Aroha Kore Kore | Ko te korero mai i a Virginia Satir

Whakahoutanga whakamutunga i te Mahuru 7, 2022 na Roger Kaufman

Ko Virginia Satir he tohunga hinengaro Amerika, he paionia hoki i roto i nga mahi tohutohu a te whanau.

E kiia ana ko ia tetahi o nga tino whai mana i roto i te hinengaro hinengaro, a, e mohiotia ana mo ana mahi mo te kaupapa o te aroha kore.

Ko te aroha herekore he ahua o te aroha karekau he here.

Engari, he ahua o te aroha kei reira noa iho - he kore whakaaro, he herekore.

Ko te aroha kore here he huarahi pai ki te whakapakari i te whakawhirinaki. Mena ka taea e koe te whiwhi aroha kore, ko te tikanga ka taea ano e koe te tuku.

Ka taea e tenei te whakarereketanga nui i roto i o whanaungatanga i te mea ka taea e koe te hono atu i runga i te taumata hohonu me te hanga whakawhirinaki.

Ko tenei momo aroha ka kiia ko te ahua teitei o te aroha na te mea kaore i awehia e nga tumanako me nga tikanga.

Ko te korero ataahua a Virginia Satir mo te aroha kore

Ko tetahi o ana korero tino rongonui, me whakaaro tatou ki tana e hiahia ana ki te korero mai mo te aroha.

Kei te pirangi ahau ki a koe liebenme te kore e aukati i a koe ano.
Kei te pirangi ahau ki te mihi ki a koe me te kore e whakatau i a koe.
Kei te pirangi ahau ki te whakaaro nui ki a koe me te kore e tuku i a koe ki tetahi mea.
E hiahia ana ahau ki te haere atu ki a koe me te kore e kaha ki a koe.
Kei te pirangi ahau ki te tono ki a koe me te kore e tono ki a koe.
Kei te hiahia ahau ki te hoatu ki a koe tetahi mea me te kore e taapiri i nga tumanako.
Kei te pirangi ahau ki te poroporoaki ki a koe me te kore e ngaro tetahi mea nui.

E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakapuaki i aku karekau ki a koe me te kore e whakahe ki a koe.
Kei te pirangi au ki te whakamohio atu ki a koe me te kore korero.
E hiahia ana ahau ki te awhina i a koe me te kore e tawai ki a koe.
E hiahia ana ahau ki te tiaki i a koe me te kore e hiahia ki te whakarereke i a koe.
Kei te pirangi ahau ki te pai ki a koe – pera ano me koe.
Mena ka taea e au te tiki mai i a koe,
katahi ka tino tutaki me te whakarangatira tetahi i tetahi.

Pūkoro Virginia Satir