo, nayo ixhaphake kakhulu.
Usenokucinga ukuba akakufanelekeli ukungacingi ngaye yonke imihla yaye loo mntu ekugqibeleni uya kubhanga aze alibale, nto leyo ekoyikisa kakhulu.
Abantu abaninzi nabo bazixelele ukuba yekela kukwathetha ukuncama umntu owakhe.
Okanye ukholelwa ukuba unomnye ongcono ubufanele ubomi kwaye uzingise kwindelelo nomsindo imeko yakho engenabulungisa.
Izizathu ezininzi zokuba “hayi ukuzikhulula” phantse azipheli.
Abantu abakwazi ukuyeka - iziphumo ezinokwenzeka
Ukuba ubambeke kakhulu kwimeko ekugcina uxakekile kwaye ulahlekelwe nguwe kunye nempilo yakho amehlo ukulahlekelwa, iimpawu zibonakala kufuneka zibe sisilumkiso.
ubuthongo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo iziphumo ezinokwenzeka.
Amaphupha amabi nawo kufuneka abe luphawu olubonisa ukuba awuziva uphilile ngokwasengqondweni. ukuhlaselwa kovalo kunye Uloyiko lusasazeka kwaye uziva yena ngokwakhe akanawo amandla.
Esi ayisosimo sengqondo somlinganiswa, kodwa sisekelwe kwimeko abangenako ukuyiphatha kwaye abayi kuyiyeka.
Ukuziphatha kakubi nako isiphumo esinokwenzeka lokuhlala kwimeko enzima, njengokufikelela ebhotileni emva kokulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo.
Xa iimvakalelo inzondo kunye nomsindo rhoqo ingxelo kwaye awukwazi ukuphuma isimo esibi, kwakhona luphawu isilumkiso ukutshintsha into.
Wakuba usazi unobangela wokubandezeleka kwakho, zibuze le mibuzo ilandelayo:
- "Ingaba ndim onoxanduva kule meko?"
"Ngaba ndingenza into ngayo?"
- "Ngaba ndiziva ndikhululekile kule meko?"
- "Ndingathanda uku?"
Ngokuphendula le mibuzo, unokufumana indlela yokuyeka kwaye ubuyele kwintlalontle yakho.
Uvaleleke kuloyiko lwakho, zikhulule!
USadhguru ujonga indlela injongo yokucamngca ayikuko nje ukuzisa umntu kwi-ecstasy, kodwa ukudala "isithuba" phakathi kwakho kunye nokuba yintoni umzimba nengqondo yakho.
Xa oko kwenzekile, kukuphela kokubandezeleka.
Sadhguru isiJamani
