Zasinthidwa komaliza pa Meyi 31, 2022 ndi Roger Kaufman
Chikondi chimatanthauza kukhala wokhoza kusiya
ungwiro
Nthawi zambiri ungwiro umafunika kuti munthu akwaniritse zolinga zake. M'munsimu, chinachake sichiyenera kuchitidwa, koma ndi chofunikira ndipo pachifukwa ichi chiyenera kuchitidwa bwino kwambiri.
Ndi ena Kulimbitsa "wangwiro“. Nthawi zambiri timayesedwa ndi ungwiro umenewu m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.
M’banja, kuntchito, m’maubwenzi, m’gulu la anthu, m’ntchito yodzifunira ndi m’masewera, timakumana ndi zofuna zambiri.
Tiyenera kukwaniritsa china chake ndikukwaniritsa zolinga, mwaukadaulo komanso mwachinsinsi. Tsoka ilo, sizolinga zathu nthawi zonse, chimene timachilondola ndi ungwiro.
zolinga zikhoza kukhala zosayenera kapena kupangidwa kukhala zovuta kwambiri ndi zisonkhezero zakunja zimene sitingathe kuzilamulira. Ungwiro ukhoza kutidwalitsa.
Pankhaniyi, kusiya ungwiro mu njira zosavuta ndi zofunika.
Ungwiro kunena
Ndi bwino kupanga zosankha zopanda ungwiro kusiyana ndi kufunafuna mosalekeza zisankho zangwiro zomwe sizidzabwera. - Charles de Gaulle
Koma ngati tikhulupirira kuti ndife okha amene tili pamene chirichonse chiri changwiro, kwa aliyense nthawi ndipo kulikonse kumene tili, sitingathenso kukwaniritsa zofuna zathu.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake tiyenera kusiya ungwiro.
Aliyense amene amayesa kukhala wangwiro nthawi zambiri amataya mtima chifukwa nthawi zonse pali chinachake chimene chiyenera kukonzedwa.
Kunyumba sikunathe.
Ntchito yochokera kwa abwana sinakwaniritsidwebe ngakhale kuti tsikuli ndi mapeto.
Kudzipereka kumatifooketsa, koma timapitiriza ngakhale timafunikira kupuma ndi chitetezo.
Tili ana tinaphunzira kuti tiyenera kukhala angwiro geliebter kukhala.
Palibe amene anatiphunzitsa kusiya ungwiro.
Mumalandira chiyamiko chifukwa cha ntchito zomalizidwa mwangwiro.
Kufotokozedwa mosiyana, kodi ungwiro umatidzaza? Kodi tingathe kusiya ungwiro?
Kodi mungasiye ungwiro mwa njira zosavuta?
Pamene kufuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro kumakupangitsani kudwala
Kufuna kuchita zabwino kapena kuchita zambiri sikumatidwalitsa.
Komano, kufuna kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa kalikonse kumatanthauza kusakhutira, kusamaliza, kukhala wosemphana maganizo ndi wekha nthaŵi zonse, ndipo zimenezi zingakudwalitseni.
Kuyang'ana mobwerezabwereza ntchito yomwe yachitidwa kale kapena kufuna kuikonzanso bwino sikuli bwino.
Kuntchito kapena m'banja, mumayesetsa kukondweretsa aliyense, kukwaniritsa zofuna ndi zofuna za aliyense, ndikuyiwala za inu nokha.
Nthawi zonse mumadzichulukirachulukira ndipo, chifukwa chakuchulukirachulukira, mumayiwala zomwe zili zofunika.
Simungathenso kugwira ntchito molingana ndi zofunikira komanso zofunikira, koma m'malo mwake yesetsani kukwaniritsa chilichonse.
Ngakhale mu nthawi yanu yaulere simungathe kumasuka.
Izi zimapanga chitsenderezo choipa chomwe chingatiwononge, maganizo ndi thupi. Ndiye tiyenera kusiya ungwiro ndipo ndi nthawi kusintha anaphunzira makhalidwe.
zisonkhezero zakunja
Pali zochitika zomwe sitingathe kuzilamulira ndikukonzekera tokha.
Matenda, ngozi, imfa ya munthu lieben Munthu, zonsezi zingachititse kuti tizikangana tokha.
Zisonkhezero zakunja zingatilepheretse kukwaniritsa cholinga chimene tadziikira tokha kapena chimene ena aika.
Munthawi zotere timangoyesa kuchita chilichonse bwino, kapena mwangwiro, kuti tisinthe zinthu.
Koma sitingathe kuthana ndi vutolo ändern, ndipo dichotomy iyi imakudwalitsani.
Ndiye muyenera kusiya ungwiro. Tikuwonetsa momwe zimagwirira ntchito: kusiya ungwiro munjira zosavuta.
Chikondi ndi kufuna kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa chilichonse
Timachita zinthu zambiri chifukwa chokonda ena kapena chifukwa chokonda ntchito yathu.
Kukonda anthu kungatilimbikitse kufuna kuchitira ena zonse kuti akhale bwino.
Liebe kugwira ntchito kungatiyese kudzidyera masuku pamutu ndi kuchita zambiri kuposa momwe zimafunikira.
Ma freelancers nthawi zonse amakhala ofunitsitsa kukhala abwinoko komanso angwiro.
Pamenepo zikuwoneka kuti palibe njira yotulutsira kumayendedwe osathawa. Mukulephera chifukwa cha zofuna zanu.
Koma chikondi sichiyenera kutanthauza kudzitaya.
Chikondi sichifuna kuti chinachake chichitidwe mwangwiro, kaya muubwenzi ndi banja kapena m’ntchito kapena ntchito yongodzipereka.
Chikondi chimatanthauza kupatsa, koma chikondi sichitanthauza kupatsa kuposa momwe mungathere. Kukonda sikutanthauza kugonja. Chinthu chikachitidwa mwachikondi, chimachitidwa bwino, ndipo sichiyenera kukhala changwiro.
Chikondi chimatanthauzanso kuti simuli abwino kwa ena, komanso kwa inu nokha.
Kukonda kumatanthauza kusiya ungwiro.
Kusiya ungwiro ndi kudzikonda nokha
Tinaphunzitsidwa kuti ndinu okondedwa komanso abwino ngati muli angwiro.
Kuti zochita zathu zimatsimikizira kufunika kwathu osati umunthu wathu.
Mfundo imeneyi imalepheretsa kudzikonda ndi kudzilemekeza.
Tiyenera kusiya ungwiro umenewu kuti tikhale osangalala komanso okhutira.
Kusiya ungwiro mu njira zosavuta ndi njira ya chisangalalo ndi mgwirizano.
Kusiya ungwiro kumatanthauza kudzipeza nokha, kukhala wabwino kwa inu nokha, ndiyeno ndinu abwino kwa ena ndikukwaniritsa zinthu zambiri mosavutikira.
Kupsyinjika kwakukulu, zofunikira kwambiri zimatsimikizira moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku lero.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, timaopa kusakwaniritsa zofunikira ndipo nthawi zambiri timachita zambiri kuposa zomwe zimafunikira.
Timayesetsanso kuchita chilichonse nthawi imodzi ndikukhala angwiro m'miyoyo yathu yachinsinsi. Tiyenera kusiya ungwiro kuti tipewe kupsa mtima.
Conco, poona zimenezi, tiyenela kuphunzila kuti n’kokwanila kucita cinthu monga mmene tingathele, osati kucicita bwinoko nthawi zonse.
Kusiya ungwiro - zimagwira ntchito bwanji?
Kusiya ungwiro mwa njira zosavuta ndiyo njira yachisangalalo kupyolera mu kukhutitsidwa ndi moyo wokwanitsidwa, womasuka.
Okonda kuchita zinthu mwangwiro samakhala kuno ndi pano. Simukusangalala ndi mphindi. Nthawi zonse amasowa chinachake, nthawi zonse amapeza chinachake chopanda ungwiro.
Amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe sangathe kuzikwaniritsa komanso kuzitaya mtima.
Kusiya ungwiro mu njira zosavuta poyamba kumatanthauza kudzivomereza nokha monga momwe mulili.
Ndi kupanda ungwiro ndi zoperewera.
Ngati mumaganizira za ena omwe mumawakonda, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofooka zazing'ono zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wokondeka komanso wapadera.
Ifenso tiyenera kuphunzira kudziona choncho.
Ndife opanda ungwiro, koma ndife okondedwa.
Sikuti nthawi zonse timatha kuchita chilichonse, koma timatha kudzipangitsa tokha kukhala osangalala komanso kupanga ena ngati ife.
Kusiya ungwiro kumafuna kuti tidziŵe tokha, kudzipenda moyenerera, ndi monga ife eni.
Kusiya ungwiro mwa njira zosavuta sizikutanthauza kusafunanso kukwaniritsa chilichonse kapena kusiya zolinga.
M’malo mwake, kumatanthauza kudziikira zolinga m’njira yoti mungathe kuzikwaniritsa ndi kudzikondabe ngakhale cholingacho sichikukwaniritsidwa chifukwa cha zochitika zakunja.
Thandizo la moyo kudzera mwa alangizi
Maupangiri ambiri angakupangitseni kukhulupirira kuti kusiya ungwiro ndizovuta.
Kuti mukuyenera kupita kumaphunziro, kugula mabuku odzithandizira okwera mtengo, ndikulimbikira nokha.
M’malo mochotsa chitsenderezo, uphungu woterowo umapanga chitsenderezo chatsopano.
Pambuyo pophunzira malangizo oterowo, munthu wofuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro amaona kuti ayenera kuchita zambiri, kulimbikira kwambiri, ndipo ali ndi udindo wosiya kuchita zinthu mwangwiro.
Ena amalangiza kupereka madigiri asanu. Koma wofuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro sangachite chimodzimodzi, malangizowa sathandiza.
Zimatsogolera ku mapeto a imfa. Monga nsonga yolola malingaliro anu kuyendayenda.
ungwiro Koma kulola kupita mu njira zosavuta kumatanthauza chinachake chosiyana.
Kumatanthauza kukulitsa chitsenderezo chochepa. Kuti mulole moyo wanu ndi mzimu wanu zipeze mtendere. Kupumula.
Kukhala wokhoza kupereka udindo wa chinthu china kwa wina, kaya m'banja, kuntchito, m'magulu kapena ntchito yodzifunira.
Muyenera kukhulupirira kuti ena akufuna ndipo akhoza kuchita bwino.
Muyenera kutsimikiza kuti mumakondedwa ndikuzindikiridwa, ngakhale simukupitilira malire anu tsiku lililonse.
Chikondi chimatanthawuza - nsonga zotsutsana ndi kuchita zinthu mwangwiro
Kudzikonda ife eni ndi ena kuyenera kutiteteza kuti tisakhalebe m’chiyembekezo changwiro ndi kudzitaya tokha m’kuchita kosatha.
Aliyense amene watenthedwa ndi kuzungulira ngati hamster mu khola amawona zofunikira, sakuwonanso chikondi.
Aliyense amene ali wopanikizidwa kotheratu ndi kupepukidwa ndi kufuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro sangakhalenso mkazi wabwino, kholo labwino, kapena bwenzi lapamtima kapena mnzako.
Mukagwidwa muzopondapo za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku ndi, muyenera kukhala okoma mtima ndi osamala nokha, kuchita chinachake kuti mupindule nokha mumawonjezeranso mabatire anu kuti mukhalepo kwa ena.
Kodi mukukayikira kuti mutha kusiya ungwiro?
Tikukuwuzani: Kusiya ungwiro ndikotheka munjira zosavuta.
Timanenanso kuti: Kusiya ungwiro m'masitepe osavuta ndikofunikira komanso kothandiza kuti mupumule mkati mwanu mu zovuta za moyo wamakono ndikukhala omasuka komanso abwino.
Kenako mutha kupatsanso ena mphamvu kuti atsatire ndikupanga njira yolimbikitsira ku ungwiro monga momwe mumachitira.
Kusiya ungwiro - umu ndi momwe zimagwirira ntchito:
- Zindikirani zofuna mopambanitsa
- Zindikirani ndi kukonza zolinga zomwe sizingatheke
- Samalani ndi inu nokha
- kusiya udindo
- Dzichitireni chifundo
- Khalani wabwino kwa ena
- Kuti mukhale olondola, mumafuna kumaliza ntchito bwino, koma siziyenera kukhala zangwiro nthawi zonse
- Dziwani kuti nthawi zambiri mumakondedwa komanso mumakondedwa ngakhale mutalakwitsa
- Dziwani kuti ndinu amtengo wapatali, ngakhale simungathe kuchita chilichonse
- M'malo mwake, muyenera kudziwa kuti muli m'manja abwino, ngakhale zitalakwika
- Pomaliza, zindikirani kuti pali zinthu zina zosokoneza zomwe sitingathe kuziyambitsa komanso zomwe zimalepheretsa chinthu kukhala changwiro
- Kupumula musanakakamizidwe kutero chifukwa cha matenda kapena kulowererapo kwa ena
Mukuwona, kusiya ungwiro kumatheka mwa njira zosavuta. Pulogalamu ya Letting Go of Perfection mumayendedwe osavuta idzakuthandizani kuti muzidzikonda komanso kukhala okondedwa kwa ena.
Kuyiyika momveka bwino, imakuthandizani kuti mukwaniritse zambiri chifukwa cha izi, koma m'mawu ena kuti musamve chisoni, ngati zomwe zakwaniritsidwa sizili zangwiro.
Kusiya ungwiro m'masitepe ophweka ndi njira zomwe zimakupangitsani kutuluka mumayendedwe amkati mwangwiro ndi zofuna zakunja ku moyo wodzifunira, wokwaniritsidwa komanso wachikondi.
Tanthauzo la kufuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro
kufuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro ndi malingaliro omanga omwe amayesa kufotokoza mopitilira muyeso kuyesetsa kukhala wangwiro ndikupewa zolakwika.
Palibe tanthauzo lofanana; Magulu ochita kafukufuku apeza mbali zambiri za zomangamanga.
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