Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoMatshi 8, 2024 ngu URoger Kaufman
Isikhokelo esincinci kwisibindi esingaphezulu
Indlela yokujongana neengxaki zobomi ngenkalipho. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazazi ezinye zezi meko?
Imiyalelo Minimalist ukuba nesibindi ngakumbi kwiimeko zilandelayo
- ubani unoloyiko lwezinto ezithile, uvalo okanye iintloni; ubani uyoyika izinto ezibambekayo zehlabathi ezifana nokugula, iintlungu, iingozi, ubuhlwempu, ubumnyama, ubulolo, ukungonwabi;
- kuxinene ngaphakathi; Ngamanqam uba nengxaki yokuthetha okanye ukuthintitha;
- umntu uthetha kakhulu ngenxa yovalo;
- umntu utyhala izinto phambi kwakhe ngenxa yexhala (kwimeko yam ubukhulu becala yimbuyekezo yam yerhafu)
- ubani uba nexhala kakhulu xa ehlangabezana nenkcaso okanye xa into ingasebenzi;
- ubukho babanye kuyakuqoba.
Asinakuyenza loo nto ngamandla ethu kuphela Indlela yobomi, nto leyo esizabalazela yona.
Kuphela ukuzinikela okupheleleyo okusinika isitshixo sokungakumbi inkalipho.
Ibali elikuxelela ngezi ubunzima kunye nemicelimngeni yobomi kufuneka incede ukujongana nayo ngenkalipho kunye nokuzola:
Ibali ukuze ube nesibindi
Kukho intle imbali ngokhozi olwakhuliswa ngeenkukhu.
Olu khozi ke nalo lakholelwa ukuba liyinkukhu kwaye lachitha imini yonke licofa iinkozo.
Ngenye imini umthandi weentaka wafumanisa ukhozi waza wagqiba kwelokuba abuyisele olu khozi ekubeni luyiyo, ukumkani wesibhakabhaka, ukhozi nje.
Waqala wangena ehokweni yenkukhu waluphakamisela phezulu ukhozi.
Ukhozi lwaphaphazela amaphiko alo, lubonisa ngokucacileyo amandla alo afihlakeleyo.
Umthandi weentaka wathi kuye: "Yolula amaphiko akho kwaye bhabha ukusuka apho! Awuyonkukhu, uyinkosi yezulu. Ungabhabhela phezulu. Unganeliseki bubomi benkukhu!"
Kodwa ukhozi lwawa emhlabeni lwaza ngoko nangoko lwabuyela ekugqogqani ingqolowa, njengoko zonke iinkuku zenza.
Kangangeentsuku umthandi weentaka ezama ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Kodwa ukhozi lwahlala neenkukhu. Ngenye imini, ekhathazekile, isithandwa seentaka salufaka ehokweni ukhozi lwaza lwalusa ezintabeni.
Wabeka ikheji phezu kongqameko waza wavula ucango lwekheji.
Noko ke, ukhozi lwasuka lwamnika inkangeleko engaqhelekanga lwaza lwaqhwanyaza namehlo akhe.
Umthandi weentaka ngononophelo wakhupha ukhozi ehokweni waza walubeka phezu kwelitye.
Ukhozi lwajonga phezulu esibhakabhakeni lwaza kwakhona lwawolula amaphiko alo amahle.
Okwesihlandlo sokuqala, kwakubonakala ngathi uve into engeyiyo inkukhu ngaphakathi kuye.
Njengoko ukhozi lujonge phantsi, amaphiko alo aqalisa ukungcangcazela. Umthandi weentaka waphawula ukuba ukhozi lufuna ngokwenene ukubhabha, kodwa olo loyiko lwamthintela.
Walutyhalela enzonzobileni ukhozi ngononophelo, kodwa ukhozi lwasuka lwangcangcazela lwaza aluzange lubhabhe.
Emva kweenzame ezininzi, umthandi weentaka wahlala phantsi edanile kwaye wayengazi ukuba enze ntoni kwakhona. “Ndingalifundisa njani ukhozi ukubhabha?” wazibuza.
Walaqaza waza wathabatha imbonakalo yentaba. Njengoko wayejonge encotsheni yentaba, ngequbuliso impendulo yafika kuye.
Walubuyisela ukhozi ehokweni waza wakhwela nalo waya kwenye yeencopho. Kwakukho amaxhalanga. Apho zazinendlwane zazo. Ukusuka apho aphaphazela aphuma ngezingqi ezinamandla zamaphiko.
Ukhozi lwayibukela ngocoselelo yonke le nto, lwathi nje ukuba luphume ehokweni, lwawolula amaphiko alo, lwaphaphazela, lwatsiba-tsiba elityeni kodwa akwabikho nto.
Kuthe kusenjalo watyibilika kuba ilanga belimfamekisa. Kodwa njengoko yawayo, ngequbuliso yaqonda ukuba inokubhabha ngokulula, njengamanye amaxhalanga.
Wafumanisa ukuba ungubani na, ukhozi! Ekhululekile yaye enxilile, wayijikeleza incopho yentaba izihlandlo ezimbalwa waza ekugqibeleni wabhabha.
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Ezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zempumelelo kukungaphumeleli kwabantu luloyiko
Enye yezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo ze erfolg Uloyiko lwabantu. Uninzi lwethu lunelizwi elincinci. Uphumle egxalabeni lakho kwaye usebeza ezindlebeni zethu nathi...
- Oku kuyingozi!
- Lumka!
- Yima nje ... mnike ixesha ...
- Andiqinisekanga ngale nto?
- And my favourite too...bendingazuyenza lento if bendinguwe!
Inkalipho eyongezelelekileyo yeyona ndlela isebenzayo
Sihlala sivumela uloyiko ukuba lulawule izigqibo zethu. Nangona kunjalo, enye nesibindi Ukuphila yenye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo zokufumana impumelelo kumbutho nasebomini.
Enyanisweni, ngokuka-Aristotle, inkalipho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kumntu wokuqala kuba yenza ukuba zonke ezinye zibe nokwenzeka.
Umntu odumileyo ocinga kakuhle Dale Carnegie ucebise abantu ukuba benze izinto abazoyikayo njengeyona ndlela ikhawulezayo yokoyisa inkxalabo.
Ulugxotha njani uloyiko kwaye uphile oko impiloufuna ntoni?
Iingcebiso ezili-10 zokukhalipha ngakumbi
1. Yamkela ukuba sesichengeni
abantuAbantu abaphila ubomi obusekelwe kuloyiko badla ngokungazithembanga kangako. Ukuba uyoyika ukuba abanye abantu baya kukubona ukuba ungubani na, vula kwaye ube sesichengeni ngakumbi.
2. Vuma ukuba unoloyiko
Awugcini nje ngokuvuma ukuba uyazivulela, kodwa nokuba unenkxalabo.
Xa uqonda into oyiyo ngokupheleleyo ISorgen Ukwenza oku kuya kukunika ulwazi oludingayo ukuze ulahle iinkxalabo kunye nokungaqiniseki.
3. Jongana neyakho Ukukhathala.
Ukuzixela iinkxalabo zakho ngokwakho kuyenye indlela entle kakhulu, ukususa uloyiko okanye uloyiko.
Abantu abesaba iinyoka bahlala betshintsha ingqondo yabo emva kokunyanga iinyoka ngoncedo lochwepheshe abaqeqeshiweyo.
4. Cinga ngendlela eyakhayo
Inxalenye yengqondo efanelekileyo kukuvumela abanye ukuba bakuthande kwaye babonise uthando lwakho. Ukuba uluhlobo lokukhanyela izinto ozikhethayo, vumela abanye abantu bakwenzele izinto ezintle.
5. Nciphisa eyakho istres
Udla ngokuzikhathaza ngokudinwa. Qinisekisa ukuba utya ngokwaneleyo, ulala ngokwaneleyo, kwaye uloliwe. Thatha ikhefu kwaye wenze ixesha lakho nawe hamba.
Sonke sifuna enye Misa isikhashana.
6. Bonisa imithambo-luvo
Enye indlela ebalulekileyo yokoyisa ixhala kukutyhila inkalipho yakho. Thatha ixesha lakhoukunceda umntu okwimeko eyingozi.
Kunokuba ungamhoyi umntu osweleyo, cela uncedo okanye uthathe inyathelo elibukhali ukuze ungenelele.
7. imposiso qonda kodwa uqhubele phambili
Xa uyeka ukusebenza, musa ukungxamela kwikona yokomfuziselo.
umtshi lieber qhubeka.
8. Ukujongana nobungozi kunye nokungaqiniseki
Ungaloyisa uloyiko lwakho ngokufumanisa indlela yokujongana nokungacingeleki kwe ... Iilebhile inokuphatha.
Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokunika iqabane lakho komnye umntu okanye ukuphulukana nabathengi bakho, fumanisa ukuba kuthatha ntoni ukubagcina.
9. Hlala ukuze ufumanise
Hlala usexesheni ngokuqhubekayo uzama ukufumana kunye nokuphucula izakhono zakho.
Sebenzisa lonke ithuba lokufunda isakhono esitsha kraca.
Funda iincwadi zeenkokheli zengcinga ezikhokelayo kwaye ufunde yonke into onokuyenza kwishishini lakho.
Okukhona ulwazi luthe kratya, kokukhona umngcipheko uyancipha ukusebenza.
10. Yamkele imiqobo yakho
Hlala kwikhosi nasemva kwemiqobo kunye noloyiko. Ngokuchasene nokufihla ubuso bezinto ezizayo.
Ngokufuthi uloyiko lusentloko yakho. Uninzi lwento oyoyikayo ayisoze yenzeke.
Sukuchitha ixesha uxhalabile ukuba ufuna ukuhambela phambili ebomini.
Ndiyathemba ukuba uzifezekise iinjongo zakho!
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Kwezi zigaba zobomi, ukuphelelwa lithemba kudla ngokugquba.
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