Zasinthidwa komaliza pa Ogasiti 10, 2022 ndi Roger Kaufman
Ngati chikhululuko ndi chaumulungu, kodi munthu ayenera kukhala woyera mtima?
"Kukhululuka ndi chisankho chomwe umapanga kuti ubwezeretse mtendere mu mtima mwako."
Tonse timadziwa kuti kukhululuka n’kofunika, koma nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kupeza mawu oyenera.
Ngati mukufunafuna njira yopezera mtendere mumtima mwanu, mawu amenewa angakhale othandiza kwambiri.
chikhululukiro zonena ndi zinthu za ngwazi za tsiku ndi tsiku, sitepe yomaliza ya mtendere wamumtima.
Kungakhale mtundu wamalingaliro aikido kukhala komwe timalepheretsa wotsutsa wathu wolemekezeka moleza mtima komanso modekha komanso "kubwezera" kwakukulu kwambiri Frieden fotokozani, ngati kokha mkati.
"Kulakwitsa ndi munthu, kukhululukira ndi umulungu." - Alexander Pope
Chikhululukiro ndi chisankho chomwe mumakumana nacho mobwerezabwereza. Zitha kukhala malingaliro atsopano kapena mtunda wathanzi; Monga malo amtendere ndi malingaliro a dziko la zovuta ndi kukangana.
Kukhululukidwa kungakhale mphatso kwa inu nokha kapena kwa ena, kungakhale chinthu chomwe mumapeza, koma kungakhalenso katundu amene paubwenzi limafotokoza momwe mungakhululukire nokha kukhululukira ena.
Ngati muchita zimenezo chiyembekezo Zimakupatsani mapiko, kukhululuka nthawi zambiri ndikofunikira kuti mubwerere pamapazi anu.
Monga mbali ya kulimba mtima ndi sitepe ya kusinthasintha kwa maganizo, kukhululuka kumasungidwa bwino ngati maphunziro opitirira.
Munthu akhoza kukhala wokhululuka kwambiri, koma mofanana ndi njira zonse zotsika mtengo, kuti munthu apite ku chinthu chosatha kumafuna khama ndiponso kuwononga ndalama zambiri. kusintha ndikufuna kusuntha.
45 mawu achisoni - Kodi pamapeto pake mukufuna kuyang'ana mmbuyo pagalasi
"Kukhululukidwa ndi chizindikiro chakuti munthu amene wamuchitira nkhanza amatanthauza zambiri kuposa zopanda chilungamo zomwe adachita." - Ben Greenhalgh
“Kukhululuka sikuvomereza zomwe zinachitika. Zili pafupi kukwera pamwamba pake. " -Robin Sharma.
"Tikhululukireni wina ndi mzake - pokhapokha tidzakhala mumtendere." - Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
“Timawerenga kuti tiyenera kukhululukira adani athu; Komabe, sitifufuza ngati tikhululukira anzathu.” Francis Bacon
Mawu okhululuka chikondi - Njira zosavuta zolimbikitsira chikondi chanu
"Ngati mkazi wakhululukiradi mwamuna wake, sayenera kutenthetsa machimo ake chifukwa cha chakudya cham'mawa." - Marlene Dietrich
"Tisanakhululukire wina ndi mnzake, tiyenera kumvetsetsana." - Emma Goldman
"Kukhululuka ndi njira yapamwamba kwambiri komanso yokopa kwambiri Liebe. Pobwezera mumapeza mtendere wosaneneka komanso Chimwemwe." - Robert Müller
“Khalani amene amalera ndi kumanga. Khalani amene ali ndi mtima womvetsetsa ndi wokhululuka womwe umayang'ana zopindulitsa kwambiri mwa anthu. Siyani anthu abwino kuposa momwe munawapezera. ” -Marvin J. Ashton
"Agestor ndi chinthu chosangalatsa. Zimalimbitsa mtima komanso kuziziritsa mbola.”- Illiam Arthur Ward
“Chikhululukiro ndi nsembe, ndiko kuti, kulandira moyo." - George MacDonald
“Musapirire chimene chinalakwika. M’malo mwake, ganizirani zimene muyenera kuchita. Perekani mphamvu zanu kuti mupeze yankho limodzi. ” Denis Waitley
"Iye amene sangakhululukire amathyola mlatho womwe iye mwini ayenera kuwoloka." - George Herbert
"Palibe Liebe popanda chikhululukiro, ndipo palibe chisomo popanda chikondi.” – Bryant H. McGill
“Wosweka Freundschaft, lomwe limakonzedwa ndi chikhululukiro, lingakhale lamphamvu kuposa pamenepo.” - Stephen Richards
"Wokondedwa wokondwa paubwenzi ndi kugwirizana kwa awiri okhululuka kwambiri.” —Robert Quillen
Kusiya mawu otayidwa - Monga inu ndi chinyengo chaching'ono ichi kungakupatseni Zilekeni kanst
“Tikadzabwerera m’mbuyo n’kukayambanso mavuto onse amene tinali nawo, tidzatha Leben kuzandima ndi kudabwa. Kukhazikika ndi mtendere wamalingaliro zimatuluka tikakhala mu izi ndi Tsopano moyo." - Pam W. Vredevelt
"Tiyenera kukhala moyo womwe tinakonza Zilekeni kufuna kukhala ndi moyo umene ukutiyembekezera.” — Joseph Campbell
“Simufunikira chipiriro kuti muchite chilichonse kuti asiye. Zomwe mukufunikira ndikumvetsetsa. " -Man Finley
“Chikhululuko n’chopereka ndipo potero ndi kusunga moyo." - George MacDonald
“Mukhululukire aliyense amene anakulakwirani, osati chifukwa cha iwo okha, komanso chifukwa cha inu. - Harriet Nelson
“Kukhululuka kumatanthauza kumasula mkaidi kotheratu ndikusiya kuti mkaidiyo ndiwe.” -Louis B. Smedes
"Mercy ndi m'modzi chikondi Nkhani. Amatenthetsa mtima komanso amatsitsimutsanso. ” -
William Arthur Ward
Kulankhula Mawu Anzeru - Phunzirani ndi nzeru za golide izi
“Pamene ndinkatuluka pakhomo kupita kuchipata chimene chikanandipatsa ufulu, ndinadziŵa kuti ngati ndileka mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo wanga, ndikakhalabe m’ndende. Haz sangasiye kwenikweni. " Nelson Mandela
“Chikhululukiro chenicheni ndicho ngati munganene kuti: Zikomo chifukwa cha ichi Zochitika. " - Oprah Winfrey
"Kulakwitsa sikuli kanthu pokhapokha mutakumbukira." - Konfuzius
“Ofooka sangathe kupereka mphoto. Chifundo ndi chikhalidwe cha olimba." - Mahatma Gandhi
"Againty ndi mphatso yomwe umadzipatsa." - Tony Robbins
"Kukhululuka ndiye maziko a zochita komanso kusinthasintha." -Hannah Arendt
"Moyo ndi ulendo wachifundo." - Norman Cousins
Mwachidule muvidiyoyi mawu 45 okhululuka golide
"Kutentha kumakupangitsani kukhala ochepa, pomwe kukhululuka kumakupangitsani kuti mukule kuposa momwe munalili." -Cherie Carter-Scott
“Ofooka sangakhululukire. Kukhululuka ndiye khalidwe la zonse.” - Mahatma Gandhi
"Fungo ndi chikhululukiro kuti violet imagwera pa chidendene chomwe chafinya." -
Mark Twain
“Mchitidwe wokhululuka ndi wathu chofunika kwambiri Malipiro obwezeretsa dziko lapansi. ” - Marianne Williamson
"Ndakhala ndikutsimikiza kuti kukhululuka kumabala zipatso zambiri kuposa chilungamo chokhwima." - Abraham Lincoln
"Chifundo chenicheni si ntchito molingana ndi zenizeni, koma njira yoganizira yomwe imayang'anizana ndi mphindi iliyonse." —David Ridge
Kukhululuka Mawu Mkwiyo - “Musadzakwiyenso”
"Kukhululukidwa ndikusiya ufulu wanga wokuchitirani zoipa chifukwa munandipweteka." - Zosadziwika
"Kukhululuka kowona sikutsutsa vuto, koma kumatsutsana naye mwachindunji." Alice Duer Miller
"Kukhululuka ndiubwino wa kulimba mtima." - Indira Gandhi
"Mkwiyo Dzipange kukhala wocheperako pomwe chisomo chikukankhira kuti ukule kuposa momwe unalili. ” -Cherie Carter-Scott
“Opusa sakhululuka, kapena kukumbukira; osadziwa akhululukire, naiwala; ochenjera akhululukire, koma osanyalanyaza. Thomas Szasz
Mawu a Chikhululukiro Chikhulupiriro - Chikhulupiriro chimasuntha mapiri
“Kukhululuka kuli ngati chikhulupiriro. Uyenera kupitiriza kuchitsitsimutsa.” -Mason Cooley
Kunena Mawu Kubwezera - Chotsani chikhumbo chanu chobwezera - m'masekondi ochepa chabe
“Popanda chikhululuko zidzatero Leben kutsimikiziridwa ndi kusinthasintha kopanda malire kwa mkwiyo komanso kubwezera. ” - Roberto Assagioli
“Kupirira kokha kumazindikira kukhululuka. …Wamantha sanakhululukire; Izo siziri mwa iye Chilengedwe." - Laurence Sterne
"Chikhululuko ndi kubwezera kokoma." - Isaac Friedmann
Ndi ndakatulo za kukhululuka, kukhululuka
Kudzikhululukira
Kodi ndingadzikhululukire bwanji ndekha?
Kodi ndingasiye bwanji kudziimba mlandu?
pa zolakwa zomwe ndapanga?
Kodi ndingapeze bwanji mtendere wamumtima?
kupita patsogolo,
M’malo momangoyang’ana m’mbuyo?
Ndizitembenuza bwanji izi,
ndisanadzitayenso ndekha?
Mafunso awa amandivutitsa
tsiku lililonse.
Pomwe ndikuganiza kuti nditero
ngakhale pang'ono kupita patsogolo,
Pali chinachake kapena munthu
zomwe zimandikokera kumbuyo,
kukokeranso kuphompho.
chifukwa cha chisoni chenicheni ndi manyazi.
Chisoni cha chikondi chinalakwika kapena kukhetsedwa;
zochititsa manyazi kuvomereza.
Tengani mtima wokongola chotero ndi malingaliro mwa inu.
Ndazindikira kuti ndiyenera kuphunzira kudzikhululukira.
Kwa aliyense wa malingaliro anga olakwika.
iyi ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zovuta kwambiri.
Ndinayenera kukumana nazo.
Khalani mdani wanu wamkulu,
Polimbana ndi zotsutsa zamkati mwa zonse,
ndi wochedwa kugonjetsa
Makamaka mukayiwala.
kuwala kumapeto kwa kanjira.
Chikhulupiriro changa chimandichoka.
Ndikuzifuna kwambiri.
Ndimakhala kunja kokha.
pamene pang'onopang'ono amadutsa mkati.
Ndikuwona komanso kumva kuti palibe ntchito yeniyeni.
Nthawi zonse ndimafunitsitsa kuwopseza.
mumthunzi wa munthu wina?
Osapindula konse.
Pa zonse zomwe ndidayikapo?
Osazindikirika konse.
chifukwa chokhala ndi mtima wabwino?
Sizikuwoneka ngati ndikuchita.
ndinasangalala kwambiri,
Kapena kuyamikiridwa, kwa.
ndine munthu?
Zimasowa chiyani.
Kotero kuti wina akuwona.
Mtengo mwa ine?
Nkhawa zonsezi
popanda mayankho.
zimapangitsa kukhala kovuta kukhulupirira.
kuti ndinu ofunika kwambiri.
kwa onse ozungulira inu.
Ndidzakhala nthawizonse.
nkhani yotsatira,
m'malo mokonzekera?
Ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe ndingachite.
Onani kufunika kwanga?
Zidzakhala zokhazikika nthawi zonse.
mu kusayembekezeka kwanga.
Kukayikakayika?
Ndidzapezadi wanga kale.
M'dera la dziko lino?
Mafunso onsewa mosalekeza.
ndikuzungulira m'mutu mwanga pamene ndikuyesera.
kuzindikira mayankho.
Kupanikizika kwa kupeza.
Mayankho awa alipo.
zolemetsa pa mapewa anga.
Ndine mkazi wamphamvu, ndithudi.
Koma ndikakumana nanu.
kulimbana pambuyo pa zovuta,
Popanda kupuma kwenikweni,
Nthawi zambiri ndimakonda kudzipeza ndekha.
kukayikira kukhalapo kwanga.
Sindikufuna kukumbukiridwa.
Monga mkazi yemwe nthawi zonse ankamva ululu.
Ndikufuna kudzifotokozera kwanga kukhala kwa.
mkazi amene ngakhale iye.
zovuta zambiri, adazindikira.
Maphunziro monga chitsanzo kwa ena.
Moyo ndi momwe timapangira.
Ngati ndikhala kuti ndidzipatse mphamvu kuti nditero.
kuchita mantha awa,
Ndiye ine kwenikweni ndinagonja.
ine imfa yanga.
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri kumakhala mitambo.
maganizo, ndikudziwa kuti sindingathe.
osalolanso izi.
Ndikudziwa kuti moyo wanga,
sindingathe kupirira ululu.
komanso kusakhutira komwe kumabala.
Kenako m'pofunika kuzindikira.
kuti ndine munthu, chiyani.
Ndipanga zolakwika.
Izi ndi momwe ndimaphunzirira kuchokera ku zolakwika izi.
Ndicho chimene chimandilekanitsa ine ndi ena,
Ndizomwe zimapangitsa kukhala kwanga kwapadera.
Mosasamala kanthu za kusungulumwa.
izi zimandivutitsa nthawi zonse.
Ndiyenera kukumbukira kuti ndili.
zofunika ndi zofunidwa ndi ena.
Njira yokhayo yochitira izi.
Ndikuyesera kudzikhululukira ndekha,
Pozindikira,
kuti iwo omwe awonjezerapo azindikire.
Chithumwa changa chenicheni ndi iwo.
omwe ali oyenera kukhala gawo la moyo wanga.
Popeza chifunga chimakwera kwambiri tsiku lililonse.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndipezanso njira zanga.
Mabampu enanso ochepa motsatira izi.
Msewu amawutcha moyo.
Gwero: Vicki A. Zinn
Kodi mumalemba bwanji kupepesa kokoma?
Pepani chifukwa chonyalanyaza nthawi zonse mukafika kwa ine.
Pepani kuti ndinadzipatula kwa inu.
Pepani kuti ndinasankha njira yosavuta kwambiri m'malo mothetsa vutolo komanso kukambirana nawo.
Ndikuvomereza kulakwa kwanga, ndipo ndikupepesa kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kuti muthane nazo.
Ndikuvomereza kuti ndinakhala ngati wamantha, lero ndapanga chisankho kuti ndithetse ndi kuthetsa mavuto athu.
Ngati mwaganiza zosiya, imeneyo ndi mphatso yabwino kwa inu nokha.
Mumadzichitira nokha ndi mtendere wanu wamkati.
Mukapeza mtendere mwa inu nokha, mudzapeza mtendere padziko lapansi.
