Hoʻoponopono hou ʻia ma Mei 26, 2022 e Roger Kaufman
Huhū wau
Nā ʻike, ʻO ka naʻauao a me ka ʻike e pili ana i ka lili. ʻO ka huāhuā kekahi o nā manaʻo suboptimal a mākou i ʻike ai no ka mea ua ʻona mākou i ka noʻonoʻo a me ke kino.
Pehea ʻoe e hoʻohana ai i ka lili me ka maikaʻi?
I kēia mau lā, hoʻohana ʻo Hans-Peter Zimmermann i nā huakaʻi kaʻa a me ka waʻa ʻaʻole wale e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke ola, akā e kaʻana like i kēia mau manaʻo me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka māhele iwakāluakūmāhiku e pili ana i ka nīnau pehea e hana ai i ka manaʻo "huhū". hoʻohana maikaʻi hiki. – HPZ
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Oscar Wilde: "ʻO ka helu o kā mākou lili e hōʻoia i ko mākou hiki" a ʻōlelo wau: "E ola a ola paha."
ʻO ka mea ʻokoʻa mākou angelegte 'o ia ka mea e hoihoi ai i ka Leben mai.
Makemake au e hoʻomanaʻo i ka wikiō a Hans-Peter no ka mea he manawa maikaʻi loa ia, hou loa ʻike a me ka ʻike e pili ana e ʻike iā ʻoe iho.
HPZ ma ka hele - naʻauao a me ka ʻike e pili ana i ka lili
17 naʻauao a me nā ʻike e pili ana i ka lili
Nā ʻōlelo a me nā ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka huāhuā - nā hiʻohiʻona ʻike
"ʻO ka huāhuā ka hopohopo e pili ana i kēlā ka pomaikai kekahi." - Aristotle
“ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻike maoli i ke kanaka āu e lili nei. ʻIke ʻoe i kahi aniani e hōʻike ana i ka mea i nalowale i loko ou. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i kēia ma ka noʻonoʻo hiki ke lilo i mea aʻo nui. Hoʻowahāwahā pinepine mākou i nā mea a mākou e makemake ai e loaʻa i loko o mākou iho. " – Ka Emepera Stoic
"ʻO ka huāhuā ka nele i ka ʻike." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Mai hoʻokiʻekiʻe i ka mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe a mai huāhuā i kekahi. ʻO ka mea lili iā haʻi, ʻaʻole loaʻa ka maluhia o ka naʻau. - Buddha
"Mai hana ino i ka mea i loaa ia oe ma ka makemake i ka mea i loaa ole ia oe." - Ann Brashares
"I kaupalena ʻia e ka lapalapa o ka huāhuā, ʻo ka lili e like me ka moʻo huelo ʻawa, e hoʻohuli i ka maʻi maʻi iā ia iho." - Friedrich Nietzsche
"Ua hānau ʻia ke kanaka me ka lili a me ka inaina. Inā hāʻawi ʻo ia iā lākou, ʻoiaʻiʻo e alakaʻi lākou iā ia i ka hana ʻino a me ka hewa, a e haʻalele ʻia kēlā me kēia ʻano kūpaʻa a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi." – Xun Kuang
"ʻO ka hoʻohālikelike ka mea ʻaihue o ka hauʻoli." - Theodore Roosevelt
"ʻO ke ola me ka hoʻohālikelike ʻole he mea kupaianaha Pilikia e hoopau." – ʻO Jiddu Krishnamurti
"Ua oluolu ke kanaka naauao i kona kuleana, me ka makemake ole i ka mea i loaa ole ia ia." – Seneca
"ʻAʻohe oʻu mahalo i ka hoihoi no ka kaulike, ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e hoʻohālikelike ai iaʻu." - Holmes
"Ka Mensch e hana i na mea he nui e lealea ai iaia iho; E hana ʻo ia i nā mea a pau e lili ʻia ai." - Mark Twain
"ʻO ka hōʻailona ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hānau ʻana me nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻo ka hānau ʻana me ka huāhuā ʻole." – François de La Rochefoucauld
"E noʻonoʻo pono i kāu pilikia ponoʻī a e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ʻo kā lākou ʻoihana a ʻaʻole naʻu." - Epictetus
"He kanaka hana oiaio wau: hana au i ka'u e hoopau ai, loaa ia'u ka lole, aole aie i kekahi ʻO Hass, mai lili i ka olioli o kekahi, mahalo no ka maikai o hai” - William Shakespeare
"Mai hōʻole i ka poʻe lili. Huhū lākou no ko lākou manaʻo ua ʻoi aku ʻoe ma mua o lākou. - Paulo Coelho
"ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke loaʻa nā mea a pau āna i makemake ai, akā hiki i ke kanaka ke pale i ka makemake ʻole i ka mea i loaʻa ʻole iā ia a me ka hauʻoli me ka manu ma ka lima." – Seneca
5 mau hoʻopunipuni e kūʻē i ka lili a me ka lili
E lilo i ʻāpana o ke kaiāulu ʻike maka laki: http://www.gluecksdetektiv.deUa lili paha ʻoe no ka mea ʻoi aku ka kūleʻa o kekahi, ʻoi aku ka nani a kaulana paha ma mua ou?
Hoʻopilikia ka lili iā mākou, huhū a pepehi i ka hauʻoli o ke ola. Eia wau e hōʻike aku iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo 5 lili a huāhuā. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ka manawa aʻe e ʻōmaʻomaʻo hou ʻoe me ka lili.
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I kekahi ʻO Wunsch ka mea lili e loaa ai ka waiwai i manaoia he like kona waiwai, no ka mea i lili ia ai ka mea lili (lili hana)
ka makemake e lilo ka waiwai i lili ʻia e ka mea lili (huhū luku, ʻohu ka inaina). ʻO kahi ʻē aʻe, hiki i ka mea lili ke makemake i kahi mea ʻē aʻe pōʻino ulu no ke kanaka lili.
He aha ke kumu o ka huāhuā?
ʻO ka nele o ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a me ka makaʻu i ka haʻahaʻa.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole lawa ʻoe, a i ʻole ua hoʻoholo ʻoe pehea
ʻO ka nānā ʻana, ka ʻike ʻana, ka haipule, ke aloha, nā kumuwaiwai kālā, etc.
ʻO nā mea ʻino loa no mākou, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kūʻokoʻa no ka "huhū" i ko mākou ola.
Pehea ʻoe e loaʻa ai ka ʻike?
*Pono ka mea nāna e hana ma ke ʻano he limahana a ʻaʻole i mālama maikaʻi ʻia.
*Pono ka lunamakaainana i hana nui.
* ʻAʻole pono ke kālā i ke kanaka waiwai.
*He mea pono no ke kauka ina ua mai nui. ʻO ka poʻe "ʻeha" maikaʻi loa.
*Hoʻopuka ka mea keaka i nā manaʻo mai kona hoʻomanaʻo ʻana, no ka laʻana ke uē ʻo ia. Ua ʻike paha ʻo ia i kēlā mau manaʻo iā ia iho.
* ʻO ka hapa nui, ʻo ka mea hana addiction he mea hoʻohui iā ia iho a laila hiki iā ia ke kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
