Abanethemba lokuphila ngoku

Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngoFebruwari 25, 2024 ngu URoger Kaufman

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Abanethemba bahlala kwi Gegenwart.

“Bobabini abanethemba kunye nabangenathemba banegalelo elihle kuluntu lwethu. Umntu onethemba usungula inqwelomoya kwaye umntu ongathembiyo usungula iparashute.” – Gil Stern

Ibali lemeadow - abanethemba baphila ngoku

le yi imbali yexhego nenkwenkwana eyayiphila kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo.

der indala Igama lale ndoda yayinguSartebus yaye igama lale nkwenkwe yayinguKim.

UKim wayeyinkedama kwaye ehlala yedwa. Wayehamba ezilalini ngeedolophana efuna Ukutya kunye nophahla phezu intloko.

Kodwa kukho enye into awayeyifuna, eyona nto ibaluleke ngakumbi kunokuzala nesisu esitofotofo nesomileyo sokulala.

UKim wafuna ukuqonda.

“Kutheni,” wazibuza, “sibanye impilo Kudala sikhangela into esingayifumaniyo? Kutheni yonke into kufuneka ibenzima kangaka?

Ngaba sizenza nzima kuthi, okanye yindlela nje ekufuneka sizenzele nzima ngayo?”

Babelumkile ngokusebenzisa ngenxa yobudala benkwenkwe uKim.

Kodwa ngenxa yokuba wayecinga ngolo hlobo, ngenye imini esendleleni wadibana nexhego elalihamba kwaloo ndlela yaye, uKim wayenethemba lokuba wayenokukwazi ukumnika impendulo.

der indoda endala emqolo ethwele ingobozi enkulu elukiweyo, eyayibonakala ingenakuphatheka, ingakumbi kwindoda endala nedinwe ngolo hlobo.

Ngenye imini baphumla ngakumlambo owawuqukuqela ecaleni kwendlela.

Ixhego, lidiniwe, labeka ibhaskithi yalo phantsi. UKim wayenoluvo lokuba ixhego lalinxibe zonke izinto zalo zasemhlabeni iimpahla kule ngobozi inye nawe.

Wayebonakala enzima kangangokuba a mncinci kwaye ke indoda eyomeleleyo yayingayi kuba nako ukumthwala ithuba elide.

“Kutheni ingobozi yakho inzima kangaka nje?” wabuza uKim Sartebus.

“Ndingathanda ukukunxiba yona. Ngapha koko, ndimncinci kwaye ndomelele, kwaye wena udiniwe:

“Hayi, awukwazi kundiphathela yona,” laphendula ixhego. “Kufuneka ndiyithwale ngokwam.” Emva koko wongeza:

"Ngenye imini uya kuhamba ngendlela yakho kwaye uphathe ingobozi yakho enzima njengale."

UKim kunye nexhego bahamba iintsuku ezininzi kunye neekhilomitha ezininzi kunye.

Kwaye nangona uKim wabuza iSartebus yakudala imibuzo emininzi malunga nokuba kutheni abantu Wabuza enoba kwakufuneka abandezeleke kangako na, kodwa akazange afumane mpendulo.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba wayezama kangakanani na, akazange akwazi ukuqonda ukuba yayibubutyebi obunjani na Wowu yayikwingobozi eyayiyithwele ixhego.

Ezinzulwini zobusuku, ekupheleni kohambo lwabo losuku olude, uKim wayedla ngokungqengqa aze azenze ngathi ulele.

Wamamela ixhego ligqogqa ingobozi yalo kwisibane esidanyazayo somlilo omncinci, lithe cwaka lodwa. Kodwa ngentsasa elandelayo, njengesiqhelo, akazange athethe nelimdaka.

Kuphela kuxa uSartebus engasakwazi ukuya phambili kwaye walala phantsi ukuze aphumle okokugqibela apho waxelela uKim oselula ibali lakhe. imfihlo.

Ngethuba leeyure zabo zokugqibela kunye, akazange anike uKim kuphela impendulo yento ebhaskidi yonke into, kodwa nokuba kutheni abantu babekhathazekile.

“Kule bhaskithi,” watsho uSartebus,

“Ngaba zonke izinto endandizikholelwa ngam zazingeyonyani. Ngamatye awenze nzima uhambo lwam.

Emhlana wam ndithwele ubunzima bayo yonke ingqalutye yamathandabuzo, lonke ukhozo lwesanti yokungaqiniseki kunye nelitye lokusila lendlela engalunganga endiye ndadibana nayo ebomini bam. Iilebhile baqokelele.

Ngaphandle kwakhe ngendihambe kakhulu. Ibingase ndiwaqonde amaphupha ebendisoloko ndiwacinga. Kodwa ngabo ndifikelele esiphelweni sohambo lwam apha”.

Ixhego lingakhange lizivule iintambo ezibophe ibhaskithi kuye amehlo ndalala ngoxolo okokugqibela.

Ngaphambi kokuba uKim alale ngokwakhe ngobo busuku, wakhulula intambo nganye eyayibotshelelwe ingobozi kwixhego waza wayibeka ngononophelo ingobozi phantsi.

Wandula ke, kanye ngobunono, wakhulula imitya yofele eyayibambe isiciko esilukiweyo waza wayivula ingobozi.

Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba wayefuna impendulo kumbuzo wakhe, akazange akhwankqiswe koko wakufumana engobozini. Ingobozi eyayinobunzima beSartebus ixesha elide yayingenanto.

Umthombo: Akwaziwa

Ndiyayithanda kwaye ndiyayihlonipha ngoku

Imigaqo yam ekhokelayo kubantu abanethemba iphila ngoku

• Ndiyaziqonda ixesha ukurhweba
• Ndiyanyamezela – kwabanye
• Ndilungelelene kwaye ndenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo
• ich liebe Ubudlelwane bam ngabunye njengoko bulungile kum
• Iingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye nezenzo zam ziya zigxila ngakumbi ngoku kuba ndiyazi ukuba ndinethemba leben okwangoku.

Iingcaphuno ezingama-28 ezikhuthazayo zokuBasa uMlilo wakho wethemba langaphakathi (Ividiyo)

Umntu onethemba ubona bonke ubunzima njengethuba, umntu ongenathemba ubona onke amathuba njengobunzima.” - Winston Churchill

"Ithemba yinkolelo esenza sikwazi ukubona izinto njengoko zinjalo, kunokuba zibe njalo." - uHelen Keller

"Umntu onethemba akasoloko engalunganga kunomntu ongenathemba, kodwa uhlala onwabile." -UJean Paul

Kukho ngokwaneleyo emhlabeni kwiimfuno zomntu wonke, kodwa akwanelanga ukubawa komntu wonke. " - Mahatma Gandhi

"Ithemba kukukwazi ukubona ukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela ngaphambi kokuba ufike etoneleni." – Aron Ralston

“Ithemba yinkolelo yokuba yonke into iza kulunga. Ukuphelelwa ithemba yinkolelo yokuba yonke into iza kuba mbi.” - Khalil Gibran

"Ithemba kukukwazi ukubona isibhakabhaka esiluhlaza emva kwamafu." - ayaziwa

“Ukuba nethemba lukholo olushukumisa iintaba.” - ayaziwa

Ukuba nethemba kukukholelwa kwinto ebhetele Ikamva." - ayaziwa

“Kusoloko kukho isizathu sokuba nethemba.” - ayaziwa

"Ithemba kukuzithemba okukhokelela kwimpumelelo." - ayaziwa

Ukuba nethemba kukuzimisela okusenza siphumelele amaxesha anzima iyakhokela." - ayaziwa

"Ithemba yinkolelo eyenza ukuba sifezekise into engenakwenzeka." - ayaziwa

"Ithemba kukukholelwa kwikamva kunye nenkolelo yokuba nabuphi na ubunzima bunokoyiswa." - ayaziwa

Umntu onethemba ngumntu okholelwa kuye wonke umntu imposiso ibonwa njengesifundo.” - ayaziwa

"Ikamva lelabo bakholelwa kubuhle bamaphupha abo." - Eleanor Roosevelt

Ungaze unikezele kuba ubomi bufana nentaba ekufuneka uyiqabele. Kodwa xa ufika phezulu, umbono uyaphefumla. ” - ayaziwa

Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungayenza okanye ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza, unyanisile kuzo zombini iimeko. ” - Henry Ford

Zonke iingxaki zikwavula ithuba.” - Albert Einstein

“Xa ukwixesha elinzima, khumbula ukuba okona kulungileyo kuseza. Yayisoloko ifumana indlela yokuza kuwe.” - ayaziwa

“Yiba nethemba. Ndiziva ngcono.” - Dalai Lama XIV.

Kufuneka wenze oku Ziyeke ii-negativesukwamkela okulungileyo.” - ayaziwa

"Yonke imzuzu unomsindo okanye uxinzelelo ngumzuzu olahlekileyo wolonwabo." - ayaziwa

"Kuhlala kuselithuba ukuba unikezele." – UNorman Vincent Peale

das ubomi luhambo, yaye ukuba sijonga iindlela ezimbi kuphela, siyayiphosa imbono entle.” - ayaziwa

"Ithemba ngumazibuthe otsala iziganeko ezilungileyo ebomini bakho." - ayaziwa

"Hlala ukhumbula ukuba into ephambi kwakho ibaluleke kakhulu kunokuba isemva kwakho." - ayaziwa

Kungcono, emvuleni ukudanisa kunokulinda ilanga.” - ayaziwa

Amabali achukumisayo: Amandla ezikweko

1. Abanethemba baphila ngoku:

• Isikweko: Abantu abanethemba ngekamva bafana nojongilanga. Basoloko bejongisa ubuso babo elangeni, nokuba kumnyama.
• Ingcaciso: Lo mzekeliso ubonisa ukuba abantu abanethemba bagxininisa kwiinkalo ezintle zobomi, nakumaxesha anzima.

2. Yiyeke:

• Isikweko: Ukuyiyeka kufana nokuvula intlabathi ezele isandla. Okukhona ucudisa ngakumbi, kokukhona uphulukana nesanti.
• Ingcaciso: Lo mzekeliso ubonisa ukuba kubalulekile ukuyeka, ukuyeka ukulawula kunye nokuzinikela ekuhambeni kobomi.

3. Ulonwabo lobomi:

• Isikweko: Ulonwabo ebomini lufana nomdaniso. Kukho amanyathelo ahlukeneyo kunye nezingqisho, kodwa ihlala imalunga nokuzonwabisa kunye nokuhamba.
• Ingcaciso: Lo mzekeliso wenza kucace ukuba ulonwabo ebomini luvela kwintshukumo kunye nomsebenzi, kwaye kubalulekile ukunandipha amaxesha amahle ebomini.

4. Izicatshulwa:

• Isikweko: Iingcaphuno zifana neeperile. Zincinci kwaye azibonakali, kodwa zinokuba nexabiso elikhulu.
• Ingcaciso: Esi safobe sibonisa ukuba iingcaphulo zinokuqulatha amazwi obulumko anokusikhuthaza aze asikhuthaze.

5. Ibali:

• Isikweko: Ibali lifana nohambo. Kusithatha ukuya kwiindawo ezintsha kwaye kusenze sibe namava amatsha.
• Ingcaciso: Lo mzekeliso ubonisa ukuba amabali anokusinceda siliqonde ngcono ihlabathi elisingqongileyo kwaye sifumane iimbono ezintsha.

Amazwi okudala akhuthazayo:

“Ubomi bufana nephazili. Kuhlala kukho iziqwenga ezifanelekileyo, kufuneka uzifumane. ”

"Ilanga lihlala likhanya, nangona singakwazi ukulibona."

"Kuhlala kukho into onokuthi uncume ngayo, kufuneka uyifumane."

“Ukuba nethemba kufana nesihlunu. Okukhona umqeqesha, kokukhona esiya esomelela ngakumbi.”

"Ikamva lelabo bakholelwa kubuhle bamaphupha abo."

“Izaqhwithi zenza imithi yomelele.”

“Ulonwabo ayisiyondawo yokuya kuyo, kodwa luhambo.”

"Yonke imihla sisipho esitsha."

"Akukho ngxaki, yimiceli mngeni kuphela."

"Ihlabathi libukeka lihle ngakumbi kunoncumo ebusweni bakho."

ibhonasi:

"Akukaze kube kudala kakhulu ukuba uqale kwakhona."

Iintetho ezihlekisayo malunga nethemba:

Ii-Optimists zifana neekuki zethamsanqa: Awunakwazi ukuba uya kufumana ntoni, kodwa ihlala imnandi.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo uthi, xa evuka ekuseni, acinge: "namhlanje inokuba lusuku endayifumana ngalo idayinaso!

Umntu ongathembiyo ubona iglasi isiqingatha ingenanto, umntu onethemba ubona iglasi igcwele, kwaye umntu oqinisekileyo uyazibuza: Ngubani lo usele amanzi?

Abanethemba lokuba nojongilanga: Basoloko bejongisa ubuso babo elangeni, naxa kunetha imvula.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo uthi, ewela emngxunyeni, aqalise ngoko nangoko ukwemba ubutyebi.

Umntu ongenathemba ubona ukukhanya kwitonela ngalinye. Umntu onethemba uyambona uloliwe ozayo. Umntu wokwenene ubona udonga apho uloliwe aya ngakulo.

Abanethemba lifana neebhaloni: Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uziyeke ziphefumle ukuze zingabhabhi.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo, xa e-odola ikomityi yekofu, acinge: Ukuba nayo iza kugcwala xa eyifumene.

Umntu ongathembiyo ubona ukubanjiswa kuyo yonke imbeko. Umntu onethemba ubona yonke ikhonkco njengento yokuncoma.

Abanethemba lifana netshungama: Abanakuze baphulukane ngokupheleleyo nencasa yabo, nokuba sele besemlonyeni wakho ixesha elide.

Kungcono ukudanisa emvuleni kunokulinda ukuba kuphume ilanga.

Abanethemba lifana neminyama: Ubabona kuphela xa kunetha.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo uthi, xa ebona indawo yokwakha, acinge: “Ewe, ekugqibeleni kwakhiwa into entsha apha!”

Umntu ongenathemba ubona zonke izipho azinikwayo njengehashe, kodwa ngoko nangoko ujonga emlonyeni ukuze abone enoba alikagugi kakhulu kusini na.

Abanethemba lifana neenkwenkwezi: Zikwakhanya ebumnyameni.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo uthi, xa ebona inyoka, acinge: “Wowu, esinjani sona ukuba sihle isilwanyana!”

Umntu ongenathemba ubona zonke iiholide njengethuba lokugula.

Abantu abajonge izinto ezintle bafana neembovane: Abanikezeli, nokuba banentaba enkulu phambi kwabo.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo, xa ejongene nengxaki, acinge: “Eli lithuba lokufunda into entsha!”

Umntu ongenathemba ubona wonke umntu njengotshaba olunokubakho.

Abanethemba lifana nedayimani: Baxabiseke kakhulu phantsi koxinzelelo.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo uthi, xa esiwa, acinge: “Ke ngoku ndiyakwazi ukuziphakamisa ndiqhubeke!”

Umntu ongenathemba ubona imaski kulo lonke uncumo.

Abanethemba lifana nelanga: Bazisa ukufudumala nokukhanya ehlabathini.

Umntu onethemba ngulowo uthi xa esifa acinge: “Yayibubomi obumnandi!”

Amabinzana akhuthazayo okudala amafutshane:

Imisebe yelanga entliziyweni: Ukufudumala nokukhanya emphefumlweni.

Amaphiko ebhabhathane esiswini: Ukukhanya okucocekileyo kunye nenkululeko.

Umnyama emva kwesaqhwithi: Ubuhle emva kwemingeni.

Iinkwenkwezi ebusuku: Ithemba kunye nempembelelo kumaxesha amnyama.

Ukuhleka njengeyeza: Elona yeza lomzimba nengqondo.

Umbulelo njengesimo sengqondo ebomini: Uvuyo kwizinto ezincinci nezinkulu.

inkalipho malunga ne-adventure: Fumana izinto ezintsha ngokufuna ukwazi kunye nokuvuleleka.

Guqula njengethuba: Ukukhula kunye nophuhliso ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezintsha.

uthando njengomthombo wamandla: Amandla angenasiphelo kunye nolonwabo olunzulu.

Amandla ngaphakathi kuwe: Ukuthemba nokuzithemba okungagungqiyo.

Ukwahluka njengesipho: Utyebise ihlabathi ngeetalente zakho.

Ukuzibulela: Uthando kunye nentlonipho kubuntu bakho.

Ethandwayo kwaye eQhagamshelwe: Ukhuseleko kunye nokufudumala entliziyweni.

Amaphupha njengezikhokelo: Inkuthazo kunye nenkuthazo kwiinjongo zakho.

Kholelwa kumandla akho: Ukwenza okungenakwenzeka.

Phila ubomi bakho: Dala ulonwabo lwakho ngawo wonke umoya.

Amazwi akhuthazayo akhuthazayo:

Kholelwa kuwe: Ungafezekisa nantoni na obeka ingqondo yakho kuyo ukuba uyakholelwa kuyo.

Ungaze uncame: Indlela eya empumelelweni isoloko inamatye, kodwa ekugqibeleni uya kuvuzwa.

Yiba nethemba: Umhlaba ugcwele ubuhle kwaye uyazibuza ukuba ujonge nje ngamehlo akho evulekile.

Landlela intliziyo yakho: Yenza into ekwenza wonwabe kwaye uya kuphumelela.

Hlala apha kwaye ngoku: Ixesha elidlulileyo liphelile kwaye ikamva aliqinisekanga. Lonwabele elixesha kwaye wenze okuninzi ngalo.

Yiba nombulelo: Zininzi izinto onokubulela ngazo ebomini bakho. Zixabise izinto ezincinci kwaye uya konwaba ngakumbi.

Hleka rhoqo: Ukuhleka lelona yeza lilungileyo kwaye kwenza wena kunye nabantu abakungqongileyo wonwabe ngakumbi.

Zijikeleze nabantu abalungileyo: Abantu ozingqongileyo banempembelelo enkulu kwimo yakho nakwintlalontle.

Shiya indawo yakho yokuthuthuzela: Kuphela ngokuzama izinto ezintsha onokukhula kwaye uphuhlise.

Tsibela kwi-adventure: Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ungabuchitha ngoloyiko kunye namathandabuzo. Phila ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo!

Guqula ihlabathi: Unamandla okwenza ihlabathi libe yindawo engcono. Yenza into entle kwabanye kwaye uya kuziva ngcono ngawe.

Yonke imihla sisipho: Yixabise yonke imihla kwaye wenze okuninzi kuyo.

Ubomi buhle: Jabulela izinto ezincinci ebomini kwaye ube nombulelo ngayo yonke into onayo.

Wahlukile: Akakho umntu onjengawe emhlabeni.Zingce ngobuwena nangobungafani bakho.

Womelele: Unokwenza nantoni na obeka ingqondo yakho kuyo ukuba ukholelwa kuwe.

Uxabisekile: Ungumntu oxabisekileyo ofanelwe kukonwaba.

Uyathandwa: Uyathandwa ngabantu obakhathalelayo kwaye nawe.

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