Zasinthidwa komaliza pa Meyi 26, 2022 ndi Roger Kaufman
Ndikuchita nsanje
Zochitika, Nzeru ndi chidziwitso cha kaduka. Kaduka ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe timazidziwa bwino chifukwa zimatiwononga m'maganizo ndi m'thupi.
Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji kaduka molimbikitsa?
Posachedwapa, Hans-Peter Zimmermann amagwiritsa ntchito maulendo a galimoto ndi ngalawa osati kungoganizira za moyo, komanso kugawana malingaliro awa ndi ena. Gawo la makumi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi ziwiri likukhudzana ndi funso la momwe mungathanirane ndi "nsanje". ntchito zabwino akhoza. - HPZ
Oscar Wilde anati: "Chiwerengero cha nsanje yathu chimatsimikizira luso lathu" ndipo ndimati: "Khalani kapena mukhale."
Mfundo yakuti ndife osiyana adalengedwa zomwe zimapangitsa chidwi mu Leben kunja.
Ndimakonda kukumbukira kanema wa Hans-Peter chifukwa ndi mwayi wabwino, watsopano zokumana nazo ndi chidziwitso cha kuti mudziwe nokha.
HPZ popita - nzeru ndi chidziwitso cha kaduka
17 nzeru ndi luntha la kaduka
Mawu ndi mawu okhudza kaduka - zitsanzo za zochitika
“Kaduka n’kusasangalala nazo chimwemwe wina." - Aristotle
“Munthu amene umamuchitira nsanje sumuona. Mumaona kalirole wonyezimira zimene zikusowa mwa inu. Kukumbukira zimenezi kungakhale kophunzitsa kwambiri. Kaŵirikaŵiri timanyansidwa ndi ena zimene timafuna kukhala nazo mwa ife tokha.” - Mfumu ya Stoiki
“Kaduka ndi kusowa chidziwitso. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Musanyalanyaze zomwe mwalandira ndipo musachitire nsanje ena. Wosilira ena alibe mtendere wamumtima.” - Buddha
"Musawononge zomwe muli nazo pofuna zomwe mulibe." - Ann Brashares
"Pochepa ndi lawi lamoto wansanje, nsanje imatha ngati chinkhanira, kutembenuza mbola yomwe ili ndi kachilomboka." - Friedrich Nietzsche
“Munthu amabadwa ndi kaduka ndi chidani. Ngati alolera kwa iwo, adzamtsogolera ku chiwawa chakuthupi ndi chiwawa, ndipo mtundu uliwonse wa kukhulupirika ndi chikhulupiriro chabwino zidzasiyidwa. – Xun Kuang
"Kufananiza ndi wakuba wachisangalalo." - Theodore Roosevelt
“Kukhala ndi moyo popanda kufananizidwa kumatanthauza chinthu chapadera Nkhawa kuthetsa." - Jiddu Krishnamurti
“Wanzeru amakhutitsidwa ndi gawo lake, zilizonse zomwe zingakhale, osafuna zomwe alibe. - Seneca
"Sindikulemekeza chidwi chofuna kufanana, zomwe zimangopangitsa kaduka kwa ine." -Holmes
"The Mensch adzachita zinthu zambiri kuti asangalale; Adzachita chilichonse kuti amuchitire nsanje. " - Mark Twain
"Chizindikiro chenicheni cha kubadwa ndi makhalidwe abwino ndikubadwa popanda nsanje." - François de La Rochefoucauld
"Yang'anani kwambiri pavuto lanu lenileni ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zomwe zili za ena ndi bizinesi yawo osati yanu." - Epictetus
"Ndine wantchito weniweni: Ndimapanga zomwe ndimadya, kulandira zomwe ndimavala, ndilibe ngongole kwa aliyense Haz, osachitira kaduka chimwemwe cha aliyense, woyamikira ubwino wa ena” William Shakespeare
“Musamakane anthu ansanje. Akuchita nsanje chifukwa amaganiza kuti ndiwe wabwino kuposa iwo. " - Paulo Coelho
“Palibe amene angakhale ndi chilichonse chimene akufuna, koma munthu akhoza kupeŵa zimene alibe n’kumakhala ndi mbalame m’manja mosangalala.” - Seneca
Njira 5 zotsutsana ndi kaduka ndi kaduka
Khalani m'gulu la ofufuza omwe ali ndi mwayi: http://www.gluecksdetektiv.deKodi mukuchita nsanje chifukwa chakuti wina ndi wopambana, wokongola kapena wotchuka kwambiri kuposa inu?
Kaduka amatichititsa chisoni, kukwiya komanso kupha chisangalalo chonse cha moyo. Pano ndikuwonetsani malangizo 5 otsutsa nsanje ndi kaduka. Mutha kutero nthawi ina mukadzabiriwira ndi nsanje kachiwiri.
mwayi wapolisi
Tanthauzo kaduka
Kaduka amabwera m'njira ziwiri:
Wikipedia
dem kufuna munthu wansanje kuti apeze zinthu zomwe zimaonedwa kuti ndi zamtengo wapatali, zomwe munthu wansanje amachitira nsanje (nsanje yolimbikitsa)
chikhumbo chakuti wosiridwayo ataya katundu amene amasilira (nsanje yowononga, auch mkwiyo). Kapenanso, wansanje angafunenso chinthu china kuwononga kukula kwa munthu wosilira.
Kodi nsanje imayambitsa chiyani?
Kusadzidalira komanso kuopa kukhala otsika.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mulibe zokwanira, kapena ngati mwasankha bwanji
Chidwi, kuzindikira, kudzipereka, chikondi, chuma, etc.
Zinthu zoipitsitsa zili kwa ife, m’pamenenso pali ufulu wochuluka wa “kaduka” m’miyoyo yathu.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso?
*Wopeza ndalama ankayenera kugwira ntchito ngati wantchito koma osamuchitira bwino.
*Woyimilira anthu amayenera kugwira ntchito molimbika.
*Munthu wolemera samayenera kukhala ndi ndalama ayi.
*Zimathandiza adotolo ngati adadwala kwambiri. Anthu "ovulala" amakhala abwino kwambiri.
*Wosewera amabweretsa zomwe zili m'mutu mwake mwachitsanzo akalira. Ayenera kuti ankamvanso zimenezi.
*Nthawi zambiri, munthu wokonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo m'mbuyomu anali chidakwa ndipo amatha kuthandiza ena.