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Ukufunda ukuyeka – Ngaba ibali lingasitshintsha?
Xa i ibali iingqondo neentliziyo zethu washukuma, emva koko wadala ukuzimisela kuthi ukutshintsha into. Ukufunda ukuyeka ukuhamba nebali, ngaba oko kunokwenzeka?
Ndathi ndisemncinci uhlobo Utat'omkhulu wayedla ngokuya nam ukuya kuthenga ngeMigqibelo.
Ngomnye wale Migqibelo ndandihamba notatomkhulu ndidlula kucingo lwasegadini olutyalwe ezona roses zintle ndakha ndazibona.
Ndema ndawafunxa yimincili. Elinjani lona ivumba! “Tatomkhulu, ayizizo iirozi ezintle wakha wazibona ezi?” ndabuza. Ngequbuliso kwaphuma ilizwi emva kocingo: “Ungayifumana irozi, mncinci. Khetha ibe nye!” Ndijonge ku tamkhulu ngombuzo, wanqwala.
Ndiye ndajika ndabuyela kulamfazi usemva kocingo. “Uqinisekile ukuba ndingayithatha enye?” "Ewe mntwana wam", yaba yimpendulo.
Ndakhetha irozi ebomvu esele idumbile. Ndiye ndabulela kula mfazi ndancoma ubuhle begadi yakhe.
Njengoko ndandiza kuguquka, wathi, “Ndityala iirozi ukuze abanye bazinandiphe. Andiboni ngokwam kuba ndiyimfama.” Ndathula ndakhawuleza ndaqonda ukuba lo mama ubaluleke kakhulu.
Ndaye ndaqonda ukuba eli bhinqa lalindinike okungakumbi kunolu rozi. Ukusukela ngala mini ndizama ukulinganisa lo mfazi, ndiye ndazama ukulinganisa nabanye abantu ukubanika into yokubavuyisa ngaphandle kokusukela inzuzo yam.
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Amabali amafutshane asi-7
Nanga amabali kunye neengcaphuno endizihlanganisele kuwe:
Ibali lofudo nomvundla:
"Nokuba ukhawuleza kangakanani, ukuba ubaleka kwicala elingalunganga, awuzukufika ndawo." – Aesop
Ibali lebhabhathane kunye nombungu:
"Sonke kufuneka sitshintshe ukuze sikhule, kwaye sonke kufuneka siwele nzulu ngamanye amaxesha ukuze sifumane amaphiko ethu." -Ayaziwa
Ibali lekhephu kunye nelanga:
Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka siyeke"Ukukhula, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sinyibilike ukuze sihlaziye." -Ayaziwa
Ibali lempuku nengonyama:
"inkalipho akuthethi ukuba ungoyiki, kodwa uyaqhubeka nangona usoyika.” -Ayaziwa
Ibali lomlobi kunye nokrebe:
"Umceli mngeni mkhulu, umvuzo omkhulu." -Ayaziwa
Ibali lokhozi nenkukhu:
"Ukuba sigxile kuphela emhlabeni, siyakukhumbula ubuhle obusingqongileyo." -Ayaziwa
Ibali Lembovane neNtethe:
"I - impilo lifutshane, kwaye kufuneka sithathe onke amathuba ukwenza umahluko. " -Ayaziwa
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Amabali amafutshane ayindlela entle yokuziqhelanisa nokubhala kuba agxininisa ubufutshane kunye nokuchaneka. Zisenokufundwa ngokukhawuleza, nto leyo ezenza zilungele abantu abangenaxesha elincinane. Ukongeza, banokunceda ukuphucula izakhono zokufunda ngokubonelela ngamava okufunda amafutshane kwaye agxile.
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Indlu eshiyiweyo
Ndathi ndihamba ehlathini, ndafika kukho u-a izibingelelo, indlu engasasetyenziswayo efihlwe phakathi kwemithi. Kwakumnyama kwaye kuyoyikeka, kodwa andizange ndikwazi ukumelana nokungena kunye nokuphonononga.
Ndingene emnyango ndangena kwigumbi elikhulu lokuphumla eligqunywe luthuli nentambo. Bekusele kugugile yonke into ekweli gumbi, ndingakwazi nokushukuma ukuba ndijongwe.
Ndaqalisa ukulaqaza endlwini ndaza ndafumana izinyuko ezisithela kumgangatho ongaphantsi. Ndiye ndamlandela ndehla ndithe xa ndinyathela okokugqibela ndeva ngengxolo engathi ngumntu ovala ucango.
Bendindedwa kwigumbi elingaphantsi kwandothusa ingxolo. Bendifuna ukuphuma endlini kodwa ndithe xa ndijika ndabona umnyango ndingena utixiwe.
Ndothuke ndangcangcazela ucango kodwa zange lushukume. Kuthe kusenjalo ndeva izingqi emva kwam. Ndijike ndabona umntu omnyama esiza kum ethe chu.
Ndazama ukukhwaza, kodwa ilizwi lam liye latshona. Ifigure ibiye isondela kwaye bendifelwe luloyiko. Ekugqibeleni uye wema phambi kwam ndaqonda ukuba sisithunzi nje.
Ndiphefumlele phezulu, kodwa ndithe xa ndijika ndizama ukulishukumisa ucango, lwavele lwazivulela lodwa. Ndabaleka ndangena emnyango ndaphuma endlini ndingajonganga ngasemva.
Ndandingazi ukuba kwenzeke ntoni endlini, kodwa ndandiqinisekile ukuba soze ndibuye. Ndithe xa ndijika ndayokroba okokugqibela endlini, ndabona ukuba kulayitiwe ifestile engaphantsi. Ndabaleka ngokukhawuleza kangangoko ndandinako ndazama ukuba ndingaze ndiphinde ndiyicinge into endiye ndadibana nayo kuloo ndlu.
