Zasinthidwa komaliza pa Epulo 18, 2022 ndi Roger Kaufman
Kodi ndingasiye bwanji zakale??
Pangani mtendere ndi zakale.
Munthu aliyense amalowamo Leben ndi cholinga.
Ndiwe wapadera, chisonyezero chapadera cha mphamvu ya moyo wapadziko lonse mu kapangidwe ka mitundu yanu yakuthupi.
Mzimu umakutsogolerani kuyambira pomwe moyo wanu umayamba, ndipo anthu ndi zochitika za moyo wanu zimawonetsa ulendo wa Mzimu wanu.
Kodi ndingatani kuti ndikhazikitse mtendere ndi zakale n’kusiya kukhala wosangalala?
Kodi ichi ndi chimwemwe? Palibe wina Mensch ali ndi kapena adzasintha dziko momwe mumachitira - ndi zochita, lingaliro kapena mawu omwe mumadziphatikiza nokha m'chilengedwe chanu.
Banja lanu ndiye ubale wanu woyamba komanso wofunikira kwambiri.
Zomwe mumaphunzira kuchokera pamenepo zimakhudza njira ndi momwe mumadziwonera nokha komanso dziko lapansi.
kuposa mtundu Kusatetezeka kwanu kwakuthupi kumakupangitsani kudalira anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi moyo.
Nthawi zambiri maubwenzi amenewa amakhala ovulaza kuposa othandiza.
Der banjaGulu lomwe mukulowa nawo pano lili ndi machitidwe: machitidwe, zikhulupiriro, ndi malingaliro omwe mungagawire nawo.
Mukapita nawo, mumapeza zomwe mukufuna ndikusintha mogwirizana ndi zosowa zawo.
Komabe, ngati muli nawo Zachibadwa Mukanyalanyaza, simumva bwino.
Mumatulutsa zowawa ndi malingaliro oipa, ndendende zosiyana ndi zomwe mukufuna.
Kusiya zakale - kuti muthe kukulitsa zomwe munabadwa nazo, zimagwira ntchito bwanji?
Malingaliro ochokera kwa Vera. F. Birkenbihl kuti asiye - kusiya zakale
Chimwemwe n’chakuti simuyenera kukhala cholinga cha mmene munaleredwera.
Nthawi zonse ndinu omasuka kusankha m'mbuyo kuti asiye
Ngakhale achibale anu osagwira ntchito Malangizo: Selbstwertgefühl akhoza kupondereza, kukusokonezani ndi kuwononga maubwenzi anu, kusokonezeka kwa chibadwa chanu chachibadwa kungathe kusinthidwa.
Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zakuya Sinn.
Kodi mukudziwa mawu awa? Kusiya zakale
"Uyenera kusiya zakale kuti tsogolo likhale ndi mwayi"
"Sindikudandaula zanga kale, koma nthawi yokhayo imene ndinadzipereka chifukwa cha anthu oipa.”
“Tiyeni tipite kumene ife tiri futse kufuna. Pitirizani pomwe tikufuna kuyimira. Izi ndi ntchito zovuta kwambiri zomwe timakumana nazo Leben mawonekedwe."
Gwero: osadziwika
Mavuto anu ndi kupitiriza kukuwonetsani zomwe simukuzifuna ndikukupangitsani kuchita zomwe mumakonda.
Umu ndi momwe mungasankhire, kwaulere, kukhala munthu yemwe mukufuna kukhala ndikukulitsa moyo womwe mukufuna kufuna.
Kupirira m'banja lopanda ntchito sikutanthauza kuti muzikhala bwino ndi achibale anu.
Mumakhazika mtima pansi zakale polimbana ndi zovuta, zoyipa maganizo ndi malingaliro otsegula mfundo za mu mtima ndi m'maganizo mwanu zomwe zimakulepheretsani kumvetsetsa maloto anu.
Mumakulitsa tsogolo latsopano podalira chilengedwe chanu nzeru mumabwerera kuti mugonjetse zopinga ndi zokumana nazo zowawa ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zanu.
Mukachita zonse zomwe mungathe, mumapeza mphamvu yomwe inali mkati mwanu nthawi yonseyi, ngakhale pazovuta kwambiri, ngakhale simunadziwe.
Onetsetsani kuti muwone kanema yomwe yaikidwa pamwambapa Vera. F Birkenbihl.
Chilichonse chomwe chingachitike, kudalira Khalani otsimikiza kuti zomwe mukukumana nazo zidzakuunikirani. Musataye mtima.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri ndikudzipereka kuyesa zinthu zatsopano komanso kuchokera kwa inu luso kupeza.
Kukulitsa kuthekera kwanu ndi njira - ndingasiye bwanji zakale kuti ndikwaniritse mtendere wamaganizidwe?
Zosintha sizichitika mwadzidzidzi - zimabwera pang'onopang'ono, kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe akukulitsa luso lanu losangalala, kukulitsa ndikusiyanitsa mwachindunji komanso pagulu.
Kupanga mtendere ndi zakale, kodi mumatani nazo?
Kodi ndingasiye bwanji zakale kuti ndikwaniritse zizolowezi zoipa ndi mtendere wamumtima?
Nazi njira 10 zobweretsera kusintha m'moyo wanu komanso maubwenzi anu:
1. Konzani pulogalamu yatsopano kuti kusintha kuchitike
Pezani zosankha zanuzanu glücklich kukhala ndi kusiya zizolowezi zoipa - chinthu chakale Zilekeni
Maphunziro anu atsopano amakhala amkati, omwe amatsegulira njira zakunja Zolemba mfundo.
Choyamba, kumbukirani kuti zinthu zikhoza kukhala bwino kwambiri. Zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wanu ndizochuluka momwe mumalolera kukhala nazo.
Chitani chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuti mudziwe mmene mungapangire zinthu zimene mukufuna kuti mukhale osangalala.
Tengani aliyense Tag Nthawi yoganizira zomwe mukufuna. Vomerezani kuyesa mfundo zatsopano.
Samalani kwambiri malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe mukufuna kuti muwale.
Kulimba mtima kumatanthauza zimenezo chowonadi kuvomereza momwe zilili ndikuthana nazo kuti mupange zomwe mukufuna.
Lolani kuti musangalale ndi zomwe mungathe.
Mutha kukwaniritsa chilichonse chomwe mwadzipereka.
2. Khulupirirani zanu yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale - kupanga mtendere ndi zakale - kusiya zakale
Gwirani mkati mwanu nzeru ndipo mudzapeza kusintha m'moyo wanu
Samalani pamene mumvetsera “kawu kakang’ono ka chidziwitso.” Pali dongosolo lotsogolera mkati mwanu lomwe limadzizindikira lokha kudzera mumalingaliro ndi malingaliro anu.
Das Leben zingakhale zosokoneza, ndipo anthu ena amayesa kukusinthirani m’njira zosayenera. Tsoka ilo, ndinalinso ndi izi ndili kusukulu ndipo ndikumva ululu erfahren.
Zingatanthauze kuti si zanu ngati chinachake sichikumveka bwino.
Dzifunseni chifukwa chake osatero komanso zomwe inu lieber mungakonde. Dzipatseni phindu la funsolo.
Malingaliro anu amakufikitsani komwe muli ndi mphindi yabwino kwambiri besten akhoza kuthana ndi zotsatira.
Kupanga mtendere ndi zakale, mwaonakhalani munthu wanu ndi kukhala wolimba mtima -Kusiya zakale
Dzikhulupirireni ngakhale mukutsutsidwa.
Palibe amene angakuuzeni zomwe mukufuna kapena zomwe mukufuna.
Khalani ndi zolinga zabwino, musaganizire mopambanitsa, chitani zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndi zabwino kwambiri pakadali pano.
Mupezanso mawu ndi mawu ambiri mu blog iyi Mawu okhudza kulimba mtima ndi Mawu okhudza nzeru
3. Yesani kupeza malo abwino - kusiya zakale
Khalani ndi maganizo abwino pamene mukusiya
Mwawonetsa luso lanu ndi luso lanu Maloto kuzindikira.
Zomwe mumakumana nazo zimatengera momwe mukuziwonera.
Ndendende momwe mumasankhira mfundo zimakhala ndi gawo lalikulu muzochita zanu komanso momwe ena amakuchitirani.
Yang'anani yotsika mtengo.
Ngati mumayang'ana kwambiri zoyipa, ... mphamvu ndipo zimakhudza kuthekera kwanu kupirira.
Ngakhale kuti zinthu zikuoneka zoipa bwanji, pezani chinachake choti mupindule nazo.
Dzifunseni nokha, ndi ubwino wanji ngati mutasiya?
Nanga bwanji ngati mutasiya?
Kodi ndingaphunzirepo chiyani apa ndikasiya?
Mayankho omwe mumalandira akuwonetsani zomwe muyenera kuchita kenako.
Panopa muli ndi zinthu zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti muchepetse zam'mbuyo ndikupanga tsogolo latsopano.
Mukungoyenera kudziwa momwe mungawagwiritsire ntchito.
Bwererani - mozungulira Frieden kutseka ndi zakale - kusiya zakale
Chilimbikitso kusiyana ndi machitidwe osazindikira
Yang'anani mawonekedwe owopsa anthawi zonse.
Mukazama kwambiri, m'pamenenso mumavumbulutsa madera omwe ali mu mtima ndi malingaliro anu.
Bweretsani malingaliro anu mwachindunji munjirayo polandila thandizo la esoteric mwanjira iliyonse yomwe ili yoyenera kwa inu.
Ndikupangira kanema wina wa Vera F. Birkenbihl wokhala ndi mutu "Pragmatic Esotericism":
Muzitengera maganizo a anthu ena pokhapokha ngati akulimbikitsani.
Zotsutsa zitha kukhala ndemanga zokha zokha malinga ndi zomwe wotsutsa filimuyo amaopa. Simuyenera kutsimikizira aliyense za ufulu wanu wokhala ndi moyo momwe mukufunira.
5. Sangalalani ndi zomwe mungathe
Pangani kulankhulana kothandiza
- Nena zoona;
- Lankhulani mosamala kwambiri;
- Tsindikani zabwino;
- Zindikirani momwe mumakhudzira ena;
- Musaganize kuti mudzamvetsetsedwa - fufuzani;
- Ngati muzindikira kuti mwatsetsereka, pepesani maso ndi maso, ngati n’kotheka, kuti muyang’ane munthu winayo m’maso;
- Osapereka malangizo pokhapokha atafunsidwa;
- Osacheza, zimawononga nthawi yomwe mungakhale mukuigwiritsa ntchito kudzilimbikitsa;
- Ngati munthu wakukhumudwitsani, siyani kuchita chilichonse chomwe chimawayambitsa, mosasamala kanthu kuti mukumva bwino bwanji, mpaka mutapeza njira yabwino yolankhulirana;
- Chifukwa chiyani mukudzipangira chandamale?
- Dziwani nthawi yoti musiye kulankhula kapena kukana kuyankha;
- Osamangomvera zomwe wina akunena - yesani kuwona chifukwa chake amanenera;
- Osalekerera kunyozedwa, kupusitsidwa, kapena kunyoza wina aliyense, kuphatikizapo inuyo.
- Sangalalani
6. Osasunga ndemanga - kusiya zakale
Khazikitsani mfundo zanuzanu
Im Leben sizili za kupambana kapena kulephera.
Ngakhale kuti zonsezi zimaphunzitsa zinthu zofunika kwambiri, pali chikhutiro Maluso anu ndiye cholinga chenicheni.
Tsoka likhoza chipiriro kulitsa.
Chilakolako chikasanduka chowawa, chilekeni popanda chiweruzo kapena chisoni.
Ganizirani kuti sizoyeneranso ndikuyesa kupeza njira zina zatsopano.
Ngakhale ndewu yokhetsa ingakhale mwala wopita ku mkhalidwe wabwino kwambiri.
Kuvomereza kusintha kumabweretsa bata.
7. Palibe zolinga - Kodi tanthauzo la moyo ndi chiyani?
Chilichonse chimabweretsa zomwe muyenera kudzuka
Ubale uli ngati Masamu.
Zinthu zonse zimalumikizana kuti zipange zonse.
Inu mulibe udindo pa aliyense. Palibe mlandu, palibe mlandu, palibe chisoni. Lolani kuti zinthu zikhale momwe zilili.
Vomerezani mphindi iliyonse ngati mukuisankha motsimikiza.
Yang'anani zomwe mungapeze munthu wina akakukhumudwitsani.
Ngati musunga chakukhosi, mphamvu zanu zidzatha. Chirichonse Zilekeni Chikukuvutitsani ndi chiyani.
Chifundo sizitanthauza kuti munali bwino; Zimasonyeza kuti munthuyo ali ndi mphamvu yakuzunza kapena kukupwetekani.
Mutha kukumbukira izi nthawi zonse, koma izi Zilekeni Kukwiyitsa kumakhala kothandiza kwambiri.
Izi zimapita kawiri pakudzikhululukira nokha.
8. Sinkhasinkhani ndikudzipindulitsanso bwino
Thandizani nokha
Tengani nthawi yanu kuti muchite izi kusangalala ndi moyo.
Yendani kuyenda kwachilengedwe, thamangani, chitani chimodzi Sport.
Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi ndi inu nokha. Imwani kwambiri madzi.
Chinachake chophweka ngati a wokoma Kusamba kapena kutambasula bwino kumatha kuchita zodabwitsa pakuwongolera malingaliro anu.
Seka mukapeza mpata. Siyani zofuna zanu zokongola kwambiri nokha träumen.
Ganizirani zanu zazikulu ndi zazing'ono Zopambana.
kusinkhasinkha imachepetsa malingaliro anu ozindikira ndikukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi nzeru zamkati.
Kuwerengera mpweya wanu ndi njira yokhazikika, kapena mungathe kubwereza mwakachetechete mawu odekha kapena mawu monga "mpumulo" kapena "thanzi."
Ngati malingaliro anu akuyendayenda, momwe angachitire, mumangobweretsanso kutsindika kwanu ndikuyambanso.
Komanso 10 mphindi patsiku zitha kusintha, Yesani. Nawa malingaliro angapo pa kusinkhasinkha kowongolera:
9. Landirani thandizo lakunja
Yang'anani kupitirira malo akhungu anu
Zimathandiza kulankhula zakukhosi kwanu, mosasamala kanthu kuti zikuoneka zochititsa manyazi, zoipa, kapena zachilendo kwa inu. Pezani munthu amene mumamukhulupirira ndi amene mukuganiza kuti ndi woyenera.
Gwirizanani kuika mtima wanu pamenepo.
Mlendo yemwe akufuna atha kuchepetsa chisokonezo ndikukuthandizani kutulutsa mphamvu zanu zatsopano.
Onani mbali zonse za vuto.
Osatsatira malangizo mopanda nzeru, pezani malingaliro omwe ali omveka kwa inu ndikuwona zomwe zikuchitika.
Lowani nawo gulu la anthu omwe ali ndi zilakolako kapena zochitika zofanana ndi zanu.
Yesani zaluso, masewera, Ananamizira kapena kuvina kosangalatsa ndi/kapena kuchiza. Werengani mabuku odzithandiza okha.
Ngati mulibe munthu yemwe mungamuuze zakukhosi, tangoganizirani kankhwe paphewa lanu ndikumukhulupirira ndi zanu. Zamgululi, mavuto ndi zowawa.
10. Kupitilira - kupanga mtendere ndi zakale - kusiya zakale
Ngati mulole kupita, mutha kuchita Leben mu maubale anu
Ganizirani zanu Malire. Kudzipereka kwanu koyamba kuyenera kukhala kudziwa nokha komanso momwe mungathere pazomwe zikukuchitikirani.
Pokhapokha mukakhala nokha mumtendere mungathe kupanga chothandizira chenicheni pa ubale uliwonse ndi aliyense.
Khalani ndi chowonadi chanu, khalani akhalidwe labwino ndikufunira zabwino aliyense paubwenzi ndi munthu aliyense, kuphatikizapo inu.
Kuyesera kusintha wina n'kopanda pake, mosasamala kanthu kuti mumamukonda bwanji kapena mukuganiza kuti akufunikira.
Simungathe kulamulira zimene munthu wina amaganiza kapena mmene akumvera. Chitani zomwe mungathe ndikuchita zomwe mungathe ndikuwerenga.
Kuthana ndi mavuto kumatha kuchiritsa ngati pali malingaliro awiri.
Komabe, ngati mukumva kuti mulibe chiyembekezo, mulibe mwayi wothawa, muli pachiwopsezo, kapena mukukayika, kubisala kungakhale njira yokhayo yoyenera, osachepera mphindi imodzi.
Ingoyesani kuthawa izi, bwererani kwinakwake komwe palibe amene angakuwoneni (chimbudzi ndi malo abwino) ndikungopanga grimace kwa masekondi 60.
Khalani omasuka kuti mwina "vuto" munthu angakudabwitseni.
Zosintha zanu zikusintha zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kulumikizana, kotero mutha kuchitiridwa mosiyana.
Ngati ndi choncho, mungafune izi paubwenzi bwezeretsani, koma musathamangire mpaka mutatsimikiza kuti zinthu zasintha.
Perekani zomwe mwapeza kuti mupange mibadwo yamtsogolo.
Ndikulakalaka mutachira, chikhulupiriro ndi kulimba mtima kuti zofuna zanu zikwaniritsidwe.
Nthawi ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite kumvetsa mu zigawo zazifupi.
Ngati muyesa kulingalira nthawi yayitali, mumalimbana nawo mwachangu Malire.
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