Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoMatshi 8, 2024 ngu URoger Kaufman
Jonga amazwi angama-54 akhuthazayo wenzondelelo 🔥. Lungisa uthando lwakho & ukufikelela kwiinjongo ngenkuthazo! 🌟💪 #inzondelelo #umdla
Kwihlabathi elibonakala ngokuhamba rhoqo kunye nokufuna impumelelo, inkuthalo idlala indima ebalulekileyo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.
Kodwa yintoni esiqhubayo?
Sizifumana phi? Imithombo yomdla wethu kunye nokuzinikela?
Kule post yebhlog, singena nzulu kumbono wenzondelelo, sijonga imvelaphi yayo kwaye sinikezela ngenkuthazo ethile Quotesoko kuvusa inkanuko yethu.
54 amazwi akhuthazayo anenzondelelo anokuvuselela intshukumisa nenkanuko:
"Inzondelelo ngumoya ovuthuza iiseyile zamaphupha."
“Inkanuko yokwenyani awazi ncam; Uhlala edlalela ukuphumelela.”
"Ngenzondelelo, into engenakwenzeka ijika ibe yinto engenakuphepheka."
"Umdlandla ngumlilo wempumelelo."
“Inzondelelo yintlantsi ekhanyisa ubumnyama.”
“Apho kukho uzinikelo, kukho indlela.”
"I-Zelor kukubetheka kwentliziyo yomnqweno."
“Ngabo batshayo kuphela abanakho Base umlilo."
“Ndinomdla kuyo leben kuthetha ukwenza umzuzu ngamnye ube ngowobugcisa.”
“IZelor yeyona ilungileyo Iwoshi ye-alamu."
"Iintaba zinokushukunyiswa ngomdla."
"Inzondelelo bubugcisa bokwenza okuqhelekileyo kube yinto engaqhelekanga."
“Inzondelelo yindlu yesibane ekhanyayo indlela eya empumelelweni amanqaku.
"Abo bafuna ngenkuthalo baya kufumana umhlaba ongafunyaniswanga."
“I-Zelor yibhulorho ephakathi Iwunsch kunye nenyaniso.”
“Ubukhulu benjongo bulinganiswa nenzondelelo olusukelwa ngayo.”
“Ihlombe ngundoqo ovula umnyango wempumelelo.”
“Inzondelelo ke leyo imfihlo, ukuguqula izinto eziqhelekileyo zibe zezomlingo.”
"Apho kukho ulangazelelo, kukho ithuba."
"Ngokuzinikela okungenakwenzeka kuya kuba nokwenzeka."
“Uthando lubaso kulo hamba kum."
"I-Zelor yi-echo yomphefumlo."
"Abo baphila ngothando bazoba ngemibala eqaqambileyo."
"Ukulangazelela yi-DNA yempumelelo."
“Yiba nomdla Amaphupha izithako."
"Umdla lulwimi lwabantu abanobuchule."
“UZelor ongenalwazi ufana nomnye Schiff elizweni."
"I umahluko phakathi okunokwenzeka nokungenakwenzeka kukwinzondelelo.”
"Umdlandla linyathelo lokuqala kwizinyuko eziya ezulwini."
"I-Zelor yingoma elidanisa kuyo ihlabathi."
"Umdla yinjini yenkqubela phambili."
“Ngenzondelelo, iintlantsi ziba ngumlilo.”
"I-Zelor yityuwa yobomi."
“Apho kukho uzinikelo, kubakho inzaliseko.”
"Umdla sisitshixo kumandla angenamkhawulo."
"Ukulangazelela yimali yempumelelo."
“Ubhala ezona zinto zibalaseleyo ngomdla amabali Ngobomi bakhe. "
"I-Zelor yikhampasi enika ulwalathiso."
"Umdla sisinongo esenza impumelelo ibe mnandi."
"UZelor ngumsayino weenkosi."
"Ngokuzinikezela upeyinta ikamva lakho ngemibala eqaqambileyo."
"I-Zelor ngumthombo apho i-genius iphuma khona."
"Inzondelelo ngumoya ophantsi kwamaphiko ephupha."
"I-Zelor yigolide kumgodi wobomi."
"Ngomdla, iindonga ziba ziingcango."
"Ukulangazelela kukuphuma kwelanga okunokwenzeka."
"Uthando luncumo lomphefumlo."
“Ukulangazelela yeyona ndlela ifihlakeleyo yokuphumelela okumangalisayo.”
"Ngokuzinikela, umsebenzi ujika ube bubugcisa."
“I-Zelor sisibaso eso Imibono yokwenyani iya kuba.”
"Umdla kukubetha kwentliziyo yempumelelo."
"I-Zelor kukukhanya okukhanyisa indlela eya ekuphumeni."
"Ngomdlandla, inyathelo ngalinye liba ngumdaniso."
“Inzondelelo yimpepho evuthuza iiseyile zethemba.”
le Iintetho zenzelwe ukuba zikukhuthaze kwaye zikukhuthaze ukuba ufumane kwaye usebenzise inzondelelo yakho ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye nokwenza amaphupha abe yinyani.
Iingcambu Zenzondelelo
Ubumsulwa obunjengobuntwana kunye nentelekelelo engenasiphelo
Iintlantsi zokuqala zentshiseko zihlala zivutha kwingcinga yomntwana, indawo engenamida.
Abantwana babonakalisa utyekelo lwendalo ekuzinikeleni, oluqhutywa ngumntu onyulu uthando kunye nenkolelo engagungqiyo yokulunga.
Inzondelelo yakhe ibonakala ngokuzimisela kwakhe ngokunyanisekileyo abathandekayo ukukhathalela nokukhusela, njengoko ingoma yabantwana ibonisa:
"Mama othandekayo, xa ndikhulile, ndiza kukwenzela yonke into."
Olu kuzinikela lungenamiqathango, nangona maxa wambi lungekho ngqiqweni, lubonakalisa eyona minqweno inzulu yentliziyo yomntu.
Inzondelelo engaphaya kwemida
Abantwana basibonisa indlela ekulangazelela ngayo bonakalisa ngokuzama ukwenza ngaphaya kwemida yabo - umnqweno wokwenza okungenakwenzeka. Nangona izenzo zabo zihlala zingavelisi iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo, kukho isifundo kuthi sonke kule nto:
Inzondelelo yokwenene ayinamda.
Inzondelelo yobudala
Njengabantu abadala, sithwala inzondelelo yomntwana ngaphakathi kwethu, njengoko iinjongo zethu kunye neendlela zethu ziguquka.
Inzondelelo yomntu omdala, eneentshukumisa ezinzulu, idla ngokuthwala ukukhanya okunjengomntwana emehlweni, umfuziselo wethemba elingunaphakade nokungagungqiyo. Ukholo lokuba kunokwenzekaukwenza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono.
Kukudityaniswa kwe-nostalgia kunye nomnqweno wokufumana into ebalulekileyo.
Amandla okuqhuba usapho
Emva kolangazelelo lwethu ngokufuthi yinkangeleko yentsapho yethu, ingakumbi leyo yabazali bethu.
Olu nxibelelwano lunzulu lusishukumisela ukuba sikhule ngaphaya kwethu kwaye sihlale sinyanisekile kwiingcambu zethu.
Inzondelelo yethu ke ngoko ayisiyonto nje yosukelo lobuqu, kodwa ikwayimbonakaliso yothando nemilinganiselo eye yasibumba.
isiphelo
Inzondelelo asiyontshukumisa nje; luhambo olubuyela e Imithombo yempembelelo yethu kunye nokuzinikela. Kumabali obuntwana bethu kunye namaphupha esiwasukelayo njengabantu abadala, sifumana undoqo wenzondelelo yethu.
Esi sithuba sebhlog siyakumema ukuba wenze eyakho Ukuphonononga inkanuko kwaye ufumane amandla, ephila ubomi obunenjongo.
Ziphi iingcambu zenzondelelo?
Ziphi iingcambu zenzondelelo?
Abantwana ngabona banomdla kakhulu, kuba iingcinga zabo azikayazi nayiphi na imida.
Nangona kunjalo banomdla wothando. Ngoko ke, inzondelelo yakhe, nangona eyimfama, isathandeka.
Lo mdla unokubonwa, umzekelo, kwingoma yabantwana: "Mama othandekayo, xa ndikhulile, ndiya kukwenzela yonke into."
Kodwa ke abantwana Musa ukulinda de bakhule. Xa bebona abazali babo bephethe into enzima, bafuna ukuyithatha ngokwabo endaweni yabo kwaye bafuna ukubasindisa.
Bacinga ukuba banamandla okutshintsha ikamva labazali babo baze benze ngokuvisisana noko.
Ngoko benza ngokweyabo Umda Ngokomzekelo, bafuna ukufa ukuze unina aphile, okanye uyise ahlale, njengoko sibona nge-anorexia. Kodwa izenzo zabo azinamsebenzi ngenxa yokuba abaziqondi izinto ezinokwenzeka nezifanelekileyo.
Xa abantu abadala benomdla, kukho into ebuntwaneni malunga nokulangazelela kwabo, umzekelo ukukhazimla okungaqhelekanga emehlweni abo kunye natürlich abagqithileyo nabangaboniyo.
Nangona kunjalo, banezinye iindlela abanazo ngaphandle komntwana kunye namandla ahambelanayo. Noko ke, ukuba siqwalasela ngenyameko, sifumanisa ukuba nabo bafuna ukusindisa abanye ngenzondelelo yabo.
Kodwa emva kwayo ngumfanekiso wabazali, ngakumbi umfanekiso kamama. Kungoko le nzondelelo ikwathembekile. Kukunyaniseka kwe umntwana kumama wakhe.
umthombo: UBert Hellinger
Ukufumanisa uKuthanda: Indlela yokuFumana kunye nokuPhila umnxeba wakho wokwenyani
Ukufunyanwa kwenkanuko luhambo olukhethekileyo njengentliziyo yomntu ngokwayo.
Lulonwabo olusithatha singene nzulu kwi-labyrinth yomphefumlo wethu, ngaphaya kweendonga zesiqhelo kunye neendawo ezinkulu zamaphupha ethu asendle.
Olu hambo lokufumanisa aluyonwabisi nje kuphela ngenxa yokuba lujongana nathi namandla esingaziwayo obuwethu, kodwa nangenxa yokuba lubambe isithembiso sokuguqula ubomi bethu bube yinto engaqhelekanga.
Iintlantsi zomdla
Yonke into iqala ngentlantsi-umzuzu wokufun' ukwazi okanye impembelelo edlulayo.
Mhlawumbi yincwadi esiyifundileyo, incoko esinayo, okanye umngeni esijamelana nawo.
Le ntlantsi ikhanyisa umlilo ngaphakathi kuthi ofuna okungakumbi: ulwazi oluninzi, ngakumbi Amava, ubomi obuninzi.
Ukufumanisa ukuthanda kwethu kuhlala kusisiganeko esingalindelekanga esenza ukuba sibuze imida yethu yangaphambili kwaye sicinge ngaphandle kwebhokisi.
Uhambo oluya kwindawo engaziwayo
Ukufumana uthando lwethu lokwenyani kufuna inkalipho, kuba isikhokelela kwiindlela esingazange sizinyathele ngaphambili.
Luhambo oluya kwindawo engaziwayo apho sifunda ukuthembela kwithuku lethu ukuthembela kunye nemibono yethu ukulandela.
Kule ndlela sijongene noloyiko lwethu olunzulu kunye namaphupha amakhulu.
Sifumanisa ukuba ukufumanisa ukuthanda kwethu akupheleli nje ekuqondeni into esiyithandayo, kodwa nokuba singoobani kanye kanye.
Utshintsho ngokuthanda
Nje ukuba sifumanise ukuthanda kwethu, ihlabathi elisingqongileyo liyatshintsha. Imibala ibonakala iqaqambile
Umoya ubonakala uswiti, kwaye naloo nto imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla inzuzo ngokubaluleka.
Umdla usinika isizathu sokuvuka ekuseni kunye namandla okunyamezela xa amaxesha esiba nzima.
Kusiqhubela ekubeni sandise imida yethu kwaye kusikhuthaze ukuba siguqule amaphupha ethu abe yinyani.
Passion ngumthombo we ukuqamba, inkalipho nolwaneliseko.
Ukwahlula kwedangatye
Mhlawumbi eyona nto ilungileyo ngokufumanisa uthando lwethu kukuba aluhlali nathi.
Umvandedwa uyosulela; inamandla okukhanyisa kungekuphela nje ubomi bethu, kodwa nobabanye abantu ngeenxa zonke kuthi.
Xa sisenza ukuthanda kwethu, sikhuthaza abanye ukuba benze okufanayo. Kufana nokwabelana ngedangatye: aliphulukani nawo nawaphi na amandla alo, lisasaza ukukhanya okungakumbi.
isiphelo
Ukufumanisa inkanuko kungaphezulu nje komdlalo ochulumancisayo; ngamava atshintsha ubomi.
Ucela umngeni kuthi ukuba sembe nzulu, sifikelele ngakumbi kwaye siphuphe nesibindi. Ekufumaneni kwethu Fumana inkanuko singekuphela nje oko kusinika uvuyo, kodwa noko kusinika intsingiselo.
Ububungqina bokuba ubomi buhlala bunokuninzi esinokusinika ukuba sinesibindi sokukhangela okungakumbi.
