Kusiya bwino munthu amene mumamukonda

Kusinthidwa komaliza pa Disembala 24, 2022 ndi Roger Kaufman

Munthu kusiya amene umamukonda, zikumveka koyamba mphindi zosatheka ku.

Ndipotu, palibe kwenikweni chifukwa. Koma nthawi zambiri chigamulo chimapangidwira kwa inu, makamaka pamene mnzanuyo akupatukana ndi inu.

Koma nthawi zambiri mumalola anzanu kapena anzanu kupita chifukwa zokonda zanu zimasintha ndipo palibenso tsogolo limodzi.

Kumbali ina, ingakhalenso imeneyo kutengera munthu amene wamwalira.

Koma kodi mumatani ndi kutayika kumeneku?

Das Zilekeni phunzirani mwadala

Palibe amene angachite munthu woteroyo Zilekeni amene mumamukonda pomwe simunasowepo chonchi.

Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira Zilekeni, cholunjika kuti muphunzire momwe mungathanirane ndi kutayika kumeneku.

Das Kusiya wokondedwa ndi patsogolo kugwirizana ndi zowawa zambiri ndi chisoni, zomwe ziyenera kuloledwa poyamba. Koma choyamba muyenera kukhala okonzeka ndi kutenga kudumpha mu ozizira madzi angayerekeze.

Kuti alowe mu ndondomeko ya kusiya kupita kubwera, munthu ayenera kuganizira zotsatira zomwe zingabwere ngati sali wokonzeka kusiya. Pamene zikuwonekeratu kuti mukufuna kusangalala kachiwiri ndikufuna kuthetsa chisoni ndi ululu, ndondomeko yeniyeni ya Zilekeni kuyamba.

Siyani munthu amene mumamukonda

Ndondomeko ya kumasuka kumabwera, ngati mwakonzeka kuchita izi bwinobwino.

Mantra ingathandize ndi izi, chifukwa ngati muzindikira kuti mwakonzeka kusiya nthawi zovuta ndikubwereza mawu omwe ali m'mutu mwanu, mudzakwaniritsa izi.

Nthawi zonse ndikofunikira kufunafuna chithandizo.

Tonse timathandiza anthutikamawaona ali m’chisoni kapena m’mikhalidwe yovuta.

Ndiye bwanji osavomera kuthandizidwa kamodzi?

Choncho sikovuta kulankhula ndi munthu wina n’kuuza munthu wodalirika.

Adzayang'ana njira zodziwika bwino ndi inu ndipo akhoza kudziyika okha mu nsapato zanu, popeza nthawi zonse mumatha kuyang'ana zochitika mopanda ndale kuchokera kunja.

Pewani kulakwa monga anthu amene amakunyozani

Tsoka ilo, anthu omwe ali mumkhalidwe wofananawo sangakuthandizireni munjira ya kusiya kupita kuika wokondedwa mkati.

Anthu awa ali m'mavuto omwewo ndipo nthawi zambiri amakugwetsani pansi ndipo amatha kukuthandizani Zilekeni osati thandizo.

Momwemonso, munthu sayenera kudziimba mlandu, chifukwa munthu amasankha yekha chifukwa chomwe wachoka.

Kaya ndi matenda aakulu kapena kusankha kuyambitsa atsopano Leben kuyambira ndi anthu atsopano - simungathe kusintha zomwe zikuchitika kapena kukhudza chisankho.

wina amene amachita Kudzisiya wekha wagonjetsa ndi kuchipanga, angakuthandizeni ndi kukuthandizani bwino kwambiri mumkhalidwe woterowo.

Anthu awa nthawi zambiri amakhala nawo malangizo abwino ndipo anapeza njira yothetsera ululu.

Zimakhalanso choncho nthawi zambiri kuti zimathandiza kukumbukira zabwino Nthawi kuti athe kukumbukira ndi kumaliza.

Zotsatira za Kumangidwa

Kusiya munthu amene mumamukonda ndi njira yovuta yomwe ingakhalenso yotopetsa. Koma osati zotsatira zake kusiya kupita zonse ndizovuta kwambiri. Zake thanzi lamaganizo koposa zonse, adzavulazidwa.

Zotsatira zake zimayamba ndi kusowa tulo, mutu, mkwiyo ndi chidani ndipo zingayambitse kuvutika maganizo ndi kudzikana.

Timakhalabe mumkhalidwe wooneka ngati wosapeŵeka kwa ife ndipo motero kuwononga thupi lathu.

Malingaliro abwino a tsogolo labwino

Ndi kusweka kulikonse kumabwera chiyambi chatsopano.

Motero, n’kofunika kupitiriza kubwerera maso kuonetsetsa kuti chilichonse chomwe timachita chimabweretsa zabwino.

Ngati mutero izi mphamvu amakoka njira yake, inu mwamsanga zindikirani kuti si zonse nthawi zonse zoipa ndi zovuta ndi kuti chirichonse chingakhalenso chophweka.

Ndikofunika kungokhala olimba mtima ndikuvomereza zomwe zikuchitika. Kusiya munthu amene umamukonda kumafuna, koposa zonse, kukhululuka ndi kudzivomereza.

Kaŵirikaŵiri, timadzimvera chisoni pa zinthu zina chifukwa chakuti tapwetekedwa mtima.

Ndi bwino kukhumudwa ndi kukwiya.

Chofunika ndi kuvomereza zimene zinachitikazo kenako n’kukhululukirana.

Siyani chisoni ndi zowawa kumbuyo

Tonse timadutsa njira pamene tisiya munthu amene timamukonda.

N’kwachibadwa kumva chisoni ndi kumva kuwawa kwa kupatukana.

Choncho nthawi zambiri amadutsa anthu magawo 5 achisoni.

Kenako pamabwera nthawi yomwe mumavomereza chisoni chanu. Izi sizoyipa ndipo nthawi zambiri zimathandiza kuthana nazo bwino.

Mukavomereza chisoni chanu, nthawi yafika ndipo ndi inu anderen Kulankhula ndi anthu za izo ndi kukonza chisoni chanu m'njira yolunjika polankhula za izo.

Pambuyo pake, dikirani ndikuwona, chifukwa m'kupita kwanthawi zinthu zambiri zimakhazikika ndipo ululuwo umakhala wosavuta pakapita nthawi.

Panthawi imeneyi, musamadzikakamize kuti mutseke mwachangu ndikusiya.

Aliyense ali ndi nthawi yosiyana yomwe zimatengera kuti athetse ululu wa kutha.

Chifukwa chake muyenera kudzinyadira mukakwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndikuyamba kukhala ndi chizolowezi chobwerera m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.

Ngati sitepe ili mu gawo la kusiya kupita adafika, kuyang'ana zomwe zidachitika zitha kuponyedwa.

Mukakhala mumkhalidwe wovuta, mumaweruza zinthu mwankhanza kwambiri kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro opotoka.

Choncho ngati patapita nthawi muyang’ananso zimene zikuchitika patali, mudzaona zinthu zina zimene poyamba simukuzimvetsa bwinobwino.

Pochita zimenezi, m’pofunika, koposa zonse, kukhala woona mtima glücklich kukhala. Kusiya munthu amene umamukonda ndiyo njira yokhayo yochitira.

sungani zikumbukiro

Kusiya munthu amene mumamukonda ndi njira yayitali yomwe aliyense angachite.

Pambuyo pa nthawi yayitali yokonzekera, ndi bwino kuyang'ana mmbuyo pa zomwe zinachitika.

Am chiyambi cha kusiya sizingatheke, koma ngati muyang'ana mmbuyo ndi chisangalalo, mukudziwa kuti munapanga ndikumaliza bwino njira yosiya munthu amene mumamukonda.

Kusiya sikophweka - kusiya munthu amene umamukonda

Pambuyo pakutha, malingaliro anu amazungulira.

Mumadutsa mu zonse zomwe 'mungakhale nazo', 'zoyenera kukhala nazo', 'zikanakhala bwanji' ndipo mumadzipangitsa misala.

Mumamusowa, komabe mukuyesera kuti mupitirizebe.

Inu mukumvetsa kuti nzabwino, komabe mukukaikirabe.

Kupatula apo, malingaliro ndi mtima wanu ndi zosokoneza.

Komabe, nthawi zina chovuta kumvetsa ndi chakuti moyo suyenda molingana ndi ndondomeko yathu.   

Nthawi zina, kusiya ndiko kusankha kokha, kusankha koyenera kudzipeza tokha komanso omwe tatalikirana nawo.

Nawa ena Mawu okhudza chikondi komanso kusiya

Kukuthandizani kugwirizanitsa zidutswa zanu zosweka kuti zikukhazikitseni maphunziro atsopano komanso kukukumbutsani kuti kusiya sikutanthauza kuti ndinu wofooka.

"Ngati mutenga zokwanira kuti musanzike, moyo udzakulipirani moni watsopano." - Paulo Coelho

"Nthawi zina zimatengera kusweka mtima kutigwedeza ndi kutiwonetsa kuti ndife ofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe timafunira." -Mandy Hale

"Zilekeni kumatanthauza kuzindikira kuti anthu ena ali mbali ya moyo wanu koma osati mbali ya tsogolo lanu. - Steve Maraboli

"Chofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi moyo wosalira zambiri ndikupeza kuti mutha kusiya." - Steve Maraboli

“Ngati sufuna kukumbukira chinthu kapena munthu, usadane nazo kapena kumunyoza. Chilichonse ndi aliyense amene mumadana nazo zalembedwa mu mtima mwanu; pamene mukufuna kusiya chinachake, pamene mukufuna kunyalanyaza, simungathe kudana nacho." - C. JoyBell C.

"Zosintha modabwitsa zimachitika m'moyo wanu mukasankha kulamulira zomwe muli nazo, m'malo molamulira zomwe muli nazo. ndikukhumbazomwe ulibe." - Steve Maraboli

"Chinthu chokhacho chomwe munthu angachite ndikupita patsogolo. Tengani kudumpha kwakukulu kumeneku popanda kukayika, popanda kukumbukira. Ingoyiwala zam'mbuyo ndikupita ku mtsogolo. " -Alyson Noel

"Mukasungirana chakukhosi munthu wina, mumalumikizidwa ndi munthuyo kapena vuto kudzera mu kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe komwe kwambiri ndi chitsulo. Kukhululukidwa ndiye njira yokhayo yochepetsera mgwirizanowu. " - Catherine Ponder

"Ndikasiya zomwe ndili, ndimakhala zomwe ndingakhale." - Lao Tse

"“Kusiya si chinthu chanthawi imodzi Chinthu, ndichinthu chomwe muyenera kuchita tsiku lililonse, mobwerezabwereza. " - Dawson's Creek

"Ngati mukufunadi kuyamikiridwa ndi anthu omwe mumawakonda, muyenera kuwatsimikizira kuti mungathe kuchita popanda iwo." -Michael Bassey Johnson

"Ulendo wokongola wa masiku ano ukhoza kungoyamba pamene tikupeza kuti tasiya dzulo." - Steve Maraboli

“Tikhoza kupeza mtendere wamumtimapamene tichitira chifundo. chikhululuko ndi chimenecho kusiya zakale ndipo chifukwa chake ndi njira yowongolera malingaliro athu olakwika." – Gerald G. Jampolsky

"Kusokonekera kudzakusiya iwe ukasiya kupita" - Jeremy Aldana

“Mudzapeza kuti kulola zinthu kumafunika; chifukwa chakuti ndi olemetsa. Choncho msiyeni azipita. - C. JoyBell

“Yembekezerani heutekuti mutha kuganiza za zabwino ngakhale zidachitika dzulo. Osamvetsetsa zam'mbuyo, sizikusunganso ukapolo. Zikhoza kukupwetekani mopitirira ngati mutagwiritsitsa. kusiya zakale Dziko lolungama likukuyembekezerani. - Sarah Breathnach

“Kodi mungalole dziko lozungulira inu kuti lisinthe mukukhalabe pompo? Chitani izi panthawi yomwe mukuchotsa makhalidwe akale omwe akuwononga chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo chanu erfolg wolumala, ndipo pamapeto pake lolani kuti ukulu wanu ukule." - Steve Maraboli

“Ngati muli za kumwamba fliegen Ngati mukufuna, muyenera kuchoka padziko lapansi. Ngati mukufuna kupita patsogolo, muyenera kusiya zakale zomwe zikukugwetsani pansi. " - Amit Ray

"Mukasiya zomwe mukuyembekezera, mukachita izi Leben landirani monga momwe zilili, muli mfulu. Kulimbikira kumatanthauza kukhala watanthauzo komanso wopanikiza.” -Richard Carlson

“Leka ndewu. Kupuma mophweka ndi kulola kuti kukhale. Lolani thupi lanu kukhala pansi ndikufewetsa mtima wanu. Zimapezeka pazomwe mungakumane nazo popanda kumenyana. " - Jack kornfield

"Yesetsani kumvera kulola." – Tom Althouse

“Kusiya sikutanthauza kusiya, kumatanthauza kusankha kuika chidwi chanu pa chinthu china chofunika kwambiri. Kusiya sikutanthauza zimenezo azidzidalira kutaya, koma kuzindikira kuti pali njira zabwino zogwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanu. Kusiya kumatanthauza kusapeza zifukwa, koma kuphunzira kuchita zinthu mogwira mtima kwambiri, mogwira mtima kwambiri.” - Zosadziwika

“Tsiku lililonse udzitsimikizire kuti ndiwe wabwino Leben kuyenerera. Kuchepetsa nkhawa, atmeni. Khalani otsimikiza, zonse zili bwino. " - Germany Kent

“Kusiya anthu omwe timawakonda ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe tingachite. Anthu ena sataya mtima Liebe pansi chifukwa akuda nkhawa kuti avulazidwa. Ikadakhala imfa yoyipa kwambiri. " - Goldie Hawn

Siyani - zimagwira ntchito bwanji? kanema nsonga

Mu Zauzimu monga m'mabuku a zamaganizo ndi zambiri za kusiya mawu.

Mawu amenewa sakuwamvetsa anthu ambiri mpaka lero.

ngati inu kanthu kufuna kusiya m'moyo wanu, kaya ndi mutu wakale kapena ubale kapena kusintha kwina kulikonse, dzifunseni kaye ngati mwavomereza kale zomwe mwakhala mpaka pano.

Kodi mwavomereza ndi kuyamikira zomwe zinali ndi zomwe ziri tsopano?

Kulola kupita ndi kupyolera mu kuvomereza.

BETZ MOVES - Robert Betz