An sabunta ta ƙarshe a Janairu 12, 2024 ta Roger Kaufman
Fasahar barin tafi cikin duniyar soyayya marar iyaka
Gara a kyale | Soyayya mara sharadi - a cikin duniyar da sau da yawa ke da yanayi da tsammanin, ƙauna marar iyaka tana tsaye a matsayin dutse mai daraja.
Ta kasance kamar iska mai laushi a cikin dare mai cunkoso, haske a sararin sama cikin duhu.
Wannan labarin ya binciko tafiyar sakin jiki, aikin da ke buƙatar ƙarfin hali kamar ƙauna ba tare da sharadi ba.
A wani lokaci akwai wani dattijo mai hikima wanda ya shahara da zurfin... hikima kuma an san fahimtarsa game da ruhin ɗan adam.
Ya taba rasa duk abin da yake nasa liebe amma duk da haka ya haskaka wani irin kwanciyar hankali da gamsuwa wanda mutane da yawa ke nema amma kaɗan ne suka samu.
Wata rana wata budurwa ta zo wurinsa Zuciya mai nauyi na irin soyayyar da take yiwa namijin da bai mayar da tunaninta ba. Yaya zan iya shi sallama?"Ta tambaya tana hawaye a idanunta. "Kuma ta yaya zan iya ci gaba da soyayya ba tare da tsammanin komai ba?"
Murmushi yayi a hankali ya miqa mata kujera kusa da shi. Soyayyar da ba ta da sharadi kamar kogin da ke kwarara cikin... Ƙari gudana.
Bai tsaya tambayar ko teku ta karbi kyautarsa ba. Ya dai ci gaba da gudana, ko da yaushe cikin jituwa da nasa.”
Ya ci gaba da cewa "Sakin tafiya shine mafi wuyar bangaren." Kamar bude hannunka ne malam ya rike.
Ba za ku iya tilasta shi ya zauna ba, kuma ta hanyar sake shi, kuna ba da 'yanci ga duka biyu - malam buɗe ido da kanku.
Budurwar ta saurara maganar mai hankali, a hankali ta fara fahimta. Ƙaunar da ba ta da sharadi ba ta buƙatar ramawa. Ta kasance kyauta, kyauta daga nauyin tsammanin.
A kwanakin da suka biyo baya ta fara kallon soyayyar su a matsayin kyauta, ba tare da la’akari da ko an rama ba.
Ta koyi yarda da yadda take ji ba tare da sun bar su su mallake ta ba. Daga karshe kuma, wata safiya ta ji zuciyarta ta saki jiki, kamar ta zubar da wani nauyi da ya dade.
wannan tarihin yana nuna cewa barin barin baya nufin ƙarshen soyayya, sai dai canji, tafiya zuwa zurfi, ko da sako-sako. A cikin soyayya mara sharadi Akwai karfi da 'yanci da ke fadada zuciya da haskaka tunani.
Ragewa da martani:
Labarinta “The Art of Bari tafi a duniya Soyayya mara sharadi” labari ne mai ban al'ajabi na tunani da falsafa.
Musamman da aka yi da kyau shine amfani da misalai kamar kogi da malam buɗe ido, waɗanda ke wakiltar ƙarin rikitattun motsin rai da ra'ayoyi ta hanya mai sauƙi da gani.
Labarinta yana ba da ra'ayi mai natsuwa da zurfin hangen nesa game da soyayya da barin tafi.
Fuka-fukan 'yanci: Barin tafi da ƙauna ba tare da sharadi ba
“Kyakkyawan sakin jiki shine barin soyayya ta gudana haka ruwa kogi, ba tare da tsoron inda zai kai mu ba.” - Ba a sani ba
"A cikin Soyayya mara sharadi tana barin tafi ba ƙarshe ba, amma aikin ibada ne mai girma.” - Ba a sani ba
"A asiri 'yanci yana cikin barin; Ƙarfin ƙauna yana cikin rashin sharadi. - Ba a sani ba
"Sakin ba yana nufin dainawa ba, amma sanin cewa wasu abubuwa ba za a iya sarrafa su ba - kamar ainihin abin yanayi na soyayya." - Ba a sani ba
“Soyayya mara iyaka teku ce marar iyaka wacce a cikinta Barin ba ya nufin"Don nutse, amma don iyo." - Ba a sani ba
“Ƙaunar da ba ta da tsammanin za ta ba mu damar samun hakan Kyawun barin tafi gwaninta, zuciya a buɗe kuma hankali a sarari.” - Ba a sani ba
“Gwamma a bar shi zuwa ga soyayya ta gaskiya; saboda a cikin Ƙaunar mu tana samun ƙarfin gaske a cikin 'yancin juna." - Ba a sani ba
"A cikin soyayya marar iyaka, kowa yana Barin tafiya mataki daya kusa da jigon mu na gaskiya." - Ba a sani ba
“Sakin tafiya yana koya mana cewa mafi zurfin nau'in soyayya ba a ciki Rike damke, amma ya ƙunshi sakin." - Ba a sani ba
"Ƙauna ta gaskiya tana rada wa alƙawarin 'yanci a hankali - a cikin barin, kyauta mafi girma ta bayyana." - Ba a sani ba
Waɗannan maganganun suna ɗaukar ma'anar barin shiga cikin mahallin soyayya mara sharadi, batu mai zurfi da yawa.
Aug ruwan sama tunani mai ban sha'awa da kuma samar da wahayi ga waɗanda ke kan hanyar haɓakar motsin rai da gano kansu.
Gara barin tafi | Soyayya Mara Sharadi - Dangantaka
Na san yana da mahimmanci ku yi daidai hakan Mensch shine wanda kuke so ku zama ba wanda ni ko wasu suke tsammanin ku zama ba. - Sandy Stevenson
Mafi kyawun Kalaman Soyayya | 21 kalaman soyayya don yin tunani akai
Kyawawan kalaman soyayya | 21 kalaman soyayya ga Ka yi tunani.
Aikin: https://loslassen.li/2020/10/12/was-ist-bedingungslose-liebe/ - Ƙauna ita ce ƙila mafi mahimmanci ji da ke tare da mu a matsayin mutane. 21 kalaman soyayya don tunani da Bari mu tafi. kalaman soyayya nuna yadda muke ji.
Kyakkyawan Haka kuma ana iya ce wa ɗayan a farkon dangantaka nuna abin da kuke ji ga wannan mutumin kuma ku ƙarfafa dangantaka da farin ciki na matasa ta hanya ta musamman.Nishadi da Kyawawan Kalaman Soyayya | 21 Kalaman soyayya suyi tunani akai
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45 Nasihar Kalaman Gafara
45 Maganganun Gafara abubuwa ne na jarumai na yau da kullun, matakin ƙarshe na kwanciyar hankali sakamakon ban mamaki kalaman gafara.
Yana iya zama wani nau'i na aikido na motsin rai wanda muke musaki ƙalubalen da muke girmamawa tare da haƙuri da kwanciyar hankali da ainihin mafi girman nau'in "ramuwar gayya" ta hanyar ayyana zaman lafiya, koda kuwa cikin ciki ne kawai.
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