Dale Carnegie amalankhula za moyo, chikondi ndi chisangalalo

Zasinthidwa komaliza pa Marichi 26, 2023 ndi Roger Kaufman

Dale Carnegie anali mlembi waku America yemwe analemba za kuwina mabwenzi komanso kukopa anthu. Iye anabadwa mu 1887 ndipo anamwalira mu 1955.

Iye analemba mabuku angapo onena za kudzitukumula, kuphatikizapo How to Win Friends.

Nthawi zambiri timaganiza kuti tiyenera kuchita china chake chachikulu kuti tipange ... Leben kusintha.

Koma ngakhale kusintha pang’ono kungakhudze kwambiri.

Ndipotu ena mwa atsogoleri akuluakulu akhalapo m'mbiri Anthu amene asintha pang’ono pa moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku.

"Tiyenera kukhala okonzeka kuchotsa malingaliro akale, mosasamala kanthu kuti ndi zopatulika bwanji, ngati choonadi chatsopano chiyenera kutenga malo." - Dale Carnegie

Mawu a Dale Carnegie omwe angakulimbikitseni kukhala munthu wabwino

Dale Carnegie ananena kuti “chinsinsi cha kupita patsogolo m’moyo ndicho kuyamba”.

Werengani zake apa mawu olimbikitsa.

"Ngati mukupeza kuti muli m'dzenje - siyani kukumba." Dale Carnegie

"Munthu amene alibe kanthu mwa iye sangagwire ntchito." Dale Carnegie

“Chiyeso cha kupita patsogolo kwathu sikuli ngati tiwonjezera ku kuchuluka kwa amene ali nazo zambiri; zili ngati tipereka zokwanira kwa amene ali ndi zochepa.” Dale Carnegie

"Tiyenera kukulitsa luso lathu lokhululukira ena momasuka monga momwe timadzikhululukira tokha." Dale Carnegie

"Munthu amene sanalakwitsepo sanayesepo china chatsopano." Dale Carnegie

N’zosavuta kuganiza kuti kupambana kumadza kokha mwa kulimbikira ndi kudzipereka. Komabe, pali njira zina zopambana. Chimodzi mwa izo ndi kuphunzira pa zolakwa. Ngati mwalakwitsa, phunziranipo ndipo pitirizani. Osamangoganizira za izo chifukwa zidzangokulepheretsani.

“Chiyeso cha kupita patsogolo kwathu sikuli ngati tili ndi chuma chochuluka kuposa makolo athu; ndi kaya ife kuposa nzeru kukhala nazo." Dale Carnegie

Pali zambiri zitat kuti ndi Dale Carnegie zomwe zingakulimbikitseni kukhala munthu wabwino. Nawa ena ake mawu otchuka:

"Munthu sayenera kunena kalikonse pokhapokha ngati ali ndi zinazake zanzeru zonena." Dale Carnegie

“Chuma sichitanthauza kukhala ndi ndalama zambiri; ndikutha kuchita ndi zomwe muli nazo." Dale Carnegie

"Sindikudziwa zambiri za mbiri yakale, koma ndikudziwa chinthu chimodzi: munthu sanaphunzirepo kalikonse poima chilili." Dale Carnegie

M’buku lake lakuti How to Make Friends, Dale Carnegie anati:

“Osauza anthu zochita. Auzeni zomwe angachite. Kenako aoneni akuyesa kudziwa momwe angachitire okha. ” Dale Carnegie

Mawu amenewa akusonyeza kufunika kothandiza ena kuchita bwino osati kuwauza zoyenera kuchita.

"Pangani chipambano kuchokera ku zolakwa. Kukhumudwa ndi kulephera ndi njira ziwiri zotsimikizirika zopezera chipambano.” Dale Carnegie

“Si zomwe uli nazo, zomwe uli kapena kumene umachita zomwe zimakupangitsa kukhala wosangalala kapena wosasangalala. Ndi zomwe mukuganiza." Dale Carnegie

“Musaope amene akukutsutsani. Usazengereze pamaso pa abwenzi amene amakusirira.” Dale Carnegie

"Mutha kupeza mabwenzi ambiri m'miyezi iwiri poganizira za anthu ena kusiyana ndi zaka ziwiri poyesa kuti anthu ena akuganizireni." Dale Carnegie

"Chitsiru chilichonse chikhoza kutsutsa, kudandaula, ndi kuweruza - ndipo opusa ambiri amateronso. Koma pamafunika khalidwe ndi kudziletsa kuti munthu amvetsetse ndi kukhululuka.” Dale Carnegie

“Mukachita zinthu ndi anthu, kumbukirani kuti simukuchita zinthu ndi zolengedwa zoganiza bwino, koma zolengedwa zomwe zili ndi tsankho komanso zolimbikitsidwa ndi kukhutira ndi zopanda pake. Dale Carnegie

"Kupambana ndikupeza zomwe mukufuna. Chimwemwe chimafuna zomwe upeze. ” Dale Carnegie

Momwe mungapezere anzanu | 68 Mawu a Dale Carnegie

Dale Carnegie ndi wolemba komanso mphunzitsi waku America yemwe adadziwika koyambirira kwa zaka za zana la 20.

Dale Carnegie analemba mabuku angapo, kuphatikizapo How To Win Friends ndi How To Influence Someone.

Dale Carnegie anali wokamba nkhani komanso mphunzitsi wolimbikitsa. Dale Carnegie ali ndi mawu abwino okhudza moyo omwe Liebe ndi chisangalalo cholembedwa chomwe ndikufuna kugawana nanu pano.

Momwe Mungapambanire Anzanu ndi Kukopa Makhalidwe a Anthu - Dale Carnegie Anatchula Chimwemwe

• “Mnyamata aliyense amene ndimakumana naye ndi wodabwitsa. M’menemo ndimamupeza.”
• "Kungomvetsetsa zomwe zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kumakhalabe m'mutu mwanu."
• "Munthu wachilendo amene amafunitsitsa kutumikira ena ali ndi mwayi waukulu."
• "Njira yokhayo yomwe ndingakupangitseni kuchita chilichonse ndikukupatsani zomwe mukufuna."
• "Dzina la munthu ndilo, kwa munthu ameneyo, liwu lokoma kwambiri komanso lomveka bwino m'chinenero chilichonse."
• Kudzutsa chilakolako chofuna mwa munthu winayo. Ngati mungathe, muli ndi dziko lonse lapansi.”
• “Munthu aliyense wochita bwino amakonda masewerawa. Mwayi wodziwonetsera nokha, kuti mupambane, kuti mupambane. "
• "Kupambana pochita zinthu ndi anthu kumabwera chifukwa chomvetsetsa moganizira za munthu wina."
• “Lipirani chiwongola dzanja chochepa pa zomwe amuna akunena. Ungoona zomwe akuchita.”

• "Funsani mafunso m'malo mopereka malamulo."
• “Anthu wamba amafunitsitsa kudziŵa dzina lake kuposa mayina ena onse amene analengedwa padziko lapansi.
• "Kumbukirani dzina ndikungonena ndipo mwapereka chiyamikiro chapamwamba komanso chothandiza kwambiri."
• "Pali njira imodzi yokha yopezera kupambana - ndikupewa."
• "Atatu mwa anayi mwa anthu omwe mukutsimikiza kukondweretsa ali ndi njala yachifundo. Muwapatse monganso muwapatse lieben adzatero."
• "Anthu nthawi zambiri amavomereza kulamula akakhala ndi chigamulo chomwe chapangitsa kuti lamuloli likhazikitsidwe."
• "Chidwi choyaka moto chochirikizidwa ndi malingaliro abwino ndi kutsimikiza mtima ndi khalidwe lapamwamba kwambiri lomwe nthawi zambiri limabweretsa chipambano."
• Dzifunseni kuti: Kodi choyipa kwambiri ndi chiyani chomwe chingachitike? Kenako konzekerani kuvomereza. Kenako pitilizani kulimbikitsa zoyipa kwambiri. ”
• "Chisangalalo sichidalira mavuto akunja, chimayendetsedwa ndi maganizo athu."
• “Chifukwa chimodzi chimene mbalame ndi akavalo sali osangalala n’chakuti sakuyesera kusangalatsa mbalame zina ndi akavalo.”

• "Kuti mukhale osangalatsa, khalani ndi chidwi."
• "Anthu onse ali ndi mantha, koma olimba mtima amaika mantha awo ndikupita patsogolo."
• "Zimapereka chikhulupiliro chabwino kwa anthu ena osiyanasiyana."
• "Lankhulani ndi wina za iwo eni ndipo adzakumverani kwa maola ambiri."
• “Simungaphunzitse mnyamata kalikonse; mungangomuthandiza kuti azindikire mwa iye yekha.”
• "Kudzudzulidwa kumawopseza chifukwa kumawononga kunyada kwa munthu, kumamukhumudwitsa komanso kumadzutsa mkwiyo."
• "Zochita zimalankhula mokweza kuposa mawu. Kumwetulira kumati, 'Ndimakukondani. Ndakondwa kukuwonani.'
• “Simungapambane mkangano. Ngati mumutaya, mumamutaya; ndipo ngati muwapambana, muwataya.”
• "Ngati mukufuna kutola uchi, musadutse pamng'oma."
• "Zimakukweza za ziweto ndikukupatsani kumverera waufumu ndi ukulu povomereza zolakwa zake."

• "Anthu sachita bwino ngati sasangalala ndi zomwe amachita."
• "Kutchova njuga! Moyo wonse ndi mwayi. Munthu amene amapita kutali kwambiri nthawi zambiri ndi amene amafunitsitsa kuchita zimenezi.”
• "Lero ndi moyo - moyo wokhawo womwe mukutsimikiza nawo. Limbikitsani lero. " Khalani ndi chidwi ndi chinachake. dzidzutseni nokha Pangani zosangalatsa.
• "Kupambana ndikupeza zomwe mukufuna. Joy amalakalaka zomwe wapeza. ”
• “Ngati sugona, dzuka n’kuchita zinazake m’malo mongogona n’kudzipanikiza. Nkhawa n’zimene zidzakupezeni osati kusowa tulo.”
• “Choyamba gwirani ntchito zolimba. Ntchito yosavutayi idzadzisamalira yokha. "
• "Kumbukirani, lero ndi mawa lomwe mudakwiya nalo tsiku lina."
• "Pulogalamu ya mfundo zofunika kwambiri padziko lapansi zakwaniritsidwa ndi anthuamene anayesa mobwerezabwereza pamene panalibe chiyembekezo.”
• "Pangani chipambano kuchokera ku kulephera. Kukhumudwa ndi kulephera ndi njira ziwiri zabwino kwambiri zopezera chipambano.”
• “Kusachitapo kanthu kumabweretsa chikaiko ndi nkhawa. ntchito yopangidwa azidzidalira ndi kulimbika mtima. Ngati mukufuna kuthana ndi mantha, musapume ndikuganiza za izo. "

DALE CARNEGIE | Malangizo 16 - Osadandaula - Khalani ndi Moyo!

Malangizo 16 - Osadandaula - Khalani ndi Moyo! | | Dale Carnegie

Ndinkadandaula kwambiri ndi zonse zomwe zinkachitika pamoyo wanga:

Nanga ndikalephera mayeso?

Bwanji ndikayamba bizinesi ndikulephera?

Nanga bwanji ndikalephera digiri yanga n’kukhumudwitsa makolo anga?

Bwanji ngati sindingapeze ntchito ndikamaliza yunivesite?

Bwanji ngati mnzanga sandibweza ndalama zimene ndinambwereketsa ndipo sindingathe kulipira ngongole zanga?

Bwanji ngati nditachotsedwa ntchito - anzanga ndi anzanga angandiganizire chiyani?

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