Aloha Kaulike | ʻŌlelo mai Virginia Satir

Hoʻoponopono hou ʻia ma Kepakemapa 7, 2022 e Roger Kaufman

ʻO Virginia Satir he kanaka psychotherapist ʻAmelika a he paionia ma ke kahua o ka ʻōlelo aʻo ʻohana.

Ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea koʻikoʻi loa i ka psychotherapy a ua ʻike ʻia no kāna hana ma ke kumuhana o ke aloha ʻole.

ʻO ke aloha pau ʻole ke ʻano o ke aloha ʻaʻohe kaula.

Akā, he ʻano aloha ia ma laila wale nō - ka ʻole a me ke ʻano ʻole.

ʻO ke aloha ʻole he ala maikaʻi loa ia e kūkulu ai i ka hilinaʻi. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ke aloha pau ʻole, ʻo ia hoʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi.

Hiki i kēia ke hoʻololi nui i kāu mau pilina ʻoiai hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui i kahi pae hohonu a kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi.

Manaʻo pinepine ʻia kēia ʻano aloha i ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe o ke aloha no ka mea ʻaʻole i hoʻopili ʻia e nā manaʻolana a i ʻole nā ​​kūlana.

ʻO ka ʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻo Virginia Satir e pili ana i ke aloha ʻole

ʻO kekahi o kāna mau ʻōlelo kaulana loa, pono mākou e noʻonoʻo i kāna makemake e haʻi mai iā mākou e pili ana i ke aloha.

Makemake wau iā ʻoe liebenme ke kaohi ole ia oe iho.
Makemake au e mahalo iā ʻoe me ka hoʻohewa ʻole iā ʻoe.
Makemake wau e lawe koʻikoʻi iā ʻoe me ka ʻole e hoʻokau iā ʻoe i kekahi mea.
Makemake au e hele aku i ou lā me ka hoʻoikaika ʻole iaʻu iho iā ʻoe.
Makemake au e kono iā ʻoe me ke koi ʻole aku iā ʻoe.
Makemake wau e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kekahi mea me ka hoʻopili ʻole ʻana i nā manaʻolana.
Makemake au e haʻi aku iā ʻoe me ka hala ʻole o kekahi mea nui.

Makemake au e haʻi aku i koʻu mau manaʻo me ʻoe me ka ʻole e hoʻohewa iā ʻoe no lākou.
Makemake wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe me ke aʻo ʻole ʻana iā ʻoe.
Makemake au e kōkua iā ʻoe me ka hōʻino ʻole iā ʻoe.
Makemake au e mālama iā ʻoe me ka makemake ʻole e hoʻololi iā ʻoe.
Makemake wau e hauʻoli iā ʻoe - e like me ʻoe.
Inā hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa like mai iā ʻoe,
a laila hiki iā mākou ke hui maoli a waiwai kekahi i kekahi.

Quote Virginia Satir