Kuphunzira kusiya chikondi

Zasinthidwa komaliza pa Juni 8, 2022 ndi Roger Kaufman

Zosankha zosiyanasiyana - kusiya zolakwika ndi zolakwika m'chikondi

Ndakulolani kuti mudutse dziko lapansi popanda kuweruza zochita zanu.

Sindimaona zomwe mumanena kapena kuchita ngati zolakwa kapena zolakwa, ndikuwona kuti pali njira zambiri zowonera ndikuwona dziko lathu lapansi.

Sindipanga chigamulo chilichonse - chifukwa ndikadakukanani ufulu wanu wachitukuko, ndingachite zomwezo kwa ine ndekha ndi wina aliyense.

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Kusiya chikondi

Ubwenzi ukatha, nthawi zambiri mumasiya wanu Zakale-chikondi khalani ndi chidani chodabwitsa kwa iwo - makamaka ngati simunali otsimikiza kuthetsa.

Mwinamwake munamva bwino kwambiri pachiyambi, monga paubwenzi Zakuthandizani kupita patsogolo.

Komabe, patapita nthawi mumazindikira kuti sizili choncho kwa inu, ndipo simukudziwanso momwe mungasiyire munthu amene mumamukonda. Zilekeni ndikufunanso kupitiriza ndi moyo wanu.

Zomverera zosafunikira zimakhudza thanzi lanu lamalingaliro ndi thupi - Wuti zimagwirizananso ndi matenda a mtima - ndipo ndithudi zidzakhudza maubwenzi anu amtsogolo.

Kuzindikira kuti izi ndi zosayenera ndizoyamba Lowani munjira yolola kupita.

Ngati mukuyesera kupeza yankho lomwe likukhudzana ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita kenako, muli panjira yoyenera.

Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti mukazindikira momwe mungasiyire wakale wanu, mutha kudziwanso momwe mungasamalire malingaliro anu ndi inu nokha. wokondwa kwambiri akhoza kumva.

Ngati mukufuna kuphunzira momwe mungasiyire munthu wina, mutha kupeza ena mphindi ndi zochitika zomwe mungathe kupitilira.

Masitepe 6 oti musiye chikondi chanu chakale

1. Lankhulani ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira

Kusunga malingaliro anu pa inu nokha kumangokupangitsani kukhala osasunthika ndikupangitsa kuti mukhale mantha.

Lankhulani ndi mnzanu wothandizira, wachibale wanu, kapena wothandizira za momwe mukumvera ndipo muwalole kukhala ndi inu panthawi yomwe mukusowa.

2. Dziwani zikhulupiriro zodziletsa

Wenn Ideen monga "Sindingathe kukhala ndekha" kapena "Sindidzapeza wina woti azindikonda" amadutsa m'mutu mwanu, mumamvetsetsa kuti mukuchepetsa malingaliro omwe angakulepheretseni kupeza chinthu chatsopano.

Sinthani ndi malingaliro opatsa mphamvu monga "Ndine womasuka ku zomwe malo andisungira" komanso "Ndimadzikonda ndipo ndine woyenera kuchita zabwino."

Zimenezi zidzakuthandizani kuti musamachite mantha.

3. Khalani kutali ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti

Kuphunzira kusiya munthu amene mumamukonda kumakhala kovuta kwambiri ngati mumadziwa nthawi zonse za iye.

Ngakhale malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi njira imodzi yolumikizirana ndi wakale Liebe Kulumikizana n'kosiyana ndi zomwe mukufunikira pamene mukutha.

Kukhala kutali ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti pa nthawi ya machiritso kudzakuthandizani kuti musamavutike komanso kuti musamakumbutsidwe nthawi zonse za wakale wanu Liebe kumbutsa.

4. Pitani nokha

Das Zilekeni ndipo kusiya chibwenzi kungakhale kovuta.

Ino si nthawi yodzipweteka nokha kapena kunyalanyaza zofuna zanu.

Ngati mumadzichitira bwino komanso kukhala ndi nthawi yodzikonda nokha, mudzachira mokwanira ndipo mungakhale wathanzi kuposa momwe munalili chibwenzi chisanayambe.

Sangalalani ndi chithandizo chakutikita minofu kapena ntchito zina zopumula, chitani zosangalatsa zomwe ... glücklich chitani, ndi kuyang'ana pa kupeza chikhutiro popanda kukhala mbali ya banja.

5. Khalani otanganidwa

Kukhala pabedi tsiku lonse komanso kukhala kutali ndi abwenzi abwino ndi okondedwa amachita zimenezo Zilekeni ndi kupitiriza zovuta kwambiri.

Yambani tsiku lanu ndi miyambo yolimbikitsa yam'mawa yomwe imaphatikizapo kusinkhasinkha, yoga, kapena juggling.

Dzukani ndikuloreni kuti musangalale.

Dziperekeni ku ntchito yatsopano yatsopano kuntchito. Itanani bwenzi lapamtima chakudya chamasana kapena chakumwa.

Ngati mukhalabe okangalika, mutha kudzisokoneza nokha pakutha kwanu ndikulola mabala anu kuchira.

6. Dzipatseni nthawi yoti musiye chikondi chanu

Ngakhale mutamvetsa mmene mumachitira munthu Zilekeni Ngati mungapeze yemwe mumakonda ndikutsata njira zonse, musayembekezere kuti mukumva bwino nthawi yomweyo.

Chisoni ndi chachilendo ndipo muyenera kudzipatsa nthawi yokwanira kuti mumve malingaliro anu.

Dzichitireni chifundo ndipo musalole aliyense kuti akukakamizeni kuti "mungothana nazo."

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