Igqityelwe ukuhlaziya ngo-Agasti 6, 2021 ngu URoger Kaufman
Kutheni le ngqokelela yamazwi kumxholo othi "yeka uhambe" kuba bazisa iingqekembe ezixabisekileyo ebomini bakho.
"Ngomso uzakuba yilento uyicingayo namhlanje." - Gautama Buddha
Nje ukuba uqaphele oku, ungagcina iidola ezimbalwa kumayeza.
"Akufunekanga sizivumele ukuba sityhefwe ngokugqithisileyo, ukubawa kunye nobudlova, kuba ezi tyhefu zibangela phantse zonke iingxaki zehlabathi." Eyeshumi elinesine Dalai Lama
Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba utshintsho lunokwenzeka, uya kuziva ungcono ngokuzenzekelayo.
Isishwankathelo kwividiyo yokhetho masihambe sicaphula, amazwi kunye nobulumko
umthombo: URoger Kaufman
"Akukho nto ihlala rhoqo njengotshintsho." - Heraclitus
Uninzi lwezimvo ezikhuthazayo kunye neziluncedo zakudala malunga nolonwabo
Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba utshintsho lunokwenzeka, uya kuziva ungcono ngokuzenzekelayo.
Xa ingqondo yakho ikuxelela ukuba lixesha lesahluko esitsha, le ngqokelela inamandla ye iikowuti kwiziqalo ezitsha yenza uhlengahlengiso ongathanda ukuba nalo.
Zikhuthaze, ngoncedo lwezi caphulo zixabisekileyo, ukuvumela iimbono zakho ziqhubele phambili noko kubambezelayo.
"Akukho mbono ingaqhelekanga kangangokuba ayifanele ijongwe ngophendlo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye iliso elizinzileyo." - Winston Churchill
Ufuna ukuphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kunye neyakho impilo Qalela ekuqaleni? UJeder Mensch ifika kwindawo apho sidinwe yimeko yethu yangoku. Ngamaxesha anje, ukukhulula kunye nokuqalisa kwakhona kunokukwenza oko Ukwakhiwa ibe yeyakho
"Ukuze sonwabe, asimele sibakhathalele kakhulu abanye abantu." - Albert Camus
Xa uyeka into engazange isebenze, yintoni ebikade ikubambezela, okanye uloyiko ekungafunekanga ukuba usabambise ngalo, wenza indawo yokuba ngumntu onomdla kakhulu, othe wabandakanyeka, kwaye... umntu okhuthazayo ukubayi.
"Masilibale imithwalo yexesha elidlulileyo kwaye senze isiqalo esitsha." – Shahbaz Sharif
Ukuba kukho iinkqubo, intsebenziswano, okanye imisebenzi engasakuncediyo, kungcono ukuyikhupha ebomini bakho ngokupheleleyo. impilo khupha. Emva kokukhulula indawo ethile, yenza uhlengahlengiso olutsha kwindawo yakho impilo nize nizilandele.
Ungaqala njani kwakhona?
ungayenza loo nto impilo phuhlisa le nto uyinqwenelayo, ngaba uqala ngokususa izinto ongasazisebenzisiyo, ukuze nawe ugcine okusingqongileyo kucwangco?
Kuba akukho namnye kuthi owaziyo ukuba ikamva lisiphathele ntoni, ukucebisa isiqalo esitsha maxa wambi kunokoyikeka ngokwenene. Gxininisa kwinto evuyisayo kunye nekhuthazayo, inokuba lixesha elimangalisayo lokuqala phantsi.
Iingcaphuno ezigqwesileyo malunga nokuyeka-kunye nemvelaphi entsha kunye neziqalo ezintsha
"Khumbula ukuba ubudlelwane babantu xa bebonke abuyitshintshi, ngoko awuyi konwaba kakhulu kwaye ungabi buhlungu kakhulu ngokungonwabi." - uSocrates
Mhlawumbi uyaqaphela ukuba oku kunjalo ikhuthaza ukuzithemba kwakho ichaphazela.
"Akufunekanga sizivumele ukuba sityhefwe ngokugqithisileyo, ukubawa kunye nobudlova, kuba ezi tyhefu zibangela phantse zonke iingxaki zehlabathi." - Eyeshumi elinesine Dalai Lama
Ndiyazibuza ukuba ingaba ukulungele na ukuzityhala kule nto amava akhuthazayo ukumangaliswa?
"Yakho impilo ngumlambo. Ukuba ujongisisa, uya kubona ukuba yonke into iyatshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha. " - Drukpa Rinpoche
Ngexesha elithile kwaye kwindawo ethile uya kuba nombono omtsha kuyo, apho yonke into ngokukhawuleza yenza ingqiqo enzulu.
“Umsinga ofanayo we Iilebhile, equkuqela emithanjeni yam ubusuku nemini, iqukuqela kwihlabathi kwaye iyaqhubeka idanisa ngesingqi esikhulu.” - URabindranath Tagore
Unokuba ngomnye utshintsho yenze ngokuzenzekelayo ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngendlela elula kakhulu.
Kwimeko efanayo, wonke umntu uhlala kwihlabathi elahlukileyo. - Arthur Schopenhauer
Kungekudala okanye kamva uya kufumana oku ubulumko lisebenzise kwaye uqalise ukunandipha izinto ezincinci ezininzi ebomini kwakhona.
Iingcaphuno ezigqwesileyo zokuziyeka-zikhuthazayo kwisiqalo esitsha
"Zimbini imposisoukuba ungayenza endleleni yenyaniso ... ungahambi yonke indlela kwaye ungaqali." - UBuddha
“Ukuqala phantsi kukwamkela into yangaphambili esingayenziyo ukutshintsha amandla, inkolelo engaguqukiyo yokuba ikamva linokwahluka, kunye nobulumko obunenkani bokusebenzisa ixesha elidlulileyo ukwenza ikamva libe yinto ebingeyiyo ngaphambili. - UCraig D Lounsbrough
"Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani ixesha elidlulileyo, unokuhlala uqala phantsi." - UBuddha
“Musa ukulinda de iimeko zigqibelele. Isiqalo senza iimeko zigqibelele.” - Alan Cohen
ndiyeke ndithi
"I iqiniso ukuba awukuyeki, ukuba awuxoleli, ukuba awuqondi ukuba imeko iphelile, awukwazi ukuqhubela phambili." -Steve Maraboli
Igama elibhaliweyo liyinto emangalisayo ngokwenene - ukucaphula ukukhulula
Ngoncedo lwabo singakwazi ngaphakathi Izimvo siyirekhode eteyiphuni kwaye siyisasaze ukuba sifuna njalo.
Ngoncedo lwelizwi elibhaliweyo sinokujonga emva kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo, kunye neminyaka, iinkulungwane kwaye kananjalo, ewe, kananjalo kwiwaka leminyaka.
Namhlanje ndingathanda ukuthetha nabo edlulileyo khumbula ukuphefumlelwa nokubona oko abantu abanengqiqo ababehamba kulo mhlaba banokusixelela kona ngovuyo nendlela esinokulutyhila ngayo nathi. Enoba baphila namhlanje okanye kwiminyaka engamawaka amabini eyadlulayo waphila nayo.
“Ulonwabo alupheli. Ivela kwizenzo zakho. " - Dalai Lama
"Amawakawaka amakhandlela anokukhanyisa ngekhandlela elinye kwaye ubomi bekhandlela abuyi kucuthwa. Uvuyo alunciphi xa kwabelwana ngako.” - uBuddha
“Amaxesha olonwabo esiwanandiphayo ayasothusa. Asikuko ukuba siyababamba, koko kukuba bayasibamba. " – Ashley Montagu
“Abanye bazisa ulonwabo naphi na apho baya khona; abanye xa behamba." - Oscar Wilde