Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoMatshi 8, 2024 ngu URoger Kaufman
Uphawu lweDas Ukukhulula kunokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo babe, kuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye nenkcubeko.
Ngokubanzi imile ILoslassen nangona kunjalo, ngokuziyeka nokungazibandakanyi kulawulo okanye kubunini.
Inokuba luphawu lwe inkululeko, isiqabu okanye iziqalo ezintsha njengoko kudala indawo yotshintsho nokukhula.
Kwizithethe ezininzi zokomoya, ezifana nobuBhuda, kunjalo ukuyeka into ebalulekileyo inxalenye yeemfundiso.
Kuthetha ukuqhawuka kubudlelwane behlabathi nokubeka indlela yokukhanya.
Ukuyeka kunokuba luphawu lokoyisa uloyiko okanye usizi njengoko kusivumela ukuba sihlukane namava adlulileyo kwaye sigxininise ngoku nakwixesha elizayo. ikamva ukugxininisa.
Kulo IPsychology inokukhulula kubonwa njengenyathelo elibalulekileyo lokumelana nokulahlekelwa, usizi okanye ukuphoxeka.
Ngokuzivumela ukuba samkele iimvakalelo zethu size siyeke ukuzilawula, sinokunxulumana nathi ngendlela ephilileyo nenentsingiselo. Indlela phuhlisa kwaye ukhule.
Nangona oko Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuyeka inokuba, inokuba yinkululeko kunye nophawu lwenkqubela phambili kunye nophuhliso lomntu.
Ikhandlela njengophawu lokukhulula
Xa sikhanyisa ikhandlela, siphawula indlela uxolo emphefumlweni wethu impilo ingena.
Ikhandlela njengophawu lokukhulula
Kububulumko ukukhanyisa ikhandlela kunokuba ulila ubumnyama – Confucius
Ukukhulula ngamanye amaxesha kungumba kubomi bomntu wonke
Kutshanje ndithethe nomhlobo kwaye ndaqaphela ukuba abahlobo abasondeleyo ngakumbi bebejongana nesihloko kwezi veki zidlulileyo ILoslassen qesha.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo okanye amabali ngasemva.
Ngamana kungenzeka uthando kwizicwangciso esizenzileyo, ukuphoxeka, ukonzakala.
Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, sinokuyishwankathela ikakhulu ngamanqaku amabini:
- Iphupha eliphanzileyo.
- Into ekhathazayo okanye ebuhlungu Amava mandulo.
Ikakhulu inento yokwenza nabanye abantu ngalo lonke ixesha
Oku kuthetha ukuba kukho ubuncinci amandla amabini abucala, iikhonsepthi, ukuqamba, imvelaphi, iinjongo, iinjongo apho.
- Umbuzo othi ukuyeka kuhambe ihlala ingu "kutheni".
- Kutheni mna?
- Kutheni ekhethe mna kulento?
- Kwakutheni ukuze ndibe nale ngozi?
- Kwakutheni ukuze ahlukane nam?
- Kutheni ndifuna oku isigulo ukufumana?
Ukuba besinenkcazo enokuba luncedo kakhulu.
Ukuba imalunga nomntu, sinokufumana impendulo, kodwa abanye abayifumani, nangasiphi na isizathu, asifumani.
Nangona kunjalo, asinakufumana nto kuloo nto ... masiyiyeke apho.
Sifumana izinto ezininzi ngaphandle kokungazihoyi.
Kodwa okukhona kukho into enentsingiselo kuthi, kokukhona iba nzima.
Isenokuba ziiveki, iinyanga, iminyaka okanye mhlawumbi iyonke impilo yokugqibela.
Nangona kunjalo, xa kufika ixesha, sivakalelwa ngokucacileyo.
Eli lixesha apho kufuneka sijongane nalo mba ngocoselelo olukhulu, sibulele ngento osinike yona, ngaloo nto injabulo, eye yasithabatha ixesha, kwisifundo eyasifundisa yona, okanye ukusiqhubela ekubeni siyile into ebesingenakuze siyenze ngaphandle kwayo.
Yithathe ngokucokisekileyo kwaye uyibeke kwindawo ethile kwiimbono zakho okanye kubomi bokwenyani ukuphumla.
Yicinge njengentyatyambo ebunayo, ingene emhlabeni kwaye ibuyise amandla ayo ukuze ivule amathuba okukhula kwesityalo esitsha kraca.
Okanye yiyeke ibhabha njengentaka ize ikhuphe amandla ayo ngokwawo.
Kodwa nantoni na oyenzayo, yenze ngothando.
Kuphela kuxa uyeke yonke inzondo kunye nokunxunguphala kwakho apho uya kufumana uxolo.
Ihlala inceda ukuba sinento ekhanyayo esinokuyiyeka ihambe njenge icon kuba singaboni naziphi na iimvakalelo.
Kuyanceda nokuba awukwenzi wedwa.
Ukuyeka ukuhamba - Inyathelo lokuqala kubomi obanelisayo
imanmal kunzima kuthiukuyeka izinto, nokuba lulwalamano, umsebenzi, ingcamango, okanye umkhwa.
Sibambelela kwixesha elidluleyo ngenxa yokoyika okungaziwayo okanye siziva sikhuselekile.
Kodwa ukuyeka inokuba linyathelo lokuqala ukuya a ubomi obufezekileyo ibe.
Inokusinceda Ukudala indawo yamathuba amatsha kunye namathubaukuzikhulula kwizinto ezingasasincediyo kwaye sigxile kwezona zinto zibalulekileyo.
Ngezantsi zilishumi Ukuyeka ukucaphulangubani onokukhuthaza nokukhuthaza.
“Xa uyeka into ize ibuyele kuwe, yeyakho ngonaphakade. Ukuba ayibuyi, ngoko ayizange ibe yeyakho. -Ayaziwa
“Ukuyeka kuthetha hayi ukuba uyancama. Kuthetha ukuba uzikhulule kwizinto ezingakusi phambili." -Ayaziwa
“Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uyeke, ukuvulela ithuba izinto ezilunge ngakumbi.” -Ayaziwa
“Ukuyeka ayisosiphelo, kodwa sisiphelo Ukuqala kwento entsha. " -Ayaziwa
"Ubomi luhambo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka silahle imithwalo esibambezelayo okanye engasasincediyo." -Steve Maraboli
"Ukuyeka kuthetha ukuba uyasamkela isiphelo, ugcine ukholo kwaye ulungele into entsha." -Ayaziwa
"Ukuyeka ukuhamba akulula, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukufumana ulonwabo lwethu." -Ayaziwa
"Ngokuyeka sidala indawo amathuba amatsha namathuba.” -Ayaziwa
“Ukuyeka kukwamkela isipho sobomi nokusamkela ngezandla ezivulekileyo.” -Ayaziwa
“Ukufuna ukuhamba inkalipho, kodwa linyathelo lokuqala lokuphila ubomi esibufunayo." -Ayaziwa
Iintsimbi, uphawu lokukhulula
Iintsimbi, uphawu lokukhulula, ukukhala kwitempile yamaBhuda ngaphakathi Chiang Mai
umthombo: into entle ukuyenza
Isimboli sokuyeka ukuya kwiBuddhism
Iimpawu zamaBhuda
iintsimbi
Ngokuhambelana nala maxesha amandulo, iintsimbi ezisuka kwiindawo ezingcwele ziye zahlanganisa iimonki kunye noonongendi ukuze bacamngce kunye nemibhiyozo.
Ubumnene ukukhalisa intsimbi ngelixa ekhwaza inceda amaBhuda agxile kulo mzuzu kwaye ayeke uloyiko lwemihla ngemihla.
Imvakalelo yokuzola noxolo inokongezwa ngokukhala kwentsimbi.
Ngenxa yoko, iintsimbi zomoya zihlala zixhonywa kwi-eves ye-stupas kunye neetempile ukudala indawo ezolileyo kunye neyokucamngca ngeetoni zabo zokutshiza.
Isandi sentsimbi luphawu lwelizwi likaBuddha.
Ikwamele ulwazi kunye uvelane kwaye ikwasetyenziselwa ukunxibelelana nezidalwa zasezulwini ukukhusela kunye nokugxotha ububi.
Iindawo ezininzi ezingcwele zamandulo zineentsimbi emasangweni ekufuneka umntu akhale ngaphambi kokuba angene.
intyatyambo yelotus
Im KwiBuddhism, i-lotus luphawu lokuvuswa kukaBuddha kunye nomqondiso wokuba zonke izidalwa zinamandla alinganayo okufumana ukhanyiselo.
Ilotus ikhula eludakeni ize inyukele phezu kwamanzi ukuze idubule ngobuhle nobunyulu. indoda ikwaphuhlisa ukulunga kukaBuddha kwaye iphakame ngaphezu kweemfuno kunye nokuncamathela ukutyhila ubume bokwenyani.
Inqanaba lentyatyambo yelotus limele amanqanaba kwi ngokomoya weg.
Umzekelo, i-bud evaliweyo inxulunyaniswa nokuqala kohambo.
Intyatyambo evuleke kancinci ibonisa ukuba kuhanjwa isikwere.
Intyatyambo etyatyambe ngokupheleleyo ithetha ukuphela kohambo - ukukhanya.
I-lotus iqhakaza kakhulu kuyo yonke into yobugcisa beBuddha kunye noncwadi kuzo zonke iindawo.
I icon entsha yesiqalo
Intetho ethi "Isiqalo esitsha” yintetho efuziselayo ebonisa isiqalo esitsha okanye isigaba sobomi.
Luphawu lokwenzeka kwento ethile IiAltes ukushiya ngasemva kwaye wenze isiqalo esitsha.
Isiqalo esitsha singenzeka kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, nokuba kubudlelwane bomntu, imisebenzi, iiprojekthi, okanye indlela yokuphila.
Isimboli “seziqalo ezitsha” sinokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela esitolikwa ngayo.
Inokumela ithemba, uhlaziyo, inkalipho, kunye nokuzimisela ukuqhubeka kwiimpazamo okanye imingeni edlulileyo.
Ihlala ifuzisela i Ikhefuukufunda kumava nokuzisa utshintsho olulungileyo.
Isiqalo esitsha sinokunxulunyaniswa nemvakalelo yokuhamba, inkululeko, kunye nethuba lokuzihlaziya ngokwakho okanye eyakho iinjongo kwaye uchaze amaphupha kwakhona.
Inokuba ngumqondiso wokoyisa imiqobo, ukujamelana nelahleko okanye umnqweno ukukhula komntu zimele.
Ngokubanzi, uphawu "lweziqalo ezitsha" lumele amandla omntu okutshintsha kunye nokutshintsha.
Ikhuthaza ukuyeka imikhwa emidala kunye neepatheni zokucinga kunye nokwamkela amathuba amatsha kunye nokunokwenzeka.
Imele ukukholelwa kumandla kabani kunye nokukwazi ukubumba ubomi bakhe.
Nazi ezinye izicatshulwa kunye namazwi abonisa uphawu lwesiqalo esitsha:
"Ngalo lonke ixesha sisiqalo esitsha.” - TS Eliot
"Ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto ingcono sinokuyenza kukuqala phantsi." -Ayaziwa
"Iziqalo ezintsha ngamathuba afihliweyo." -U-Toba Beta
"Yonke imihla yindlela entsha yokuba yile nto siyinqwenelayo.” -Ayaziwa
"Isiqalo esitsha sihlala sifihliwe njengesiphelo esibuhlungu." - Lao Tzu
"Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ulahlekelwe nguwe ukuze uzifumane." -Ayaziwa
"Inyathelo lokuqala kulo naluphi na uhambo olutsha kukuba nenkalipho yokuziyeka." -Ayaziwa
"Ikamva lihlala liqala ngoku." -Ayaziwa
"Yonke into oyifunayo ukuze wenze isiqalo esitsha sele ingaphakathi kuwe." -Ayaziwa
"Olona lwazi lubalaseleyo esinokulufumana kukuba sinokuqhubeka sizihlaziya." - Maya Angelou
Loluphi uphawu olumele utshintsho?
Isimboli edla ngokunxulunyaniswa ne utshintsho enxulumene nebhabhathane.
I-butterfly ifumana i-metamorphosis emangalisayo, iphuhlisa i-caterpillar ukuya kwi-chrysalis kwaye ekugqibeleni iphuma kwi-chrysalis njengebhabhathane elihle.
Le nkqubo imela inguquko, ukukhula, inguqu kunye neziqalo ezintsha.
Ibhabhathane likwafuzisela utshintsho kunye nophuhliso olunokwenzeka kubo bonke ubomi.
Ukongeza kwibhabhathane, ezinye iisimboli zinokubonisa utshintsho, olunje:
- Utolo: Utolo olubonisa indlela entsha okanye inkqubela phambili inokumela utshintsho.
- Ukuphuma kwelanga: Ukuphuma kwelanga kunako kwisiqalo esitsha kunye nethemba lekamva elingcono.
- Izihluma okanye izithole: Ihlumelo elincinane okanye izithole zibonakalisa amandla kunye nokukhula okuza notshintsho.
- Yin kunye yang: Isimboli se-yin kunye ne-yang ukusuka kwifilosofi yaseTshayina imele ibhalansi phakathi kwezichasi kwaye ibonisa ukuba utshintsho luyi yendalo namandla angenakuphepheka kwindalo yonke.
Ekugqibeleni, uphawu lotshintsho lunokwahluka kumntu nomntu, kwaye kaninzi luxhomekeke kwintsingiselo yenkcubeko okanye yobuqu umntu anamathele kuyo.
22 Ukukhulula iintetho
Ukuyiyeka akusoloko kulula. Sibambelele kubantu, izinto kunye neenkumbulo kwaye kunzima ukubayeka bahambe.
Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuyeka kwaye uqhubeke.
Zininzi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo yokuyeka ukuthetha, kodwa zonke zisikhuthaza ukuba sibeke izinto ezidluleyo ngasemva size sinikele ingqalelo kwikamva.
Kule Ividiyo ndine-22 yeyona nto ingcono Ukuyeka ukuthetha kuhlanganiswe. Wonke umntu Intetho ikwividiyo emfutshane ekhoyo ukuze ukwazi ukubukela iintetho nanini na xa ufuna.
umthombo: Iintetho ezigqwesileyo kunye neeQuotes
FAQ malunga nesimboli yokuyeka
Yintoni uphawu lokukhulula?
Isimboli ye-Letting Go ngumfanekiso obonakalayo okanye isikweko esimele ingqikelelo yokuyeka. Inokuba neentlobo ngeentlobo, njengesundu esivulekileyo, intaka ebhabhayo, okanye ibhaluni ephakamayo.
Luthetha ntoni uphawu lokukhulula?
Isimboli sokukhulula simele ingcamango yokuba kufuneka uyeke into ethile okanye umntu ukuze uqhubeke kwaye wenze indawo entsha. Kusenokuthetha ukuzikhulula kwinto engasakuncediyo okanye ekusindwayo.
Uphi uphawu lokuyeka lusetyenziswe?
Isimboli sokuyeka sisetyenziswa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ezinje ngepsychotherapy, ngokomoya, ubugcisa kunye nenkcubeko yepop. Isenokusetyenziswa njengesimboli somntu ukubonisa utshintsho ebomini.
Unokusetyenziswa njani umqondiso wokukhulula?
Isimboli sokuyeka sinokusetyenziswa njengesixhobo sokuqalisa utshintsho okanye ukufezekisa injongo. Isenokusebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuba utshintsho kunye nokuyeka ukuhamba kuyimfuneko ukutyebisa kunye nokwandisa ubomi.
Ngaba kukho izithethe okanye iinkcubeko ezithile ezisebenzisa isimboli sokuyeka?
Ewe, uphawu lokukhulula lusetyenziswa kwiinkcubeko ezininzi kunye nezithethe. Ngokomzekelo, ngesiJapan isiko isebenzisa igama elithi "mottainai" elithetha ukungachithi izinto kwaye endaweni yoko ukuzisebenzisa okanye ukugqithisela umfuziselo wokuyeka.
Ndingalusebenzisa njani uphawu lokuziyeka ebomini bam?
Zininzi iindlela zokusebenzisa isimboli sokuyeka ebomini bakho. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza umboniso wokudala wesimboli ukuze ubakhumbuze ukuba ukuyeka ukuhamba kuyimfuneko. Unokwenza isigqibo sokuyeka into okanye umntu ongasakuncediyo okanye onobungozi kuwe. Okanye ungasebenzisa isimboli ukufuzisela utshintsho ebomini bakho, njengokuqala kwesahluko esitsha okanye ubudlelwane obutsha.
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